Shankieboy:
thank you, Queen. Already added you on Facebook.

I hope I come to terms with my Sexuality soon. Don't know if I ever would.

Don't be misled by that subtle accolade my friend, you can still work on yourself and be straight like every other young man,being a gay is devilish and absolutely insane

lefulefu:
u mean those ones dat violate alter boys? Biko those ones are endtime priests.

Lol.

fifty5:
the learned behaviour is not limited to your points i think unbalanced parental influence is a fundamental cause in this learned category the others are secondary.

..unbalanced?...How?

mvem:
...you don't get it...they don't choose to be what they are, they even hate themselves...how will someone just decide to have feelings for his gender, it is not so....u need to read more about homosexuality, I don't accept it but it is good to know more so u don't appear ignorant.... And what has porn has to do with making u gay...that's nonsense

so If I start dirty ungodly act tomorrow I will say I didn't plan for it, that God choose that path that will lead to astray for me , how can you say such a thing. everything you done in this world is decision, its either u pick the blue pill or the red pill, we are Africans , homosexuality is not part of us, the young man is going to damnation, watching porn and been ideal contributes 90% of indecency

spankyflex:
fool,u all run unclad n post rubbish wen it has to do with gays, not minding all the rubbish u do in your closet. fool God is love and hate shouldn't be part of any Christian. so next time u wanna spew your thrash outer ignorance remember u ain't better than the gay dude.

Epe lo nja Iran you
God loves the man not the twisted mind
Thunder fire your left ball if you don't stop this nonsense immediately eranko is better than you

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Its amazing how hypocrites like you throw civility out the window in mature discussions.

B####h pls

FluidQueen:
I already did. I talked to him just a couple of minutes ago.


He stays in my town. We'd be besties in no time!

That's very nice of you.

Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.

No matter what you do, do not engage in premarital sex... Whether gay or straight, fornication leads to hell.
If you're really a Christian, as you claim to be, then you should know that your sexual desires, be it male-intended or for the opposite sex, is something to be suppressed, till you're ready for marriage. Live a holy life, as Christ directed you, and you'll be free of all abnormality. Now, if you go on and heed to the urges you feel, it is a sin.
God help you as you help him to help you.

FluidQueen:
Dude. Let me start by telling you, YOU ARE AMAZING!
You are what you are, A Gay, Beautiful man.
No amount of prayers and anointing oils would change that, but it's okay. Your god obviously made you that way. In his words, he created man in his own image. You're his image, and your sexuality too.


Stop torturing yourself. Go find love and happiness. Embrace your sexuality. Find a dude. It is who you are. If you eventually meet God and he judges You, ask him why he didn't change you. His fault, not yours.

PS- Send me a message. A DM. We need to talk. Suicide isn't the option. Life's too short to feel this way. Pursue those Orgasms, boy!

See one of them ...

mvem:
...what I hate a times is many see it as what one guy decides to do...ignorant thinking...they should be more collaborative effort to help them than outrightly condemn them and see them as Satan himself

that is african mentality we have eschewed that spirit of brotherhood among us and we have become savage overnight.i commend this bro for being realistic with himself people like this will always get the solution he is almost there. Your testimony will uplift others that find themselves in this same quandary.

oloriooko:

Epe lo nja Iran you
God loves the man not the twisted mind
Thunder fire your left ball if you don't stop this nonsense immediately eranko is better than you

jerk,eranko is better than me n better than your whole family. stop hating. FOOL

VirginFinder:
Gays and lesbians are sinners and they will go to hell if they don't repent...

You again?


Leave us be!

chinnyonwu:

STFU b"tch. How does porn make someone gay? Are the vast majority of people who watch porn gay. Were you thinking through your ass when you typed that?
Can you put yourself into another person's shoes? Do you think he CHOSE to be gay especially in a country like Nigeria?

gerrout of here, homosexuality is personal decision , the young man is heading into damnation and astray instead of u guys to condemn it you choose to attribute it to God will... been ideal and watching porn contribute 90% of illicit act, when you are busy ur mindset won't be that sexually active, watching porn arose men... if you don't know what to say just sharrap before I shut it up for you

FluidQueen:
since we're asking dumb, redundant questions.


How tf is it even possible? To be feeling your opposite sex?

Water or fluid u call yourself someone thinking of how to get rid of something u looking for a way to get him more addicted

XhosaNostra:
Then get yourself a man.

is this how to solve a proble? and yet the foolish gays here gave you likes....


I have devoted my life to destroy the works of the devil

mvem:
..unbalanced?...How?

let's strike an anology of a boy being brought by a single parent(single mum)and his isolated from the environment he will start acting sissy as a result of his daily interaction with his mum cos that's his environment and thus internalizing those maladaptive behaviour and before you know it's ingrained in his biology. Kid needs equilibrium of both parental influence with their immediate environment.

Grayjoy:
The funny thing about our kind of atheists here is that they tend to be bitter fellows who can't actually defend their belief without abuses that are uncalled for.
Some atheist wannabe are just misled fellows going after shadows.
At the end of the day, OP will get more confused, end up with d wrong advice and people which will make his life more miserable.

couldn't agree more bro. Like my previous post was written,man has perfected the act of conjuring beliefs(illusions) to satiate their ignorance. Immediately they drop their phones,they face reality. Atheists are like dogs going after their own tails. The Lots advising him to be gay are feminists and atheists or some confused human who thinks he is liberal but if you check well you'll discover they had passed through similar episodes in their life but they found solace in their webs of confusion constantly re-webbed with daily acts of consolations that involves them telling themselves that they have found and are living the truth. Any convincing lie is the truth bro. The lies are reassurances that they have used in building a wall of consolation around themselves. Without that wall,they are nothing.

taurusdude0:

B####h pls

Lol. Totally mature.

spankyflex:
jerk,eranko is better than me n better than your whole family. stop hating. FOOL

Epe nja Iran yin you useless fagg
Show you face if thunder no go fire you
One condom would have prevented this misfit

Shankieboy:
I was never molested.
I was never initiated.
My orientation started since nursery school.
Gayism wasn't even a thing then.
It was never learned.
I never knew I wasn't alone till years ago.

You mean you were sexual attracted to males when you were in nursery school?

i like the OP for being real with him self and instead of u guys to come out with ways in which the problem can be resolved, u r reigning insults and mingling with words.

Do u know u that's is saying nonsense about gays could actually be close with one but not knowing? what if u find out, will u kill them for being gay and answering to their sexual calling? I think we should accept and love and pray for them becos they didn't pray and wish to b gay people just like the OP told us what he went through in killing the spirit. i don't know if gays are born that way but it always difficult for them to change their sexual orientation from whom they are to whom they are not.

Shankieboy:
I was never molested.
I was never initiated.
My orientation started since nursery school.
Gayism wasn't even a thing then.
It was never learned.
I never knew I wasn't alone till years ago.

First i must say you are brave to express your feelings here.
What you are experiencing is as a result of neuroanatomy & molecular genetics of sexual orientation influenced by heat change,vibration,shock,medication,weather & sexual accidental synchronization of energy during love making by your parents.
Most gay may housed certain gene that predisposed them to homosexuality eg chromosome 13 in the part of the brain called diencephalon the hypothalamus region,chromosome 14 in the thyroid gland,TSHR,SLTRK6 etc all found in gay people also gay individual are often slim in stature as result of Grave's disease more common in gay than straight men. so gayism is the combination of nature and nuture just like nymhpomania,satyriasis,kleptomania,ocd,bipolar.
solution
1- adopt mental placebo effect by thinking of female in erotic form as much as it depends on you.
By so doing you will train your neuroanatomy to adjust to the female erotic fantasy that dominate your thought the brain is placid it is elastic so it can be trained to adjust to normal fantasy before balance preference occur.
2. never accept your identity as a gay change your mental focus as straight that alone trigger your self-reconstruction the way you see yourself is the identity you will become.
3-act and behave as a straight fake it in multiple times be among female admire them focus more on female avoid admiring male whatsoever remember what we think often is what will become.
4-change your vocabulary related to homosexual our words is psychological and physiological connected so control what you express as regard to your condition change any speech patter related to it you will be better in no time there are more contact me i will help you.
welcome to us the normal sexual preferenace remain bless.

Fourwinds:
is this how to solve a proble? and yet the foolish gays here gave you likes....


I have devoted my life to destroy the works of the devil

YoungDaNaval:
Get yourself a make sex doll

You could have helped him with a better advice.

Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.

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FluidQueen:
Dude. Let me !

Madam u r gay, say d truth

mvem:
...oh!...whatever floats ur boat

Can someone be a murderer without killing somebody?

Can you be an adulterer without committing adultery?

Can you a masturbatorrr if you don't masturbatte?

Think!

A homosexual is someone who practices homosexuality and not someone who has the feelings.

The OP must battle his feelings to a standstill and or overcome them. That is his burden. Every body has his. Hence, he remains a normal straight human being until he gives in to his feelings.

For me, I suffer from lust. But I won't succumb by God's grace. I am not an adulterer/fornicator until I surrender to the lust.

Got it?

efesodje:


I used to think the same way too till I read this article:

https://www.newscientist.com/article/2155810-what-do-the-new-gay-genes-tell-us-about-sexual-orientation/

We learn new things everyday

I read through it and it seems nature permits lesbianism but homosexuality is a defect. In many African and world traditions it is believed that some people have female soul in male bodies. The OP bú mmúò nwanyi di n'arù nwoke.

Bullhari007:
so If I start dirty ungodly act tomorrow I will say I didn't plan for it, that God choose that path that will lead to astray for me , how can you say such a thing. everything you done in this world is decision, its either u pick the blue pill or the red pill, we are Africans , homosexuality is not part of us, the young man is going to damnation, watching porn and been ideal contributes 90% of indecency

...so u decided to be black, u decided to be a man, u decided to be short or tall...some are innate, dey were born with it...some are learned, thats through school or were abused at a very young age....understanding the cause is another way of addressing the solution....homosexuality is frowned in all societies in the world...do u know what Hitler did with the homosexuals or even in Europe where dey were burnt, exorcised(deliverance) brutally by flogging and fetish things....the west accepts it now because they hv exhausted many thought solutions and with the help of liberalism (free mind) and so called civilization have accept it, which me myself don't accept.... I do not accept it as I said but am urging others to understand it better than condemn them...you can't solve what u don't want to understand.... There must be solutions but we re meant to search for that....if God is too condemn him to hell then why make him like dat, this arguement can go for ages...be worried about urself making ur so called heaven because it might be u that might be damned....homosexuality has been there for ages and there was no porn that time and it has nothing to do with porn...this one just shows ur ignorance and superstitious nature...

Shankieboy:
I was never molested.
I was never initiated.
My orientation started since nursery school.
Gayism wasn't even a thing then.
It was never learned.
I never knew I wasn't alone till years ago.

Did u genuinely give ur life 2christ, bcoz d bible says whoever is in Christ is a new creature, old things av passed away &all tins av become new. If u become born again and u believe, its a small thing. Nothing is impossible with God. If God can change SS 2 AS, if he can raise up d dead den ur case is simple if u av faith. Thank you

calliope:

You again?


Leave us be!

I love you...

I don't want you to perish...

labake1:



Kini gan
Bcoz I am begging you
Bye bye �