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Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

johncallidon:
did Yhu inherited this foolishness or Yhu learn it?

johncallidon:
did Yhu inherited this foolishness or Yhu learn it?

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

Kcconcept:
8 RED SIGNS YOU SHOULD LOOKOUT FOR BEFORE TAKING THAT GIRL TO THE ALTAR

Research has shown that love can make partners look high or act madly in love especially earlier on into the relationship. But with all these powerful emotions happening, be careful, your judgment can be beclouded. Most importantly, how do you tell or identify that your partner is a good choice for you, well a lot of study and many therapists has found that there are a few general signs you should be aware of in a relationship. Some people otherwise call this red flags. If you are looking forward to building a relationship that would take you to the altar, then these are the 8 red signs you should look out for in your partner.



1. HOW COMMITTED IS YOUR PARTNER

Watch to see how your girl follows through on her commitment In all aspect of her life. It is important to study your girl, once in a while create a task for her and watch how she follows it up. Check out to see if she’s a flake.

2. HOW DOES SHE TREAT STRANGERS

You can glean important information about a person from how they treat strangers, especially those who work in public or social places. Waiters, staff etc. If she’s too nagging in a social environment or towards servers. Then this is a sure sign you should be careful.


3. SHES TOO VIOLENT

It can be quite worrisome to have a lady who is violent. In fact, a study has it that women are most likely to initiate domestic violence. If your girlfriend gets violent while you argue, then that should signal to you as a bright Red Sign that you need to halt the relationship immediately.

4. SHE ALWAYS LIKES TO BE TREATED SPECIAL (LIKE A PRINCESS)

Be on the lookout for subtle and overt clues that your partner has that princess mentality. When one person has a sense of entitlement and expectation that her needs should always come before any other person, resentment and anger are usually the results.

5.YOUR PARTNER ARGUES ALL THE TIME

There is nothing wrong with conflict In a relationship, it's completely normal and in fact healthy at times. But when all she does is argue then there is a problem. Especially when is slightly over little things like being late for dinner, etc. then all of a sudden she starts feeling her mind with the thoughts that you are not committed to her.

6. SHE NEVER APOLOGIZES

Psychology calls the ability to recognize and take responsibility for a bad behavior CONSCIOUSNESS. It's an important attribute in maintaining a relationship if you can’t even apologize for doing something wrongly then what’s the need of loving.


7. YOU DON’T SHARE THE SAME GOALS OR CORE VALUES

It doesn’t matter how much you love each other, when you and your girl aren’t on the same page when it comes to things like values and life goals. Just bear in mind that things are so going to be rocky.

8. LOOKOUT IF SHES THAT DRAMA QUEEN TYPE

Beware of women who not only proclaim themselves to be drama queen but also revel in the roll. Study has it that they also swing from one emotional extreme to another when life seems a little boring or flat. They will go out of their way to stare up controversy. Example, when both of you are together, you can see her lamenting over you checking out another girl which necessarily might not be true.

source:http://www.kraftypedia.com/2017/12/8-red-signs-you-should-lookout-for.html

Israeljones:
this op no want make this 9ja ladies marry at all,If every guy is to go by this list..
virtually every Nigerian lady has one or 2 of those quality up there......especially that no 5

duduade:
Why don't my sisters jam mumus like this

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

Jodha:
What's all this rubbish all about....

Phork.. A Lady should should be treated like a princess... In fact like a goddess....
Op if she's a drama queen ..there's no reason why he shouldn't wife her...some guys like drama Queen's and stubborn girls...it's the dude choice...

Someone would just wake up think of one rubbish and create a thread 'bouh it....

Tufiakwa..

Alariiwo:
Story!

What about the married ho.es here that still send nude to guys on Nairaland? Their husbands no check.
They go about checking male profiles in search of illicit sex. Stupid dogs.

We should pray not to meet snakes jare.. noone can be trusted completely.

HRHQueenPhil:
the red signs for men are d following
1. does not like to take responsibility
2. cannot keep to his words no matter how small
3. always ready to fight or yell esp wen in traffic or his car is scratched by anoda
4. sees going to church services esp mid week ones or bible study/house fellowship as a waste of time and agrees with FREEZE
5. often complains when u add weight and likes taking selfies of himself half naked
6. when you cannot seat and have a meaningful conversation for 1 hour without going for ur bra
7. when he dosent seem to value your opinion or ask for it
8. when he dosent like to hold ur hand, kiss you or touch u esp wen his friends are there (could be GAY)

emmysexxy:
Number 4 is baseless and pointless,which woman don't want to be loved?...which woman don't crave for attention,? a woman who doesn't crave for your attention and forming macho is most def getting it elsewhere...

lillfyzzy:
wow, my girl should be the ideal wife, she passed all this points

cstr1000:
So if my car is scratched in public, I should just walk away?
When you suppose join me fight the culprit.

You are not a wife material. na people like una dey wreck una husband.

Kennitrust:
ur advice pls.

I first met her but she said my biz was not good enough to keep us going.

I tried hard but I loose her to a rich guy who impregnated her and then dump her.

but I still love this girl but her condition among others is that I will take full responsibility of a child whose father remained unknown to me.

just hard to decide.

Israeljones:
this op no want make this 9ja ladies marry at all,If every guy is to go by this list..
virtually every Nigerian lady has one or 2 of those quality up there......especially that no 5

Quality20:
What could be better than a totally submissive lady?

Jodha:
What's all this rubbish all about....

Phork.. A Lady should should be treated like a princess... In fact like a goddess....
Op if she's a drama queen ..there's no reason why he shouldn't wife her...some guys like drama Queen's and stubborn girls...it's the dude choice...

Someone would just wake up think of one rubbish and create a thread 'bouh it....

Tufiakwa..

johncallidon:
did Yhu inherited this foolishness or Yhu learn it?

Olalan:
My boss told me to also pay a close look at how she treats her family members, from parents to siblings. A growing number of the so called 21st century girls don't even respect their parents anymore, when she always discounts her parents words then take a leap.

BecomeALandLord:
Who composed this?

Iefosa:
My fiancée is all of the above!

She is always right

Tells her parents everything

Calls them everyday, sometimes, 3times a day

She is very bossy and treat me like a queen (only child, very spoiled)

She blames me for both my wrong and hers.

She doesn't know how to cook my kind of food,, because it's too exhausting according to her . As in making semo, and soup.


But her good side are :

She is dedicated
Intelligent
Hardworking, (career wise)
Jealous
Very loving
Caring
Faithful
Rich(she is very comfortable).
She is a very nice person

Now I have been with some really bad girls in the past, they all have one thing in common= promiscuity. This is something I don't take at all. But then they were all dope in the other room

I know I'm in for a long ride, but the quality I desire in a girl she has them ,it's just all that her bad side and the family involvements in all matters that I don't like

valentineuwakwe:
good talk but even after all this person wey won bad go still bad.....na when you marry her you know a woman's true love for her man....