₦airaland Forum

How do people cope with multiple dates?

Am wondering why anyone would want to date more than one person at a time. Dating just one person to me is tasking enough for anyone to even imagine being in a relationship with more than one woman or man, except of course if that’s the only thing you do, womanise or jump from one man to the other. However if you are the type who is still single but always surrounded by attractive men or women of opposite gender, who also feel attracted to you, then it could be really hard saying “NO” all the time.

Your work, lifestyle or some other social activities may greatly affect the relationships you have. Although it is possible that some romantic appointments can still be platonic in nature, there are times all you want to do is stay single for a while but that doesn’t necessarily mean you must do away with every other socially romantic appointments or engagements with those persons you really want to be with.

Whether Platonic or intimate, having multiple dates can be sometimes hurtful to yourself and others too. Here are 5 ways you can cope with multiple dates without getting yourself hurt or hurting anyone.

1. Make no promises
2. Avoid chatting on social media when tipsy.
3. Keep it casual
4Give him/her the impression that you are all already in a serious relationship
5. When things get heated, try not to talk about it.

Ok, that's just five, Add yours, let's go.

there are girls that u date, and there are girls that u fu:ck on the side simple

no rules, some girls arent useful, use them and keep them hanging

iamJ:
there are girls that u date, and there are girls that u fu:ck on the side simple

no rules, some girls arent useful, use them and keep them hanging

Same with guys too bros.

Girls no be dumping ground o.

Why una dey teach people bad thing nah? This must end with 2017

iamJ:
there are girls that u date, and there are girls that u fu:ck on the side simple

no rules, some girls arent useful, use them and keep them hanging

And when your girl cheats on you, don't complain