Mhissgaga:


No...Lag but visit

Mhissgaga:

Thank you for saying the truth
WebSurfer, Ladyhippolyta88, Jupxter, Martin0,Good night guys...DrinkLimca You are very funny

Mhissgaga:

Thank you for saying the truth
WebSurfer, Ladyhippolyta88, Jupxter, Martin0,Good night guys...DrinkLimca You are very funny

WebSurfer:

Alright dear... hopefully you’ll get a picture up someday right ?

Mhissgaga:

Lol
Will do that soon

Mhissgaga:

Money??

It's the 'Mumu men' that i blame for always rewarding women with money for the possible possibility of having sex with them

I see a lot of poor guys roaming the street everyday...Guys that can't even brush and floss their teeth properly These are the same set of guys that will come online and say we can't live without them and their money...Which money??

Wake up!! This is 21st Century,women have so conditioned their mind to be financially independent....Any woman that waits for a man's money go hear am especially the broke ones screaming up and down on nairaland

MissWrite:




Lmao! There's plenty room on the marble, so there's no reason to be competitive.

To some extent, it does cut both ways. The chances of a broke girl staying broke and dependent after you marry her though, are greater than the chances of a broke guy staying broke. He's bound to upgrade himself and when a person has got money, you begin to see their true colors. But a more accurate comparison would be if a girl suddenly went from ugly to stunning. A guy would likely worry about her loyalty then. She may start to feel that she can do much better.

greiboy:
Wonderful analysis, but let me add something. The lady might start feeling superior when she starts earning a better pay check than her husband. So You agree that it is definitely not just the imagination most men.

Gerrard59:


It made sense. The employees who bring more viewers to the screen deserve more than others. It is simple economics. You bring more clients, you get more paid. That is how showbizs work. It is same reason Nadal and Federer matches get more viewers than Anna Ivanovic vs Serena, and as such you cannot allocate more earnings to the females, when they brought less. No, it goes against meritocracy. Simple economics dictate how people should be paid not gender. If Wizkid gets invited to a show, ditto Cynthia Morgan. Who gets more? Wizkid, because he'll attract more spectators and tickets' buyers. Not Cynthia as she will bring less. What the vast majority of today's agitators are asking is for Cynthia to be paid same as Wizkid. Meanwhile, if it is Tiwa Savage, she will get same pay as Wizkid. Economics not emotions.

Yes, the originators of the computer industry are females. However, "I get before no be property". Who dominates the sector today? Men. Who constitutes more than 70% of Comp.Sci/Physics class? Men. Where do tech firms recruit from majorly? Comp.Sci/Physics/Maths' classes. Who earns more in tech firms? Coders. Who constitute more of coders? Men. Who are more likely to work long hours to finish a project? Men. Who is not affected by motherhood? Men. Why then should females earn more than males? Why do companies not employ only females since they earn less - thereby cutting employees' wages - propping up profits the more - sole aim of businesses?

The fight to encourage more women to enter the industry is commendable and in the right direction. However, you cannot force someone to study what she doesn't desire (I can understand cultural differences). If the majority of females desire less paying and stressful sectors than males even with the high pay in those sectors, then there is nothing one can do.

As for ladies marrying men they earn more than, that is an exception not the norm. I ask, what is the percentage?

Jupxter:



All well, many ladies can't carry weight of many achievements without character flaws, it's a burden they don't have the character to carry. Carry is the burden bearer for future achievements. With humility comes the ability to carry greater expectation.See, if a lady earns 20k monthly and becomes proud as a result of her financial standing, what happens when she earns 500k per month?

Mhissgaga:


I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially

In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"

Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful

Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation

They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy

Ladyhippolyta88:
Up to 20%,And nobody is forcing anyone they are just encouraging them some parents may not be able to afford to take those girls into science related courses hence the sponsorship and encouragement some of the ladies get.The BBC pay may be fair to you but they have females that have high viewership.It is just like saying Kelly Ripa does not get high viewership and should not be paid well.I am not bringing emotions here I also believe in meritocracy and we have females who have merited such and deserve good pays.The sport world would always bring the highest viewers,If you say it is simple economics playing out then if Wizkid is to invite Beyonce and Nicki minaj they would get the highest pay.As from what I know concerning equal pay nobody is asking that females be paid higher but that the credible ones be given an equal share. Yes men dominate the tech world no argument about that but I have seen the incredible works female technological experts have done and the work of a wonderful neuroscientist and the upcoming one expected to be shown on CNN inspirations this Saturday "our future world".And maybe because we have had women who have succeeded in male dominated field hence the clamour for more.I am sure CNN christiane amanpour earns a lot because that her programme has a lot of viewership.To you it is economics I agree but there seem to be gender bias in some areas hence the clamour for equal pay.

Jman06:
The problem is that most black ladies who are financially up the ladder find it hard to come down to the level of the average guys. In fact, they treat the average guy with so much disdain that it even shows in the way they carry themselves when the guy is around them. So, the poor guy gets intimidated and runs for his dear life. Now this same guy now goes to do all whatnot to make the money, and afterwards the same lady that rejected him before would expect him to come back for her. That is not possible ! He has to look for the dependent lady who will atleast treat him like a human being.

How many ladies who are well to do can stoop to marry a struggling guy Only perhaps some who are already in their menopause.

Ladies need to change their mindset and understand that it must not be the man who provides for the family. Anybody who is blessed can pay the bills. Yes ! If you have that in mind, it will go a long way to improve your relationship with men because you will start paying more attention to the character of the guys you meet than their bank account. Am i implying that guys should leave financial responsibilities for their women No ! All i am saying is, stop giving out the impression that all you are after is a man who can carry your financial burdens even when you're already blessed. Many of you do that and it scares men away because, the man would rather settle for a poor lady who can be contented with what he has to offer than a rich one who will be difficult to satisfy with what he has.

It's your attitudes that scare men away, not really your achievements.

Gerrard59:



Not so for the vast majority of Nigerian/NL men who insists on using Biblical quotes to claim "Head of the House". It's the hypocrisy the OP is talking about. Now you say women can take care of the bills, are you ready to babysit? Something has to substitute. As for the coloured question, females date/marry up; whether intelligent, financially independent, low class, less intelligent etc. It is nature and psychological.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Come nor bring lady matter come here again since for your dictionary na only ladies get character flaws.

Gerrard59:



Not so for the vast majority of Nigerian/NL men who insists on using Biblical quotes to claim "Head of the House". It's the hypocrisy the OP is talking about. Now you say women can take care of the bills, are you ready to babysit? Something has to substitute. As for the coloured question, females date/marry up; whether intelligent, financially independent, low class, less intelligent etc. It is nature and psychological.

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a women is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A women who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long tin

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a women who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent women is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

Jupxter:

Jupxter:


Stop being friendly, choose one bra

Jupxter:


not Edo...i'm a Christian....tradition can kiss mah foot

Jupxter:




BROS WE PRACTICE ALL THESE THINGS, I'M A COOL GUY LIKE YOU KNOW ME. IT'S ALWAYS TWO IT TAKES TO TANGO. LIKE DIVORCE, ONE PARTY USUALLY DO NOT MEET UP WITH THEIR OWN END OF THE BARGAIN

Mhissgaga:
See ya life....May God help women

Ladyhippolyta88:
Come nor bring lady matter come here again since for your dictionary na only ladies get character flaws.

alexialin:












Op what you say it's true.

Now the question is how do u make a Nigerian man want you, approach you for a long term relationship?
The answer is this:

First lemme do a short intro, so u understand where am heading to:
am an independent career driven Buisness lady. I started my biz my company at the age of 27 and my late mum was my backbone. She was a successful business woman back in the days. I was very businesslike, no nonsense lady back then.

So I noticed truly men don't like to approach such working class successful ladies . I studied their character and I realized they prefer to marry Bimbos, then have us as side chicks to assist them mentally in handling their Buisness.

When I noticed it. I then decided to stop dressing like a serious minded lady. I wear more feminine soft colourful dresses, thank God I own my biz, so I can afford to look inbetween flirty and easy going with my work outfits.

Then 2ndly, I stopped footing my bills, especially 70percent of bills. Thank God the recession helped in that aspect. By low patronage and low sales, so technically I became broke, especially during the first year of buhari Regime. As I became broke , and I have bills to pay? I then transferred my financial demands to my male friends and admirers. They were happy to assist. U can see the pride, the manly look in a man's face when he is paying bills for a female friend or A lady. And when u sweetly thank them, like a pussycat they are all the more happy to go an extra mile.

Most men love to be incharge in every way possible. So give them the opportunity.

The more u say, u can pay your bills and take care of your needs without asking a dime for them. In their mind, they Wil smile and cancel u as a wife material.. Except fucvkboiz dem.

So successful career ladies, be soft , be flirty, be humble when displaying your intelligence to men.

Let them take charge, it charges up their batteries to 105%, deep down. So women in this category jusy relax and interact with men sweetly, u will notice their choices will then tilt towards soft flirty intelligent career women.

Purebeerry:
That is not true my sister, they love being dominant and most of them love dependent lady, they derive joy from being the one to give, imagine a guy told a lady he is dating that he will be paying her school fees and caring for her school needs, its his responsibility even though the lady doesn't want him to,

now when this guy does that, he is indirectly massaging his ego and he feels he is dominant and in control.

A guy once told me he is not into working class ladies, that they are too full of themselves; they are arrogant, not submissive etc. Lmfao.

Safiaaa:
You're not being honest. Most of you would rather suffer than to have a woman financially compete with you. Very old and outdated where? It's very much happening in Nigeria now, just open your eyes. Your ego comes before anything, especially anything related to women.

Gerrard59:


20%? I will love to see that paper. Thanks. OK, let's assume it is true. That is a minority not majority. My postulation stands.

Yet again, I'm saying folks who bring in more revenues should earn more whether males or females. Market forces dictate it. If the female presenters believe they are not well paid, they have the prerogative to resign. If Beyonce and Wizkid are to perform in a show, I expect more spectators for Beyonce than Wizkid, invariably, expect her to earn more than Wizkid. I'm not looking at the gender here, rather the economics behind it. You've seen wonderful works from female scientists, ditto I, but did they say they earn less? What industry? Do they work more hours than the male folks and get paid less? Christiane earns more because she brings more viewers, did you see me write against that? Why? She brings in more viewers, hence, deserves the pay. If it were a man, same thing will happen. Now, should we compare her to the lad who doesn't bring in same viewership as she does and say CNN or the TV industry pays male presenters less? Economics not gender.

@Bolded: Remember, I said in developed nations - where no employer pays a lady less as that will be criminal. Question is: Since females earn less than males (or there is a bias towards females in wages earned), why is that firms do not overly employ females? Since doing so will cut costs?

No, we're not seeing the clamour for gender pay in male dominated fields because females excel in them. Rather, we're seeing it because these fields pay higher wages. Moreover, we've females driving trucks (in the minority like tech firms) - a male dominated field. How come there is no agitation for parity for equal pay? It is because the field pays less and is less glamorous.

Martin0:



Babe reason am na!
U nor go compare una own to our own na that the more reason we are talking more on the ladies!

babasolution:


men naturally want submissive women period,its hardwired in men,why you women think its a problem is because what you see with the western world.but these western people arent normal,their men have been feminised especially as regards their thought pattern.thats y u probably observe that they are subservient to their women,and nigerian women are lusting for that,but it isnt normal,all other races of men subdue their women,its totally natural for men its not peculiar to nigerian men

Martin0:


Yeah exactly..

If both party can meetup with the bargain then it surly will work!