cstr1001:
Why would you invest in a girl? Are you that Jobless?

You need to open related threads on nairaland to see how the guy in question end up being blamed by the ladies after his expectation from the girl he invested on was predictably cut-off.

That is when you will know the meaning of level don change.

Give to an orphanage, don't invest on a girl and expect anything significant.

chiefbidemi:
See the definition of invest
"put (money) into financial schemes, shares, property, or a commercial venture with the expectation of achieving a profit."

You can only spend on a lady. You cannot invest on any lady. At almost 70yrs, I definitely know what I'm saying

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
And the sauce?

ibietela2:


Can i get that your profile picture

raficki87:
If you understand the concept of hypergamy and briffaults law. This stupid idea of investing in a woman in hopes of marrying her will not be a topic for discussion

Espada10:
Yep ...I saw that post ... all the women were supporting the ungrateful girl and telling the man to grow up and shading him ..I pity the man sha...as for me, it is even dicey to invest in a wife talkless of a girlfriend..sometimes, I wonder are men still doing this kind stupid stuff in this era..

TwoBottles:
There are exceptional ladies who are worth everything good that a man can give them. I have one of such and I'm ready to go to any length to give her all she needs.

MrMcJay:
As a man, you should invest in YOURSELF FIRST. That woman you're helping today is still with you because you're in a position to help her. Once she leaves that position, she'll look for other men who can give her what you are unable to give her.

Men and women are wired differently. In matters of looks, money, age, education and class, men date downwards while women date upwards. Having a woman date downwards or sideways is abnormal.

Females only date those above them. They may manage to date those of the same level due to low demand for them but never date lower than them.

For the poor man struggling to take care of his woman so that she'll be well fed and won't look outside, it is the fresh skin of your well-fed woman that would attract the men who would take her away.

Hate me for saying the truth, it's simply evolution at play.

Divay22:

Yeah... Go ahead

Fragileheart:
When I look around all I see is selfishness

Fragileheart:
When I look around all I see is selfishness

beardlessdude:
who asked for your age?

Nigerians ehn

ibietela2:


I mean attach here please

bamisepeters:
The problem of most women when it comes to relationship and the only reason that brings fear to every man willing to liberate "his" lady is that most women are so flexible, as in, they can easily be twisted, not by anyone, but by what they want and this is the fear of many men when it comes to investing in the woman they claim to love especially when they want her to be a huge success for herself and their future family.

At times, some women makes it hard for some men to liberate them, it is after much investment have been made and it is time to rip the fruit of the labor story will start changing.

Here is the disturbing post…

“I’m a 26 year old woman and my parents died when I was 14 years old. I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees. I met a guy when I was 16 and he sent me back to school. He sold fruit on the street so that he could pay my school fees. He later got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university. I am now working as a lawyer. My problem is that I feel I cannot continue with this relationship because this guy is not the type of man I would like to marry one day. How best can I tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings? I want someone in my class not truck driver.”

At times some woman will see the show of love from that true man but will not feel reluctant to throw it at his face instead of embracing it so that someone else will not claim what they should have kept to themselves, and will start crying foul play when their new found lover is treating them like trash.

Now, look at this issue critically and tell me if the guy was at fault to have believed and invested in her all in the name of love?

Some women becomes all-knowing after they have been liberated. And to them it is liberation not knowing such liberation leads to nowhere than bondage. Some woman just get the opposite of your intention, this is what makes them what they are and even who they will later be.

I know some men are also like this but it is so disturbing after all your partner have done to make you happy to now make them look stupid instead.

The truth is that if she does not learn to love the man she will regret to have left him for someone she considers to be her type. This is because there is no amount she can return to the man that can replace the time, feelings and all that the man channeled towards her success.

I am not surprised to even see this as humans make series of mistakes, we will see wide road but will love to pass the bushy and narrow part looking for what is not lost.

Of course the man will get over it but he will surely laugh last as what she thinks is the best for her may be the road to complete destruction, and when the man will be laughing is when the reality of what she had done will become clearer to her which will definitely be too late to re-write her wrongs.

As human beings I think we need to start using our head and not allow this emotion to rule over our thinking faculty as what we want at times may not be destined for us and when we force it to come the result becomes disastrous; we should learn to manage what we have to get the best out of it rather than twisting what shouldn’t be twisted.

We need to be appreciative and also remember that giving money is not always the best way to show appreciation, other things are involved depending on the situation.


Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2018/01/a-must-know-single-reason-why-many-men.html

Ajoboss:
D last thing I would do in life na to invest money for woman head
I dey craze?

TwoBottles:
There are exceptional ladies who are worth everything good that a man can give them. I have one of such and I'm ready to go to any length to give her all she needs.

TwoBottles:
There are exceptional ladies who are worth everything good that a man can give them. I have one of such and I'm ready to go to any length to give her all she needs.

Divay22:

Our overgrown babies