OneCorner:
Today on Link Up With Dan, We have a lady that is a stateof confusion as she has this to share with us.
Dear Dan,
From ****, I'm writing this with so much anger right now. But first I want to share my little story. I have been dating this guy for quite some months now. He was the love of my life and my perfect twin when we first met. There was no place or event he wanted to attend that he wouldn’t go with me… Same with mine. We were inseparable. We were best friends and had so much love for each other. Just few weeks ago I traveled to see him since I haven’t been to his new place since his transfer at work. I had planned to have the best of a crazy weekend of fun, hot sex and more outings. I was prepared for the fun but never the fight. Our first fight ever began the next day after I arrived. I woke up, made breakfast while he was still asleep and then went to serve my baby in bed. Just after eating, he started picking out his dirty clothes out of the clean ones he had. Just while I turned on the TV to watch, my boyfriend dumped his heap of clothes on the chair and told me to go wash while he strolls out. And I turned and asked what that meant? Only for him to tell me, I’ve been having a great stay and it’s time to work and I bluntly told him No. I definitely wasn’t going to wash his clothes. We’re just dating, I am not his house help or wife. I told him and walked off to sleep.With anger he stormed out of the house, called me later that day to get out before he returns. Guys, what did I dowrong? am I supposed to wash his clothes when his hands are not broken? He wants to end the relationship but I love him badly.What do I do? Are girls supposed to do wifey duties for boyfriends?
Please help me, ‘cus I am really confused.

http://www..ng/others/please-help-boyfriend-wants-wash-clothes

I don't force my girl if she's willing to do then so be...boh I trust my girl she do help without being told...and if she doesn't show interest then I belief something is wrong somewhere...

Slaye:



Lol she just proved to us all with her comment that she is a vegetable up stairs, Imagine; a man is sheltering you, taking care of you financially and otherwise, if someone is trying to am you, you will scream at the top of your voice for your guy to come to your aid and you cannot wash his clothes?

And you didn't counter her maturely, you did it asif you'v been wanting to beef her, easy brO

Easy,

Slaye:

Misplaced priority, I am not saying guys should start forcing their gfs to wash their clothes but for Pete sake you as a girl that your boyfriend is ensuring 90% responsibly of your ass, all you have to offer is sex? Really? So you cannot use your mind to help him with the house chores, wash his clothes and cook for him while he goes out to earn a fortune for you both while you do little to nothing to help him make that fortune you are enjoying? Okay, what qualifies you as a girl to be entitled to his money if you don't want to help him with chores?

Permit me to ask, Gee

Who is a wife material to you?

Slaye:

Smh, makydebbie. Get sense, you are stil a very small girl. So I don't really blame you when you reach 25, you go begin to wise

Age doesn't matter, she's kinda smart, if she wasn't real to tell and reveal her real self, you wouldn't have been hitting at her age bracket or so don't give ladies the reason to fake themselves to men

Easy

OneCorner:
Today on Link Up With Dan, We have a lady that is a stateof confusion as she has this to share with us.
Dear Dan,
From ****, I'm writing this with so much anger right now. But first I want to share my little story. I have been dating this guy for quite some months now. He was the love of my life and my perfect twin when we first met. There was no place or event he wanted to attend that he wouldn’t go with me… Same with mine. We were inseparable. We were best friends and had so much love for each other. Just few weeks ago I traveled to see him since I haven’t been to his new place since his transfer at work. I had planned to have the best of a crazy weekend of fun, hot sex and more outings. I was prepared for the fun but never the fight. Our first fight ever began the next day after I arrived. I woke up, made breakfast while he was still asleep and then went to serve my baby in bed. Just after eating, he started picking out his dirty clothes out of the clean ones he had. Just while I turned on the TV to watch, my boyfriend dumped his heap of clothes on the chair and told me to go wash while he strolls out. And I turned and asked what that meant? Only for him to tell me, I’ve been having a great stay and it’s time to work and I bluntly told him No. I definitely wasn’t going to wash his clothes. We’re just dating, I am not his house help or wife. I told him and walked off to sleep.With anger he stormed out of the house, called me later that day to get out before he returns. Guys, what did I dowrong? am I supposed to wash his clothes when his hands are not broken? He wants to end the relationship but I love him badly.What do I do? Are girls supposed to do wifey duties for boyfriends?
Please help me, ‘cus I am really confused.

http://www..ng/others/please-help-boyfriend-wants-wash-clothes

Na wah oo i bet ur the type of girl who wouldn't date a guy that can't provide for u, now ur asking idiot questions... I do my laundry myself but when my gf does its a plus for her & if not big minus... Her journey to relegation just started... Same for all simple house hold chores. If u cant get used to doing them while we're dating don't fvcking get used to me being there for u.. Its that simple

donstan18:


Comment interpretation differs, the way you saw it might be different from mine I'm sure the only thing that got you upset there is "Na only to spread leg" not that I'm trying to justify him oo

But, keep your cools in deciphering comments

Lol, that one is a troll that goes around picking on my comments. If he quoted me using his brain, I would've replied him with respect.

But respect is earned baby.

If I said, "why not? I'll wash his boxers join because he's my boyfriend and I love him."
I would be the ideal wife material. But this is nairaland where you've to be a hypocrite to be loved.

Slaye:



Lol she just proved to us all with her comment that she is a vegetable up stairs, Imagine; a man is sheltering you, taking care of you financially and otherwise, if someone is trying to am you, you will scream at the top of your voice for your guy to come to your aid and you cannot wash his clothes? Misplaced priority, I am not saying guys should start forcing their gfs to wash their clothes but for Pete sake you as a girl that your boyfriend is ensuring 90% responsibly of your ass, all you have to offer is sex? Really? So you cannot use your mind to help him with the house chores, wash his clothes and cook for him while he goes out to earn a fortune for you both while you do little to nothing to help him make that fortune you are enjoying? Okay, what qualifies you as a girl to be entitled to his money if you don't want to help him with chores? Smh, makydebbie. Get sense, you are stil a very small girl. So I don't really blame you when you reach 25, you go begin to wise

It is a pity that dex doll is literally replacing larger percentage of our female folks in the department of their usefulness... They have inculcate selfish habits bad enough that their DNA is rewriting itself with sexcapades traits and nothing more... "U love him so much" please u don't just know what love is...

makydebbie:
This is how you know stupid people who don't read before jumping to quote you because they get orgasm from your replies.




Did you read where she said she was visiting for the first time since he got a new house? Is she living with him? Someone that came for a visit to know where her boyfriend stays. This mumu is mentioning when she's living with the guy. Comprehension was not embedded in your DNA.

Even if it's me in this context now, am I living with a man aka boyfriend?

The fact that the females in your family get 90% aid from their boyfriends doesn't apply to all females. Get that. I work for my own money can't be bothered about anybody.

What an idiot! Like I said, when you done reach 25 you "might" begin to have sense, I just pray you don't remain as foolish as you are right now when you get to age 40,it will be a shame to see you be a fool @40, I am done having this conversation with you mbeke girl.

It is a pity that dex doll is literally replacing larger percentage of our female folks in the department of their usefulness... They have inculcate selfish habits bad enough that their DNA is rewriting itself with sexcapades traits and nothing more... "U love him so much" please u don't just know what love is...

donstan18:


And you didn't counter her maturely, you did it asif you'v been wanting to beef her, easy brO

Easy,


Permit me to ask, Gee

Who is a wife material to you?



Age doesn't matter, she's kinda smart, if she wasn't real to tell and reveal her real self, you wouldn't have been hitting at her age bracket or so don't give ladies the reason to fake themselves to men

Easy

Your brain is filled with confusion, you don't know where you stand

Slaye:



What an idiot! Like I said, when you done reach 25 you "might" begin to have sense, I just pray you don't remain as foolish as you are right now when you get to age 40,it will be a shame to see you be a fool @40, I am done having this conversation with you mbeke girl.

Now that you've seen you're wrong to have quoted me before reading what the op had to write, this is your damage control.


Oya goan give your liability clothes to wash and stop disturbing me.

Your damage control is very sick, I'm glad you've now realized that I'm not like the females in your family who depend on a man. No hun, I use my sweat to work hard for my money and I spend it how I like, I owe no one anything even as simple as an explanation.

written007:



It is a pity that dex doll is literally replacing larger percentage of our female folks in the department of their usefulness... They have inculcate selfish habits bad enough that their DNA is rewriting itself with sexcapades traits and nothing more... "U love him so much" please u don't just know what love is...

I weep bro

Slaye:


Your brain is filled with confusion, you don't know where you stand

I know where to stand, but I don't wish to support trolls in this case I'll prefer healthy and civil points.

makydebbie:
Now that you've seen you're wrong to have quoted me before reading what the op had to write, this is your damage control.


Your damage control is very sick, I'm glad you've now realized that I'm not like the females in your family who depend on a man. No hun, I use my sweat to work hard for my money and I spend it how I like, I owe no one anything even as simple as an explanation.

My sisters would be ashamed to see me having a conversation with such human of no value and of very low class; probably from the slums, please do not quote me, I do not want to soil my reputation with dirt here by association with someone like you, you have been noticed. Now run along.

donstan18:


I know where to stand, but I don't wish to support trolls in this case I'll prefer healthy and civil points.

.. When someone counters them and prove them otherwise, they screen troll, lmao. Have you ever seen kimbraa screaming troll when she is countered? She defends herself! That's someone with brains, no this idiot mbeke okoko Ghana girl you are asslicking, believe me that's not her on her dp, she very ugly, sorry to burst your bubbles if that's your reason for asslicking.

First of all, it's not an everyday thing, Neither weekly except on visitation. This is just one of your simple ways to help him even though both of you have pride. U can't help with clothes because he used it, I doubt u would help with plates since he used it, but you're good at enjoying his money, u didn't even make mention of tidying the house up on waking and u think a sex doll isn't better than you...Most of these girls claiming no would even end up Washing their guy's mom clothes if they go on visitation while dating.

Slaye:


My sisters would be ashamed to see me having a conversation with such human of no value and of very low class; probably from the slums, please do not quote me, I do not want to soil my reputation with dirt here by association with someone like you, you have been noticed. Now run along.

Stop quoting me na.


Someone will start associating me with scammers.
It's actually funny how you're saying this. Are you not the one quoting me everywhere saying you want me to write for you as if you can pay what I charge for my works? Are you no the one who quoted me last time saying we should be friends? Now because I declined, this story don start. Pains of rejection, I even thought you'll be used to it by now even in reality.

Slaye:
.. When someone counters them and prove them otherwise, they screen troll, lmao. Have you ever seen kimbraa screaming troll when she is countered? She defends herself! That's someone with brains, no this idiot mbeke okoko Ghana girl you are asslicking, believe me that's not her on her dp, she very ugly, sorry to burst your bubbles if that's your reason for asslicking.

Asslick ke Can't stop laughing, Slaye u be fool I swear

Donstan18 Asslicking NL bae Waka I dn pass dt level nh abi u node see my comments

There are counters that shouldn't come aggressively, thou I do counter ladies with insult, that doesn't mean it's cool

But, Guy u too much oo. I asked you "Who is a wife material to you, you dodged it with style

makydebbie:
Lol, that one is a troll that goes around picking on my comments. If he quoted me using his brain, I would've replied him with respect.

But respect is earned baby.

If I said, "why not? I'll wash his boxers join because he's my boyfriend and I love him."
I would be the ideal wife material. But this is nairaland where you've to be a hypocrite to be loved.

Slaye na troublemaker like me

No mind am

donstan18:


Slaye na troublemaker like me

No mind am

He's just suffering his own rejection, he'll be fine.

Because I declined being his friend and I said I won't write for his blog. But I guess he'll be fine, no be today girls dey reject am, sekxy and ivvyy did.

makydebbie:
He's just suffering his own rejection, he'll be fine.

Because I declined being his friend and I said I won't write for his blog. But I guess he'll be fine, no be today girls dey reject am, sekxy and ivvyy did.

Sekxy? That Bush aba scammer, oh please spare me that crap, ivvyy, please come, have we had an encounter before? Abeg come answer if I have ever spoken to you.

Sekxy that was begging for money online when I sold my car and land, I nor gree give her cause I told her drop number let me verify if you are real or better still upload a picture of you holding your username, ni you say reject me? Abeg go read our chats, seems like you are one the scammers, oh well, run along for I have no money to give to you mbeke girl.

donstan18:


Asslick ke Can't stop laughing, Slaye u be fool I swear

Donstan18 Asslicking NL bae Waka I dn pass dt level nh abi u node see my comments

There are counters that shouldn't come aggressively, thou I do counter ladies with insult, that doesn't mean it's cool

But, Guy u too much oo. I asked you "Who is a wife material to you, you dodged it with style

My battery they low. When I enter car I go charge then reply you with my answer to your question, I they inside church like this for my sis baby dedication will be out in 25-30 mins.

Slaye:



Sekxy? That Bush aba scammer, oh please spare me that crap, ivvyy, please come, have we had an encounter before? Abeg come answer if I have ever spoken to you.

Sekxy that was begging for money online when I sold my car and land, I nor gree give her cause I told her drop number let me verify if you are real or better still upload a picture of you holding your username, ni you say reject me? Abeg go read our chats, seems like you are one the scammers, oh well, run along for I have no money to give to you mbeke girl.

This slaye too like trouble

You both should leave Sekxyqueen out of this
Mk she rest for una

Slaye:



Sekxy? That Bush aba scammer, oh please spare me that crap, ivvyy, please come, have we had an encounter before? Abeg come answer if I have ever spoken to you.

Sekxy that was begging for money online when I sold my car and land, I nor gree give her cause I told her drop number let me verify if you are real or better still upload a picture of you holding your username, ni you say reject me? Abeg go read our chats, seems like you are one the scammers, oh well, run along for I have no money to give to you mbeke girl.

You think your naira get value for here?
Bring your naira here and see if you'll survive here for three days. Mtcheew. Keep your money and give your sisters so they won't depend on men again.


If you don't have proof she was begging for money, then shut it.

makydebbie:
Sweetheart. Didn't hear from you again.

Sorry love, Saturday issues. I'll buzz you soon.

makydebbie:
He's just suffering his own rejection, he'll be fine.

Because I declined being his friend and I said I won't write for his blog. But I guess he'll be fine, no be today girls dey reject am, sekxy and ivvyy did.

Slaye na big man nh,
You, na big madam on your own
Me, kum be boy

Na me suppose suffer reject, no be una

Mk una chill abeg

Please don’t ever wash a boyfriend’s cloth. If he can’t afford a laundry man, he should get a washing machine. I have not seen the guy that would make me do something I don’t want to do.

Slaye:


My battery they low. When I enter car I go charge then reply you with my answer to your question, I they inside church like this for my sis baby dedication will be out in 25-30 mins.

Alright man, just chill

9jaBloke:


Sorry love, Saturday issues. I'll buzz you soon.

Okay dear, or should I send a message first?

Viicfuntop:
Please don’t ever wash a boyfriend’s cloth. If he can’t afford a laundry man, he should get a washing machine. I have not seen the guy they would make me do something I don’t want to do.

-But you can fůcking do the kinda "laundry" on my dp ey

FuckingSteel:

-Queen kim.braa , Fůcking say something

Sorry, I was preparing lunch and forgot I was on NL. I'm speechless.

kimbraa:
Sorry, I was preparing lunch and forgot I was on NL. I'm speechless.

-it's So Fůcking rare of you to be Fůcking speechless .C'Mon we waiting on your comment on this Fůcking thread

FuckingSteel:



-But you can fůcking do the kinda "laundry" on my dp ey

Whatever is on your profile, which I assume describes you, you can have any member of your family do it. They would be so glad to do it, after all, blood is thicker than water.

By the way, it is so easy to identify the ghetto boys with the way they use fuvvvvvvckinh. Please read books and add knowledge to the almost nothing you have.