Heartmender1:

I didn't understand the language they were saying but it seems like cu*rse so i just keep begging cus i don't know why they faced me and started shouting when i wasn't the one who drove .

It means your days are numbered if you keep impressing girls and letting them take charge over you.
Imagine handing over the wheel to a girl who's learning all in the name of love.

Olalan:
OP are you been sincere about her attitude after the incident, if true then you got the wrong girl

Don't mind the OP jare, maybe she's in shock. How can you put her behind the wheel becos of one stupid birthday? Lives could have been lost! Is the car a toy? The Okada man for snap the Op self. Nonsense!

Nawao.

You get luck say u no die....

jayraster:

It means your days are numbered if you keep impressing girls and letting them take charge over you.
Imagine handing over the wheel to a girl who's learning all in the name of love.

Noted! Lesson learnt. Thanks bro

Heartmender1:
She hasn't even say sorry for what happened Using me to watch BBN despite all she causes

Shey see say your life don spoil.

lowkey28:


Shey see say your life don spoil.

She always find it hard to say sorry

Heartmender1:


She always find it hard to say sorry

No dey carry woman for head. All of them na bitch. You go treat am like bitch. She sef go know say you be weray.

Heartmender1:


She always find it hard to say sorry

Person wey you suppose send commot for your house

From certain explanations you made about your relationship, it seems you are the kind of man that goes out of your way to impress your girl no matter the odds. That is a good trait however, there should be some set limits. First off, allowing her to drive in the euphoria of celebration was clearly wrong. It was a silly error that would have cost a life. Never ever try to please someone when the odds are definitely stacked against you. You will be at the losing end.
Secondly, the part where you mentioned that she hardly apologises for her wrongs unless it comes from her heart. Apologies are supposed to come from the heart. It is a sincere indication that there is a true desire to change. Maybe she was so traumatized from the whole incident that she couldn't speak. But if till now she has not addressed the issue, knowing that if she had not made that request to take the steering wheel, the accident might not have occurred in the first place, then I think you really need to sit down and analyze the relationship. No man or woman wants to be in a relationship with an unremorseful person. Do not let love dull your senses and affect your choices because that same girl might interprete your calmness for weakness. My opinion though.

Heartmender1:
Gosh! today was my worst day ever.

So my girlfriend birthday turn out to be my worst day.


SARS wahala at oke odo (solved) .

On our way home ,just a few mile to our destination; she said she want to take over the wheel and i heed to her request because what belongs to me; belongs to her and vice versa.

Now my car is damaged, okada rider requested i repair his bike, his passengers has been taken for medic after many c*rse (all expense paid) and now we are here looking at each other faces since without her saying even a sorry .

She doesn't heed to whatever i say except it comes from her heart and she always find it hard to say sorry.

I don't know if i should just call off the relationship but m afraid she might do something drastic

This one is afraid of a girl. Not even a woman. Misery is what you get if marry this one.

The bolded prompted my reaction.

It is foolish to blame the OP for letting her drive .

HajimeSaito:


OP, when I saw your post, I immediately developed a migraine headache and I decided to ease my tension so I ran out of your post and into another post titled, "Is This Yansh?"

It turned out to be a rubbish post. So I exited from it and decided to put you in the wise as to the "rubbish" mistakes you have made.

1. There is no such award as "Boyfriend of The Year". So all your efforts at winning an imaginary award have actually been in vain.

2. Giving up your heart for a girl is romantic, but giving up your sense is just plain dumb. At the end of the day, your decision to give your girl an unscheduled driving lesson as a birthday gift ended up become a VERY expensive gift when your panel beater presents you with the bill for repairs.

3. If you were looking for sympathy, you've come to the wrong place. Nairalanders are more savage than Tiwa when they read about your type of story.

I can only hope for your sake that a wrecked car does not lead a wrecked relationship.

Well said!

Bet wtf were you thinking? She didn't say sorry? Really? Chai!

HajimeSaito:


OP, when I saw your post, I immediately developed a migraine headache and I decided to ease my tension so I ran out of your post and into another post titled, "Is This Yansh?"

It turned out to be a rubbish post. So I exited from it and decided to put you in the wise as to the "rubbish" mistakes you have made.

1. There is no such award as "Boyfriend of The Year". So all your efforts at winning an imaginary award have actually been in vain.

2. Giving up your heart for a girl is romantic, but giving up your sense is just plain dumb. At the end of the day, your decision to give your girl an unscheduled driving lesson as a birthday gift ended up become a VERY expensive gift when your panel beater presents you with the bill for repairs.

3. If you were looking for sympathy, you've come to the wrong place. Nairalanders are more savage than Tiwa when they read about your type of story.

I can only hope for your sake that a wrecked car does not lead a wrecked relationship.

You are the man!. Thank you for this well written response.

She nearly killed people and has no remorse and you're still asking if you should dump her? I pity your life. Hope you're not her next victim.

Did she offer to contribute to the expenses? If not the balance is unhealthy but you must be courageous enough to ask if she doesn’t give then you will know if in marriage na you go be the one wey dey always cough up money.

If I don’t see the possibility of being a good wife to you there’s no point hanging on so time is ticking find out now.

I let my darling drive once on Lekki express but na side of road movement we got a flat tire that day but I was happy he faced his fears

Heartmender1:
Gosh! today was my worst day ever.

So my girlfriend birthday turn out to be my worst day.


SARS wahala at oke odo (solved) .

On our way home ,just a few mile to our destination; she said she want to take over the wheel and i heed to her request because what belongs to me; belongs to her and vice versa.

Now my car is damaged, okada rider requested i repair his bike, his passengers has been taken for medic after many c*rse (all expense paid) and now we are here looking at each other faces since without her saying even a sorry .

She doesn't heed to whatever i say except it comes from her heart and she always find it hard to say sorry.

I don't know if i should just call off the relationship but m afraid she might do something drastic

At the bold face: what belongs to me, belongs to her and vice versa. I think this is the silliest statement I have heard this year, if she was your wife that's understandable, but for a girlfriend

Heartmender1:
What even hurt me most wasn't because of the damage to the car or cause she brought two friends along with her for shopping and started showing off by ordering for bigger things beyond my expectations but the look on those old women that felt from d bike
.
I didn't understand the language they were saying but it seems like cu*rse so i just keep begging cus i don't know why they faced me and started shouting when i wasn't the one who drove .

If Arsenal lose against Chelsea,no be coach dem go blame.

I hope am not the only thinking Op is showing off his useless camry. And he might be over 30 now

Heartmender1:
Gosh! today was my worst day ever.

So my girlfriend birthday turn out to be my worst day.


SARS wahala at oke odo (solved) .

On our way home ,just a few mile to our destination; she said she want to take over the wheel and i heed to her request because what belongs to me; belongs to her and vice versa.

Now my car is damaged, okada rider requested i repair his bike, his passengers has been taken for medic after many c*rse (all expense paid) and now we are here looking at each other faces since without her saying even a sorry .

She doesn't heed to whatever i say except it comes from her heart and she always find it hard to say sorry.

I don't know if i should just call off the relationship but m afraid she might do something drastic

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. A stitch in time saves plenty

biafraisdead:
ur car no even fine!

na your car? I will reset your sense now.

LMAO ROTFL

HajimeSaito:


OP, when I saw your post, I immediately developed a migraine headache and I decided to ease my tension so I ran out of your post and into another post titled, "Is This Yansh?"

It turned out to be a rubbish post. So I exited from it and decided to put you in the wise as to the "rubbish" mistakes you have made.

1. There is no such award as "Boyfriend of The Year". So all your efforts at winning an imaginary award have actually been in vain.

2. Giving up your heart for a girl is romantic, but giving up your sense is just plain dumb. At the end of the day, your decision to give your girl an unscheduled driving lesson as a birthday gift ended up become a VERY expensive gift when your panel beater presents you with the bill for repairs.

3. If you were looking for sympathy, you've come to the wrong place. Nairalanders are more savage than Tiwa when they read about your type of story.

I can only hope for your sake that a wrecked car does not lead a wrecked relationship.

Heartmender1:
She hasn't even say sorry for what happened Using me to watch BBN despite all she causes

Hi my true advice to you is let your relationship not go beyond girlfriend and boyfriend. Else you are cooking a porridge of wahala for your married life. So gradually cut it off. You don't end it at once. No, you do it gradually until she herself would decide in anger to go.

A girl who doesn't take to advice or instruction and yet Can't say sorry when she is supposed to is not a marriage material.

It would be one quarrel after the other when you are married and the end of it is Divorce.


Im talking from experience.

Are you really afraid that she might do something drastic or you can't find someone like her?

Cry cry baby

Your car is damaged but ....na just your rear light break @OP are you MAD in lasisi elenu`s voice. She will kill you for being stupid and if your guys ask to drive your car you will say the car is faulty or guy abeg i no get fuel....So police hold you what was your offence and also thank God she didnt kill anyone because na you for dey kirikiri or alagbon while other correct guy go service her pussy for you... Be wise let her start respecting you or else my brother you are aiming for your death...

Hiya... so sorry HBD but with a sad note... but should say the sorry.

Nwaohafia1:


A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. A stitch in time saves plenty

Thanks so much, I really appreciate your advice.

bigplayerz:
Your car is damaged but ....na just your rear light break @OP are you MAD in lasisi elenu`s voice. She will kill you for being stupid and if your guys ask to drive your car you will say the car is faulty or guy abeg i no get fuel....So police hold you what was your offence and also thank God she didnt kill anyone because na you for dey kirikiri or alagbon while other correct guy go service her pussy for you... Be wise let her start respecting you or else my brother you are aiming for your death...

Noted! Lesson learnt.. Really appreciate your response

tamethem:


Hi my true advice to you is let your relationship not go beyond girlfriend and boyfriend. Else you are cooking a porridge of wahala for your married life. So gradually cut it off. You don't end it at once. No, you do it gradually until she herself would decide in anger to go.

A girl who doesn't take to advice or instruction and yet Can't say sorry when she is supposed to is not a marriage material.

It would be one quarrel after the other when you are married and the end of it is Divorce.


Im talking from experience.

Thanks for this bro, really appreciate your advice

Taaaa,she can't do more than a dead rat,
If her character doesn't match for marriage,
Pls kindly call off the relationship now there's still time.
Don't know where to start,invite me, let's take her to car wash in order to wash her mental reasoning. NONSENSE