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kaycee125:
I can only speak for myself

Same way some ladies can only speak for themselves.

I have sisters so I know a lot about how females are wired, it's rare to find an honest female that you aren't sharing with anyone

Rolex67:
Same way some ladies can only speak for themselves.

What should i say, some guys eh, u aint married to her nd u re already crying, why cant u call it a quit, let me tell u, if that girl frnd of urs found another guy that is richer than u, she we dumb u asap

kaycee125:
I have sisters so I know a lot about how females are wired, it's rare to find an honest female that you aren't sharing with anyone

If you say so.

Deunic:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for 3years now, i never like discussing her pass relationship life because every one of us has our own pass too, so i just focus on trying to build a loving and lasting relationship with her, we promise to be sincere to each other, she use to be the kind of girl that always called and tell me of her day activities in school, i really enjoy it as we always call and tell each other of our daily activities, after she graduate ( last year) she went to Lagos in searches for job, she got a kind of job whish i don't like ( the company is a kind of handling and booking expensive hotels for rich men) i told her to look for teaching job in some school, i contacted my friend in Lagos to help her look for school where she can teach, with the search my friend got one school for her, she went there and told me that the salary is 40k i told her to work since she is staying with her big brother she will not be feeding herself, she agreed but latter she said that she prefer the other job and i said ok ( i have tried my best) after she started working in the company things change , we do not call each other as we use to before, and she normally close from work at around 11p:m late night, this disturb me so much even when i call her she will not pick the call, then latter 30miunte or 1hour she will send tex that she was with a client, i beg her to stop the job since the job has no official prize ( salary) the job is pay as you work, so if you get a rich man that is willing to spend much, the more the man pays the company from there you have your own percentage, she came to visit me and spend 3days with me, i notice one number calling her all the time at night and each time the number called she will not pick it, so the next day the same number called again and i ask her who is that calling her she said is one of their colleague, i ask her to pick the call next time, so the call came again and she pick i notice she was not her self trying to cut the man shut, at the end the man said i love you and she didnt reply back, i pretend as if i didnt heir what the man said after like 1hour i ask her why she didnt reply the man that told her he love her? she said that she is not use in telling someone that, that the man has been disturbing her since and she has no time for the man ( but the way the man was talking to her shows that they have something together) after then she always switch off her phone, after she left things start getting worst, she is not calling me as before unless i call her, when i notice i decided not to call her for 3days and waooo she didnt call me too, when i call her to tell her she is changing she said that the work is stressful that she travel ( to sokoto/ to sukoto/ to warri/ to benin /to enugu / to up and down) that is the reason why she didnt have the time to call me, well i mind my business am doing good on my own, if i call her at night like 4>6 times and next the phone will be off, and may be she call back the next day morning and i was not around to pick her call, she will start sending me numbers of text messages like ( that i should forgive her/ that it pains her to know that am doubting her/ that God knows she is saying the truth/ and that she do not want to have problem with me, e.t.c )
i have never accuse her before, i only have feelings that things are not ok.

please am confuse, is she really seeing someone els or the job is affecting her?
and should i quite the relationship or continue?

am so sorry my man but I will advise you to look else where there are many God fearing ladies she can't be the only woman for you.I know it will not be easy but stop seeing her she is digging her pit.

jesusdiedLOL:
You know the truth but girlcode or solidarity or whatever no go let you tell alk true.Yo Op, alhaji don swerve your girl.

hmmmm, i know that's what you'll say

Nutase:
You Don loose the election but you can be matured and borrow yourself sense like Jonathan and concede defeat because if you try to elongate your tenure like yahya jammeh and Mugabe the military might just force you out.
A word is enough for the wise.

Funny way to illustrate it lolz

Deunic:
but i love her and even introduce her to my parent and they love her too

do u want to die b4 ur appointed time? answer me

Nutase:
You Don loose the election but you can be matured and borrow yourself sense like Jonathan and concede defeat because if you try to elongate your tenure like yahya jammeh and Mugabe the military might just force you out.
A word is enough for the wise.

EPIC!

phintohlar:
haaaa may God forgive you. You never can tell,she might be saying the truth

tah! mechi onu dia

Rolex67:
When communication starts reducing, just forget the relationship, she has someone else, and don't trust ladies that work in a hotel.

I wish I could give this a million likes.

Maybe u need someone to tell u the hard truth, discharge that girl as politely and with as much dignity u can muster. And then move on. She has chosen a type of life that she already knows you cant accommodate... Hence the new character. So help yourself before she helps u....

Deunic:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for 3years now, i never like discussing her pass relationship life because every one of us has our own pass too, so i just focus on trying to build a loving and lasting relationship with her, we promise to be sincere to each other, she use to be the kind of girl that always called and tell me of her day activities in school, i really enjoy it as we always call and tell each other of our daily activities, after she graduate ( last year) she went to Lagos in searches for job, she got a kind of job whish i don't like ( the company is a kind of handling and booking expensive hotels for rich men) i told her to look for teaching job in some school, i contacted my friend in Lagos to help her look for school where she can teach, with the search my friend got one school for her, she went there and told me that the salary is 40k i told her to work since she is staying with her big brother she will not be feeding herself, she agreed but latter she said that she prefer the other job and i said ok ( i have tried my best) after she started working in the company things change , we do not call each other as we use to before, and she normally close from work at around 11p:m late night, this disturb me so much even when i call her she will not pick the call, then latter 30miunte or 1hour she will send tex that she was with a client, i beg her to stop the job since the job has no official prize ( salary) the job is pay as you work, so if you get a rich man that is willing to spend much, the more the man pays the company from there you have your own percentage, she came to visit me and spend 3days with me, i notice one number calling her all the time at night and each time the number called she will not pick it, so the next day the same number called again and i ask her who is that calling her she said is one of their colleague, i ask her to pick the call next time, so the call came again and she pick i notice she was not her self trying to cut the man shut, at the end the man said i love you and she didnt reply back, i pretend as if i didnt heir what the man said after like 1hour i ask her why she didnt reply the man that told her he love her? she said that she is not use in telling someone that, that the man has been disturbing her since and she has no time for the man ( but the way the man was talking to her shows that they have something together) after then she always switch off her phone, after she left things start getting worst, she is not calling me as before unless i call her, when i notice i decided not to call her for 3days and waooo she didnt call me too, when i call her to tell her she is changing she said that the work is stressful that she travel ( to sokoto/ to sukoto/ to warri/ to benin /to enugu / to up and down) that is the reason why she didnt have the time to call me, well i mind my business am doing good on my own, if i call her at night like 4>6 times and next the phone will be off, and may be she call back the next day morning and i was not around to pick her call, she will start sending me numbers of text messages like ( that i should forgive her/ that it pains her to know that am doubting her/ that God knows she is saying the truth/ and that she do not want to have problem with me, e.t.c )
i have never accuse her before, i only have feelings that things are not ok.

please am confuse, is she really seeing someone els or the job is affecting her?
and should i quite the relationship or continue?

men ur grammer is bad...The truth is the babe has gone and is gone...She is looking for excuse to break up with u....the handwritting is on the wall...Just walk away..she is gone.
I hate cheating and women hardly changes from cheating!!

Deunic:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for 3years now, i never like discussing her pass relationship life because every one of us has our own pass too, so i just focus on trying to build a loving and lasting relationship with her, we promise to be sincere to each other, she use to be the kind of girl that always called and tell me of her day activities in school, i really enjoy it as we always call and tell each other of our daily activities, after she graduate ( last year) she went to Lagos in searches for job, she got a kind of job whish i don't like ( the company is a kind of handling and booking expensive hotels for rich men) i told her to look for teaching job in some school, i contacted my friend in Lagos to help her look for school where she can teach, with the search my friend got one school for her, she went there and told me that the salary is 40k i told her to work since she is staying with her big brother she will not be feeding herself, she agreed but latter she said that she prefer the other job and i said ok ( i have tried my best) after she started working in the company things change , we do not call each other as we use to before, and she normally close from work at around 11p:m late night, this disturb me so much even when i call her she will not pick the call, then latter 30miunte or 1hour she will send tex that she was with a client, i beg her to stop the job since the job has no official prize ( salary) the job is pay as you work, so if you get a rich man that is willing to spend much, the more the man pays the company from there you have your own percentage, she came to visit me and spend 3days with me, i notice one number calling her all the time at night and each time the number called she will not pick it, so the next day the same number called again and i ask her who is that calling her she said is one of their colleague, i ask her to pick the call next time, so the call came again and she pick i notice she was not her self trying to cut the man shut, at the end the man said i love you and she didnt reply back, i pretend as if i didnt heir what the man said after like 1hour i ask her why she didnt reply the man that told her he love her? she said that she is not use in telling someone that, that the man has been disturbing her since and she has no time for the man ( but the way the man was talking to her shows that they have something together) after then she always switch off her phone, after she left things start getting worst, she is not calling me as before unless i call her, when i notice i decided not to call her for 3days and waooo she didnt call me too, when i call her to tell her she is changing she said that the work is stressful that she travel ( to sokoto/ to sukoto/ to warri/ to benin /to enugu / to up and down) that is the reason why she didnt have the time to call me, well i mind my business am doing good on my own, if i call her at night like 4>6 times and next the phone will be off, and may be she call back the next day morning and i was not around to pick her call, she will start sending me numbers of text messages like ( that i should forgive her/ that it pains her to know that am doubting her/ that God knows she is saying the truth/ and that she do not want to have problem with me, e.t.c )
i have never accuse her before, i only have feelings that things are not ok.

please am confuse, is she really seeing someone els or the job is affecting her?
and should i quite the relationship or continue?

From my observation, They are screwing your girlfriend for you, they screw her on daily basics]
Bros don't kill yourself over a girl, she's not yet married to you so she has the right to bleep who she likes

Nutase:
You Don loose the election but you can be matured and borrow yourself sense like Jonathan and concede defeat because if you try to elongate your tenure like yahya jammeh and Mugabe the military might just force you out.
A word is enough for the wise.

Politician.

Fxmanager:
Be careful, you might be sitting on the bench in that club. I rather play division 20 and be the captain, wearing the captain band.

ur talk burst my head

Stegomiah:
I can relate with your points
But as a lady, if a girl desires you, you will still be her priority
no one is too busy

@op,there is something called the sixth sense
It's called your intuition
The french call it de javu

Your sixth sense is pointing to all the facts, there is something up with her

It may be 3 years relationship, but if you don't wanna emotionally hurt further it's better you call it quit

Stop calling, try to be strong.... She will be the one crawling back to you

She disobeyed you on her choice of work..... And that line of work for a lady.... With the travels here and there isn't ideal for someone you plan on settling down with

i learnt dat from my ex. no matter hw busy thier schedule is,if d love is der time wld always come out

jeffizy:
Unfortunately, love can sometimes not be enough.
I really feel the trauma you are experiencing.

But in life, sometimes you have to wake up to the reality.
If she has a tangible reason for the distant behavior she suddenly exhibits now, fine.
But if she's got nothing tangible as excuse, have a heart to heart talk with her. If it doesn't work, I'm sorry, I don't know what else will.

bro for the way u answered this question send me a pm of ur no. i want to send u recharge card. very serious

jacyhelen:
men ur grammer is bad...The truth is the babe has gone and is gone...She is looking for excuse to break up with u....the handwritting is on the wall...Just walk away..she is gone.
I hate cheating and women hardly changes from cheating!!

* Grammar * Handwriting *Changes *An Excuse.

You Must Be Very Stupid In Nature.

SMH

Take a walk bro.
Date sumone closer to you for your health sakes

Deunic:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for 3years now, i never like discussing her pass relationship life because every one of us has our own pass too, so i just focus on trying to build a loving and lasting relationship with her, we promise to be sincere to each other, she use to be the kind of girl that always called and tell me of her day activities in school, i really enjoy it as we always call and tell each other of our daily activities, after she graduate ( last year) she went to Lagos in searches for job, she got a kind of job whish i don't like ( the company is a kind of handling and booking expensive hotels for rich men) i told her to look for teaching job in some school, i contacted my friend in Lagos to help her look for school where she can teach, with the search my friend got one school for her, she went there and told me that the salary is 40k i told her to work since she is staying with her big brother she will not be feeding herself, she agreed but latter she said that she prefer the other job and i said ok ( i have tried my best) after she started working in the company things change , we do not call each other as we use to before, and she normally close from work at around 11p:m late night, this disturb me so much even when i call her she will not pick the call, then latter 30miunte or 1hour she will send tex that she was with a client, i beg her to stop the job since the job has no official prize ( salary) the job is pay as you work, so if you get a rich man that is willing to spend much, the more the man pays the company from there you have your own percentage, she came to visit me and spend 3days with me, i notice one number calling her all the time at night and each time the number called she will not pick it, so the next day the same number called again and i ask her who is that calling her she said is one of their colleague, i ask her to pick the call next time, so the call came again and she pick i notice she was not her self trying to cut the man shut, at the end the man said i love you and she didnt reply back, i pretend as if i didnt heir what the man said after like 1hour i ask her why she didnt reply the man that told her he love her? she said that she is not use in telling someone that, that the man has been disturbing her since and she has no time for the man ( but the way the man was talking to her shows that they have something together) after then she always switch off her phone, after she left things start getting worst, she is not calling me as before unless i call her, when i notice i decided not to call her for 3days and waooo she didnt call me too, when i call her to tell her she is changing she said that the work is stressful that she travel ( to sokoto/ to sukoto/ to warri/ to benin /to enugu / to up and down) that is the reason why she didnt have the time to call me, well i mind my business am doing good on my own, if i call her at night like 4>6 times and next the phone will be off, and may be she call back the next day morning and i was not around to pick her call, she will start sending me numbers of text messages like ( that i should forgive her/ that it pains her to know that am doubting her/ that God knows she is saying the truth/ and that she do not want to have problem with me, e.t.c )
i have never accuse her before, i only have feelings that things are not ok.

please am confuse, is she really seeing someone els or the job is affecting her?
and should i quite the relationship or continue?

ma dear brother and FRIEND...I.feel its difficult to.deal wt a situation like dis...cos its obvious u do love her.but honestly,its a two way thing,cos in .loose situations like dis...u must b a rational thinker..its either a chiker flocking around her,dats y she is scared of picking cos of wat he wil.say or she is having an affair wt him....love is.not a do or die affair.u must b strong n look up the future if it.finally.doesn't work.I feel ur.pain cos it not easy to loose someone u.really love dat way.u could still.let her.b for sometime,it gives her d opportunity to.miss u n maybe.she could realise her mistake on time..

it happened to me sometimes ago... once you start suspecting your lady of infidelity then any time you see her around he go be like say somebody don Bleep her....

vanhelsing1:
ma dear brother and FRIEND...I.feel its difficult to.deal wt a situation like dis...cos its obvious u do love her.but honestly,its a two way thing,cos in .loose situations like dis...u must b a rational thinker..its either a chiker flocking around her,dats y she is scared of picking cos of wat he wil.say or she is having an affair wt him....love is.not a do or die affair.u must b strong n look up the future if it.finally.doesn't work.I feel ur.pain cos it not easy to loose someone u.really love dat way.u could still.let her.b for sometime,it gives her d opportunity to.miss u n maybe.she could realise her mistake on time..

thanks bro

pedrilo:
tah! mechi onu dia

mechi ginni, tah

Airforce1:
The sad truth is that another man is fuccking your girlfriend

How you take no

thank you friends for your advice.
she called me that she will be coming back next week, so am waiting still then if she comes and i talk to her if she still want that job then i will tell her it is over let her face her job period.

Deunic:
thank you friends for your advice.
she called me that she will be coming back next week, so am waiting still then if she comes and i talk to her if she still want that job then i will tell her it is over let her face her job period.

Why don't you want to see her succeed...... it is obvious that the job pays more than the teaching job your friend got for her......didn't you heard the part that she said she's stressed up that's why she is not calling you better don't take all these wrong advice this guys are giving you before they ruin your three years relationship.......

alfred007:
The power of every relationship is in the hand of whosoever cares less!

Wow! d real deal bro.... life is too short to care more abt one stupid asshole...

OhiOfIhima:
Wow! d real deal bro.... life is too short to care more abt one stupid asshole...

I dey tells u

alfred007:
I sell gun�.

☝
my bad side
my good side
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a woman is urs only when she's with you especially when she's just ur girlfriend!

worry urself not, take her as u see her and start caring less!

The power of every relationship is in the hand of whosoever cares less!


if she didn't recognize ur less care, brother forget her!

I can't suffer my with one gf abeg

Cheers bro. 1 glass of wine

Oga truth be told....Ur girl Na advanced olosho....she is either giving Mouth Action or receiving head when u are calling her...so u expect her to pick in the line of duty...e no possible Na....if u like ursef go find another babe wey go give u peace of mind....I still remain women and money are 5&6...epele sir