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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Shukusheka(m): 2:58pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
you've got closet gay syndrome. smiley


Come out of your closet, dumdum.
Lol, I'd rather commit suicide than being gay. So all homophobes are gay to you? cheesy

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 2:58pm On Feb 17, 2018
If u are a "devoted christian" u can't be gay.
People applauding you that it is normal are nt helping matters. I know that "if the son set you free, you are free indeed" ur only option is to seek the son ur fastings may nt be enough, jst like d bible says "u shall find me when u shall seek 4 me with all ur heart" bringing such a sensitive issue online is nt ideal 4 u.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Rex123(m): 3:03pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
since we're asking dumb, redundant questions.


How tf is it even possible? To be feeling your opposite sex?


Stop being stupid! Most people feel it unnatural to have feelings for your gender. Cos we being liberal doesn't Mean many people still don't find this weird and abnormal.


Op do whatever makes you happy.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Rex123(m): 3:03pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
since we're asking dumb, redundant questions.


How tf is it even possible? To be feeling your opposite sex?


Stop being stupid! Most people feel it unnatural to have feelings for your gender. Cos we being liberal doesn't Mean many people still don't find this weird and abnormal.


Op do whatever makes you happy. You owe nobody your life but yourself

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by BaeMercy(f): 3:11pm On Feb 17, 2018
Have You Ever Seen Yourself Making Love In Your Dream With A Man?
Were You Molested By A Gay When You Were A Kid?
I Feel It's Demonic... It's Not Who You Are
Start Rejecting It With Prayers
Always Shout Let Me Go I Don't Belong To You
You Should Pray Against Every Spirit Of Lust Over Men, And Every Spiritual Gay Partner. Cheers!

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Annibel(f): 3:15pm On Feb 17, 2018
Just be friends with me.... everything will be ok. I'm serious though

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by NIGHTMAREOO7: 3:16pm On Feb 17, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I think you should embrace what you are.

i wana tongue u
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Martin0(m): 3:24pm On Feb 17, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Then get yourself a man.
madam i greet u oo

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by iRepNaija1: 3:25pm On Feb 17, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


People think I am partial because I love lesbians and detest gays.

Don't think I am judging you because I already did.
All homosexuals will go to hell but lesbians will not because they are naturally wired to be at least bisexual.

Sadly, you can't change who you are. It's ingrained in your chromosomes.
You were predestined to be amongst the condemned.

Just enjoy your life and embrace who you are while you await your judgement in the afterlife.

OP, please don't listen to this poster. They're spreading lies and misinformation.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by FluidQueen(f): 3:28pm On Feb 17, 2018
Shankieboy:
thank you, Queen. Already added you on Facebook.

I hope I come to terms with my Sexuality soon. Don't know if I ever would.
you're welcome. wink
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 3:31pm On Feb 17, 2018
Ekiseme:
just imagine, smh angry
Dont SMH pls. Give a sensible solution. Any sensible person knows the op's attraction to same gender is psychological. It's in his psych. Why don't u advice him on what so do as him done fast pray finish

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by obiZEAL(m): 3:31pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
Dude. Let me start by telling you, YOU ARE AMAZING!
You are what you are, A Gay, beautiful man.
No amount of prayers and anointing oils would change that, but it's okay. Your god obviously made you that way. In his words, he created man in his own image. You're his image, and your sexuality too.


Stop torturing yourself. Go find love and happiness. Embrace your sexuality. Find a dude. It is who you are. If you eventually meet him and he judges You, ask him why he didn't change you. His fault, not yours. smiley

PS- Send me a message. A DM. We need to talk. Suicide isn't the option. Life's too short to feel this way. Pursue those Orgasms, boy!


Best reply!

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by 1Sharon(f): 3:32pm On Feb 17, 2018
So you are dis gay ting
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Deicide: 3:32pm On Feb 17, 2018
Came to read ignorant comment grin

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 3:32pm On Feb 17, 2018
Come.to my church and come.speak to God one on one to hear the root of your matter...undecided
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 3:33pm On Feb 17, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:


i wana tongue u
I wanna see Messi... But here we are angry

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Proudlyngwa(m): 3:34pm On Feb 17, 2018
Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.
A lot of people are devoted Christians battling with a lot of things.
If you love Christ there is one key word

SACRIFICE

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Mandynews(f): 3:34pm On Feb 17, 2018
Do you still believe all these Nairalanders? attention seekersgrin I know

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by ibksiv(m): 3:34pm On Feb 17, 2018
And for your perverse mind him be homo abi?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I think you should embrace what you are.
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 3:35pm On Feb 17, 2018
Grayjoy:
If u are a "devoted christian" u can't be gay.
People applauding you that it is normal are nt helping matters. I know that "if the son set you free, you are free indeed" ur only option is to seek the son ur fastings may nt be enough, jst like d bible says "u shall find me when u shall seek 4 me with all ur heart" bringing such a sensitive issue online is nt ideal 4 u.
Those gay priests ain't devoted Christians ryt?

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by michoim(m): 3:36pm On Feb 17, 2018
First, you need to approach God with a clean heart. You said in the process you had severally girlfriends. You don't need any. Approach God with a right attitude just as you are...and you will find grace to live right...

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Daeylar(f): 3:36pm On Feb 17, 2018
Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.


Insults are welcomed.
Nobody should dare insult you.
If they do, they are mad.

You are OK. There is nothing wrong with you, it's just that you live in a society where people think homosexuality is wrong, but you need to know that there is nothing wrong with your sexuality.

As for the god you are praying to.
Don't mind that unserious God that says he doesn't like homosexuals but still created you as one. ( PS he doesn't exist wink )

Stop being so hard on yourself, don't allow yourself wallow in depression,
There is nothing wrong with you,

Wish you the best, and wish you happiness and peace, so you can get out of depression kiss

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 3:36pm On Feb 17, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I think you should embrace what you are.

Thanks for telling him that. God bless you, oh you can't imagine how happy I am seeing you write this. Acceptance means a lot to gay people. Thanks again...

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by LaPink: 3:36pm On Feb 17, 2018
Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.
Op, I will Advice You Never To Give Up. God is Ur Strength, One Day Ur Prayers will Surely be Answered. All have Sinned and Come Short of the Glory of God. God is Able to Deliver You. Stay Steadfast.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Apination(m): 3:36pm On Feb 17, 2018
How did it all start? In order to kill a tree, you must take out the root. For those ignoramus talking about a gay gene, it's non existent, attraction is psychological not genetic cos if that was the case we all would be patterned in a particular way but man is born "Tabular Rasa". Our survival as a specie is based on adaptation cos we all have a span and thus procreation is necessary.

There's no point in wanting to commit suicide, your time would come sooner or later. It's a matter of meeting a psycho therapist who understands how human sexuality works so that u would be pointed in the right direction. And most importantly, keep on praying.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 3:38pm On Feb 17, 2018
ibksiv:
And for your perverse mind him be homo abi?

Hes a closet homosexual. He tried his best to flow with the opposite sex. His type will get married due to social obligations and expectations but will still seek out male lovers. Only if he can rewire his psych perhaps he will overcome the desire.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 3:38pm On Feb 17, 2018
FluidQueen:
Dude. Let me start by telling you, YOU ARE AMAZING!
You are what you are, A Gay, Beautiful man.
No amount of prayers and anointing oils would change that, but it's okay. Your god obviously made you that way. In his words, he created man in his own image. You're his image, and your sexuality too.


Stop torturing yourself. Go find love and happiness. Embrace your sexuality. Find a dude. It is who you are. If you eventually meet God and he judges You, ask him why he didn't change you. His fault, not yours. smiley

PS- Send me a message. A DM. We need to talk. Suicide isn't the option. Life's too short to feel this way. Pursue those Orgasms, boy!

Nice advice. Gays deserve love and to be loved... isn't Love the most important of all in the Bible? Love answers all... How Girl!!!

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by castrol180(m): 3:38pm On Feb 17, 2018
but are you a Fulani? Because they are the only set of tribe that fùck cow and camel also man's anus

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Daeylar(f): 3:39pm On Feb 17, 2018
Deicide:
Came to read ignorant comment grin

I hope you're enjoying yourself? grin

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by JustCalMeDBoss(m): 3:39pm On Feb 17, 2018
@ op pls embrace ur situation. u see ur female chromosome are very high that's d issue. pls read about f science of homosexuality. ignorance is a big problem in this part of the world. though ppl like u are outcast u have to maneuver ur way. if u know u are truly homosexual, reach out
to kind. so u don't molest anyone.

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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 3:40pm On Feb 17, 2018
Arondizuogu:


Thanks for telling him that. God bless you, oh you can't imagine how happy I am seeing you write this. Acceptance means a lot to gay people. Thanks again...
Uw. But the society we live ain't tolerant towards such yet. Can't imagine what his family will put him through if they find out.

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