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Dude, I know u feel hurt, but the Malaysian guy might be d victim. Perhaps you've been screwing someone else's wife all these while. Little wonder y d gal almost died when u tried calling d guy.

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

Even as a lady I am disgusted with such show of heartlessness. Op I hope you never send the rent fee o her ever because if you do I will be very angry. She has no regard for you to do it to your face. Stupid girl.

OG no be ordinary person !

greatnaija01:
Brooooooooz YOU REALLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE CODE OF CONDUCT FOR DATING NIGERIAN GIRLS..... Let me educate you.

NIGERIAN GIRLS CAN ONLY STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP IF THEY LOVE U MORE THAN U LOVE THEM.

This means MAKE YOURSELF EXPENSIVE and she will leave her marriage for YOU.
Being a GENTLE MAN does not work in naija.... Obeying all the romantic gestures to court a Lady does no good here..... HAVE THE MONEY LIKE MAD AND NEVER LET HER FEEL SHE MEANS THE WHOLE WORLD TO U ELSE SHE WILL RUIN YOUR WORLD.... Always make her know you are after someone BETTER THAN HER so she will keep Chasing after u... Let her know MARRIAGE is not a licence to relax because you can still DUMP her if she DOES NOT UPGRADE....

In this life.... PEOPLE ALWAYS STAY LOYAL TO PEOPLE THEY CAN NOT HAVE...... and PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS CHEAT on those they already HAVE.

Get that into your HEAD and dump this lady as u MOVE AHEAD.

greiboy:

Oboy

This your story is soooooo confusing

You keep calling the girl "your girl" as in your girlfriend, but she was openly cheating with another guy

What type of crazy relationship is that

Do you really think the girl loved you from the beginning or are you the one holding back some vital information.

I am sorry, but your story doesn't add up


Anyways, assuming your story is true, you did the right thing in the end by ending the charade

The relationship was more of a circus than it was romantic

U took it too personal.

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

oga ade you no get single sense atall see as woman day use you play table tenis.some men are something else chaiiiiiiiiiii.if you quote and say nonsense i will look for you,and beat you like the slowpoke that you are.

If i were you,
I will simply make her a side chick...
Keep giving here excuses while you keep collecting other benefits you get from her (if you know what i mean)...
Gentle man no dey pay for Naija Babes side...

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

There's something she sees in that Malaysian guy that she is not getting from you. She has probably taken her to 'places' that no man has taken her and you don't understand because you are not a woman! The decision is there for you to make. Put up with her or leave her but remember that she may be the one that hold the keys to your happiness and progress. She may bail you out in the future, even if you don't eventually marry her. Remember that!

Chikita66:
You did your best and it didn't work out, it is obvious the babe is not feeling you at all, so dear move on and God will send you a person that will love you sincerely, it doesn't matter if you are in love, what matters is if you are loved back but in this situation you are not loved back. Bear the pain and move on.

but what happens to our own love na, i said i they love o, u no reply

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

You be complete maga.

IamAirforce1:
I honestly feel bad seeing my fellow guys been manipulated by women ..

Only few women would love you 100% the rest are after something they don't have.

Girls show these signs of gold digging 2 weeks into your relationship with them and never ignore these signs.

OP, saw these gold digging signs in her but ignored it and now she has shown him her true gold digging colour
But the guy still never get sense.

The guy is a fool and manipulated himself. Category A mugu.

Guy, it's obvious that this girl doesn't love u, she's clearly in love with her Malayaian guy. She's just using u. Let her go, I know it's difficult buh find another girl, and watch out, that Malay guy won't marry her. She will lose u and lose the guy too.

And one girl fit dey die for op love somewhere oo

But he no gree send am

Op, please walk away.
Later she will learn the hard way. Abroad guys do not give a hoot about babes in Nigeria. Especially the ones they claim to be in love with and dating.
They can call for hours, chat for hours even at night monitoring the babe.
But to take of the babe welfare? Hell no! They won't.
It's boyfriend in Nigeria, that spend their hard earned money to take care of girlfriends here.
Few years back I had to cut off any abroad guy wooing me. They are just a waste of space. I pity any lady who takes them serious. They are not worth wasting time on.
Guys in Nigeria are better off than them. But some mumu girls will not understand. Abroad guy will never take you abroad and settle down with you there if he ends up marrying u. But they can lie for Africa, they will take the babe abroad. All na lie and pure deceit.

Babes if you have a Nija guy who cares and takes of your financial and emotional needs who is also loving and caring, Biko hold am well. He's One of the best thing that can come into your life.
As time goes, both of you will grow together and also travel abroad on vacations
Don't let abroad guys use sweet mouth deceive una.

They just get mouth nothing else.

Nothing will make me waste time on abroad guy.

Am perfectly OK with my nija capable and caring rich man. And sometimes we even travel on vacations
So what's the big deal about my guy lives abroad.. Smhhh

Ebuka2016:
hahahahahahahahahahaha

hohohohohohohohohohohohohoh

kikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki

this ur story funny me. Move on bro. Dont be a puusy nigga. She loves the Malaysia guy more than you. Even if she does not want his money, which i think is just a tactic she is using to get the guy closer, the fact that he lives iN MALAYSIA, a whole MALAYSIA? Is enof reason to make her have multiple orgasm.

Bro, delete her number from your phone, delete everything about her both physical and mentally. Go get yourself a woman that will love you unconditionally.


Or you port to Malaysia too

Exactly my thoughts. These Nigerian girls are clever. She knows the Malay guy has money. she's using love as a bait to hold him. She wants to eat her cake and have it. I pity the Nigerian lover, a lot of men are in that position. It's not easy to get out. at some point a man must be a fool for love. he should be man enough n stay ahead of the game n be the one to call off the relationship.otherwise if the girl dump him, which she will eventually he might not recover from it

Gut I envy you sha. If only I fit love like you. Get your patience with women. You be real man. Love suffers long and its kind. It bears all things and hope all things.

Your girl will come around. If you love her, stay patient and see her as a child who know less. Please for the sake of us who know that you are doing right continue.

Can ladies please who appreciate give this man round of applause. No be only our bad nai una go de see.

Op, na semo just full that your brain. Chai, and you still dey mention love. If I hear pheem from you again, your own don finish. See as girl just dey use your head anyhow like Nivea roll on.

walk away from.the trouble in my life bro

greiboy:

Oboy

This your story is soooooo confusing

You keep calling the girl "your girl" as in your girlfriend, but she was openly cheating with another guy

What type of crazy relationship is that

Do you really think the girl loved you from the beginning or are you the one holding back some vital information.

I am sorry, but your story doesn't add up


Anyways, assuming your story is true, you did the right thing in the end by ending the charade

The relationship was more of a circus than it was romantic

Boss some ladies are like that! They are only good for passing around.
Op is not lieing.

These particular set of ladies have zero principles

House agent, some gehs can’t make heaven walahi

never allow toxic ppl to take ur joy, nah so my fiancée walked out without looking back , the Malay guy can call her from morning till night , at the end of the day I foot her bills, if u read their conversations u go kuku faint, he had sex with the guy on their first meeting, the guy put fake engagement ring on her finger, she waited for ages,the Malay guy is nowhere to be found... the breakup became an eyes opener to me , thank God I'm finally living in my dreamworld with my Canadian wife... hehehehe she don cross 37 no Malay boy, no husband no serious boyfriend.. Nigeria Ladies no dey take eyes see obodo oyibo guys... even if the person they sleep for street

for op#in Craig David voice,am walking away from the troubles of my life#.bt op wit due respect u b confirmed MUMU.

chyy5:
I Think Is Right To Walk Away This Time.

The woman I so much love has been taken me for granted.
There is a guy in Malaysia that takes her time all the time.
I have tried severally to stop her from contacting the guy but she still does.
I am not the kind of guy that beats up a lady otherwise I would have beaten her up very well.
The so called Malaysian guy doesn't provide any of her needs.
Infact from their heartbreaking chats I read, there was a time the guy told her she is free to date any other guy for money that she shouldn't depend on him for any benefit.
My gal told him that she's not in for money.
This is a gal I love with all my heart. I've been enduring this for long thinking she will change. I've had heart to heart talk severally with her telling her how pained I am. Yet every night she will be on whatsapp call with this guy for close to 3 hours after work.
Their whatsapp chat breaks my heart each time I intrude to read.
She keep telling the guy that she doesn't have anybody and even when the guy argued she told him he will confirm when he sex her.
It kept me weak yet I continued loving her.
Just last week my cousin that is to travel to the states told me to come over to her place. Meanwhile my gal has been having issues with accommodation. Where she stays isn't really OK and her rent will expire ending of this month. I taught it wise to rent the place for my gal. I took her to the place and we concluded with my cousin; she agreed to leave the place for her and even auctioned all her property for her which supposed to amount over 200k but my cousin decided to collect 150k because of me.
I collected her account details and told her I will transfer the money to her including the house rent so she can pay the landlord to avoid extra agent fee.
As we were going back, my gal was busy apologising to her Malaysian guy why she wasn't able to pick his calls because the guy has been calling when we were there.
She told the guy she went out with her house agent to search for an accommodation. I was mad.
I am now being referred to as house agent.
I forcefully collected her phone to call the guy. She almost died. She throw herself on the bed and was crying pleading I shouldn't call.
I left her house.
Meanwhile she's having issues raising deposits since she's a DSA. As God may have it I have some funds to help her out but due to her behaviour I've decided to move on
She's been calling and pleading but I know is all because of the house and deposits since she's not willing to let the guy go
I love her so much and it breaks my heart.
I have called her severally and pleaded with her how hurtful I feel seeing her chats with that guy yet she continued.
This is a guy that doesn't care about her needs but she kept glued to him.
I've endured much hence I am walking away. It pains, yes it pains but I have no choice.

Your girl is a typical Nigerian girl.
They are only sorry when they get caught.
They will cry you a river, cry blood, threating to commit suicide all those those Bullshìt when you catch them.

Forgive them and see how they'll go back to being themselves in a month's time.

My advice to you is to just free. SHE'LL NEVER CHANGE.

Don't wait a minute...quit now when the ovation is still loud for you!

the sturburn fly, they say, goes to the grave with the dead body...

Different gf stories

I'm not connected with my gf in any way.in fact she decided not to add me on any of her social media. Confronted her but stopped cos social media is 0% of my troubles.
Mention the social media but I can't remember wen last I logged in

I pay her back by assuring and promising her heaven and earth and fail always.
My punas is still sure.
I'm like one leg in and one leg out if the relationship.

I want to go international.so Breaking up with me should be a blessing for me

donstan18:
Ehe?.....So?


Since it's paining you as you are walking away from her after being so foolish to be taken for granted.

What do you want us to do now?

Young man, I'm asking you....What do you want from us?

of course he want us to beg him on her behalf. deep inside he dont want to let go even though it's clear he's just a "plan b" in case the other guy disappoint her. Oya nah forgive her and 10 years from now you'll come to realise how dump you're for wifing her

I am pissed. Man, have you lost your mind?

You know what? Pay the rent. Then watch her breakup with you.

Kotodoctor:
Gut I envy you sha. If only I fit love like you. Get your patience with women. You be real man. Love suffers long and its kind. It bears all things and hope all things.

Your girl will come around. If you love her, stay patient and see her as a child who know less. Please for the sake of us who know that you are doing right continue.

Can ladies please who appreciate give this man round of applause. No be only our bad nai una go de see.

Guy, which kind talk be this na? Na talk you dey talk abi na spit you dey spit? Or your mouth get burst pipe or hole full am

Which kind talk be this na

This is a spiritual matter...

I think OP has been charmed

ELKHALIFAISIS:
never allow toxic ppl to take ur joy, nah so my fiancée walked out without looking back , the Malay guy can call her from morning till night , at the end of the day I foot her bills, if u read their conversations u go kuku faint, he had sex with the guy on their first meeting, the guy put fake engagement ring on her finger, she waited for ages,the Malay guy is nowhere to be found... the breakup became an eyes opener to me , thank God I'm finally living in my dreamworld with my Canadian wife... hehehehe she don cross 37 no Malay boy, no husband no serious boyfriend.. Nigeria Ladies no dey take eyes see obodo oyibo guys... even if the person they sleep for street

Honestly and thats the worst mistake, a lady who wants a serious relationship that will Lead to a successful marriage will ever make.

I hope they learn anyways. Abroad guys are just empty barrels and they can call for Africa, distrubing one with endless call at night and chats .

Person wey get ear, make e hear word.

Stupid love

You have done a good job....make sure no more benefits she gets from you.

By the way you don't have sex with her?