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Espada10:
let me re-post my reply to pocohantas/ antibrutus who had the same mentality like the OP

I hope and sincerely pray you don't have the inscription "Died Obsessed with Pocohantas" on your grave when you die.

#just hoping

RuthDaniels:
I hope and sincerely pray you don't have the inscription "Died Obsessed with Pocohantas" on your grave when you die.

#just hoping

AntiBrutus:
I really hope dear...

Whatever you did to that guy, don't ever do it again At least not to an emotional person

TheUpsetGirl1:
There are some girls that you should just never date. These girls are either too bossy, too possessive or total psychos! However, when it comes to the subject of dating virgins, men are undecided. Most men, at least Indian men actually want to date girls who are virgins. They get a certain sense of security from knowing that their girlfriend is chaste.

So, what if we told you that you must never date a girl who is totally chaste? Don't pick up the brick bats, we can prove it with logic that there are many disadvantages of dating a virgin girl. And as the disadvantages outweigh the benefits, you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity.

1. Chastity is a state of mind:
Girl may be a virgin physically but that does not mean that her heart is chaste. She may have loved before and lost her chastity emotionally.

2. She does not have a benchmark;
Well she cannot compare you to her abusive ex-boyfriend. So she will not understand when you compare her with your psycho ex-girlfriend. She will be jealous of your exes because she has no similar experience to set precedents. It can put you in a difficult spot because most of us like to be on friendly terms with our ex-girlfriends. That is the sign of matured relationships.

3. You have to be her guardian:
Dude you are getting into a relationship, you are not signing up for adoption. Girls see their father in the men they love. So if your are going to start dating Daddy's virgin girl, then you will have to start behaving like her dad. Trust me, it is not a nice feeling.

4. You have to commit to her:
Most guys try to date virgin girls only when they want to marry them. However, this approach interferes with and natural progression of a relationship. You meet a girl, fall in love and then think about marriage. What if you commit to the girl and then don't think she is the right one later?

5. She will have romantic ideas about making love;

Most virgins think that making love is like an 'end of the world' experience. They don't realise that it is a normal human activity like bathing or eating. So you may seriously disappoint her and bear the brunt for it.

6. You may not get lucky:

If no one else has managed to get lucky with her then odds are not in your favour. If you are dating a virgin girl just to maneuver her into the sack, then it is a very bad idea. Never date any girl with such intentions. These are some of the reasons for which you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity.



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RuthDaniels:
Whatever you did to that guy, don't ever do it again At least not to an emotional person

Fadiga24:
it's not our fault that you lost your virginity in a biscuit company.

RuthDaniels:
Lol..Too much negativity from her hence my reply moreover some topics shouldn't be created by the affected gender. It is like a guy opening a thread on why you should date broke guys or why small diicks men are the best. Who wouldn't think such threads are to raise one's deflated esteem?


Although you can't ignore the fact that some guys/men don't like virgins, they prefer their partners experienced. And virginity does not equates happy marriage /relationship. So op has some points

pu7pl3:
After subtely savaging her destiny ure now subtly consoling her...2faced much?

Lol... It is called striking with the left hand, cuddling with the right hand

RuthDaniels:
Lol... It is called striking with the left hand, cuddling with the right hand

pu7pl3:
Yea i can tell you enjoy striking cos ure always striking...like you work with ASUU or u a soccer lover or something

Lol! Funny you

TheUpsetGirl1:
There are some girls that you should just never date. These girls are either too bossy, too possessive or total psychos! However, when it comes to the subject of dating virgins, men are undecided. Most men, at least Indian men actually want to date girls who are virgins. They get a certain sense of security from knowing that their girlfriend is chaste.

So, what if we told you that you must never date a girl who is totally chaste? Don't pick up the brick bats, we can prove it with logic that there are many disadvantages of dating a virgin girl. And as the disadvantages outweigh the benefits, you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity.

1. Chastity is a state of mind:
Girl may be a virgin physically but that does not mean that her heart is chaste. She may have loved before and lost her chastity emotionally.

2. She does not have a benchmark;
Well she cannot compare you to her abusive ex-boyfriend. So she will not understand when you compare her with your psycho ex-girlfriend. She will be jealous of your exes because she has no similar experience to set precedents. It can put you in a difficult spot because most of us like to be on friendly terms with our ex-girlfriends. That is the sign of matured relationships.

3. You have to be her guardian:
Dude you are getting into a relationship, you are not signing up for adoption. Girls see their father in the men they love. So if your are going to start dating Daddy's virgin girl, then you will have to start behaving like her dad. Trust me, it is not a nice feeling.

4. You have to commit to her:
Most guys try to date virgin girls only when they want to marry them. However, this approach interferes with and natural progression of a relationship. You meet a girl, fall in love and then think about marriage. What if you commit to the girl and then don't think she is the right one later?

5. She will have romantic ideas about making love;

Most virgins think that making love is like an 'end of the world' experience. They don't realise that it is a normal human activity like bathing or eating. So you may seriously disappoint her and bear the brunt for it.

6. You may not get lucky:

If no one else has managed to get lucky with her then odds are not in your favour. If you are dating a virgin girl just to maneuver her into the sack, then it is a very bad idea. Never date any girl with such intentions. These are some of the reasons for which you must never date a girl who has not lost her virginity.



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