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jorion:
Bro, we do talk. Even go to the market together sometimes when I want to cook but it will never be serious. I even tell her to her face before the whole thing starts going into her head. Now that she is through with school, she has begun to realize the harsh reality of life. But that's her biz not mine. I will never sacrifice even a tiny piece of my dream for any woman, no matter the circumstances

I totally agree. Until they prove otherwise, no woman is worth going that extra mile for. Because in the end, no matter the sacrifice, they can never love you back the way you feel you deserve. Its a messed up world we live in, where men give and give and give, and all the woman does is take.

@ thrillOG, ain't karma a biatch...you've been served...this is rich; you ditched your gal that cared about you to become one hoochie Mama's personal pleasure object ...you smart! Hehehehe,can't stop laughing...you deserve this,even more... mtcheew

Your girl? She's never yours. The owner is the one she's hiding from you. And again. You are only trying to snatch her from someone. Leave story.

Am sorry abt that bro, pls I want to learn the ERP software, can you teach me?

thrillOG:
Edakun Please pardon my blunders oo...I just had to pour out my happening so i can move on..

She served in PH, and stayed a little longer after service year to gain working experience.

We met in Jan 2017 after she got back to Lagos and became friends, every time I ask about her relationship status, she'll tell me she had a briefed one there and they stop talking as the guy is the busy type who works with an oil and gas firm.

She setup up a business and I help with ERP Software and we became attached.
I noticed she's usually lonely and in thoughts, I'll call her everyday and make her feel loved and that was how we started.
I ditch my current girl, snubs my niggas just to impart the missing Love.

Everything seems awesome and the dream seemly becoming reality, until I noticed one traits..'Her WhatsApp status is usually ONLINE at odd hours'.

I complained many times but the excuses are 'I have sleep disorder'. And she's met with different Therapist to no avail..I took that with a pinch of salt and I was watchful..

One day, we had plans to meet, and I called her I was still busy with a Client and don't think I can come over that night unknown to her, i was on my way..I arrived 40 minutes later and found out someone was with her. She opened the door and dashed to the lavatory.

I saw the guy was so uncomfortable and I left, minutes later she was calling begging to please come back and I did after discovering she was sobering up and just to hear her out; ' He was a Family Friend, he had issues with business and blah blah blah blah.. I took that cuz I Love her, I understand they've been together before I came into the picture.

The midnight WhatsApp Online status continues and I was curious to find out who she usually chats with at that time.

One day(Yesterday) I was with her and after some romantic discussions, I told her I needed to check Fiverr for some approval and I'll love to use her phone as my phone battery has drained(that's the scope I used), she ask that I use my Laptop and I told her the battery is low, she wanted to put on Generator and I said 'why can't I check the internet with my girl's phone??.

I collected it, and scroll through her WhatsApp and there, I got the greatest shock of my Life...

My girl wanted more of 'Mr Family Friend' d*ck than every other thing in her life.. How they've been fvcking and how she wanted it right now now..

Another shock of my life was when I was scrolling up..I saw where my girl was telling him that he should come and deal with the stupid computer boy(me) as he's disturbing Mr FF girl oo, she said she's tired of computer's boy disturbances and he reply, 'give me his number lemme curse him..

Èmi Computer boy

Peeps, not only that chat oo, I saw many different amorous Convo's from some other guys she told me was her cousins, church members and friends that has got me in thought since yday...
I have never checked her phone before in our 1year Plus relationship... I was happy I did that yday and thank God I did..

Hahahahahaaha @ Computer boy.

Correctguy101, abeg advise this guy on the Tea. He needs to know how to do the do. I keep wondering how many men their wives are out there with Tea boys.

You are lucky your mumu button was not fully pressed

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

oh he should not check through her phone with all the ample subject of investigation at his disposal ahhhhh you are wicked

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

Wetin this one dey yarn? Egbami ke!

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

What is this one saying

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

just hear urself

thrillOG:
Aunty AJ...I stated up there that I hadn't checked her phone before...I became curious after the first incident and her continuous Online activities in the middle of the night...
Me Boring..you don't know me...so I shouldn't try to make you understand.
If you still cannot comprehend, I'll suggest you hire a translator... They're everywhere at an affordable cost..

Why are you replying her? You get time.

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

read his post again.....den you will understand..... Sorry eeeehn

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

don't just understand what u are saying, u want him to be in a relationship that there no trust and nobody to checkmate each other, now he finds out the truth, he can forge ahead, my dear if it is me, I would have find out before now, u did the right thing, just to clear ur doubt.

Why must u check ur galfriends chats with other guys?
Do you want to die young?
I have been dating my gal for over 4 years and I have never tried going through her chats because I know that if I go through it I may die in the process.

drezzyx:
If you don't want to get heart attack do not check a girl u liked phone .

And if you want to be a mugu for life, dont check your girl's phone.

thrillOG:
You might be right at the bolded... But being boring!! Hell no.. I've said earlier I can't just start sugarcoating how interesting I am as I believe only kids does that

Good.... Next time don't break another person's heart.

Hp ur bp reduced as it went high up while reading the chats.....

Dtz all am after....

All boys are the same

Screw every girl who says that shittt

thrillOG:
I saw this, I pass...



Oh well I believe you took out time to emphasize your objections..yea I'm cool with that..
I stated, that I caught her with another guy...hmm maybe I didn't go deeper into details, they were having sex when I came around, and she quickly dashed to the lavatory.. She apologize and I took it..
I don't know what trust you wanted me to have on such a person.. Perhaps i understand why you're being so defensive.. Maybe you're just her type anyways.. I pity the nigga digging you.

I like this ,yeah maybe she is the type

hahahahahahahhahaha. my belle o. i no fit laugh. chai some girls wicked die

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

You actually sound like the retarded one. More like an unreliable cheat!
So if a man is suspicious, he should ask "baby, are you cheating on me?" And swallow the answer hook, line and sinker? Gimme a break! He investigated his suspicions and was vindicated! So what are you saying

thrillOG:
Aunty AJ...I stated up there that I hadn't checked her phone before...I became curious after the first incident and her continuous Online activities in the middle of the night...
Me Boring..you don't know me...so I shouldn't try to make you understand.
If you still cannot comprehend, I'll suggest you hire a translator... They're everywhere at an affordable cost..

my man

These people are baggages, liabilities.

These days it is much more easier to find a thousand (1000) virgin guys than it is to find just one (1) virgin girl.

Getting married is making alot of people scared.

I learnt you broke someone's heart.
OP serves you right

shit happens,get over it and move on. She aint worth it bro.hard luck though,imagine the long wasted 1 year of complete deceit and pretense.Some babes shaaaaa!!!!!!!!

thrillOG:
She's averagely OK and not the demanding type sha...but I don't lag with financial duties..

You laughing.. Na my predicaments you dey laugh so..anyways I have learnt..

You have just confirmed you're the side guy...move on with your life!

emijo:
Why must u check ur galfriends chats with other guys?
Do you want to die young?
I have been dating my gal for over 4 years and I have never tried going through her chats because I know that if I go through it I may die in the process.

na ppl like you, another nigga go impregnate Una girl...never trust a woman, u beta check and know where you stand...I don't wanna read stories that touch on NL front page. I've experienced it. it makes me stronger, now I don't even trust me.. I just flow with the rhythm... only weak man go get hypertension....my moma didnt raise a fool

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

see their type here

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

abeg Wetin this one de talk? by their Fruit u must know Dem lol

Eeyaah
God will reward your patience

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

really..... you just sounded so immature and at the same time childish.....try and read all over again,then evaluate yourself.

guy, i think if u have doubts its better u find out things for urself. Else you'll be on a long queue thinking u are in a relationship

drezzyx:
If you don't want to get heart attack do not check a girl u liked phone .