humilitypays:
lol, the magic of what u did is....u stopped being prideful and pompous and became more ladily than arrogant which repulses all men about a lady.


One way to get men running after u as a lady is to look good physically then wear humility and meekness as clothe.

Don't ignore any guy.... Even if u are not in the mood, politely tell him and every reasonable guy would understand and respect u but unfortunately most financially independent Nigerian ladies the op is talking about are arrogant, pompous, unfriendly and see themselves as a demi god everyone must worship, unfortunately for them, most reasonable Nigerian men don't care about them....they only keep them as side chick or marry them as 3rd wife at best.

Financially independent ladies in Nigeria are meant for gigolo fuckboiz who have 8 packs and tall like iroko, cos that's the only guys that can condone their nonsense attitude

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

khiaa:


Stop dominating over your women, it doesn't make you more of a man it only makes you look like a foolish bully.

Good Morning.

Archangel15:


U went broke just to impress men? you have problems.

Purebeerry:
That is not true my sister, they love being dominant and most of them love dependent lady, they derive joy from being the one to give, imagine a guy told a lady he is dating that he will be paying her school fees and caring for her school needs, its his responsibility even though the lady doesn't want him to,

now when this guy does that, he is indirectly massaging his ego and he feels he is dominant and in control.

A guy once told me he is not into working class ladies, that they are too full of themselves; they are arrogant, not submissive etc. Lmfao.

HauteReel:


Why? You don't like Fifty Shades of Grey?

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

humilitypays:
lol, the magic u but unfortunately most financially independent Nigerian ladies the op is talking about are arrogant, pompous, unfriendly and see themselves as a demi god everyone must worship, unfortunately for them, most reasonable Nigerian men don't care about them....they only keep them as side chick or marry them as 3rd wife at best.

Financially independent ladies in Nigeria are meant for gigolo fuckboiz who have 8 packs and tall like iroko, cos that's the only guys that can condone their nonsense attitude

funmisticqueen:
nope it simply means your sisters' husbands have learned to swallow bullshit in the name of marriage. It is simple human nature to behave like a boss once the opportunity shows itself.

Jupxter:




Seems you don't know we are now considering 10-15 years gap now

The quest for marriage for many of us is the quest for peace

khiaa:


No!

kazyhm:
okay.......the problem really is women cannot handle being superior maturely.......

just pay attention to when a woman is a leader in any place, they tend to be very unreasonable and very sentimental to some very minor issues. they cant withstand real pressure and they can never look the other way when intimidated/bully when they are in control.

in summary women dont have locus of control when she is superior

Safiaaa:
You're not being honest. Most of you would rather suffer than to have a woman financially compete with you. Very old and outdated where? It's very much happening in Nigeria now, just open your eyes. Your ego comes before anything, especially anything related to women.

LuvU2:
Maybe financially well-off Nigerian women should expand their dating options more nd more . There re other (better)men apart frm Nigerian men. It wld be a delight to see successful women like Linda Ikeji with foreign partners, that to me will be a perfect match until we hv enough local men that hv 'evolved'. ❤

HauteReel:


A trial could convince you.

Jupxter:


Jeez


Below the belt...


Runs away...Jeez..Wicked

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

LuvU2:
Maybe financially well-off Nigerian women should expand their dating options more nd more . There re other (better)men apart frm Nigerian men. It wld be a delight to see successful women like Linda Ikeji with foreign partners, that to me will be a perfect match until we hv enough local men that hv 'evolved'. ❤

LuvU2:
Lol That's what every thinking woman shd do right! Date up.

kazyhm:
okay.......the problem really is women cannot handle being superior maturely.......

just pay attention to when a woman is a leader in any place, they tend to be very unreasonable and very sentimental to some very minor issues. they cant withstand real pressure and they can never look the other way when intimidated/bully when they are in control.

in summary women dont have locus of control when she is superior

Jupxter:



Smh. You're taking this thing too far