Reeoman:
Single just because I feels within myself that i'm not good for any lady and maybe they won't just accept me... Low self esteem is my problem o.. Can somebody help please... Been trying to fight against this shit but somehow it keep winning

IFearGod:
Compliments of the season!

yuh2:
In my own case

I have a girl that really loves me she does everything like cooking, wash, cleaning and I feel she's going to make a good wife. She works and even earns more than me. Each time i ask her for cash she gives freely and when she's broke she usually ask from me too.

The dilema is she is 4yrs older than myself and at times I feel like I don't love enough but all my side chicks (which am not proud of) non can be compared to her in terms of anything.

I seriously need your honesty advise

Blackhawk03:


Oh! Thanks.

Same to you.

HenryThegreat1:
For me I'm still single because ladies I met this year have dated two to four guys. Am ready to marry whenever I find that lady who was able to keep herself from men.

pcguru1:
Am sure if I can leave the house more often I'd be dating, its just so peaceful and stress free staying indoors plus dating involves so much energy, keeping in touch, the calls, chats, mind games, lengthy talks mehn nothing beats just keeping to yourself and watching movies I think I should have been a cat in my next life.

dasparrow:


What menace? I love the single life and that is not about to change just yet. Think about it, I don't have to worry about merging my private part with that of another person's. I don't have to put up with another person's filthy smelly body fluids. I don't have to worry about contracting sexually transmitted diseases. I don't have to force myself to chat when I am not in the mood to talk. I don't have to get into any silly argument.

I can get up and relocate to any country of the world with ease without worrying whether the spouse is cool with that or not. I will have more time to commune with my God and dedicate my time to serving Him. I don't need to worry about getting cheated on. I dont need to explain myself to anyone. I am in control of my life. Most importantly, I will never be another person's punching bag.

Lastly, I already have great people in my life that I talk with all the time. I don't need to be in an intimate relationship were sex - the disgusting act - is involved in order to be happy. As long as I am not lonely and have great family members, friends and acquaintances who care about me and Jehovah who loves me, what else am I looking for?

Better to be single and alive than married and dead. If you think am lying, go ask the two deceased married women who were killed by their husbands and their stories are currently on Nairaland's front page.

Peace, out!

emusmithy:


I think there's this "freedom" attached to being single that's hard to let go.

chronique:

So,what would you say about those that have dated up to 20?

vikithor:
nairaland babes' eyes don open wider than Eve's ,
they didint just taste the forbidden fruit they swallowed it with out blinking!
on this forum they have learnt many good,bad and ugly things and will always exhibit them if married,e.g.
1.they have learnt to expose men on the media/public
2.they have learnt to take advice from 'outsider'
3.they have learnt to have option 'B',i.e to prospect and hook up with another/several zombies,if the one at home is not easily manipulative enough.
4.they have learnt to slay,kill and murder before the actually killing .
5.a lady who is wiser in fuckery,deception,extortion,selfishness,materialism,highmindedness- cant be a home material (ask nigerian celebriities for explanations)

ryd3:
Heartbroken. Hopefully waiting for a Yoruba lady btw 26 to 29 for a new relationship. But mehn...good girls scare for market die... So many refurbished ex slay queen turned evangelists out there

emusmithy:




Let's analyse this menace and profer the way forward. Next Year 2017; We've got to have lots of weddings.


Pass the ball...

Olusharp:
Seun no way are we accepting this... just tell me you came here to catch fun and not to submit your name as part of the single crew in 2017... we wouldn't take that...where is that picture

richythePH:


hmmmmmm

what of the others who like me alot

richythePH:



lets just say i'm super generous plus i've got a single white guy who's a friend and who's searching too


now mail me ur mobile number so i can do the needful

biggie10:
Omo our Village people have tried this year ooo

Asin they were in top form,

every calamity was a hit back to back, from not having any reasonable savings since January to not having a reasonable relationship with God or Man.

Hats off to those guys, they really tried

Holamscoh:

Your Scope couldn't hit the Hotspot DuBrainee Fvckboy

Stanleysteno:
Been single for a very long time, with the way I see things, it will continue in 2018.. I know I'm not perfect, but I just can't go into any relationship for the sake of sex alone, I want more than that cause I'm ready to give my all for the right lady ..... I so much dislike playing hard to get for long n some ladies can do it for Africa

OgahBohz:



beta go ur village go settle scores with em, ....dey der de form connector

OgahBohz:



kuku remove marriage from ur life plans na, cuz as far as nija babes are concerned playing hard to get is the way forward

OgahBohz:



kuku remove marriage from ur life plans na, cuz as far as nija babes are concerned playing hard to get is the way forward

gregyboy:



dont fucking have the money like you just yesterday i was chatting up girl in my area on whatsapp she ask me for card i told her i dont have money to buy her card it ended like that

this evening i was talking with i ask her how was she doing and she said not fine .i asked her why she said she needed card to call that if anyone give her card she would love the person forever...when saw what she wrote it irked me ..i knew if i buy her card now she will open business line on my head which i cant afford... i told know to her no to her fake love blocked her still single and happy need no fake love nor pussy 2018