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I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Troubledmind: 10:38pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
Hi nairalanders, I'm pete(pseudonym), I'm 22, and a virgin, I come from an average family, I won't say I'm too handsome but I'm averagely good looking, they was a phase in my life where I was hyperactive and always drawn to the opposite sex that mere looking at a pic I get erection, this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money, I resort to porn but find it disgusting, I switched to masturbat,ion it didn't work infact nothing is enjoyable about it and sex workers are a no no for me, after trying desperately for years to get a real girlfriend for the first time in my life I gave up on searching, I kept loosing intrest in girls, now I never get sexually aroused anymore, even when I see naked women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing, the only erection I get now is the early morning erection, I'm not gay but I am really starting to get worried Lalasticlal.a please help a brother 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
Simple thing. Just stop work or school for 2 weeks, dont visit friends. Just remain indoor. When you dey idle with unoccupied mind, na that time you go know whether ur case need spiritual consultation or not. 75 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 10:44pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
U are very OK because u are still very young to be thinking about girls at this your age. Why not focus on your hustle and make money for yourself. Very soon, u will see girls craving for your attention. Just try it. 116 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by mhisbliss(f): 10:55pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
Daniel2289:there you go with the wrong stereotype again, (girls are drawn to money) you're right about focusing on his hustle but wrong about the money thing, any girl that is after your money is not different from a prostitue so don't generalize, his problem is not the fact that girls aint throwing themselves at him, his fear is the fact that he's loosing his sex drive, not getting attracted to girls is a big problem, he might be transcending into homosexuality, my advice to you is try to know why those girls rejected you, you can befriend them and get acquainted to the point that they're comfortable talking to you, they'll tell you one way or the other why they rejected your advances, if you're lucky, they'll have similar reasons, looks and money isn't all you need to woo a girl I feel it has something to do with your personality so work on yourself 193 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by doyinisaac(m): 10:57pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
Pele 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by pocohantas(f): 10:59pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
Daniel2289: You didn't see this? "this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money" Or you deliberately ignored it? 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by HOLYDICK(m): 11:00pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
R.i.P to dick op.. fare well 41 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 11:03pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
mhisbliss:U can only speak for yourself. There are girls that are drawn to money. Anyway u are right to some point. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 11:05pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
pocohantas:Hmmm!! I think I skipped this place. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by mhisbliss(f): 11:06pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
Daniel2289:I didn't deny it either, I'm only saying such girls aren't different from runs girls and prostitutes so don't generalize, and he even stated it clearly that he has tried enticing them with money, from his writeup its obvious money aint a problem 11 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by donstan18: 11:11pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
I have an advice, but it's a really bad and immoral idea that might help. I'm trying to help, don't get it wrong. Meet a prostitute, narrate this story to her and tell her to help. She can savage your situation. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 11:14pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
mhisbliss:Yeah. I think he really has a problem by saying this.. ( even when I see Unclad women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing). He needs to see a therapist. 2 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by mhisbliss(f): 11:18pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
Daniel2289:now you get what I'm saying 4 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Daniel2289(m): 11:31pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
mhisbliss:Yeah!. I really have to read his post again. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Xionez(m): 11:44pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
OP, you have nothing to worry about. At 22, its best to concentrate on your future. From what i read, i can interpret that you are actually frustrated at not being able to make sexual contact with a woman. The worry sets in because you feel that you should have made some since, I assume, your mates must be making such moves easily. Masturbating, watching porn and not feeling anything shows you really want the actually contact of a woman's skin. Also , not having an erection when you get locked up with a woman of if an unclad one walks by you only shows that they are not your specs. Trust me, its just a phase in your life that you seem to be passing. Where you should be worried is if you finally meet your specs, she makes sexual advances to you, goes down on you...and you don't feel a thing afterwards. At this point, its psychological. If you are desperate, then you need to see a therapist. While you are on that, try attending parties, weddings, festivals etc to increase your chances of meeting your second. Someone that will rekindle your arousal. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Maccarthy(m): 1:14am On Jan 21, 2018 |
mhisbliss:Exactly what i had in mind, he excluded his attitude which could be the major cause. 1 Like |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by tsamson(m): 7:46am On Jan 21, 2018 |
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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by habsydiamond(m): 8:09am On Jan 21, 2018 |
Nigeria change don dey affect u spiritually...Ur pastor need to flash anointing into Ur life fast fast b4 it's too late 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by afonja112: 8:14am On Jan 21, 2018 |
tsamson:sharrrap your dirty mouth There is nothing wrong with the OP. When you meet the right babe you will be fine, dont worry yourself unnecessarily. I was in your shoes a long time ago sha, I was at some point scared that maybe I was deviating, but no. 1 Like |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Veraatabeh(f): 8:15am On Jan 21, 2018 |
Troubledmind:yes u re okay 1 Like |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Espada10: 8:50am On Jan 21, 2018 |
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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by BruncleZuma: 4:06pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Your story no complete...you dey sexually attracted to males? |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by nairavsdollars(f): 4:06pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
try sexdolls 4 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
This is easy bro, have a lot of female friends, dont try to woo any of them, trust me one or two will be attracted to you before you know it, start from there 11 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by addikt(m): 4:07pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Have you checked if you have body odor? ....could be a big reason bro, might be a mouth odor as well, ODOR IS A BIG TURNOFF!!! ....as for your sex drive arousing in the morning, it means you're still a man , for you not to get aroused while with girls , you must have been suffering from low self esteem or maybe depression ....maybe I'm wrong though but it happens. 11 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by SalamRushdie: 4:08pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
mhisbliss: Exactly ..I have never dated a girl that followed mentor money . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by soberdrunk(m): 4:09pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Young man if truly you have "absolutely" no attraction to you men then you are suffering from "post rejection depression" with a little "financial depression", when money comes your full erection and sexual desires will come back...... 8 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by mestrophil(m): 4:09pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
You are ok..... Bro......nothing do you...nah mindset |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by tetralogyfallot(m): 4:10pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
The cause is low testosterone level otherwise called hypogonadism. 5 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by goingape: 4:10pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Troubledmind:you are very OK! Don't ever feel sexually attracted to those apes called naija women What you need now is to start looking for foreign girls. I myself naija women irritate me and I have never for once feel sexually attracted to those piece of shiit Try and date a wihite woman and you will know that you are very normal! 5 Likes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by pejuakinab: 4:10pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Gayism dey worry u |
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