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Move out and be your own boss.

You need to start shouldering your own financial responsibilities as soon as possible

Most ladies need to pray for God should bless young guys instead of praying to get married.

Safiaaa:
I know a guy who is 32still living with his parents, he’s real with himself. It’s better to understand your living standards than to try and prove to the world you’re something youre not. Save up till you can actually afford to live by yourself. Work hard and don’t be lazy and things will work out.

Hmm...Safiaaa baby oh. Your sense be doing me like sensei

Lol, moved out of the house by 19, to a one room apartment, and was still going to school, na there hustle start now I have 3 rooms and I only sleep in 1

Let not your heart be troubled...

Jesus is in His Father's house too, and He is thousands of years old

i dont see the big deal here. you can stay with your parents in my own opinion for as long as you are not the MUMMY THANK YOU type.if you make meaningful financial contributions to the house then stay as long as you want

dingbang:
Ur father's house ain't your house bro

Dis one go just enter thread dey write rubbish!. Stupid mumu. I tell u say na my house? Ode.

Safiaaa:
I know a guy who is 32still living with his parents, he’s real with himself. It’s better to understand your living standards than to try and prove to the world you’re something youre not. Save up till you can actually afford to live by yourself. Work hard and don’t be lazy and things will work out.

@ bolded

That is really bad ooo.

I mean I get it if a 20+ years man still lives with his parents because of the tough economic climate in Nigeria, but 30+ naa

westlius:
Most ladies need to pray for God should bless young guys instead of praying to get married.

ah may God bless you!

Kobicove:
Move out and be your own boss.

You need to start shouldering your own financial responsibilities as soon as possible

I know say u don reach 35 still dey ur fada house dey talk rubbish here

Asowari:
36 still living wit his parents I have die

which one be i have die?. There are cases where young men of marrigable age live with their parents and have wife and kids in their parents house. Are u saying u never see such b4?

staggerman:
Let not your heart be troubled...

Jesus is in His Father's house too, and He is thousands of years old

biko Jesus get im own miniflat in his FATHER's house.

Dont mind them, everyone is forming independent, if your folks have a comfortable place, in order to impress internet people, you should go and start incurring expenses on rent. I have a married friend that's over 35 with 2 kids and he still stays in their family house. I know uncountable number of young couples self that stay in their parents boys quarters.

lefulefu:
which
one be i have die?. There are cases where young men of marrigable age live with their parents and have wife and kids in their parents house. Are u saying u never see such b4?

DonPiiko:
Dont mind them, everyone is forming independent, if your folks have a comfortable place, in order to impress internet people, you should go and start incurring expenses on rent. I have a married friend that's over 35 with 2 kids and he still stays in their family house. I know uncountable number of young couples self that stay in their parents boys quarters.

In Auchi where i grew up its quite common among the Muslim community if the male children get married they remain with their wives and children in their parents house. They have their own section in the house. In other cases it might be that the guy might have financial issues hence he might stay with his parents for some time until he gets back to his feet. I was listening at one time on this video clip on this Greek singer Yanni. He was being interviewed and he made a remark that at one time in his career he was dead broke and he had no choice than to run home to mummy. Abeg when u are at ur lowest point there's nothing shameful looking up to ur parents for assistance. Na ur parents and no be anybody else parents. At least its even better staying with ur parents than squarting with a dude in an evil smelling room in a slum part of lagos just because u want to form Mr independent. After u don eat all d guy food and he chase u out frm im pad wat will u do?

DonPiiko:
Dont mind them, everyone is forming independent, if your folks have a comfortable place, in order to impress internet people, you should go and start incurring expenses on rent. I have a married friend that's over 35 with 2 kids and he still stays in their family house. I know uncountable number of young couples self that stay in their parents boys quarters.

most married couples in Nigeria started their married life in their parents boys quarters before they moved into a duplex or a flat. Na the fact of life be dat.

greiboy:
@ bolded

That is really bad ooo.

I mean I get it if a 20+ years man still lives with his parents because of the tough economic climate in Nigeria, but 30+ naa

yeah it’s not ideal, especially if you want to start a family. Sometimes life will throw challenges that you have to accept. Everybody’s journey in life is different, as long as you’re actively trying to live a better life and not moping around feeling sorry for yourself, I cannot look down on you.

When we were kids, we all said we will have many cars, a big fancy house and too much money, but the harsh reality is that life is very tasking, once you see people setting standards when there have nothing to offer, or bring to the table. I take them as unintelligent. Every hustler has a payday, if country was good you would raise issues but our economic climate is very disappointing, so I don't blame people that use the easy way out

lefulefu:
most married couples in Nigeria started their married life in their parents boys quarters before they moved into a duplex or a flat. Na the fact of life be dat.

Safiaaa:
yeah it’s not ideal, especially if you want to start a family. Sometimes life will throw challenges that you have to accept. Everybody’s journey in life is different, as long as you’re actively trying to live a better life and not moping around feeling sorry for yourself, I cannot look down on you.

Good points

It doesn't matter..This is you facing reality

DonPiiko:
When we were kids, we all said we will have many cars, a big fancy house and too much money, but the harsh reality is that life is very tasking, once you see people setting standards when there have nothing to offer, or bring to the table. I take them as unintelligent. Every hustler has a payday, if country was good you would raise issues but our economic climate is very disappointing, so I don't blame people that use the easy way out

GBAM!

tosyne2much:
OP, I will clock 40 next week and I'm still living with my parents

Don't quote me ooooo

Do you happen to come from offa in Ilorin, the home town of alhaji lai Mohammad

greiboy:
Do you happen to come from offa in Ilorin, the home town of alhaji lai Mohammad

Hahaha.. No oooo but I'm currently in Ilorin sha

tosyne2much:
Hahaha.. No oooo but I'm currently in Ilorin sha

I was wondering oo because of the momentous lie you told on this thread

greiboy:
I was wondering oo because of the momentous lie you told on this thread

You no want make I dey live with my pman at 40 years shey?

what are you complaining for?don't you know a failed Pearson don't have a say until you arrive...you should ignore n bear all their wahala like you said....hussle hard n be determined...your success should speak for you, then plan ahead according to your income and rent a room elsewhere, even if it is one room start from somewhere....that will earn you the much needed respect but be focus n work towards your income...go out and mixed up with friends who are focus and determine in life....cheers

Hunger neva wyre u Op....

By the time you start paying

*Rent

*Nepa bill

*Lawma bill

* Security bill

* Cleaner bill

Etc...Ur eye go clear

Take your time. You have to be financial ok before you move. Don't move out with fight. Seek for your parent blessing. Not only you am also in your shoe.

If you are 25+ move out of your parents house and hustle, I started paying my bills at 23.

#Teamindependent
#Teamnoexcuses.

OP na u sabi ooo.
I am 27 still staying with my parents (Although, i plan moving out by January nxt year). Times are hard Bro and except u have a white collar Job and are financially Stable, u can move out. I know the feeling of staying in your parent's house , trust me its d best thing todo when u've got nothing yet.

Mrbolt555:
Well............. i no go lie u i don tire for their wahala. I want to move out but im fvcking broke so im staying.

we even plenty?? ah ah ah ah, thank goodness, i dorn see mate oo

Raph01:
we even plenty?? ah ah ah ah, thank goodness, i dorn see mate oo

I nor dey wit u o.

lol. for u to create a thread on this, i see it's really givin u cause for worry, and that's a good thing. now u need to convert those worries, fears, sadness and shame to hardwork. work harder, set goals for urself. and gradually save up to get a place of ur own, even if it's a single room. if u are not able to do this, e no still mean say u go kill urslf, i have seen a man, over 40 yrs, married with kids, still living in his father's house. cheers