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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 8:50pm On Dec 25, 2017
Sirme411:


my sec school councillor once told me....to get married to a A gal who is very vocal...xo she'll serve as the Husband/wife....m sure still gonna stick to that advice....cos I reason like a gal atyms....most of my relationships ended cos I was acting girlish....nt taking decisions....nd I can't help it atall
hang on, its gonna be better bro embarassed
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by frankobobby(m): 8:57pm On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
Lol.. Yes I know, that's why she was behaving the way she did. she felt she could misbehave and go scot free. That's why I stopped talking to her. when you girls are given an inch, you tend to take a mile. She was mistaken though. I never had a crush on her, she's not even fine sef. Text me on WhatsApp.

I'm enjoying this conversation seriously
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 8:59pm On Dec 25, 2017
frankobobby:


I'm enjoying this conversation seriously
Who dafuq are you and why are you enjoying a conversation that doesn't concern you?
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 25, 2017
ezugegere:
I think your problem is most likely hormonal. You're probably not producing enough androgens. You may just need hormonal treatment. Talk to an experienced doctor.
Only reasonable diagnosis on this thread.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by frankobobby(m): 11:16pm On Dec 25, 2017
LoRdCaT:
Who dafuq are you and why are you enjoying a conversation that doesn't concern you?

my point is this: personal conversation shouldn't be on this thread. You get. There are so many other ways to chat ehn, that's why I quoted you to bring it to your notice. Imagine how the guy who created this thread will feel. Peace ✌

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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 7:56am On Dec 26, 2017
frankobobby:


my point is this: personal conversation shouldn't be on this thread. You get. There are so many other ways to chat ehn, that's why I quoted you to bring it to your notice. Imagine how the guy who created this thread will feel. Peace ✌
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LaRoyalHighness(f): 6:23am On Dec 27, 2017
I can relate to this post .. I used to be a serious tomboy. At a point in my life... I loved me and didn't see anything wrong with it .... When I got to the University... I didn't like the way I looked..... I changed my mentality(mindset) ... Worked towards being girly.... Am doing great right now....

Bottom Line is .... Yes you can!
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Jman06(m): 7:41am On Dec 27, 2017
LaRoyalHighness:
I can relate to this post .. I used to be a serious tomboy. At a point in my life... I loved me and didn't see anything wrong with it .... When I got to the University... I didn't like the way I looked..... I changed my mentality(mindset) ... Worked towards being girly.... Am doing great right now....

Bottom Line is .... Yes you can!
You should have just been yourself. You needed not change. People like Op need your type!
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Jman06(m): 8:57am On Dec 27, 2017
And I thought they said everything created by God is perfect.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LaRoyalHighness(f): 1:55pm On Dec 27, 2017
Happily married.... So f**k off.
Jman06:
You should have just been yourself. You needed not change. People like Op need your type!
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 10:21pm On Dec 27, 2017
olisehcom:


I knew so..................... And deep down you know too tongue
Miss olisehcom where are you?
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by FitnessDoctor: 7:56pm On Dec 29, 2017
stilldoingokay:

okay,
just want to ask, how do you know if your hormone is imbalance as a woman,
cause am having unwanted hair, which am very sure nobody in my family has it, and I was told is, hormonal imbalance.
thanks

Sorry for the late reply, I just saw your mention.

Unwanted hair is due to a condition called Hirsutism which is a result of hormonal imbalance.

How do you know if your hormone is imbalanced?

1. Unwanted hair or excess hair

Other signs include
Headache
fatigue
Acne
Increase in body fat

How to go about it?

There are several medications for hormonal imbalance but I will leave that to you doctor. Try seeing a gynecologist or an obstetrician, or a female doctor.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Paretomaster(m): 8:31pm On Dec 29, 2017
Every spirit of Bobrisky in your life ,OUT!! !
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 9:07pm On Dec 29, 2017
My friend,the fact that you mentioned your sexual orientation at the end of your narrative ,simply means you are gay.It is fine to be gay,last time i checked Nigeria do not put put homosexuals to death.Your post is basically a cry for help,you want to come out of the closet but don't know how.

JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 9:54pm On Dec 29, 2017
orbitalgis:
It is fine to be gay,last time i checked Nigeria do not put put homosexuals to death.

its not true.
Homophobes in Nigeria are in the majority.
Recently, a boy was pushed down from a storey building in Nigeria just for been gay embarassed
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by stilldoingokay(f): 11:07pm On Dec 29, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


Sorry for the late reply, I just saw your mention.

Unwanted hair is due to a condition called Hirsutism which is a result of hormonal imbalance.

How do you know if your hormone is imbalanced?

1. Unwanted hair or excess hair

Other signs include
Headache
fatigue
Acne
Increase in body fat

How to go about it?

There are several medications for hormonal imbalance but I will leave that to you doctor. Try seeing a gynecologist or an obstetrician, or a female doctor.

okay, thanks.

I will see a gynecologist then.

thanks again.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by FitnessDoctor: 11:15pm On Dec 29, 2017
stilldoingokay:


okay, thanks.

I will see a gynecologist then.

thanks again.


You are welcome, dear.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by okwabayi(m): 7:17pm On Feb 26, 2019
Oh, this troll is still on Nairaland.
I am shocked.
No, seriously, I am not.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by DONKINGS10(m): 2:26pm On Jun 24, 2019
guy listen let me tell you the only way to more manly, confident more than you can ever imagine.... See what you lack testosterone this is only hormone that will solve ur problem, first stop watching porn ,
Stop eating junk food try eat to more red meat and vegatables
if dont go the gym try to do 30 to 50 press up every and night this help increase testerone production
The most important start doing semen retention i mean dont ever ejaculate either through sex or masturbation ...because ejaculation make you weak and it release does testosterone that building ur muscle,
Ejaculation makes weaker by promoting the feminine hormone ostrogen which makes you to act like female...
So try not ejaculate for just 1 month ,you see that will become more manly,high confidence, high female attration, and more respect from guys, TRY THIS WILL GRAD YOU DID , THANKS

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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Abcruz(m): 5:57pm On Jun 24, 2019
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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Abcruz(m): 6:04pm On Jun 24, 2019
JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!


This only occurs when a man tries to seek relationship in the confines of others rather than his creator.

Those who are concerned about what people think about them are the slaves of the last person they talked to. This is because they are weighed down by the burden of trying to please others.

Don't strive to look good or prove a point before others; be desirous to please the LORD instead.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Abcruz(m): 6:10pm On Jun 24, 2019
JESUSBOIY:
ofcourse am attracted to women and i watch straight porn, if you see the folders in my laptop, you will believe.

Tho my effort to hook up with ladies i like has been futile, i have always had sexual fantasies about them. I swear i am straight embarassed

Stop watching porn it will only lead to a very low self esteem and worsen your life into an irreconcilable addiction.

Jesus loves you and HE wants to help if you will accept his invitation into your life. smiley
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by SassyAndy21(f): 6:43pm On Jun 24, 2019
JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

Sweetheart, since you say you are not gay...okay. Now, here's the thing. You want to look more manly, first thing. Exercise a lot. Work out...and do more sports. Lift more weights. Do chores around your house that will build your muscles. Instead of drinking tea..DRINK MILK. reduce your carbohydrates intake and eat more Protein (Meat and fish). As for your behaviour, i'll just say... BE YOURSELF.
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by marydgkbaby(f): 12:07pm On Jun 25, 2019
cyrilomoh:
Consulting the oracle:

CAUSES: Too close to girls at early stage, copying what they do and allowing it to influenced you.


SOLUTIONS: bring a 2year old native cock, three white kola nut and ogogoro to appease the gods and everything will be over.


you no well o!
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by marydgkbaby(f): 12:27pm On Jun 25, 2019
JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart embarassed , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!


I think you should get a very close and understanding friend (male) that you can trust and open up to, explain to him on how you want to get over your womanly behaviour and ask him to help you behave like a real man that you are. He should correct you or notify you when you display any womanly behavior et al. I believe this will also help you, God will see you through.

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