MhizzAJ:
Oh you think everyone is like you without principles
She's clearly not a woman of easy virtues
Some ladies can't tolerate those kinda behaviour from men

I like u jare,u are so beautiful and classy.I wanna be ur friend.

confistified:
Maybe her oga is a married man or not good looking or she is married

Chai, Mr Misunderstood

classicMan22:
dat good congrt man

Thanks

EsotericMonk:
During my housemanship, I had a consultant who usually called me "love", initially I was uncomfortable, but on asking my seniors, I got to realise that it was her nature to be sweet and kindhearted, and she reserved such names for junior docs under her who were diligent and trustworthy.
Bottom line: The context is what really matters

QED

all women can not be useless like someone who bragged that she bleeped her boss to get a job and some people used it level all women prostitutes. This act of hers restored the dignity of womanhood.

UBGG:
A man calls you 'sweetie' mainly to mentally torture you until you resign and you actually break down and resign?

Some of us are labelled 'Ashawo' for daring to be head of a small unit, we do our freaking job still and you're frantic over freaking sweetie?!

QED II

NwaChibuzor13:
That girl is very foolish. Now that she has quit, how will she feed herself. A wise girl will eben offer her goodies between her legs on a platter of gold.

the same u will call her olosho...... i rili luv dt very WISE woman whose pu*ssy u escaped from into ds world. anyway mk sure u marry a WISE bitch and gve birth to WISE daughters #FamilyOFWisdom

nkwuocha:


Level of tolerance!
People have various level of tolerence .What party A can tolerate, party B may not tolerate.

QED III

reminiscing:
I totally agree with her action. Women are no longer safe in this part of the world.... I normally use the "dear" word when I chat with friends so I did this with a senior colleague of fine and he had been inviting me to his house. When I eventually went there, I was decently dressed as usual but he tried forcefully kissing me and I was like "what" He said I usually call him "dear" so he feels I am in love with him.
Since that day, I just know most guys are not normal in this part of the world. Women, ladies and girls should be very careful and shouldn't give chance to the slightest means of molestation

BS

MhizzAJ:

Oh you think everyone is like you without principles

She's clearly not a woman of easy virtues

Some ladies can't tolerate those kinda behaviour from men

And what has the sweetie calling removed from her? She is just being stupid with her stupid principles ,after all she is not even married that we would say she trying to protect her marriage.

When you are dangote or otedola child

Your principle and discipline will be 100%

But if you are from poor background you are proving principle and discipline , i pity you ooo

NwaChibuzor13:
That girl is very foolish. Now that she has quit, how will she feed herself. A wise girl [/b]will eben offer her goodies between her legs on a platter of gold.

I am sure your sisters are also [b]wise girls

CoolAmbience:


There are way more principled women than her in Nigeria.

Such sweeping generalization isn't exactly fair on our women.

QED IV

MhizzAJ:

Oh you think everyone is like you without principles

She's clearly not a woman of easy virtues

Some ladies can't tolerate those kinda behaviour from men

Okay can you help us employ her nw?

Most Ladies will be flattered by term, not knowing it's a trap...

well i believe before resigning, she already has other alternative so its her decision

odesifo:
Foolish girl,go sit down for house make neighbors dey call u sarah,mumu and now jobless thing.

No be Nigeria na. Everywhere no be like that cesspool wey to look for job be like climbing mount everest.

bilms:
Lady quite job because her boss calls her sweetie
http://mrrightsng..com.ng/2017/12/lady-quite-job-because-her-boss-calls.html


A lady, who goes by the name Sarah Mcgovern on social network site Facebook, has quite her job over what she described as harassment and persistently being refereed to as sweetie by her boss. Sarah took to Facebook on December 7th 2017 to narrate her experience. She wrote: I don't post many deeply personal things online, but I want to share this. I quit my job about a month ago because of harassment. Below is my letter of resignation. I think it's important to share this truth, and to know that many of us will not tolerate the abuse. We can and should walk out. #metoo "Hi Elias, This is my letter of resignation, effective today, October 31, 2017, my last partial day of employment. Since the second day of my employment, on October 12, 2017, I have asked you not to call me "Sweetie." I have asked you not to call me Sweetie more than 5 times since then, and you have still not respected this request. I nearly walked out because of this last Tuesday, October 24, 2017. I stayed to give you one more chance, because you said you finally understood how important this request was, and that you would stop this specific behavior immediately and for good. You only agreed to this after I told you in anger and tears, ready to quit, how important it was that you stop. I was very upset not only from the name calling, but also because I knew you were discussing this dynamic with Tony, who just days before had come up and said to me, "Sarah and Sweetie both start with an S" - a completely inappropriate comment, seeking to instigate an upsetting situation for me, brought on by your behavior. Now, even after all of that, and with your own agreement to stop, this morning, October 31, 2017, you called me Sweetie again. This is unacceptable. I have never heard you call any of the men at your company "Sweetie," which shows that this is clearly only a behavior that you are directing at me as a woman. Your team is even aware of your poor treatment of new female employees. One team member actually told me, while laughing, that they take bets on how long "each one [referencing females] will last." That was shocking to hear, to say the least. For these reasons, I am resigning. Gender-based discrimination is one of the most overt and harmful ways you can create a hostile work environment, an environment that is very damaging to one's health and well being. This is what you have done, and I will not tolerate it. Please confirm your receipt of this letter, voice any disagreements that you may have. Please also send my final paycheck (for 45 hours, 40 last week + 5 today) to my home address at .... Street, Garden Grove, CA .... as soon as possible, and let me know once it is mailed. I hope in the future you are more careful in your treatment of others. It means more than you realize.

Sincerely,

Sarah McGovern"


http://mrrightsng..com.ng/2017/12/lady-quite-job-because-her-boss-calls.html

are you sure

That's a no nonsense and principled lady right there. My kind of lady. I hope she finds something better in a conducive environment.

Is that letter meant to be a resignation letter?

poseidon12:
That's a no nonsense and principled lady right there. My kind of lady. I hope she finds something better in a conducive environment.

Not all these ladies that sleep their way to the top, taking advantage of men. Then 20 years later, they come out with allegations of sexual harassments.

NwaChibuzor13:
That girl is very foolish. Now that she has quit, how will she feed herself. A wise girl will eben offer her goodies between her legs on a platter of gold.

She is in USA, not Nigeria. Feeding herself should not be a problem.

This is utter rubbish. She needs a mental examination!
Sweetie,love, sweet heart...etc are all stuff people use to exchange pleasantries. Contrary to what many people think, I feel she is not the saint she wants people to see her as.

NwaChibuzor13:
That girl is very foolish. Now that she has quit, how will she feed herself. A wise girl will eben offer her goodies between her legs on a platter of gold.

She will find another job and a better one at that. You shouldn't allow people to abuse you because of a job.

NwaChibuzor13:
That girl is very foolish. Now that she has quit, how will she feed herself. A wise girl will eben offer her goodies between her legs on a platter of gold.

And when a girl sleeps with her boss, you will be the same people to call her slut, honestly what do you guys want ? Its like no matter what you just want to hate women for hating sake.

NwaChibuzor13:
That girl is very foolish. Now that she has quit, how will she feed herself. A wise girl will eben offer her goodies between her legs on a platter of gold.

It is high time you stop being stupid on public forums

nkwuocha:


Level of tolerance!
People have various level of tolerence .What party A can tolerate, party B may not tolerate.

Come beat me now since na tolerance

is there any other sweetie that want to quite?


oyindidi

Sexual harrasment is different from rape.

Calling someone sweetie is sexual harassment. Sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual advances. Besides, IT IS A WORK ENVIRONMENT. You don't call your colleague ‘sweetie, dear, darling'. What happens to calling them by their given names? You should be formal and polite not flirtatious and sweet.

How about the fact that she didn't appreciate the term and she made her feelings known several times but guess what he ignored it and even discussed it with a fellow colleague. That should not be acceptable. It can be very uncomfortable and awkward for the recipient.

Donjazzy12:

This is pure madness! Calling someone sweetie is not sexual harassment but in the West where men foolishly lost all their rights because of pussy, anything a man does is considered as rape until the woman says otherwise.

I had a boss that calls me dearie...so I quit my job BC of that..now am so jobless and hungry and I need help badly

We eat beef but the cow eats nothing... Sad world.

robosky02:
is there any other sweetie that want to quite?


oyindidi

I will quit Nl for you