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kazyhm:
i wont allow myself to be led by a woman irrespective whether rich/brilliant or have a career.........women tends to be emotionally attached to some silly stuffs and pay attention to trivial frivolity... they exercise power unnecessarily and always want show off indefinitely

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

Safiaaa:
If you don't have anything reasonable to say..don't comment on my thread. Noooonsensseee.

Bahddo:
lol.

I like how this is based on the unspoken assumption that all men want the same thing, and so the men who imply they want more than the usual, are the exact same ones who avoid ladies who are more than the usual.

It's always fascinating to see conclusions (disguised as proven facts) spring out of silly assumptions.

The talk about women not bringing anything else is just about as cliché as the talk about 'all men being the same' or 'men must always cheat'. Some who say it are inspired by personal experience, while others say it because everyone else is saying it and so it must be a smart thing to say.

I look forward to seeing you call Nigerian women confused when next to hear a lady say all men are the same, but go about being picky, instead of closing her eyes and choosing the first one she touches.

Regardless of gender or color or tribe, we are all capable of nauseating acts of hypocrisy. We are all victims and villains. So quit the gender wars already. There can only be one loser - humankind.

Be a better you and let the world say what they will.

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
Ladyjumong watcan u say?

Safiaaa:
On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.


Dassal.

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

odigbosky:
Live Example....
Few years ago, gat this uncle of mine, he was rich you know, had a wife and 2 kids but still he went after another woman who was doing the same business as he was. He chased her for about 5 years, this lady was financially independent. She was taking care of her younger ones...Now my uncle finally got her.
Then he started making her grow in the business. ...while doing this his own business started dancing skelewu and the woman's own was doing shoki. The woman started raising her head in the house...you will be hearing things like my house, i feed this house, i pay the children's school fees. i do this, i do that...I am not saying she is an evil woman, but i felt insecurity in my uncle....
My uncle had to fight for his pride in the house, luckily for him, his business was now receiving rays of light. Quickly it became a money tussle in the house, my uncle would always remind the wife that he made he survive in the business, she enjoys lots of privileges today in the business because of him and he would make her go back to square one in the business if she doesn't behave herself....
The is very humble, whenever my uncle threatens she withdraws. That is how they live their life...
I came to understand that a man needs a financially independent woman that he can still subdue. A woman that even if she is far wealthier than him, she knows that he is not a right off and he can still survive without her.
These days how many girls can do such....whenever i go visiting i still ponder on how my uncle keeps her in check with all her money. Yes she still brags sometimes about her money at home but i call it healthy bragging because both of them engage in it often...but she knows her boundaries.
My uncle bought a car months back, and she bought her own last week. She cannot drive oooo, na my uncle wn still dy drive the car...i asked her why she did...she said...How can my husband be driving only one car....we will be using one to our work place and the other for strolling out....
We just need women that will allow us be the head at home....

Safiaaa:
never disguised this thread as factual..I clearly said that it was MY opinion. Go over and read again, jeez.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

Safiaaa:
If you don't have anything reasonable to say..don't comment on my thread. Noooonsensseee.

Martin0:
Please tell me where that dude has offended you either by mean's of insults or where u don't like about him and I will apologise or rather I will talk to him!

Oh atleast now u understand!

That exactly what keeps relationship going!

Then finally I will say this to you!
____________________________________


While searching for the
perfect man, some women fail to see their own
imperfections. While some ladies are so busy finding
fault with everyone, they fail to look at themselves and
their own flaws. Some of these flaws are the reason they
are still single as most men can’t handle it. Look
inwards and change those habits and attitudes that
drive people away from you.
Do not not allow your past mistakes compromise your
hope for the future. Never let your fear of the unknown
and things being too difficult make your choices for
you in life. Taking a chance at love means you take a
chance with your heart.

Ladyjumong:
What do you want me to say

Mhissgaga:
Yes How come u knw i'm from Delta

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

Bahddo:
lol.

I like how this is based on the unspoken assumption that all men want the same thing (the caveat in the first paragraph is somewhat useless), and so the men who imply they want more than the usual, are the exact same ones who avoid ladies who are more than the usual.

It's always fascinating to see conclusions (disguised as proven facts) spring out of silly assumptions.

The talk about women not bringing anything else is just about as cliché as the talk about 'all men being the same' or 'men must always cheat'. Some who say it are inspired by personal experience, while others say it because everyone else is saying it and so it must be a smart thing to say.

I look forward to seeing you call Nigerian women confused when next to hear a lady say all men are the same, but go about being picky, instead of closing her eyes and choosing the first one she touches.

Regardless of gender or color or tribe, we are all capable of nauseating acts of hypocrisy. We are all victims and villains. So quit the gender wars already. There can only be one loser - humankind.

Be a better you and let the world say what they will.

humilitypays:
once a Nigerian lady manages to become financially free either via securing a good job, business or trade, she becomes unruly and prideful to even respond to a normal guy's hello...so how do u expect Nigriran guys who aren't skillful women players to get them talkless of marry them Thats the root of the problem most times.

After the issue of financially independent Nigerian ladies being unfriendly and looking down at any guy who isn't very popularly approaching them, they are not usually respectful in marriage because they feel they can do without the man since they can take care of their financial needs.

Ask guys living abroad, especially UK, US, etc, majority of Nigerian ladies over there are not marriageable due to bad character and high rate of sleeping around for the fact that they have financial freedom.

Every man wants a woman that will complete him not one that will compete with him, get it

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

Martin0:
HmmmmMmmmmm wonder's they say shall never never end...

I don't believe in this discription of a man as u ve explained along the line...

This is the more reason why I talk about my Ex most here coz till dat am still proud of her and even my friend who married her is still and also proud of her...

Hmmmmm please,hmm well maybe there are men who act or think jus like you ve explained but if I see any men who act that way,honestly am gonna punch his brain!

Damm! How can a men be doing all these which u ve discribed?!

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

ChiefPiiko:
Compliments of the season sis

alexialin:
My dear alot do think and behave this way.

I use to have such issues like the op, but not anymore.

And men like you are very rare.

That's the truth

Safiaaa:
If you don't have anything reasonable to say..don't comment on my thread. Noooonsensseee.

Ladyjumong:
lol, merry xmas. whats your pet's name