Gerrard59:



Women date/marry up (psychology and nature makes it so). I don't know why it's taking so long for NL males to understand this!

chyy5:
Useless Nigerians. God will p.unish all of u. This is how u go about defining marriage as if woman's life and destiny is tied in marriage. Instead of u all to mind your fvcking business and channel that strength in reviving ur dilapidated sh!thole country. Hopeless social media rats that sees women above 30 as if they have committed one abominable offence.
That was how you used your 10mb data, posting u.seless marriage above 30 this and that, cajoled my cousin, an independent lady and a breadwinner in her family to marry a monster.
Her offence is because she's 34, has a very good job and very wealthy.
Everyone on her Facebook will always ask, when are we having ur drink?
She got tired of such questions and have to settle for a sheep in wolf clothing simply because she just wanted to leave the house. Someone she just met.
The monster killed her barely a year into the marriage.
The same hopeless Nigerians went to her facebook wall to type pretentious messages claiming they are pained. Hypocrites!
Leave women alone. When they want to marry they will. Is it ur marriage? Does it concern u?
As for the ladies that will type same rubbish against their fellow ladies, I have nothing for u.
Just because you used pregnancy to trap a guy doesn't make u a wife. Most gals live with men claiming I am married. You are not married. Go home to your parents and stop forming married woman. I served in Akwaibom state, then I have d biggest mouka foam, rented selfcon, fridge was there, plasma, a.c and most Akwaibom and calabar gals I bleep then were doing everything to tie my destiny. In their mind they have seen a guy that's ready despite I'm receiving 19800. Some of them stylishly refused protection so as to get preg and that's how marriage will start.
No bride price, no introduction.
That's the same gals that will come online with their borrowed phone to talk ill of independent gals.
Igbo gals doesn't marry that way. They marry legally.
Society should stop talking trash concerning women and marriage.
As for the ladies above thirty, is not a crime. My sister works with KPMG, she's 34 now and very fine. Not that men aren't coming but you know what u want. Marriage is a lifetime stuff and not a vacation.
There are other successful ladies above thirty and they are doing great.
God will give u all the best husband.
Cheers!

kushme:


Spot on bro "hypergamy". One out of many reasons i don't take feminists ( angry females) serious. On this forum i told one feminist( the girl can insult anybody who's not buying her ideas) that men created civilization and gave women every good life they have today and society always do everything for women/girls. Gender equality is killing relationships between men and women.

men care about women like women care about children like children care about puppies..
Reverse the case and things won't go well...

Only ignorant or lying thirsty niggaz won't aspect that we live in a pussified society.

XhosaNostra:


In that case, then thank God some of us live in the 21 century. I fail to comprehend why anyone would be stressing about not being married, when married couples are either cheating on each other or on their way to the divorce court. IMO, life is less stressful when there's no paperwork involved.

elomez:
So in other words, women were not supposed to be successful in life but be in abject poverty, be failures and wait until a man comes in and marry them before they become relevant in life. I really fear for the thoughts in a black man's mind.

Gerrard59:


Good you agree to the hypergamy, some NL males don't understand or are yet to grasp it. As for modern/thirdwave feminism, they've lost it.

At your bolded:

chyy5:
Useless Nigerians. God will p.unish all of u. This is how u go about defining marriage as if woman's life and destiny is tied in marriage. Instead of u all to mind your fvcking business and channel that strength in reviving ur dilapidated sh!thole country. Hopeless social media rats that sees women above 30 as if they have committed one abominable offence.
That was how you used your 10mb data, posting u.seless marriage above 30 this andv that, cajoled my cousin, an independent lady and a breadwinner in her family to marry a monster.
Her offence is because she's 34, has a very good job and very wealthy.
Everyone on her Facebook will always ask, when are we having ur drink?
She got tired of such questions and have to settle for a sheep in wolf clothing simply because she just wanted to leave the house. Someone she just met.
The monster killed her barely a year into the marriage.
The same hopeless Nigerians went to her facebook wall to type pretentious messages claiming they are pained. Hypocrites!
Leave women alone. When they want to marry they will. Is it ur marriage? Does it concern u?
As for the ladies that will type same rubbish against their fellow ladies, I have nothing for u.
Just because you used pregnancy to trap a guy doesn't make u a wife. Most gals live with men claiming I am married. You are not married. Go home to your parents and stop forming married woman. I served in Akwaibom state, then I have d biggest mouka foam, rented selfcon, fridge was there, plasma, a.c and most Akwaibom and calabar gals I bleep then were doing everything to tie my destiny. In their mind they have seen a guy that's ready despite I'm receiving 19800. Some of them stylishly refused protection so as to get preg and that's how marriage will start.
No bride price, no introduction.
That's the same gals that will come online with their borrowed phone to talk ill of independent gals.
Igbo gals doesn't marry that way. They marry legally.
Society should stop talking trash concerning women and marriage.
As for the ladies above thirty, is not a crime. My sister works with KPMG, she's 34 now and very fine. Not that men aren't coming but you know what u want. Marriage is a lifetime stuff and not a vacation.
There are other successful ladies above thirty and they are doing great.
God will give u all the best husband.
Cheers!

XhosaNostra:


Wow. So she can't be focusing on her career, "working on herself" or waiting for the right one to cross her path? You all make it sound like women are spoiled for choice, when in fact, there're hardly any guys worth dating nowadays. Hence some women may choose to focus on themselves, rather than have a string of failed relationships. Before you point fingers, take in the entire picture into consideration. The pickings are slim out there.

AheadMarket:

Nne, na u de ur DP?

olaboy1:
You can see the few successful women have refused to marry or settle down, God knows why he put the worlds wealth in the hands of men.
No matter what feminism tries to achieve in terms of equal pay, men would always find another higher source of wealth creation, and they have once again done so by creating crypto currency trying to move away from fiat money.

Women are so full of pride, ego and very selfish. Very few would spend their money on boo, only to litter your chat with bae, boo and emoticons, abeg this 2018 if you can’t spend that money on boo hide your face.

wwwtortoise:


Can you expatiate the boldened.
You are beginning to sound silly

OILOFGLADNESS:
THIS IS PURE LIE
I AM A PROUD INDEPENDENT LADY
RESPONSIBLE FOR MY BROTHERS SCHOOL
SUPPORTING MY BROTHERS IN BIZ
SUPPORTING OTHER SIBLINGS , BOTH , COUSINS, UNCLES AND AUNTIE,
PROUD TO HAVE PAID SOMEONE HOSPITSL BILL
PROUD TO HAVE BAILED 2 FRIENDS FROM POLICE STATION
PROUD OF MANY THINGS,
PROUD TO STAND IN MIDST OF PROFESSIONAL COLLEAGUES AND SAY MY MIND
THAT DOESNT MEAN I HAVE LOST MY HOME VALUES, IT DOESNT ALSO MEAN I WILL KEEP CALM AT EVIL AND WRONG ACT JUST TO BE A LADY

MOST MEN ARE SIMPLY INTIMIDATED BY SUCCESSFUL SINGLE LADIES, THAT WHY IT FEEL AS IF THEY DONT GET MARRIED

BUT WHEN THE RIGHT MAN APPEARS, HE BRINGS OUT THE BABY IN THE LADY

WE SHOULDN'T GENERALIZE OUR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
STOP SPOILING OTHERS MIND

ANY UNSUCCESSFUL LADY AT 30 AND NOT MARRIED IS SIMPLE NOT HELPING HERSELF


MY BROTHERS HAS ADVISED ME AGAINST BUYING A CAR COS OF THIS SAME SHIT.

THIS YEAR I AM GONNA LUNCH MY 4MATIC. WRONG PERCEPTION AMD IMPRESSION IS A KILLER

WHAT A DEPENDENT LADY DO OR SAY IF A SUCCESSFUL LADY DO SAME OR SAY LESS, IT WILL BE MISUNDERSTOOD, WHY? COS OF WRONG IMPRESSION AND ORIENTATION


IF A MAN CAN BE BOLD TO TELL ME THAT I AM TOO INTELLIGENT FOR HIS LIKING AND THAT I USE MY INTELLIGENT AGAINST HIM, WHAT CAN I DO?

START BLAMING GOD WHY HE MADE ME THAT WAY

PEOPLE SHOULD WORK ON THEIR ORIENTATION SO AS TO LIVE A BETTER LIFE

rawpadgin:
Its not even about the age. 95% of successful women are toxic, rude, unapproachable & feels that a man can't control them

olaboy1:


I owe you no explanation fu$ktard

alexialin:












Eeyah, so sorry about your cousin who died marrying the wrong person. May her soul rest in peace.
Some women have died rushing into marriage, marrying the wrong men due to society pressure.

When I was single, any of my friends who ask such questions, when are we coming to eat rice? Thrice? Na block straight. I don't have time for rubbish.
People mocking ladies who are yet to marry? Their own they wait for dem in front. Them sef will have sleepless nights and frustration upon their own future and friends and strangers will also ask them same question.
That's karma and it exists.

Nigerians will never mind their business, pokenosing in other people's lovelife/ marriage instead of working on their own lives. It's not like they have a perfect life going for them.
Ladies in their 30s and above 30s yet to marry? Don't listen to anyone pressurizing you to. Your own marriage will come at the right time.
My own came at the right time but some people here could not take the reality. They went crazy with madness , cos I got married happily and quietly in my 30s. And am still in my 30s and in my husband's home.

They felt am lieing. How can she get married? It's impossible? As if I have one incurable disease or disfigured looks or maybe they are the ones who created me and my destiny.. Smhhh

And I wonder why should I lie, am married with a fine lil boy, who looks exactly like me and his dad. For what purpose will I lie? Some people are just sick upstairs, I swear.

My dear, some Nigerians are completely lost and deluded with their evil thoughts. Thats why the country is where it is today. Misplaced priorities everywhere. And I will always protect my family from evil prying eyes!

Ladies, just do your own thing and ignore pyschos who comes in sheep clothing to destroy. You are living comfortably , that's all that matters.
Peace.

Kooldon:
Thank God For The Info But Most Of Our Gold Digging Men Hoes 0Wont Listen

ogbanje1:



I like all you posted. Highly commendable.


But seriously Vicky, when did you get married and have a cute son for a handsome guy? You really needn't have to lie like this. It can't change the fact that you're still very much single. At least you were very much single the last I saw you a week ago, so how come you're already married with a son. When did you marry and carry the pregnancy? Nawa o.

It's good to be positive about your prospects for marriage, but lying blatantly about it is something I find really shocking.

wwwtortoise:


Lol
I know your type. You are a frustrated half-man who easily gets intimidated by successful independent ladies.

Well I will give a simple advice.... Change your orientation on this subject matter or go pick a spouse from your village.

Your life, your choice but never again should you make generalized assumption from your sh!tlife experiences.

And to even think you wanted to sound intelligent by adding biblical/religious reference only makes you dumb and silly.

D!ckhead

alexialin:














Na WA o


Seems your survelliance camera watching me 24/7 everyday of my recent years is faulty.

Check your camera, following me everywhere, maybe ur missed out on my precious moments.


I can see you are jobless. Smh

Or possibly you are pained am married and u can't simply wrap your head around it.

Anyways dear, it happens

Believe it or not? I don't care.
Am living my life, with my family, that's the most important to me at this moment.

Go figure

ogbanje1:


You mean your imaginary family?

For your information I live in your hood and know you very well, so no need to give me that attitude.

Well, it's your choice if you choose to continue to live in your fantasy world, but you and I know that you are so so single and you will still return home each day to an empty house.

And for your info, I'm not jobless, it's just that I detest lies. I chanced upon your post and I felt I had to call you out cos you and I know you have no man in your life.

alexialin:
Honestly am so happy.

I never knew alot of people were so interested in my private life
Wow!
Mehn Ogbanje or whatever u call yourself. How do married women look and how do single women? Well I thank God I still look single, which means am doing a great job looking hot and good. Yes!

You can blame me dear. It's in our genes

Am really famous! Everyone is interested in my great life. Wow!

Yeaaahhh!
This is wonderful, I swear.

Honestly don't worry everyone, I soon start signing autographs.

ogbanje1:


Err... sorry to burst your bubble, but you don't actually look single. You look like you're well into your forties, that's the plain truth. It's just that I know you very well, that's why I told you to stop lying.