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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 6:35pm On Dec 24, 2017
stanliwise:

Bro from the way you speak, you seem to be fighting so hard to prove wrong what you have been believing for long. Please reply me if you want me to suggest you something.
please i don't get you.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 6:35pm On Dec 24, 2017
stanliwise:

Bro from the way you speak, you seem to be fighting so hard to prove wrong what you have been believing for long. Please reply me if you want me to suggest you something.
please i don't get you?
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by jieta: 6:36pm On Dec 24, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
this is exactly why i don't talk to my people about this.

Look, i have started barbing skull, because an uncle of mind said that only gay people keep afro.

I am now careful about the colours of cloth i wear, cos some one said pink and yellow etc are for homosexuals .

When i walk or run, i try to raise my shoulders up to look more manly.

Its frustrating that i am trying hard to behave and act most of the things that comes to men naturally .

I can't walk infront of guys cos they will make fun, i can't even sweep or wash cloths around them cos of their mockery.

But please am straight, i am sexually attracted to only women. Thanks embarassed lalasticlala
lol, you I'll soon die of Bp if you continue like this, and trust me those people making mockery of you will be the first to criticise you.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by kidman96(m): 6:36pm On Dec 24, 2017
ddapoo:



I don't think u know what stigma can cause

Trust me brother I understand. Only you can deal with this. All you need is the heart of a man.

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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by stilldoingokay(f): 6:38pm On Dec 24, 2017
FitnessDoctor:
You are what you believe you are, people on nairaland will only comment whatever they feel is right to them and that is what your friends and peers are just doing, they just say whatever they feel they see... In the end, it is you that have to make the decision, are you feminine or masculine because no matter what people say, it is the decision you make that matters.

So how can I look more masculine?

You said you wanted to look more masculine and you don't have enough physical strength, in other words, you don't exercise daily and you don't take your health seriously. If you are really serious about looking more masculine then I suggest you hit the gym and get those muscles and six packs working. Workout your muscles, get a six pack and you will feel more confident about yourself, you will also be surprised of how girls will flock around you.

It seems you don't have a beard, but don't worry a good hairstyle and your toned body should make your look more masculine.

Stay healthy, Stay Wise

cc: JESUSBOIY


hi. I like your posts good job you're doing,

but I have few questions I want to ask,
can I go and head thanks.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 6:38pm On Dec 24, 2017
There is nothing wrong with who you are
Your feelings are perfect as long as they are natural
If you want to live by what people say
You will never live but exist, yeah merely existing

If politicians can steal and lie with pride
If gays and lesbians can thrive regardless of what people say
If a porn star can address the masses on character development
Who are you to be ashame of what you have no control over

Mix with people that understand life
Not people with repressed desires and mismanaged mind
Look deep inside, u are there; perfect and relaxed
Never live by what people say; good or bad

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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Slayar: 6:38pm On Dec 24, 2017
Visit the gym
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by mubeela(m): 6:41pm On Dec 24, 2017
Another Bobrisky loading.....
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Threebear(m): 6:42pm On Dec 24, 2017
jamariwolf:
Is your name by any chance Daniel? A light-skin guy who never stop shaking that ass?
I'm sorry I can't help you, but I do know that I hate effeminate men with passsssion
I know the guy you are talking about, the one that studied at UNN ,that One is a gay.
He's been harassing me on facebook.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by ddapoo(m): 6:46pm On Dec 24, 2017
kidman96:


Trust me brother I understand. Only you can deal with this. All you need is the heart of a man.

Bros no be me oooo...abeg
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 6:47pm On Dec 24, 2017
Threebear:

I know the guy you are talking about, the one that studied at UNN ,that One is a gay.
He's been harassing me on facebook.
I don't know his uni but we went to the same boarding school in Orozo. This guy is as fabulous as the colors of the rainbow. He's always coming to girls hostel every Saturdays to find lip gloss when other boys are cutting grasses. My hands no dey, I go keep my man far away from that one sef, gay or not gay.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 24, 2017
jamariwolf:
what's up with the blushing face facial expression?
be a man, not a faqqot undecided undecided
I will kill my son if he dares act like you oooh.
bro, i swear i did not decide to be like this, i grew up to find my self this way.

Why would i choose to behave and act feminine knowing the stigma that comes with it? embarassed

i have tried hard,yet no improvement.

Wish i had my way i would change me.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LordsBattleAxe(m): 6:49pm On Dec 24, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!
. See, I understand you a lot... I once passed through dt stage.. I'm in my early 20s too.. It's just hormonal imbalance. Chat me up... Cesarevernicci@gmail.com
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 6:52pm On Dec 24, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
bro, i swear i did not decide to be like this, i grew up to find my self this way.

Why would i choose to behave and act feminine knowing the stigma that comes with it? embarassed

i have tried hard,yet no improvement.

Wish i had my way i would change me.
Am i pose to sympathize with you?
Hell, I can even act like a man anytime I want to. You have no excuse whatsoever.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by valinno(m): 6:54pm On Dec 24, 2017
where you mess up the whole thing is where you said that no body should advice you to pray because you are not a beleiver,who knows about a product more that the manufacture of the product? You ve been with different people and still they are adding more salt to the injury since you don't need God where do you expect help to come from? There are 4 wounds in your soul that is causing what you going through now but I will not tell you about it and the solution since you are not a beleiver and you don't want to,why did i say so brcause after i tell you the problem where I will get the solution is from the scripture even though I may not quote Bible for you but part of the healing will come from above,so if you are ready to get solution am talking of i mean the type you will start seeing result within a week then take away pride,you have a problem and you are still proud,if you want healing the first step is to accept the One that have healed you first before you fall sick,change your mindset about your creator first because your solution will only come from Him.

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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by JastSiryin(m): 6:54pm On Dec 24, 2017
AgricSalt:


My guy. Listen to me very carefully, a man is one st heart. Though there are traits generally said to be manly, but none of them categorically defines a man.

A man is what you are. Your external body posture or movement doesn't mean you are less a man. No.

To help you more, go to wikihow and read some articles on what defines a man. You can also log in to jw.org to read some articles about body appearance.
Bros you just gave one of the shortest but probably the most impressive comment thus far...and for that i doff my hat

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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Threebear(m): 6:57pm On Dec 24, 2017
jamariwolf:
I don't know his uni but we went to the same boarding school in Orozo. This guy is as fabulous as the colors of the rainbow. He's always coming to girls hostel every Saturdays to find lip gloss when other boys are cutting grasses. My hands no dey, I go keep my man far away from that one sef, gay or not gay.
LMAO.

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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 6:58pm On Dec 24, 2017
jamariwolf:
Am i pose to sympathize with you?
Hell, I can even act like a man anytime I want to. You have no excuse whatsoever.
thanks
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by fxjohn2: 7:00pm On Dec 24, 2017
And God said lack of knowledge can kill and yet people like you refuse to listen to Him. It is a very small hormone problem just pump ur testosterone and hit the gym, that's all. Get medical hormone treatment.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by anizy(f): 7:01pm On Dec 24, 2017
Bros u need prayers...,
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by fecosequence(m): 7:01pm On Dec 24, 2017
MhizzAJ:
I'm not gonn ask you to pray because i don't know if it's inherent

People must always have something to say though but i think you should try and do less of what girls do

If you walk like a girl..talk like a girl...sit like a girl..then i think you have to make all efforts to stop it
Hit the gym too....Very necessary
well said ESP going to the gym it will actually help
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by harriet412(f): 7:03pm On Dec 24, 2017
Oxster:
Bro abeg no hit any gym,,,

All ds niqqas telling u,,hit gym hit gym no mind them

Like them Wey gt muscle pass Wiz khalifa

Me,,am slim but it doesn't matter,,what matters is your behaviour,even those with muscles don't try to get my way cos m HoT and I dont tolerate any kind of shit!

If your friends wanna insult you,like de way they do,,,enter inside them,, scold at Dem in Cult/gangster way

That's the only tin I do to protect myself from insult cos of my slimness ,,till now @lot tink am a cultist but am not cos of my gingering

Kikikikiki...I had to go look at that slim body of urs.. Not bad grin grin
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by jomarick(m): 7:04pm On Dec 24, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!
just one solution but requires full dedication...PUSH UPS. You can start by 10 till you progress upwards. After 2 months u would notice u walk with your chest out and your arms apart. You could try squat too.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by AkupeMBANO(m): 7:05pm On Dec 24, 2017
cyrilomoh:
Consulting the oracle:

CAUSES: Too close to girls at early stage, copying what they do and allowing it to influenced you.


SOLUTIONS: bring a 2year old native cock, three white kola nut and ogogoro to appease the gods and everything will be over.
u jonse for the solution, you couldn't even mention 3some.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Oxster(m): 7:05pm On Dec 24, 2017
harriet412:


Kikikikiki...I had to go look at that slim body of urs.. Not bad grin grin

Lol,,am telling u bro,,insult wey I don receive on dat ehh
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by motide(m): 7:05pm On Dec 24, 2017
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JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.



Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

[b]note: i am a straight guy!



Hello my brother, You are a man and thank God you have a male reproductive organ to classify you as a man. What you need is to take some male hormonal drugs to make you develop more of the male characteristics, then you hit the gym and then make sure you have lots of male friends to shapen your behaviour and manly characteristics. I can refer you to a doctor who can help you by educating you more on your problem. Don't worry friend, its not a serious problem and i assure you that you will soon get over it. You can contact me privately through this email address darzles@gmail.com stay blessed.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Oxster(m): 7:06pm On Dec 24, 2017
jamariwolf:
So you shook your ass and wore your mama's lingerie too?
I always knew that you were A little FAqqot, I can smell them even on forums, no matter how they try to deny. Oya start coming out of the closet little by little.

Go and hide your face,No need 4 blind augment gringrin
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by grandstar(m): 7:10pm On Dec 24, 2017
JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!


I believr you need to take some shots to make you more masculine

People who do sex change do take these shots only in this case you will take shots for men to make you more masculine
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by blessedvisky(m): 7:10pm On Dec 24, 2017
Ur moniker is jesusboiy but you are not a believer?? You think we came here to play? angry
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by aloyin(m): 7:13pm On Dec 24, 2017
well, let me say am sorry abt wht u r pazin tru, i knw it is nt easy atall, but i stil av some questn to ask u.
1) are u d only man in ur mother hand. Or in ur family?
2) av u ever ask ur mother abt dis. I mean dis situation of urs to ascertain some fact? .

Plz ans diz two questn truthfuly and i wil giv u my own advise. Thanks
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by FitnessDoctor: 7:13pm On Dec 24, 2017
stilldoingokay:



hi. I like your posts good job you're doing,

but I have few questions I want to ask,
can I go and head thanks.

Okay, dear, Fire away
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by grandstar(m): 7:17pm On Dec 24, 2017
motide:
[b][/b]


Hello my brother, You are a man and thank God you have a male reproductive organ to classify you as a man. What you need is to take some male hormonal drugs to make you develop more of the male characteristics, then you hit the gym and then make sure you have lots of male friends to shapen your behaviour and manly characteristics. I can refer you to a doctor who can help you by educating you more on your problem. Don't worry friend, its not a serious problem and i assure you that you will soon get over it. You can contact me privately through this email address darzles@gmail.com stay blessed.

God bless you for this. JESUSBOY, take note

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