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Demichaels:
I work in a Company with less than 10 staff somewhere in Abuja. Just recently, a young lady was employed to do her industrial training.

When she started, she was full of her self and does not associate with anyone in the office. While some staff (male and female) tried to relate with her, I kept her at arm's length and related with her only on official matters.

A month later, I was assigned to train her in my department to enable her get some experience before the duration of her Industrial training elapses. I accepted but decided to be strictly professional. Along the line, I observed that she does not pay full attention anytime we are together for the training. I tried as much as I could to be receptive but she still pay less attention. She would not even come herself for the training except I either send for her or call her through the intercom. Then I decided I will teach her anything only when she willingly submit herself. She never did and I maintained my stand and stopped teaching her.

Fast forward to a month before her stay with us elapses she became unusually nice and loyal and could do anything even before I give full details.

I was surprised but maintained my peace. One day, I asked her why she suddenly changed her attitude towards me she just smiled and left. Everyone in the office noticed her change of attitude and was surprised.

She started being even Romantic and extremely nice to me to the extent that I became uncomfortable. Just the other day, she told me in plain words that she can do anything for me and I asked her why and she said nothing.

She is not the type of girl I can date but she can be just a bed warmer.

What do you think?

I think you are seeking approval. You'll draw attention.. have people comment & advise you.. and you'll still do what you want to do. IT student is your issue :/ Bed warmer. Kedu maka head warmer? and even brain warmer??

Karidqueen:
The funny thing is that she's a nairalander.

Do you know her? I believe you know what to do