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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Nobody: 9:44pm On Feb 26, 2018
IForgotMyLoginD:
Lol. But calling her the B Word was totally unnecessary tho. grin

But I still found this response hilarious!
grin grin grin
That's me being polite to the Islamic doctor.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Nobody: 9:44pm On Feb 26, 2018
donstan18:


Do not generalize ma'am.

Men cheat with different reasons, some cheats not because it's part of them, but because of one problem or the other from the wife.

Do well to realize that I didn't generalize that multiple wives can stop a man from cheating.
Multiple wives will not not even stop some Alhajis from trying it out with young boys...
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Nobody: 9:45pm On Feb 26, 2018
desreek9:
Before a man will marry the second wife, he must have asked her out, dated and maybe have sex with her to taste what he's about to put in the house, so what do we call that if not cheating.

Most men that do this are just lustful and can never be satisfied.
If its legal it's not cheating...besides you can just ask her straight.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Empressabbie(f): 9:46pm On Feb 26, 2018
donstan18:


It's not about responsible or irresponsible, those men that married one wife and still cheat on them, are they responsible? , it's better to legalize something than to cheat on your wife.


Forget about religion, we all know she made a very good point, let's be truthful and sincere.

But, the problem about the idea lies on women.

Most women will prefer their husband to cheat, than to share the same house with another wife, they don't like sharing pot of soup
Can you share the same house and your wife with some other man? Marriage is for two people
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by IamHeWrites: 9:46pm On Feb 26, 2018
shallysgirl:
You don't have to be rude.
I'm not rude o
They way, she comment is the way I replied her

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by jozee8: 9:47pm On Feb 26, 2018
JasonScolari:
When you combine your religious belief with your profession...




To all the responsible men reading this, Please, kindly ignore the head slamming fat biitch... Thanks.
Technical knockout _TKO

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by ballerin(m): 9:48pm On Feb 26, 2018
KingSango:


Women are the authors of polygamy. No lioness wants a weak lion so lionesses always share on lion. Like the lady said, men who have the resources. A man goes off of looks but women go for strength. This is how come women go after married men quite often because the man has demonstrated he can take care of a woman. If a man can't take care of a woman nearly all women will leave him. Women want to bear children, it's their main desire to bring life into the world and nurture it. And a woman seeks always men who can provide a safe and secure environment for children just like the lioness. This is how come lion is the totem for Africa and polygamy is apart of nearly every culture since time unkept.


ASE


Love Sango
Naso, K.Sango. Sango sef marry not less than three wives
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Nobody: 9:48pm On Feb 26, 2018
oyenugabdulah:
but your stinking religion support having one wife, but thousand of concubine with million of bastard?
lol...you mean Bastards like Almajiris? On top say your religion support multiple wives, na still your pius married men and women do "sina" pass...on top that na your religion still dey full ground with Almajiri.

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by KingSango(m): 9:49pm On Feb 26, 2018
ballerin:
Naso, K.Sango. Sango sef marry not less than three wives

Yet he was a very rich and powerful king though not a poor love-vendor. grin


Ase

Love Sango
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Ladyjumong(f): 9:49pm On Feb 26, 2018
Am sure she is refering to her muslim northern brothers.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by donstan18: 9:50pm On Feb 26, 2018
Empressabbie:
Can you share the same house and your wife with some other man? Marriage is for two people


What's your point?

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Nobody: 9:51pm On Feb 26, 2018
MhizAJ:
I'm not surprised since her religion permits men to marry up to six wives undecided Nonsense

A man can't even manage one woman in a house talk more of two

No man should even try that nonsense with me

And how many polygamist are in the Bible? Few abi?

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Nobody: 9:53pm On Feb 26, 2018
GogobiriLalas:
If its legal it's not cheating...besides you can just ask her straight.


So asking a lady on a date is legal wow

Let me get this straight, you meet a lady you fancy, you walk up to her, you tell her "i want to marry you" she says "okay", then you're off to the altar, no courting, nothing, in this 21st century shocked shocked

guy think nah
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by donstan18: 9:54pm On Feb 26, 2018
transformed:
Multiple wives will not not even stop some Alhajis from trying it out with young boys...

All thanks you said "Some" not all.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by SoaringLife01: 9:56pm On Feb 26, 2018
Her statement is a sarcastic one.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by maasoap(m): 9:56pm On Feb 26, 2018
MhizAJ:
I'm not surprised since her religion permits men to marry up to six wives undecided Nonsense

A man can't even manage one woman in a house talk more of two

No man should even try that nonsense with me
How many does your own religion permit if I may ask? It is people like you who go around spewing rubbish and when you are asked to bring proof of your claim, you will become deaf and dumb. All these people who are marrying two and three wives on a single day from the SE, what is their religion again?

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Gkemz: 9:57pm On Feb 26, 2018
She's speaking from her Islamic perspective.

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Nobody: 9:57pm On Feb 26, 2018
PMB, IBB, the Sultan are not known to marry more than one wife at a time, yet they are not known to be philanderer despite being men of power... Atiku, Sanusi, and that boy in Kogi will want to touch anything in skirt despite having wives in all major capital cities of the world. The logic they take write that part of Al quran no add up. Discipline should be the key, not 70 virgins in Aljana
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by ballerin(m): 9:58pm On Feb 26, 2018
KingSango:


Yet he was a very rich and powerful king though not a poor love-vendor. grin


Ase

Love Sango
He equally married powerful goddesses with virtues and beauty.
Baba, oya Awure..

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Rebuke: 10:00pm On Feb 26, 2018
donstan18:


It's not about responsible or irresponsible, those men that married one wife and still cheat on them, are they responsible? , it's better to legalize something than to cheat on your wife.


Forget about religion, we all know she made a very good point, let's be truthful and sincere.

But, the problem about the idea lies on women.

Most women will prefer their husband to cheat, than to share the same house with another wife, they don't like sharing pot of soup



Yhu are even more shallow and lame with yhur response. A cheating husband is never satisfied with any number of women.

Quote me anywhere. Any man who can keep just a wife can never be satisfied with any number of women he legally married to.

I have lived in the north for years and I have seen men with as many as four wives still sleeping around wt small small girls. Pls, don't get me wrong.

I am not saying itz peculiar to the norths alone. Have seen such everywhere.

If yhu aint satisfied with keeping jxt a woman yhu can never stop cheating if they give yhu even ten more wives for free.

Cheating is a kind of spirit or will I say a habit dat can't be curtailed by simply marrying more.

Worst still, I feel so bad that this is coming from a learned person, a doctor for that matter and a female.

It simply shows how her belief has robbed her of her sense of reasoning and all she has learned.......stupid belief. Tufiapa!
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Peterpanny: 10:01pm On Feb 26, 2018
MhizAJ:
I'm not surprised since her religion permits men to marry up to six wives undecided Nonsense

A man can't even manage one woman in a house talk more of two

No man should even try that nonsense with me
i will try it let me see what you will do.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by dragunov: 10:04pm On Feb 26, 2018
dainformant:
A doctor at Federal Medical Center,Ebute Meta Lagos - has got herself trending online for urging Nigerian husbands to marry a second wife or an extra wife (as the case may be) if they have the resources. According to her, marrying more wives is better than the irresponsible act of cheating on their wives with other ladies.

Below is what Hauwa Ibrahim shared on Facebook;

Dear men after being a responsible Husband, try marrying a second wife if you have the means, those with two should marry three and those with three should marry four! Thats a great Sunnah and its better than irresponsible act of chasing young girls out there.....

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/02/female-nigerian-medical-doctor-advises-husbands-marry-extra-wife-see.html

How did this cretin manage to become a medical doctor?
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by maasoap(m): 10:05pm On Feb 26, 2018
JasonScolari:
When you combine your religious belief with your profession...
To all the responsible men reading this, Please, kindly ignore the head slamming fat biitch... Thanks.
You made it look like she was the first woman to advocate this in recent time. But I get it, she's a Muslim. And you had to insult her too, just to make your point? Kindly note that it takes two to tango. Faag!

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by ballerin(m): 10:05pm On Feb 26, 2018
Ladyjumong:
Am sure she is refering to her muslim northern brothers.
You're wrong, she was making a general reference to Nigerian men of diverse faith.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by KingSango(m): 10:07pm On Feb 26, 2018
ballerin:
He equally married powerful goddesses with virtues and beauty.
Baba, oya Awure..

Of course, my favorite Olori is Oya. cheesy
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by maasoap(m): 10:07pm On Feb 26, 2018
dragunov:

How did this cretin manage to become a medical doctor?
Even, some people who didn't understand the subject matter are asking questions about how she became a medical doctor! Funny world, isn't it?

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Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by nellyelitz(m): 10:13pm On Feb 26, 2018
donstan18:


It's not about responsible or irresponsible, those men that married one wife and still cheat on them, are they responsible? , it's better to legalize something than to cheat on your wife.


Forget about religion, we all know she made a very good point, let's be truthful and sincere.

But, the problem about the idea lies on women.

Most women will prefer their husband to cheat, than to share the same house with another wife, they don't like sharing pot of soup
so men with multiple wives don't cheats?
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by kalufelix(m): 10:15pm On Feb 26, 2018
lonelydora:
And my advice to all Men who wish to marry more than 1 wife...Please always marry ODD number of wives. Instead of 2, marry 3...instead of 4, marry 5.
Why Do You Say So?
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by 77up(m): 10:16pm On Feb 26, 2018
MhizAJ:
I'm not surprised since her religion permits men to marry up to six wives undecided Nonsense

A man can't even manage one woman in a house talk more of two

No man should even try that nonsense with me
why are you so pained like this madam , na your type dey kill husband when he marry or friend another lady.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Thefreethinker: 10:16pm On Feb 26, 2018
men already tried that but one the jilted wives ends up castrating the husband or poisoning her step children.
I will rather have a secret affair than to get a second wife.
Re: Female Medical Doctor Advises Husbands To Marry Extra Wife. See Why by Kennydoc(m): 10:17pm On Feb 26, 2018
donstan18:


It's not about responsible or irresponsible, those men that married one wife and still cheat on them, are they responsible? , it's better to legalize something than to cheat on your wife.


Forget about religion, we all know she made a very good point, let's be truthful and sincere.

But, the problem about the idea lies on women.

Most women will prefer their husband to cheat, than to share the same house with another wife, they don't like sharing pot of soup

Based on the last census, there are slightly more men than women. If each man marries 4, where will the women for younger ones to marry come from?

Have you also considered the effect on the population growth? By the time each woman has only 2 children, how many will be in the family? Can Nigeria handle that population explosion?

And who said polygamists don't cheat? Many alhajis that have 3 or more wives still have other mistresses.

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