Get your CREAM on and hustle all the best.

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being. Surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait. that was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

Let's see the Facebook post

Jupxter:



Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

This is not a guarantee

Akkord4gov:


U have spoken well too Sir,more oil on your head too,lol. Just talking from experience. At 24 isn't bad but i put mine at 25years old. Before that age,what most of them want to do is to see a movie,hang out,go to chicken republic,send them recharge card without bringing any tangible advise to the table.

Note-my conclusion is subjective. Just talking of the majority. At least i have seen a 23 years old successful entrepreneur with a poultry birds of 5000

You forgot to add Instagram and Facebook

you will always get the one for u



every girl have what they want, stop winging and move on ok

Life happens

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

You story touched me. I am sorry for you. Just accept the reality and move on. who knows whom you will find in the future? There is always a blessing hidden in our trials. Please be of good cheer. Wish her good and even attend the wedding. I will be praying for you.

@OP This has summarized your predicament,also an advice for your next relationship

dollyjoy:
What were you thinking anyway? Your future isn't sure yet and time isn't on her side. She did the only logical thing any sensible human would have done. Move on,your wife is coming.

I feel your pain bro. One left because of my vocation and pursuit. But I don't care. They only motivate me to outdo myself...

Every 6 months, she'll call and ask, "Are you still pursuing that job?"

Albert Einstein said; "Place your happiness in goals and not in girls." (Paraphrase)

dollyjoy:
What were you thinking anyway? Your future isn't sure yet and time isn't on her side. She did the only logical thing any sensible human would have done. Move on,your wife is coming.

I can see that thing you are carrying is really heavy on you

Jupxter:



Its not about hustling, date girls with age gap, so by the time they get ready, you would have been prepared, don't date your age mate, date 5-7 years younger

who nor ready nor ready! whether he date someone wey he snr with 15-20yrs, if he ain't ready,nothing wil change.

Cheer up bro. Our destiny is not tied to people that left. Work on yourself..

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

I feel your pain. Suck it up and move on, she was never meant for you.

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

I don't blame her. You see, women and men have their differences. A woman's fertility peaks in her 20s to early 30s. In general, women have a really short fertility window to utilize their childbirth opportunities whereas for men, the window is much longer. Men could father a child way up till their 70s, whereas past 45 years for most women, menopause sets in. Thus, if you are not ready to settle down yet, then it is of no use holding her down, especially if there is someone out there ready to set the ball rolling with her. Women have to use their fertility period when it is still early. Truth is painful sometimes but you just have to let go.

so we should go and Fry cucumber abi!!!?

You suppose to your thank God.

dojnr4real:
Cheer up bro. Our destiny is not tied to people that left. Work on yourself..

You suppose to your thank God.

dollyjoy:
What were you thinking anyway? Your future isn't sure yet and time isn't on her side. She did the only logical thing any sensible human would have done. Move on,your wife is coming.

That's a "hustle and bustle" reply.

Maybe she has been keeping someone in one corner before then.

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

Sorry and MOVE ON.

But bros with this your English sef, how you been take graduate? Na this English you wan use go further? No wonder you couldn't land a job.
Biko just go into spare parts business. Thank you

Rolex67:
Hahahahahahaha, she don do you the more you look, the less you see.

Sorry bro, babe wan marry.

BAe,,check this lines*That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night*

It equally means b4 he informed de BAe about his plans,De BAe was already with someone else,,like double dating!!LoL...
Gals ain't Loyal

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

u should be thankful dah she was sincere to u bro... lyk for real, she can't wait... na woman she be nah... focus on ur plans to survive.... no room for mourning dem gals...

She'll come begging someday... Please focus on your hustle.. God get your back.. later some ppl go day men are scum

Onojasteve:
Thanks guys, I appreciate every comments and contributions, it makes me feel better now.. for the. Ladies, you have a brother too, it might be him, or your future Son. Anyway, I. Appreciate everyone for their comments..

Thank God it happened!
So absurd to say?

Thank God AGAIN because it ended this way. Unknowingly to you have been sharing her with someone else.

Do you crave to end with such a lady like her?

Keep thanking God it finally happened this way - and the siege broken!

She was never meant for you be that. Take heart and move on. Life goes on

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

women are the bigger scum !!!!!! Take heart bro .... She's not yours .... Your own wife is coming your way soon...

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

you must be a very wicked man, after her 5 years of waiting, you want to start another things afresh, waste another years again ugh? you deserve 3 months in prison for wasting someone precious time, thank God she found someone else

Onojasteve:
I met the lady in my 100 level in the university, we have graduated and done with our one year NYSC service, I learn photography and have being surviving with it, I couldn't get any better paying job, so I decided to further my studies, and when I told her about my plans, she only said, she wish me well that she can't wait.

That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night.

Am just so pain and terrify

That means she have been dating the guy that got her engaged along with you?

Move on..... Chase you dream(s)

You'll get a better lady for a wifey


#Endofdiscussion

Oxster:



BAe,,check this lines*That was all, only for friends to start calling me telling me congratulations, was wondering what the. Celebrations until one draw my attention to her facebook wall, she was engaged last night*

It equally means b4 he informed de BAe about his plans,De BAe was already with someone else,,like double dating!!LoL...
Gals ain't Loyal

Guys ain't loyal too. tit for tat.

Sorry op... if I may ask "what did you study in the university"?

One of two things are involved

1. She has been secretly dating that guy for a relatively long ( like 2 years). If that is the case guy na your fault, you should have seen the signs. And gradually withdrawn.

2. She hasnt dated the guy for long. If that is the case, guy chill and just laugh. She will soon start missing you. She will soon come back because she is connected to you not that guy. And when she come, guy make sure fork the s.hit out of her

So what is the situation....