Gerrard59:


Welcome to Nigeria social media space

franchasng:
lol, the poster is right to some extent. all men desire to date and marry successful ladies but the reality most times makes guys run away from successful ladies.

there are very good successful ladies, one of my friend is so lucky to date and marry one; she is successful, humble, cute and very amazing, even me admire her. and my friend used to be a bad guy, but this lady's good character made him decide to change for good plus pressure from us his friends. Who knows maybe why she remained good was because my friend is also successful,who knows


so there are very good successful single ladies above 30yrs but they are very few, the bad ones outnumber them.

now let me ask u, dont u see lots of successful men, rich guys, buoyant guys so in love and worshipping their broke girlfriends and wives, but we hardly see successful ladies that are in love and worshipping their broke boyfriends and husbands, its usually insult and drama from the successful lady to their broke or struggling man.

this is why men cry fowl. many rich and successful guys are out there loving broke ladies like mumu, even worshipping the broke ladies and showering them with love. gifts, cars, etc but u will never see successful ladies do same for a broke guy, instead successful ladies only respect men who are richer and more successful than them, that is the problem.

only very few ladies remain good and humble when they are successful, even to their family members, female friends and what have u, women know this truth

phineas:
and this is why the circle of poverty and abuse continue with Nigerian women

So plus strikes and all she finally graduates at 25years from NYSC ,a girl from a poverty striclen family

gets an entry level job at 27,and her priority is getting married and pooping babies....unserious fellows

with this thinking they will remain poor and abused with income level of lower economic status for life

serious women build a carrer to break their families and themselves from been destitute.Building a carrer takes time with no place for distraction.those women who sacrice to do so are rare

those are actually the real ones to be respected.

henryhemon:


Did you read anything about priorities here? Keyword they have toxic attitudes cuz most of them feel they have arrived.

olowobaba10:
IS THAT HOW YOUR DUMB PLASTIC AND WOODEN BRAIN WORKS ? MR GIGGOLO .

Jigba:
Only insecure men think like that. Just because a woman is successful and above 30 doesn't automatically mean her attitude is disastrous. I'm sure there are women below 30 who have nasty attitude.
It's simply because most men don't like when their women are more successful than them

XhosaNostra:


You must have a good one yourself 1st. No person is gonna give you attitude if you're a good boy.

habsydiamond:
it's true thou....but majority of women with good jobs, houses and exotic cars usually end up with gold diggers....simply because when good guys are toasting them when dem be 24+ dem dey do like ram wey dem wey dem won go take fight for stadium...

mexxmoney:
You can now see why don jazzy has not made up his mind to propose to Linda Ikeji

rawpadgin:
Its not even about the age. 95% of successful women are toxic, rude, unapproachable & feels that a man can't control them

chyy5:
[b]Useless Nigerians. God will p.unish all of u. [/b]This is how u go about defining marriage as if woman's life and destiny is tied in marriage. Instead of u all to mind your fvcking business and channel that strength in reviving ur dilapidated sh!thole country. Hopeless social media rats that sees women above 30 as if they have committed one abominable offence.
That was how you used your 10mb data, posting u.seless marriage above 30 this and that, cajoled my cousin, an independent lady and a breadwinner in her family to marry a monster.
Her offence is because she's 34, has a very good job and very wealthy.
Everyone on her Facebook will always ask, when are we having ur drink?
She got tired of such questions and have to settle for a sheep in wolf clothing simply because she just wanted to leave the house. Someone she just met.
The monster killed her barely a year into the marriage.
The same hopeless Nigerians went to her facebook wall to type pretentious messages claiming they are pained. Hypocrites!
Leave women alone. When they want to marry they will. Is it ur marriage? Does it concern u?
As for the ladies that will type same rubbish against their fellow ladies, I have nothing for u.
Just because you used pregnancy to trap a guy doesn't make u a wife. Most gals live with men claiming I am married. You are not married. Go home to your parents and stop forming married woman. I served in Akwaibom state, then I have d biggest mouka foam, rented selfcon, fridge was there, plasma, a.c and most Akwaibom and calabar gals I bleep then were doing everything to tie my destiny. In their mind they have seen a guy that's ready despite I'm receiving 19800. Some of them stylishly refused protection so as to get preg and that's how marriage will start.
No bride price, no introduction.
That's the same gals that will come online with their borrowed phone to talk ill of independent gals.
Igbo gals doesn't marry that way. They marry legally.
Society should stop talking trash concerning women and marriage.
As for the ladies above thirty, is not a crime. My sister works with KPMG, she's 34 now and very fine. Not that men aren't coming but you know what u want. Marriage is a lifetime stuff and not a vacation.
There are other successful ladies above thirty and they are doing great.
God will give u all the best husband.
Cheers!

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

habsydiamond:
Truth is bitter...if a girl does not have a guy at the age of 30 and she's ok in everything.... something is wrong somewhere...maybe her behaviour or spiritual things

XhosaNostra:


I don't need it spelled it out to me in ink to know that someone like that probably has her priorities straight. If the attitude is toxic, according to you, then you probably need to check yourself too. Gone are the days when women are expected to be subservient & respectful to someone who doesn't deserve an ounce of their respect.

Yes baby, we have arrived. Deal with it or go "date" a sex doll.

engrelvis:
there is a difference in getting yr priorities straight n being rude n shitty ,y some ladies becomes more humble n meek after attaining dat age of 30 , some become very mean out of frustration.if I may digress lesbianism is another major factor derailing our girls marriage dis time around.alot of girls n ladies r into lesbianism now.i know what am talking about!

Jigba:


Lol, yes I'm above 30 and successful

lexy2014:
maybe this dude had a bad experience or two with an over 30lady.unfortunately, d best he could do was 2 generalize. Now u have allowed urself 2b bitten by generalization bug

henryhemon:


Scoofs! Deal with what? Men had arrived yet they make no noise about it n are still respectful expect for a few. Arriving doesn't mean you should throw home training away,sit down and be humble. Women like alakija,Beyonce,mercy Johnson,Rihanna,temi otedola understand this.... for clarity purpose Its very good to have your shit together as a woman but while you re at it don't act like a pain in the arse.

XhosaNostra:


It's the same with men, when they're "made", they end up with golddiggers. No surprises there.

I reiterate, meeting someone in your 20s doesn't mean anything. In fact, IMO, people shouldn't marry until they're in at least their 50s or never! In your 20s you're still laying the foundation of life, unless ofcourse you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth. There should be no hurry to get married, since majority of them don't last anyway because people are rushing in, racing against the clock.

rawpadgin:
Its not even about the age. 95% of successful women are toxic, rude, unapproachable & feels that a man can't control them

XhosaNostra:


That's because men have been throwing their weight around for centuries. It must be tiring.
Women are new to this power thing, let us boss up in peace abeg

repogirl:
This woman should go and beg for some sense.

A successful guy at 30 who isn't married, cheats around and acts like a jerk is a boss

While A successful lady at 30 who isn't married and is managing her life well and not leeching on any man has a bad attitude.

Some people seriously need sense.

Smarty98:
Might be right anyways,let me goan book bet9ja,I might be lucky 2day abi wat do u think?