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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 4:01pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
IamProdigy:You know that it is a delicate and sensitive matter yet you still went on to have him know that his condition is warped and against nature? So is that supposed to make him feel better ? If you are asked to advise an albino or an anencephalic who's going through a hard time living with himself, I guess while advising him you'd remind him of how warped and unnatural his condition is (ie asumming they are truly warped condition), that way if he was contemplating suicide, such advise would make him want to continue living this world as someone with a warped condition smh |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by donblazer10(m): 4:12pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Oga better just accept am like that...you dn be gay for life..cursed to feel other men's ass...I wouldn't pray to be like you tho'...lol |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by thinkmoney(m): 4:16pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Iqguy:my dear, now you really have to research it. take your time really and browse this topic- is HIV more prevalent in gay community than in straight couples/ do gays have higher tendencies of contacting sexual diseases than heterosexuals. then I am expecting you come back here with an honest observation. second, are we certain of how this diseases came about in the first place. lastly, the fact God is still holding back now, doesn't mean he isn't angry. and his blessing is now not measured in how rich and prosperous a nation his. moreover, he won't judge us on a national basis, but he will judge every individuals for there actions. because seriously, this unfortunate practice is universal and transcend borders. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Annibel(f): 4:43pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
schumastic:Aiit dear |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by schumastic(m): 5:40pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
Annibel: i sent it there. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by spankyflex(m): 6:00pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
1Sharon:yea,with your boo |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by spankyflex(m): 6:02pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
oloriooko:mature mind my foot, I wrote waec when ur parent were still thinking about conceiving u,if u r mature as u claim,u wouldn't be hating people cause of their sexuality. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by oloriooko(m): 6:42pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
spankyflex:Confirmation you are a kid, so easy for you to bring your parents into this just imagining your tiny brain and shallow sight. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by CupOfT(m): 9:21pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
sparko1:I had a friend whose wife (before there relationship) was mor of a lesbian than she is straight, he led her outta tha dungeon. Been straight comes natural no need for me to learn it but same can't be said for other sexual orientations. Am a believer and know a couple of persons who have been saved from that path. I believe that anybody involved in such un-natural act can be saved. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 10:59pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
DJHANDSOME:Yeah, I guess. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 11:42pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
iRyan: Just shut up your trap if you have nothing better to do with your life. Useless homosexuals. Op for your sake don't listen to this people who are lost and hidden for life. You need to break yourself away from the bondage. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Doctormarrvin: 12:19am On Feb 20, 2018 |
boringnigerian:Yeah,i can't argue with what you've typed. People who volunteered themselves for treatment probably did because of whatever society made them pass through. I see your point now bro. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by sparko1(m): 7:05am On Feb 20, 2018 |
CupOfT: You see your comments, being straight comes naturally, but in your assertion being gay doesn't, and what theory is that based on, let me guess the Bible! This is like the the believe that all good things comes from God, but all bad things are otherwise, if that is true that means God gave the devil an opportunity to create human too! You can't be saved from what you were born with, is like you casting out the spirit of sex, I mean seriously, sex is ordained by God, it comes naturally, at puberty you discover the drive just appear! Those people you said are saved from lesbianism, what makes you think they don't have such urge? There is definitely no way of knowing if the urge has disappeared, they can tell you what you want to hear but at the end of the day, deep down they know nothing can change that. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by CupOfT(m): 7:23am On Feb 20, 2018 |
sparko1:see my friend, growing up if your parents had allow you explore all the urges and longings that you felt am sure you would have turned out less stellar than you are now. These is where the place of discipline comes in. Go check back on folks with this untamed urge there is always something uncut in there early days, the grace of God can restore back anyone who truly wants it. Btw, God is all knowing that means, He is aware of men's predicament. God has bless with the power of choice, how do we use this gift without those testing scenarios? |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by sparko1(m): 7:25am On Feb 20, 2018 |
thinkmoney: This your assertion is like saying, there are more corrupt black people, seriously! Going by your theory, HIV prevalence should be more in the developed country because of they legalized Gay marriage, but sadly it not, HIV prevalence in Nigeria alone is so high that without the help of those you castigate, 40% of the population will be living with HIV, read your statistics. Live and let's live! |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by sparko1(m): 7:37am On Feb 20, 2018 |
CupOfT: Two things wrong here, One, parenting has got nothing to do with this, if I might ask at what age were you taught sex education? 95%of Nigerian were never taught, you grow up, you discover your urges, you manage them, trust me, that point is invalid! Two, When you say choice, what is the first thing that comes to mind, let me paint a picture for you, there are different types of ladies, fat, chubby, slim, tall, short, dwarf!, I can decide to choose any of my choices, let say I like them chubby, then that is what I go for, now! Look at this scenario, if I am programmed to just like a slim lady, even if everyone says I shouldn't, I can't help it, now I don't have a choice, just because there are options doesn't mean you always have a choice. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by escodotman: 8:58am On Feb 20, 2018 |
Iqguy:I just don't know why some nonentities can't pass their message across without using their fungi-infested fingers to type abusive and/or insulting words! You are a shameless human being if you think you can bend other people's opinions to suit your own beliefs. Immediately I saw a word of insult in your write-up, I knew I should stop any further discussions with you. Next time, pass your opinion across, devoid of any insultive words whatsoever. Low lifes all over the social media. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 9:03am On Feb 20, 2018 |
escodotman: Just leave him alone he is Gay. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 9:03am On Feb 20, 2018 |
escodotman: Just leave him alone he is Gay 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by thinkmoney(m): 9:19am On Feb 20, 2018 |
sparko1:I have dropped a seed in you. you might not know it now. I have gotten to the point where I feel I have address this issue enough with u, at least for now. I know this because I have noticed you are dodging the points I am raising. there was three points there. you just glossed over one. you didn't even touch the one where I asked you, which people gay or straight are more susceptible to contacting HIV. bottom line, I love u regardless of who you are, though I haven't even met you. God enable me to do that why? because he is LOVE. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:42am On Feb 20, 2018 |
KingGBsky:if you read my post and couldn't make sense out of it, then I'd rather not reduce myself to be involved in a back and forth argument with you. love and light. Namaste 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 11:04am On Feb 20, 2018 |
iRyan: Gayy |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by CupOfT(m): 11:05am On Feb 20, 2018 |
sparko1:who programs? The existence of options validates the presence of choice. Daily I choose to be Happy so goes every person in the Nigeria context irrespective of what happens around us. You have one brother |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Oyindidi(f): 11:24am On Feb 20, 2018 |
Shankieboy:Don't embrace your sexuality dear. As a Christian, there's nothing God cannot do. I'll like to talk to you in private |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 2:19pm On Feb 20, 2018 |
KingGBsky:I find this funny because I am actually married with 2 lovelies + with another one on the way. Just so you know, not everyone who supports gay right is gay, some of us just happen to be enlightened with a broader perspective on life. We are very well read and open minded that we've created bigger crevices to allow a better peeking at the world we live in. But you on the other hand sound like a very pained person. The tone of your comments are harsh and depicts of someone who is pained and resenting...What are you pained about? His sexuality? Research has it that homophobes are usually closeted homosexuals pretending to be straight. Like I mean if you are very comfortable with your sexuality I don't know why someone else's sexuality should be making you this pained and perhaps also giving you sleepless nights. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by KingGBsky(m): 2:22pm On Feb 20, 2018 |
iRyan: Keep your lavish and evil mouth shut there. So you are married with kids and your hope for gays to have children are what? You see your life? |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by bikat: 11:10pm On Feb 20, 2018 |
FluidQueen: Baby @ ur name, fluidqueen, is it what I'm thinking? |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by FluidQueen(f): 11:23pm On Feb 20, 2018 |
bikat:Might be. If you're smart enough. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by bikat: 11:29pm On Feb 20, 2018 |
FluidQueen: hmm Salivating, baby try buzz me na |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by IamProdigy: 12:22pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
iRyan: I believe ure educated and can easily understand the intent of a writer while reading! firstly..warped means to be distorted or twisted, meaning not a norm...and figuratively could stand as "strange".. now I do like to ask you... Did the Writer not acknowledge whether by intent or inference, that his sexuality is not normal, and has been trying to change it? what does that imply, He knows there is a distortion somewhere whether spiritually or medically, we are yet to ascertain.. He posted here to seek for help/Advice.. All I did was take a " side in the two parts of his mind", which is that...Homosexuality is distorted... so what I have done wrong by advsing the Young man...and at the same time strengthening his belief that the orientation is wrong.... Kindly read this twice...just in case you still don't understand me on this one... |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Iqguy: 9:42pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
escodotman: Now you've called me a nonentity, you have said my fingers are fungi infested and that I'm a low life in addition to previously calling me foolish but it's all fine. I will still not reply your insults. However I hold that what I said about your opinion on "you chose to not be attracted to same sex no matter how fine they are" is A SILLY OPINION because gays do not become gays because they chose to be attracted to a same sex who is too fine for them to resist. I'm sure I've explained this before and you understand so I will not go over it again. Now you still for the third time did not answer my question. *When exactly did you chose to be heterosexual, when exactly, when was that CONSCIOUS EFFORT.* For all the people who say I'm gay as an insult. Well I don't know how that is an insult. I will graduate from me d school next year and I will join the pool of doctors who happen to be LGBT that are in your hospitals saving lives of homophobic people like yourselves buy it's fine, no grudge and no malice intended, it is our job and calling, I mean we all have a role to play on life. Whether I be Tim Cooks-Apple CEO, Sir Elton John, or Sir Ian McClellan of the X-men or multiple Grammy winning Sam Smith or Empire Executive Producer-award winning Lee Daniels, or whoever, I will be proud to be gay as long as my life is not endangered by INHUMAN persons who can take a life. And yes there will be the heterosexuals who support rights and health for all, like IRyan and Oprah winfery, then are usually better than the homophobic lot. 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by ashjay001(m): 10:56pm On Feb 22, 2018 |
Shankieboy: Una dey make pple like us, wey get male kids dey fear sef |
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