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Jman06:
But you didn't chastise the woman that started it all the way you did above. Remember if she hadn't started cheating first the man wouldn't have reacted the way he did.
Sometimes women take faithful men for granted and cheat on them, this is why some men resort to cheating as a way to keep their women on the defense, because the woman will be fighting hard to keep off his side chicks and have him all for herself and would not have the time to cheat. It is a mind game !

I'm not trying to justify the fact that the man cheated in revenge but all the vituperations you poured on him were uncalled for considering that he was cheated on first.

...u alone understand the man here.I wonder y they keep blaming the him,the wife started it first.what will he have done if not to calm his nerves cus ordinarily men will always cheat on their wife without any tangible reason.when a woman have a cool headed husband,all she have to do is to make possitive use of that advantage and continue to nurture him for the rest of her life.

U want me to tell u what to do abi? Keep waiting

its not that easy I mean for the kids's sake. on true fathers will understand

amunkita:
Dump the cheating ediot nah abi she use juju for you.

You had better send her away immediately. The other man will never wish you well and ready to kill you. If you love yourself, send her packing right away. Dont just worry about how the children will cope. if the man kills you today, i bet it that the children will cope. Assuming the woman leaves you and live the children behind, wont they cope? a word is enough for the wise.

Ha....
Nkan be !!!!

morgan844:
we have been together all these years it was only this year that i travelled if not for the kids i will not even think of her any more

I am sorry sir, but it's obvious she's cheating, now that you know, devorce her, but first, go for the DNA test of those kids, u might be surprise what you get

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Be courageous and do the needful.

Dyt:
OK both of you are cheating


I am.waiting for insults landing on the woman leaving the cheating man behind

but she started first naaaaaaa...
Slay queens never changes

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

bros are you sure those kids are your kids first go and do D N A test for those kids to make sure those kids are your kids and second that guy is fuVCking your wife belive it or not you don't know woman when they look you are not around they go look for someone to have sex with them I know a married lady that a friend of my is F*+= ucking just because her hasand travel to work it not a new tin here in Nigeria many many woman do it my advice go do d n a test to make sure the kids are yours and divorce her because she lie to you and she will keep on doing it again as long as u are not around old send her back to her father house she may kill u for that guy someday believe it or not it happen all the time pls do it first don't allow love to make u look like a fool pls I know it hard for u pls divorce her as soon as possible because u travel again that guy will still come and F -*+ uck her again again and she will keep on lieing to you because u are not around and it was GOD that allowed u to cash her pls be wise

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

stay there now. After 3 kids u are waiting 4 people on nairaland to tell u what 2do with a woman u say is cheating on u

junnyjake:
That's sad Bro.

She needs to know how bad her actions are hurting you.

If nothing changes, let me know. I'd assist you in teaching that Ex a lesson, nobody would tell him to not only lose her number but change his sim card and cut off every form of communication.

Sometimes, violence is the only way.

Cheers!

teaching that Ex a lesson what are u trying ti say is the ex forcing her you don't know woman at all and for the note you can't do the ex anything because he is not forcing her she know what she is doing woman are evil

amunkita:
Dump the cheating ediot nah abi she use juju for you.

brother I nor know this guy matter trie me

I'm beginning to think that cheating has become a norm in the modern day marriage.As such, intending couples should brace up for it...

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

sir I will advice u don't divorce her yet.just test her first by playing a massive trick on her.get her attention to urslf by pretending u are cheating in her let her feel ur pains.let her notice u are seeing anoda lady.sumtymes we need to do sum crazy tins just to prove a point and let our partner know our worth,if she loves u she will fight the invisible lady and seek ur attention but if she is not meant for u let her go nuttin kills a man faster than a cheating wife.best of luck. pls I mean pretend to cheat on her oo.

Poster, imagine the lashing she gets every from that guy every time you travel.I hope you can wrap that around your head.

morgan844:
we have been together all these years it was only this year that i travelled if not for the kids i will not even think of her any more

This is your marriage we are talking about not just some relationship, you have to fight for it.

Call her out on it and demand she stops seeing the other guy. Show your anger but don’t beat her o. Just let her know the world around her and you will shake and crumble. Make her tell you how long and why she is doing it then work together to fix gaps. You can both get get through this.

morgan844:
since i married her i have never met another woman. except recently as i am trying to calm my self i just got hooked up but i am not happy about it

pls if u want advice on ur marriage, dont come to nairaland. Look for matured minds , else all these indomie social media simpletons will confuse u de more.

Newboss:
Why do these people still get involved in this scam called marriage?

You get married to her to tie her down legally, ba?

Funny people!

The heart wonders to where it pleases, my people!

Use your heads people! Some even send their people to get a wife for them. After getting the wife for you the way you get Condom from a Pharmacy, what's the sense in it when you start living like cat and dogs for the rest of your lives hoping for either a divorce or the death of your spouse in order to be free.

Come on, you could have kept your freedom and still live your life to the fullest while having him or her as a companion and mother or father of your kids.

If you think about marriage critically, you will see that there is no use. 5 years into marriage, it's well known that most couples hardly have regular sex. Why? Basic psychology!

But those 2 could have been dating for 15 years and having the best of moments. No, it's not about the right person! We've seen this stuff play out again and again.

Most are married and lonely and can't even divorce because that's not enough ground for divorce! You are practically messed up because there's no more love in the bucket! But you could have taken a walk away if that were to occur in a relationship.

Just separate from her and file for divorce before she poison you and elope with her love bird.

Hmmm I just tire for sum comments like this.I reserve my comment.

Humans

If morgan844 takes on the advices here
Then I am so sorry for him


Hypocrisy at its peak

Hope you can take all.the insults being hurled at your wife now


Smh

morgan844:
since i married her i have never met another woman. except recently as i am trying to calm my self i just got hooked up but i am not happy about it

You mean you also cheated. You can but she can’t �

oyinda1599:
...u alone understand the man here.I wonder y they keep blaming the him,the wife started it first.what will he have done if not to calm his nerves cus ordinarily men will always cheat on their wife without any tangible reason.when a woman have a cool headed husband,all she have to do is to make possitive use of that advantage and continue to nurture him for the rest of her life.

God bless you for your comment

Jman06:
I want to believe that all these MEN attacking the op don't cheat on their wives as well. If that's the case, then their attacks on the op are justified, if not, then they are biiiiiig hypocrites !

a cold bottle of any drink of ur choice for u.so on point.

junnyjake:
That's sad Bro.

She needs to know how bad her actions are hurting you.

If nothing changes, let me know. I'd assist you in teaching that Ex a lesson, nobody would tell him to not only lose her number but change his sim card and cut off every form of communication.

Sometimes, violence is the only way.

Cheers!

badt guy lolz u are right

morgan844:
i wanted her to feel the pain she caused me i have already pull down the picture. i never knew she will cry like a baby

maybe she was just flirting mindlessly and you without proper balls to investigate jumped to sleep with someone else like a kid whose candy was snatched. How old are you again? 18? 21?

J0hnTrevolt:
@morgan844 u r very childish, infantile and very stupiid. U r not yet matured for marriage.
I'm amazed a kid like u could open ur Wife's leg and harvest 3 kids of 2,4 and 6 and still act like one of ur kids.
U r a shame and disgrace.
Continue living in ur fool's paradise.





Who believes this concocted bullshiiit? Nobody.
Just engage the fool in his folly

bros take am easy

This is serious oh

Dyt:
Humans

If morgan844 takes on the advices here
Then I am so sorry for him


Hypocrisy at its peak

Hope you can take all.the insults being hurled at your wife now


Smh

What is wrong if the wife is cheating,how do we know the man is not cheating aswell!

What made the man to believe his wife is cheating,those proves are just mere!

It doesn't justify or guarantee anything to me!

weyting u want tell us here say him neva nyasham ex lover is what we are talking here bro i can categorically tell u that they are nyashing themselfs period

Dump that witch before she kills you.

cutieme:
Adontcare ,can I chat u up?

ok

Adontcare