Well, in my opinion I believe u should be calm, write down aunty grace number , get a new Sim and act as a lady, upload some beautiful ladies pics., crush on him. Just try at all cost to no him , den hired a private investigator to investigate in form of convert operation and get a necessary evidence on whether there is something fishy or not b4 approaching ur wife and ask her who aunty grace is

kkko:

Keep quiet. What do you know about marriage? Have you felt pain of heartbreak in marriage and not in relationships? Put yourself in the op shoes and you will understand what he's passing through. @OP simply use another phone and call the number to find out who is he? You can use a female to set him up and see who's he? Don't beat or slap her. Don't even discus it with her. Just make your investigation to get facts and don't behave like NPL.

Get lost with your paranoid schizoid disorder. He hasn't confirmed who she Is talking with and is already talking of slapping her as if slapping her will ever help in his quest.

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

Do you know if it is aunty grace's husband calling with aunty grace's phone? Think three times before you mumu yaself. That is if u've not done so already.

VictorRomanov:



Do you know if it is aunty grace's husband calling with aunty grace's phone? Think three times before you mumu yaself. That is if u've not done so already.

I wonder d way some of u guys reason just like one whose brain has been formated y didnt u read d next post before spilling rubish.

what a touching story.... pls endeavour to ask ur wife abt it and learn how to trust her provided she has never lied to u before. women can be funny at times but i believe enough patience will be the only remedy to the issue on ground.

MrBottle:
Get lost with your paranoid schizoid disorder. He hasn't confirmed who she Is talking with and is already talking of slapping her as if slapping her will ever help in his quest.

You're a fool and a kid. Read my comment if you're blind.

EMPEROR48:
I wonder d way some of u guys reason just like one whose brain has been formated y didnt u read d next post before spilling rubish.

I can imagine the type of husband u re. You wife is really suffering. Why didn't you include all the details in ur initial post? Or was there anything in ur initial post to indicate there was a sequel or continuation or a rejoinder? Or am i suppose to read the entire thread of people opinions before stating mine? I just pity ur wife. I don't even need to hear her own side of the story, i can just imagine it already.

Like I said I already know the caller but my anger is y d encoding ? And she has given reasons to that which she also apologise. I didn't slap her nor hit her and d issue has been resolved so thanks to all d comments the good ones though, not the jamb seekers who were spillin trash.

BLOODY LIE! THE STORY IS A BLOODY LIE.

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

Another LovePeddler story, god am getting bored

Oga you don't have any good reason to slap her. What if the man that call is Aunty Grace's husband? Just be careful! You sounded like a cheating husband though!

kkko:

You're a fool and a kid. Read my comment if you're blind.

You didn't read my post either. I said get lost.

Shatapp!!! You've done worse....

Dnockeror333:



TEYA, if you wife do like that, take her to China were those judgements are given without mercy!

Or if your friend wife do it, tell am too to go live in China!

My wife will not do that. If you wife does that clap for her since its not a big deal.

MrBottle:
Oga, you are just being paranoid. Are you guys using the same phone....I mean ----------- one phone? NIs the phone not hers and she is doing whatever she want with it like storing a number however she deem fit. You are just being over the top overbearing to also decide how you wife stores a phone number on HER OWN PERSONAL FVCKING PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So infantile!!!

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

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I've come across women with men's voice. I call someone having gotten her number from another only for the voice to sound like man's own. If not that she introduced herself and responded very well on the matter at hand, I would have ended the call thinking it's wrong number.

Guy finish d story..

MrBottle:
You didn't read my post either. I said get lost.

Idiot like you. Bleep off

EMPEROR48:
My fellow nairalanders, please I really need a good advice on my actions, my wife saved a male so called sorcerer with a female name.

She left her phone to be with her sister at the hospital that was how I discovered a number calling her line saved with aunty grace, on picking the call I discovered it was a male voice, then he was asking after my wive's sister's health because my wife called him to tell him that her sister was rushed to the hospital this morning, and what really struck me most was that my wife deleted all conversations btw them before leaving the house for the clinic, if not that the said man was calling to find out how her sister was fairing I wouldn't know who aunty grace is.

Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

I feel your pain and any man in ur shoes will do same. The most important key to long lasting relationship is communication, keep talking and don't just stop talking.

Silence is a killer to any relationship, question her gently when she is in a good mood. You can even gt a gift or do what ever you know makes her happy before the discussion and she will reveal all.

Talking about the past relationships is very important in every relationship, you know who means a lot to ur spouse in the past and find what makes that person important in ur spouses life. Then try to make the person forget by doing better than the ex.

Goodluck brother!

favourmic:



what if its was anty grace husband call to check?

beta pikin, case no dey catch ur type.

God punish all these hypocrites that will do worst if they are in op's shoe. My friend, interrogate your wife, and if a good slap will make her say the truth, nigur don't boltch from giving her a santified one.
If she is guilty, just fuvking kick her out your house. Never tollerate a cheat.

MrBottle:
Oga, you are just being paranoid. Are you guys using the same phone....I mean ----------- one phone? NIs the phone not hers and she is doing whatever she want with it like storing a number however she deem fit. You are just being over the top overbearing to also decide how you wife stores a phone number on HER OWN PERSONAL FVCKING PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i pray ur woman cheat on u so that u will know how it feels! d phone is hers to do whatever she wants,so why didn't she stay single n own her life n phone to herself?! what every sane person should advise here is telling d op to calm down and talk things through with her,if i doesn't work he should walk away n not hurt her.

favourmic:



what if its was anty grace husband call to check?

abi oooo

EMPEROR48:
[color=#000099][/color]My fellow nairalanders, or my good brothers and sisters I thank you all for your comment and good advice well to those who are yet to marry I will advice you stop making comments on marital issues because some of you are yet to format your brains on family life. Those who were spilling rubish by the time u ever get married you will know what life is all about. Those who said I shouldn't lay a finger on my wife may you always have great joy in all ur endeavours, those who thought my wife was cheating on me, well I didn't marry such a woman because were she came from, once you cheat its either she dies or I the man will fall sick if I ever eat her food. So creating was never an option, I was so much angry because at least she shouldn't have encode what I know about already, my anger is why would she ever do such a thing, what is she trying to portray?
Now to the main thing that happened on Sunday of 3rd December. I woke up in the morning around 5am I didn't even know how I managed to sleep but I saw myself in the morning on Sunday so I dash to the bathroom did the usual routine and ate a little akpo also known as 6to6, got dressed and off I go .... straight to the hospital to see my wife sick sister who was admitted the previous day and also my wife who was at her bed side although. When I got to the ward they place her, my wife greeted me and I answer her with a frowned face. Then she was like what s going on we were happy the previous day so whats this change of expression? So we were there till about 2pm when suddenly her sister demanded for lucozade boost then both of us went out to get it then I said this is my chance to confront her, suddenly she glanced at my finger and discovered I was not putting on my wedding ring, then she gave me the best opportunity to send my missile by askin me were is ur ring?

Dude, this post is incomplete.

Elliot2:
i pray ur woman cheat on u so that u will know how it feels! d phone is hers to do whatever she wants,so why didn't she stay single n own her life n phone to herself?! what every sane person should advise here is telling d op to calm down and talk things through with her,if i doesn't work he should walk away n not hurt her.

This is nairaland where I say what ever I want ni matter whose ox is gored.
Accursed Nigerians always ready to cursed others.

MrBottle:
This is nairaland where I say what ever I want ni matter whose ox is gored.
Accursed Nigerians always ready to cursed others.

You will do worst if you 're the op. Don't support evil because you want to sound nice. Its obviouse the woman is upto something fishy

Na from slap e dey take start. Wife beater.

EMPEROR48:


Now I am alone and so angry, I planned giving my wife a hot slap when she returns.

Please advise me...

please control your temper.

I dunno what phone she uses, if she's guilty, or if She's innocent.
I know my own phone misbehaving recently o. Any tech person with solution pls mention me.

My phone saves another number under certain names. Eg. I might want to call my sister, and I go to contacts, pick her name and call, I'll find out it is someone else.

I have almost everybody's name duplicated on my phone. I thot it was virus.

OP, back to u, ask your wife what happened. If she's using an infinix, then it might be same thing happening to me.

The other day, stupid phone saved my friend's name as Jummy Makeup.

She isn't a make up artist o. I don't even have any make up artist saved on my phone.

TEYA:

My wife will not do that. If you wife does that clap for her since its not a big deal.

I know get wife! Na you kukuma sabi!

Alexus23:

You will do worst if you 're the op. Don't support evil because you want to sound nice. Its obviouse the woman is upto something fishy

I dont give a fvk what you think I sound like.