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Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by AlexCk: 9:06am On Feb 26, 2018
shinarlaura:



Exactly.


Life goes on tongue

Lol,

It certainly does. tongue tongue
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Daricon(m): 9:13am On Feb 26, 2018
PrimadonnaO:


If a guy breaks my heart once or twice, and indeed I've been heartbroken severely, the reflection in my relationship would be positive, as it actually is right now. I picked up the lessons and forged ahead pretty well. Nobody's suffering because I got heartbroken. I've been nearly raped once, yes. But it doesn't make me see guys as monsters. Infact, I've loved and trusted whole heartedly since after the incident. There are weak people...and there are
character-less people; I simply chose to be none of those...and to not associate with those people who I know for a fact are also in that category.

I won't say anything about your aunt. wink

Lemme just keep reading lies undecided lipsrsealed
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 9:21am On Feb 26, 2018
Some play for the fun of it. Getting away with such could b a high for some. But at the end of the day, that void still exists.

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Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by marvin906(m): 9:26am On Feb 26, 2018
have been in some pretty bad relationships one lied that she got raped not knowing she exchange her nunu for money and the the guy scammed her caught the other one in bed with another dude and on and on buh i wont say it made me a player buh i wont still lie it destroyed me to the point that my heart turned to titanium and i don't double date buh i don't still love and it made me hurt someone who worshiped my feet didnt cheat on her or neglect her in anyway just hate when someone is giving me their 150% and i can give them 2%
my conscience became my poison that period so i had to let her go it hurt her buh it was for the best undecided ..

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Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 9:39am On Feb 26, 2018
PrimadonnaO:


If a guy breaks my heart once or twice, and indeed I've been heartbroken severely, the reflection in my relationship would be positive, as it actually is right now. I picked up the lessons and forged ahead pretty well. Nobody's suffering because I got heartbroken. I've been nearly raped once, yes. But it doesn't make me see guys as monsters. Infact, I've loved and trusted whole heartedly since after the incident. There are weak people...and there are character-less people; I simply chose to be none of those...and to not associate with those people who I know for a fact are also in that category.

I won't say anything about your aunt. wink
PrimadonnaO:


Yes. Just because they are scared. They don't want to get into the relationship with garbage from the past. That's a lot better than walking into a relationship mindlessly and making the new person pay for the previous person's mistakes.
See ur reply here
shinarlaura:


You know people are different. I will use myself as an example. I ve been heartbroken a number of times but I can't let that affect who I am. I am currently in a relationship but I can't let what happened to me in the past affect my present status.

In essence, I can't change from who I am cuz of what happened to me in the past. I can't let another person pays for aother person's deeds. smiley life goes on
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by shinarlaura(f): 9:42am On Feb 26, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

See ur reply here


That's just it.


How re u doing? It's been a while. Goodmorning wink
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 9:43am On Feb 26, 2018
PrimadonnaO:


Yes. When a male decides to become a player because he got heartbroken, he is weak. For the girl who refrains from getting into a relationship all too soon after a bad one, she's strong. There's strength in acknowledging that there are certain things you just can't deal yet...and integrity in not allowing the next person suffer for her temporary emotional frailty, as the case may be.
Lol. You're just a confused heartbroken antagonist and it reflects in your response

Oya talk another shiit
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 9:45am On Feb 26, 2018
shinarlaura:



That's just it.


How re u doing? It's been a while. Goodmorning wink
Yes dear good morning. I've been fine.

Its rainy here. Xup?
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 9:45am On Feb 26, 2018
shinarlaura:


You know people are different. I will use myself as an example. I ve been heartbroken a number of times but I can't let that affect who I am. I am currently in a relationship but I can't let what happened to me in the past affect my present status.

In essence, I can't change from who I am cuz of what happened to me in the past. I can't let another person pays for aother person's deeds. smiley life goes on

Matured Thinking wink

Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by shinarlaura(f): 9:50am On Feb 26, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Yes dear good morning. I've been fine.

Its rainy here. Xup?

Happy to hear that. tongue
I'm cool. We had a heavy rainfall early this morning. Right now places are so cold. Where in Naija are u?
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by shinarlaura(f): 9:50am On Feb 26, 2018
efesodje:


Matured Thinking wink

Thank you. kiss
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 26, 2018
No one was born a player.
Bitter experiences made us one.
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 10:18am On Feb 26, 2018
shinarlaura:


Happy to hear that. tongue
I'm cool. We had a heavy rainfall early this morning. Right now places are so cold. Where in Naija are u?
Ok can I come warm u up? tongue

Im in Lagos. Are u in Lagos too?
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 10:29am On Feb 26, 2018
shinarlaura:


Happy to hear that. tongue
I'm cool. We had a heavy rainfall early this morning. Right now places are so cold. Where in Naija are u?
Hello laura Are you there?
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Stevengerd(m): 10:30am On Feb 26, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Ok can I come warm u up? tongue

Im in Lagos. Are u in Lagos too?
Mehn the rain no too heavy for my syd @Ajah... dis morning
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by shinarlaura(f): 10:30am On Feb 26, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Ok can I come warm u up? tongue

Im in Lagos. Are u in Lagos too?

Oh Lagos. One hell of a crazy place grin. No. I am not in Lagos.

Naughty boy tongue
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by shinarlaura(f): 10:31am On Feb 26, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Hello laura Are you there?

Right behind you tongue tongue
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 10:32am On Feb 26, 2018
shinarlaura:


Oh Lagos. One hell of a crazy place grin. No. I am not in Lagos.

Naughty boy tongue
wink Wished you were. Are you in Nigeria at d moment?
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by shinarlaura(f): 10:37am On Feb 26, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

wink Wished you were. Are you in Nigeria at d moment?

No. But planning to visit very soon.

You want to give me belle under this cold weather wink
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by Nobody: 11:03am On Feb 26, 2018
shinarlaura:


No. But planning to visit very soon.

You want to give me belle under this cold weather wink
Yes o. How did you know? wink

Hope its lag you're coming to.

When ure coming hala me.

Wait you're on whatsapp right?
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by lilmax(m): 11:08am On Feb 26, 2018
nothing justifies bad behavior, there's nothing like being a player because someone did something bad to you.....

like someone said, you are indisciplined and you lack self control

shikena....everything in life is a choice, take responsibility of your actions
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by ashjay001(m): 11:10am On Feb 26, 2018
Born a Playa, out of sight, is out of mind. Got married, thinking to put a stop to all d playing. Too much drama, getting out n continuing my playing. grin
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by blessedez(m): 11:42am On Feb 26, 2018
AlexCk:
Not had the opportunity to be a player though, just feel its crappy to be one, even with so much disappointments from the opposite sex, na to move on jare. Life's more than that.
I really think you need to try it and see how it works especially playing two friends.
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by blessedez(m): 11:44am On Feb 26, 2018
shinarlaura:


You know people are different. I will use myself as an example. I ve been heartbroken a number of times but I can't let that affect who I am. I am currently in a relationship but I can't let what happened to me in the past affect my present status.

In essence, I can't change from who I am cuz of what happened to me in the past. I can't let another person pays for aother person's deeds. smiley life goes on
kudos and may your current relationship produce something good.

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Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by blessedez(m): 11:56am On Feb 26, 2018
PrimadonnaO:


Yes. When a male decides to become a player because he got heartbroken, he is weak. For the girl who refrains from getting into a relationship all too soon after a bad one, she's strong. There's strength in acknowledging that there are certain things you just can't deal yet...and integrity in not allowing the next person suffer for her temporary emotional frailty, as the case may be.
one thing about guys is that God made them to feel less amount of love ( having less amount of true love towards their opposite sex) so when the love they have for someone gets tampered with, its hard for them to grow another love towards the next girl that comes in into their life next and eventually if they start lusting after a girl and they ask a girl for a relationship and she, and if in the relationship the girl starts giving him sex, that's when the guy starts becoming a player because he will start wanting to Bleep another girl because the girl he is in a relationship with, he only lust after her and for guys before you get his commitment to you only, he must love you so dearly with everything he has. Sorry for the long story, mistakes, and for the too many 'ands'.
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by blessedez(m): 12:00pm On Feb 26, 2018
marvin906:
have been in some pretty bad relationships one lied that she got raped not knowing she exchange her nunu for money and the the guy scammed her caught the other one in bed with another dude and on and on buh i wont say it made me a player buh i wont still lie it destroyed me to the point that my heart turned to titanium and i don't double date buh i don't still love and it made me hurt someone who worshiped my feet didnt cheat on her or neglect her in anyway just hate when someone is giving me their 150% and i can give them 2%
my conscience became my poison that period so i had to let her go it hurt her buh it was for the best undecided ..
we are on the same ride
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by blessedez(m): 12:04pm On Feb 26, 2018
IamZod:
No one was born a player. Bitter experiences made us one.
That's true .
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by AlexCk: 12:21pm On Feb 26, 2018
blessedez:

I really think you need to try it and see how it works especially playing two friends.

Haba, lol.

I hate complications jare,
Simplicity is bae biko
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by marvin906(m): 1:17pm On Feb 26, 2018
blessedez:

we are on the same ride


hows the journey going.. undecided undecided
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:03pm On Feb 26, 2018
blessedez:

one thing about guys is that God made them to feel less amount of love ( having less amount of true love towards their opposite sex) so when the love they have for someone gets tampered with, its hard for them to grow another love towards the next girl that comes in into their life next and eventually if they start lusting after a girl and they ask a girl for a relationship and she, and if in the relationship the girl starts giving him sex, that's when the guy starts becoming a player because he will start wanting to Bleep another girl because the girl he is in a relationship with, he only lust after her and for guys before you get his commitment to you only, he must love you so dearly with everything he has. Sorry for the long story, mistakes, and for the too many 'ands'.

Lol. Those are just excuses.

The long story isn't long. wink
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:05pm On Feb 26, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:

Lol. You're just a confused heartbroken antagonist and it reflects in your response

Oya talk another shiit

Whatever rocks your boat... smiley
Re: What Made You To Be A Player? by lycannightwolf: 2:10pm On Feb 26, 2018
too much heart break..... got tired of everything so i cut off my heart.....

i Bleep and move on....

I WILL NEVER TELL ANY GIRL I LOVE YOU..EVER!

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