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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by holluphemydavid(m): 4:11pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Sunymoore:Agreed with u 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by bamisepeters(m): 4:11pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
deebrownneymar:isn't that what many term education? And even apart from that it can be freedom from financial dependency as some men don't mind setting up a store for his woman and the likes. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by dayosweetness(m): 4:20pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Me i did not see the woman's fault o, we are humans so tastes change as we change in life, the man too should have invested in him self too, cos men too will do this same thing, they will look for a woman that is up to their status in situations like this 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by ReinaFarine: 4:21pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
For a man to pay my school fees, open a store for me and other because he wants to marry me is weird, at least to me. Except those payments are written in a contract as part dowry or something and I'm under obligation to marry him IF I can't pay it back at a specific time. As there are instances of girls jilting guys after he has spent millions on her from hawking or something, there are also instances where guys think of the woman as property because he paid her fees. He cheats and if you talk he'll say, 'shut up, didn't I pay your school fees?' He doesn't add a dime to house keeping Fe's even though he is already earning a substantial amount of money and any word from your mouth is replied with.. 'All your money is mine, after all I paid the fees' He abuses you both physically and psychologically because you are bought and paid for property. If a man starts exhibiting this character 3 weeks to the wedding, I'm out even if he has paid $5,000,000.00 from SS2 to my PHD. I'll pat him back every dine with interest if he wants but I won't marry out of gratitude or pity. I rather hawk pure water for my fees than become enslaved to a rich man looking for a property and not a partner. I'm actually against treating your man like your new 'Daddy' and keep insisting, I can't do this and that for him I'm not his 'mama'. Please (this goes for both male and female), if you want to sponsor, do it expecting nothing in return. It is not a loan. It is something you're doing out of 'love'. And if it is an investment (with you expecting something in return) write out an iron clad contract. It is just business after all. 3 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by pocohantas(f): 4:24pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Invest? Is he or she treasury bills? I don't invest in people, no one should invest in me. I only do things out of benevolence and you either fit into the class of people I do such for or nothing for you. Same way I don't receive if I sense it isn't out of altruism. I have stayed out of trouble this way. 2 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Abu4shizo: 4:24pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Ooooook. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Naruto87(m): 4:26pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
TwoBottles:remind to give u "two bottles " when she breaks ur heart. 2 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Follygunners: 4:29pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Divay22: Wow, you're sure NOT a 9ja chic, I swear. Keep it up, abeg! |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by daryoor(m): 4:29pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
deafeyez: i have never invested and will never but everybodys story is unique o my point is, what didnt work for your friend might work for you. perfect formular can give failed result mumu formular can give successful result. 3 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Anusiemgood(m): 4:29pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
To hell with the stupid woman or a girl that will believe or think that someone like me will even try to spend kobo...to talk of investing into a woman who is not my wife. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by tydi(m): 4:31pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
MrMcJay: for this comment am following u up bro. what's 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Chukazu: 4:31pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Divay22: What if "upgrading himself" means discontinuing rendering whatsoever support to the Lady? What stops the Lady from helping the man upgrade instead dumping him? |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by daryoor(m): 4:33pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
ladies if anybody want ti sponsor you. collect the money, collect the education. as far as theres no verbal agreement that u must setttle for him. dump him if you dont want him anymore. na one life u get. everybody is selfish, even the guy investing. its like feeding your chicken from june till december just so u can eat it. 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by dmg1: 4:35pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
any man that spent or invest his money on any girl/woman is rank with high level of moronic foolishness...spend ur money on bitches at ur own disasterous end. 3 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by deafeyez: 4:37pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
daryoor: Na true talk with your last sentence. Whenever I don fall from alignment with a girl, I dey know hence I know say anything I do from that time no dey get meaning. Although the girl loved me initially but things went south. There is only one power to win a woman, to remain mysterious to her. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Divay22(f): 4:39pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Follygunners:Lol It's not about where you're from, it's all about character and personality. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by adetes: 4:43pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Better |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by tiredoflife(m): 4:47pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Whatever money u put on a woman she believes she pays back with pussy...cooking If u like drop 1 billion when she wan leave she go ask u weda u no Bleep 4 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by jaxxy(m): 4:49pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Just like d fact u date sm1 doesn't mean u will certainly end up marrying them so it is when u invest in sm1. Its a sacrifice u hv agreed to bare and u shudnt hold dat prtson hostage or captive to ur love or proposal because of dat. If love isn't given freely then it is No More Love. So u still have to let the person decide and be free to choose. I can only advice know how u invest and invest in genuine or good people cos even if u dont end up 2geda u will hv less regret knowing u atleast helped change a good persons life. However this shudnt be at the expense of urs or ur family member cos charity begins at home. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by mablie(m): 4:53pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
sirxbit: 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by toyoC1(f): 4:56pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
make that investment today
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Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by iamrealdeji(m): 5:05pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Pataricatering:lmao,this is one funny comment. so,if women have no time for potential,what would they have time for? only 5% of men are rich and women are over 50% of our population,how can over 50% of women fit into marrying that 5% ready made? ha ha ha ha. they would turn polygamists abi? ha ha. 1 rich guy for 4 or more women. Nigerian women are indeed dumb with ape mentality. I doubt if they've ever compared this fact with the statistics on ground. if your pubic hair don dey turn grey,even the poorest men no go look your side and you go dey run go church 5 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by ifewise(m): 5:06pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Nice One Op. Something of such happened to me last week. I met a lady recently and I connected her to a Big Business man. After a while I spoke to the Man recently and I remembered I connected d girl to the Man. I asked the lady What up with the man I connected her with aspa the Connection any positive. She replied why you interested in our love life. Iol I cut her off immediately 1 Like |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
rozayx5: I actually noticed this too. 3 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Amadaz(m): 5:11pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Divay22:I love you for making an unbiased assertion regardless of the fact that you're a lady. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by iamrealdeji(m): 5:13pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Never try that with women,only a foolish woman would do that. never ever try it. women are supposed to help men,men must be superior. Try that at your own peril and you're gone. I've heard of such stories as well and i don't think any sensible guy does that anymore. if she wan go school,make she go work if she no get parents 2 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Amadaz(m): 5:14pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
TwoBottles:that was how 90% of men who where later jilted by their lover felt. Sentiments aside 2 Likes |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Divay22: Where you are from will definitely shape you 90% if not 100%. Marry an Black American lady & you'll know she's definitely different from our ladies here. Nobody will tell you. |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by iamrealdeji(m): 5:18pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
ifewise:na you Bleep up. didnt you know women before then? do everything for a woman and you're a loser. the more stingy you are with money and connection,the more they respect you but connect them,spoil them with money and she go dey fly looking down on you and one guy by the corner wey no do anything go dey Bleep am for corner and she go give am your money join 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by GabrielAganyi(m): 5:18pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
I wouldn't read the thread...... Is a no, no, no, no, no |
Re: Single Reason Why Many Men Are Afraid To Invest In A Lady by Amadaz(m): 5:19pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
thanta:nobody does anything without expecting something in return. That's natural. Even you 4 Likes |
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