justscorchone:
We've all been victims of this before,as a guy you MUST have spent at one point or the other.it hurts when they don't appreciate the gesture or see a future with you,but verily verily I say unto you "LIFE GOES ON" and when it does goes on and you don't spend for the next girl that is not yet your wife,you've been upgraded mentally to GOD MODE

i owe you a bottle of Harp for your wonderful comment

You can't say this for all women.....
Digg that!

Many think dividend is only sex

MrMcJay:
As a man, you should invest in YOURSELF FIRST. That woman you're helping today is still with you because you're in a position to help her. Once she leaves that position, she'll look for other men who can give her what you are unable to give her.

Men and women are wired differently. In matters of looks, money, age, education and class, men date downwards while women date upwards. Having a woman date downwards or sideways is abnormal.

Females only date those above them. They may manage to date those of the same level due to low demand for them but never date lower than them.

For the poor man struggling to take care of his woman so that she'll be well fed and won't look outside, it is the fresh skin of your well-fed woman that would attract the men who would take her away.

Hate me for saying the truth, it's simply evolution at play.

You are blessed with a thinking ability. Thank you.

cruchenutii:


Where you are from will definitely shape you 90% if not 100%. Marry an Black American lady & you'll know she's definitely different from our ladies here. Nobody will tell you.

Wouldn't want to generalise here but with the stories said here it shows that the men are the ones dat been discarded after " investing "

Waiting to hear stories of ladies doing the same

cstr1001:

After she has given birth to 1 or 2 children.

Atleast, your children will benefit from your investment even if you

this part make sense though

TwoBottles:
There are exceptional ladies who are worth everything good that a man can give them. I have one of such and I'm ready to go to any length to give her all she needs.

Kwatinue sir.
My dad has always warned me about that....He made the mistake during his time and so he wouldn't want me to repeat the same mistake. So dear be careful

MrMcJay:
As a man, you should invest in YOURSELF FIRST. That woman you're helping today is still with you because you're in a position to help her. Once she leaves that position, she'll look for other men who can give her what you are unable to give her.

Men and women are wired differently. In matters of looks, money, age, education and class, men date downwards while women date upwards. Having a woman date downwards or sideways is abnormal.

Females only date those above them. They may manage to date those of the same level due to low demand for them but never date lower than them.

For the poor man struggling to take care of his woman so that she'll be well fed and won't look outside, it is the fresh skin of your well-fed woman that would attract the men who would take her away.

Hate me for saying the truth, it's simply evolution at play.

You have spoken well

beardlessdude:
who asked for your age?

Nigerians ehn

I'm still a very young hustling guy. The fact that man you quoted stylishly mentioned his age range increased my trust in his post.

stop reasoning like a fool

Divay22:
Lol
I'm not against investing in a lady... But while doing that, try as much as possible to invest in yourself also...
While supporting her, pls support yourself.

Childish talk! Na so e easy to support both the woman and yourself at the same time?

If she is not your wife, don't invest in her.

Never invest in a woman who is not your wife. Especially Nigerian women. It is the Biggest mistake a man can make!

Maser:



Childish talk! Na so e easy to support both the woman and yourself at the same time?

Then I won't advice you to support her either.

Riosystem:


Lol, I just felt like helping her because her Job was at stake & She was very intelligent. Moreover I had plans to sponsor her Abroad this Year but i never told her.Thank God I was smartest she asked me for 1.5 m in December. I told her I was broke. I just love investing in grateful potentials and Talents.

bros,I think you presented yourself to her like you're rich and connected. don't try that with any woman again,no matter what people say. any woman that loves you for your money or influence doesn't love you. there are many better woman than her that would love you for whom you are rather than your money. and never invest in a smart woman like that except if she would use her smartness to boost your business or something. a smart woman could outshine you at anytime if you invest on her and if that happens,you're nothing to her again,she would be looking for those that are richer than you and herself. even married men don't try it. why is Femi Otedola's wife not a billionaire or richer than him now? she isn't even near. Jimoh Ibrahim used to open small shops for his wife and he knows what he's doing and he could have made her a billionaire. they all know what they're doing. watch Beyonce over take Jayz in terms of riches and the attitude go start. Jayz cheated on her now and she couldn't do anything,if she was richer,she would just dump his ass

Amadaz:
nobody does anything without expecting something in return. That's natural. Even you

Really?.. What are u expecting in return from this conversation.. If u give ur sister money what do u expect in return... Stop being hormonal and sentimental at the same time.
P.s- you are entitled to ur style of reasoning..dnt mention me again

Investing in a woman makes her hate you. You so poor esteem and insecure that you choose her over yourself to spend your money on. She will benefit from the investment and dump your ass. Do it at your own risk.

Ajoboss:
D last thing I would do in life na to invest money for woman head
I dey craze?

Yes

Givers never lack. Just be wise who you invest in. Even your own wife, sister, mother or female relative can disappoint you.

Look around you and tell me there is such a thing as a sure investment. Invest if you are convinced you will see returns - bleep, cash, good food, more bleep etc. Just take a leap of faith

Don't invest in any lady who's not yet your wife. You may be investing in someone else belonging. Instead of wasting the limited resources, invest it on your siblings, parents or your community.

So u want me to spend money that I can use to start a company on a girl only for her to later tell me babe let's break up..that shit ain't rite.

all I can say is don't put all your egg's in one basket..
and please you guy's should stop saying invest as if she is a business that your gonna make profit from..
help her from the goodness of your heart and not what your gonna get from her cause she might fvck you up later whether both of you are intimate or not...
@ the same time try to build yourself in every aspect of your life...
there are good chick's out there buh the one that their sense is in btw ice fish and fowl is much..
trust a chick @ your own peril

Sparkles003:

Yes

lol

StayUpdated:
I agree with you its all about natural instinct but you fall to understand that it also goes beyond that,

well dont keep us in suspense...

MrMcJay:
As a man, you should invest in YOURSELF FIRST. That woman you're helping today is still with you because you're in a position to help her. Once she leaves that position, she'll look for other men who can give her what you are unable to give her.

Men and women are wired differently. In matters of looks, money, age, education and class, men date downwards while women date upwards. Having a woman date downwards or sideways is abnormal.

Females only date those above them. They may manage to date those of the same level due to low demand for them but never date lower than them.

For the poor man struggling to take care of his woman so that she'll be well fed and won't look outside, it is the fresh skin of your well-fed woman that would attract the men who would take her away.

Hate me for saying the truth, it's simply evolution at play.

WORDS ON MARBLE

The main truth and of course the only truth is that it's vice versa. The same way a lady can turn unappreciative is the same way a man can. My opinion about this is simple! While investing on the love of your life, invest on yourself too to be loveable. Investment on oneself in this case might even connect one to other ladies or guys hence, expanding your choices of man or woman. OK bye.

It is foolishness to invest your money and time to train someone else when you have not trained yourself to be the best you need to be.

The way men and some boys conclude on matters concerning women, you will think they appeared from heaven. Don't you have mothers or sisters, are they all like those ladies mentioned. God help humans to stop generalization.

Instead of investing your money on a woman why not invest that money on yourself.dem dey forbid if you develop urself? If its money u saved for further studies abroad why not do it?..or if its money u are about to invest on ur business to expand it while not do such? Why carry all ur savings to fund a random girl through secondary school and the university cos of promises of marriage.Develop and upgrade yourself b4 thinking about developing others.