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Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Viicfuntop(f): 3:32pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
FuckingSteel: |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by FuckingSteel: 3:51pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
Viicfuntop:Hi,How are you? |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by spencekat(m): 3:58pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
kallmemrB:LOL |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by deafeyez: 4:02pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
midolian: SOON DOLLS THAT CAN WASH WILL BE MADE AND WOMEN CAN GO ALL I CARE. IF SHE CANT WASH NOW, SHE CANT EITHER EVEN IF THEY MARRIED. EXCEPT THE GUY IS A BACKUP. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
The guy is immature. Apparently this is his first time of doing this, so obviously he was influenced. Either someone mocked him for not being a man (by not treating his girlfriend like a house girl) or the topic came up somewhere and he felt he wasn't being 'the man'. Either way he's immature, because somebody old enough to have a job should be confident enough in his masculinity to not be so easily influenced. Those of you Neanderthals saying she should've washed his clothes, are you suggesting boyfriends and girlfriends should practice/hold each other to their customary (traditional) roles? In the days of our forefathers, men provided money while girls took care of the house. By provide, I don't mean 20k, I mean enough money to take care of themselves, which is obviously why indiscriminate dating wasn't very popular back then, unless you were a chief or son of a chief. You can't just choose the side that favors you and condemn the other side, if girlfriends should perform their wifely duties, then boyfriends should perform their husbandly duties, and we all know that's all but impossible for the average Nigerian male youth. 3 Likes |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Tajbol4splend(m): 4:12pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
Iseoluwani: Try read and understand and skim the important points, the guy didn't do well |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by marvin904(m): 4:13pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
first of all there's nothing wrong with her washing her guys clothes.. secondly the biggest iss i have with this story is hes manner of approach which is really bad.. buh i still cant judge the guy since i haven't heard hes side.. F.Y.I guys don't force any chick to do chores for you.. if she doesn't want to do it fine if she does ok.. if she has a valid reason no prb buh is a useless one let her know you still have a choice in giving her money and it isn't by force.. give and recieve.. 1 Like |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Ickes: 4:44pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
makydebbie:And you expect that throughout the relationship, nobody does anything for each other?. She comes visiting, and no trans, no food etc? |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Ickes: 4:47pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
marvin904:But wait, there is no place it is written that one will be offsetting the bills. Neither of them. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Enufo: 5:16pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
My dear don't start what you cannot finish, a lady started that with my neighbour now they have two children, see the stress these children are giving her, she will go to work, as early as 4:30 or 5:00 am come back before bathing the kids for school and prepare their breakfast and lunch, he will heap his clothes for her to wash even his boxer he cant wash, even if she travel he will keep them until she returns before she will wash them on top of it again, mind u the contributions in the house is 50/50. who will allow his sister to pass through all these some of u men that are supporting her bf? |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 5:39pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
Ickes:They do but they're not obligated to. It's purely out of love. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
OneCorner: As a Man, I will take your side in this situation for one reason. I don't see anything wrong with washing your partner's clothes, however I detest the way this individual ordered his partner to wash his clothes as if she's a slave. I also support those calling for you to dump him, this is the type of guy that 'supports' his requests with hot slaps and kicks. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by orlayemmy15(m): 6:09pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
jdluv:like uve been dumping your ex... mumu |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by orlayemmy15(m): 6:17pm On Feb 05, 2018 |
OneCorner: well... im not here to judge, i just want to say that from the way uve narrated the relationship between you and him, i dont think washing his clothes is actually what caused the fight. because u ladies have a way of making people believe you're innocent whenever you had a quarrel with your bf or fiancee. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Viicfuntop(f): 11:48am On Feb 07, 2018 |
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Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
Lamzee:every1 with their own opinions and views, but 4 me o (even though u nor ask) I don't see what he will b reacting to. its not by force that she joins him. I met a guy, started a relationship not more than a week he asked me to come cook 4 him. would have gone but was really busy that weekend, next he called three days later 4 me to come wash him clothes. that was when i sat down to think, a relationship not up to 2weeks? I won't start what I can't finish, I just jejely called it quit |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
orlayemmy15:guy no need 4 insults na, she just aired her own view |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
Enufo:my neighbour travelled, husband left all d plates he used 4 d whole week until her arrival. u need to see quarrel |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by luchiiii(f): 1:01pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
jdluv:..... i completely agree wit u |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Neurotika: 1:04pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
Wrong approach from the guy. Dumping the cloth like that without pleading for help is lame. That said, I cannot date a girl that can't help out with my clothes (cos I'm freaking lazy with domestic chores). But no need acting bossy about it. Yea, if you like throw me the I'm not married to you card, truth is there's no assurance you will still do the chores when we married. Village girls still topping the charts of wife material for now. Marry a urban babe at your peril. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
Moses247:don't 4get d 'mother's' u were referring to were married. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
Moses247: Moses247:any money u Cant spend 4 ur gf, u can't spend on ur wife. it takes practice |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by orlayemmy15(m): 5:16am On Feb 20, 2018 |
gloria34: i did the something too |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by jacyhelen(f): 5:39am On Feb 20, 2018 |
Iseoluwani:..lmao |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 6:14am On Feb 20, 2018 |
makydebbie:thank you. I was just about to say that. Ask them for money, they’ll say I’m not your father. And I’m not talking about petty transport money, money thats more than enough. I’m not your house help so I cannot wash your clothes. Two can play that game. Life is a game itself. They want us to be like the older generation, not realising our fathers used to provide ALL the money, whilst our mothers used to take care of the house and children. But in this generation they want 50/50. Pick and choose when it’s beneficial to them. You pay half I pay half, and still do all the house chores and take care of the kids. They want mothers not wives. House helps not partners. It doesn’t work like that. Any complaints, you’re a goldigger and you’re lazy. Disgusting |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by makydebbie(f): 6:08pm On Feb 20, 2018 |
Safiaaa:Leave them, they want to eat their cakes and have it. Imagine the hypocrisy in this thread. I was just shaking my head. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by SATANIIST: 12:33am On Jun 11, 2020 |
kill yasef |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Liposure: 1:59pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Sacajawea, about that ilorin babe |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Tvibes001(m): 2:41pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
makydebbie:Lol. If person jam this one where she they wash the clothes with Christian music erhhh, I go think say na washing of clothes be her calling. |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
[b][/b] yeye girl just once you are shouting, besides you are the one that carry your leg to his house, do it and keep quite, wait for another day he will tell you to do it, that's when you can tell him you ain't his wife yet common |
Re: PLEASE HELP! My Boyfriend Wants Me To Wash His Clothes, What Should I Do? by LINTUNE(m): 6:07pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
makydebbie:jwhy not just answer his question..no be fight na ...u wake up in the morning, after eating breakfast( his own food) u just sit to watch tv, imagine such insolence.. |
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