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Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Crixina(f): 6:59pm On Jan 03, 2018
I don't have a problem washing my own plates, after all in my own home I do that.
Least I could do is offer to wash the plates, if they decline the offer out of modesty, fine then.

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Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by PsalmieD(m): 7:00pm On Jan 03, 2018
OceanmorganTrix:



Watch what??
I ask you again, watch what!!!

F*ck, this shows you took your time to read through everything.....
My advise, Mr Perfect go get a life....it's necessary just for your career and family sake...#Winks #Enjoy
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Adelaide2: 7:00pm On Jan 03, 2018
cummando:
Dish washer

The plates still need to be loaded onto the machine and taken out when done. These can only be done by a human being grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Leonbonapart(m): 7:06pm On Jan 03, 2018
busterr:
the sister should be washing while the fiancee should be rinsing as they gossip together.



we're bothered about Fulani herdsmen and their godfather buhari you're here asking us who'll wash plate it's like your head is paining you op. sad sad
lol... Comment of the day

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Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by nuggarito: 7:06pm On Jan 03, 2018
If its a sister with common sense she would offer to wash those plates then would tag the fiancee along to come help her,from there know each other better. Its all about common sense.
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Jan 03, 2018
PsalmieD:


F*ck, this shows you took your time to read through everything.....
My advise, Mr Perfect go get a life....it's necessary just for your career and family sake...#Winks #Enjoy



Ehya, even in 2018 you still have not changed, just little correction and all this insult??
Please take corrections as a friendly gesture.
Peace
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Spiritualj: 7:11pm On Jan 03, 2018
The sister fiancees could assist her which way there can get more acquainted to each oda.
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by PsalmieD(m): 7:13pm On Jan 03, 2018
OceanmorganTrix:




Ehya, even in 2018 you still have not changed, just little correction and all this insult??
Please take corrections as a friendly gesture.
Peace

Oh! You're caught...
It was aimed a jibe at me not a correction..
I gat you...It all went wrong and know you're trying to be gentle....
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Sholatoru: 7:14pm On Jan 03, 2018
I think for a start the sister sud do the washing. cool
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 03, 2018
PsalmieD:


Oh! You're caught...
It was aimed a jibe at me not a correction..
I gat you...It all went wrong and know you're trying to be gentle....


Just take it as correction
Because it is
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Fitbillionairep: 7:18pm On Jan 03, 2018
Nothing wrong with the guy washing it
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by PsalmieD(m): 7:19pm On Jan 03, 2018
OceanmorganTrix:


Just take it as correction Because it is
Aiit. Thanks. No more quotes, Okay?
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Ardeyemite(m): 7:19pm On Jan 03, 2018
DeadRat:
Guy's Sister Of Cause... You Dont Expect My Babe to Come And Wash Plate When My Sister Is There



what if it's your older sister
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by biacan(f): 7:21pm On Jan 03, 2018
mamuzoOMAH:
that was how I invited my gf to my brothers wedding, and my aunt made her serve small chops to all the guest at the wedding. All in the name of knowing if she is a wife material.
Sir did she pass the test cheesy
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by labi1977(m): 7:26pm On Jan 03, 2018
kimbraa:
Your fiancée is a guest. Courtesy demands she isn't bothered so your sis should wash the dishes, but in a situation the lady is uncomfortable for not doing anything and she insist on washing, persist she doesn't.

Nonsense, unless she's lazy she Shud get up n help d sis.
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by yungbillionaire(m): 7:32pm On Jan 03, 2018
Enemyofpeace:
is she your house help?

I'll only answer this question with another, which is men who partake in doing house chores with their wives...does it make them any less of a man.....of course no....so how does helping some one out in the kitchen make her a house help?
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Mofpearl: 7:34pm On Jan 03, 2018
I think it depends. All I know is the mother shouldn't have to wash the dishes.

If I feel welcomed and accepted I might offer to help the sister. I mean if I am helping to take the plates to the kitchen then I might as well help wash it. However, I won't be initiating the move if no one wanted to wash it.
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by ochardbaby(m): 7:36pm On Jan 03, 2018
Sister starts the washing :
Yoruba -: Iya Oko mi efile,I would do the washing.
Yoruba street-: Ese gan iya oko,i wouldn't leave alone to do that!
Yoruba full street-: kilokami_Kill yourself sister Inlaw,but you must wash today own.

Jamaïcan-: watagwan Mama,aiya wana see Howe u wash those plates so i can learn from you,blessings Mama.

Addd urssmiley
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by ihatesycophant(m): 7:37pm On Jan 03, 2018
LesbianBoy:
So i saw this on Instagram and decided to share it here. Who is to wash the dishes in this scenario.

Please let's use the LIKE button to vote


Culture demands that your fiancee should make advance to wash but courtesy demands your sister not allow her to wash but love can makes mum say both should continue their gisting why mum secretly wash the dishes because mum knew his boy will still wash her fiancee dishes after gisting.
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Ifeanyi4491(m): 7:37pm On Jan 03, 2018
wahles:
2 should, den 3 would b like leme assist u
yup
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by ochardbaby(m): 7:39pm On Jan 03, 2018
ihatesycophant:
Culture demands that your fiancee should make advance to wash but courtesy demands your sister not allow her to wash but love can makes mum say both should continue their gisting why mum secretly wash the dishes.

My Dearest Mama wash gini?
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by drphantom: 7:39pm On Jan 03, 2018
busterr:
the sister should be washing while the fiancee should be rinsing as they gossip together.


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This is called wisdom
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Sterope(f): 7:49pm On Jan 03, 2018
They can't do that all the time smiley



RabbiDoracle:


This question should not come up if there is a dish washer jare!!!

All of them(man, fiancée, sister and mum) should put hands together, wash the plates and rinse the plates. They can even continue their talk while the washing is ongoing. Mama can be supplying them water while they wash to use and rinse.

This is my reason:

If sister washes alone, in her mind she will say the fiancée doesn't have respect.

If fiancée washes alone, she will ask in her mind if this is how they will use work and kill her.

If mama washes alone, she will say these kids don't have respect for allowing an elder to wash.

If the man washes alone, your guess is as good as mind.

But with the man using his head and telling his fiancee and sister to join him in washing and also engaging mama, there is division of labour, joy in washing plates and "Tori" can continue in the process.
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 03, 2018
how does this change the price of dollar
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by augustine: 8:25pm On Jan 03, 2018
LesbianBoy:
So i saw this on Instagram and decided to share it here. Who is to wash the dishes in this scenario.

Please let's use the LIKE button to vote


I have a different understanding of the scenario. Is the guy gay? cus fiancee is female, while fiance is male. I need clarification.
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by ashewoboy(m): 8:29pm On Jan 03, 2018
kimbraa:
Your fiancée is a guest. Courtesy demands she isn't bothered so your sis should wash the dishes, but in a situation the lady is uncomfortable for not doing anything and she insist on washing, persist she doesn't.





you are not a wife material. the sister should wash while the fiancee should rinse. them go dey gist ladies gist. you know ladies like gistingcheesy.
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jan 03, 2018
tosyne2much:
What about a scenario whereny you don't have a sister and your fiancee leaves the plates for you or your mother to wash?

Which kind fiancé be that one ? When I was young I complained but to be honest it’s a natural thing when your with family for me now no shame in doing it
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Daeylar(f): 8:41pm On Jan 03, 2018
What kind of nonsense question is this?

Misogynistic nairaland rises again,
The useless guy is not there in the options why?

Mtchewww

How dare you tell a guest to wash plates?
How dare you expect the mother to wash plates when she has 2 grown children there?

My answer,
They should dump the plates for the guy to wash.


Misogynists.
Guys don't wash plate abi? Nonsense.

The guy and his sister should wash the plates, if the fiance offers and they let her help she can but if they choose not to let her help, she can be gisting with them in the kitchen.

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Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by sirxbit(m): 8:42pm On Jan 03, 2018
busterr:
the sister should be washing while the fiancee should be rinsing as they gossip together.



we're bothered about Fulani herdsmen and their godfather buhari you're here asking us who'll wash plate it's like your head is paining you op. sad sad
After you don answer
Ur head nai pain u pass self
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Daeylar(f): 8:44pm On Jan 03, 2018
Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Daeylar(f): 8:53pm On Jan 03, 2018
Ligxy:
The guy no get grandmother? Let the grandmother wash the plates for them naw. Nansense!
This one weak me grin grin

Gosh grin LMAO grin grin

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Re: Who Is To Wash The Dishes In This Scenario? by Martin0(m): 8:54pm On Jan 03, 2018
Daeylar:
What kind of nonsense question is this?
Misogynistic nairaland rises again, The useless guy is not there in the options why?
Mtchewww
How dare you tell a guest to wash plates? My answer, They should dump the plates for the guy to wash.
Misogynists. Guys don't wash plate abi?

Chai! Sometimes if I jus see ur mouth like this eh,fear go jus catch me!
Ur mouth pass blade oogrin

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