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Pearllait:
I will try not to write an Epistle but I hope you understand my point. Let me start by saying, this happens to both male and female. it's so unfortunate it is happening to you but if i were you, i would close all forms of communication lines to help myself because it is really not worth it. POINT NUMBER1; She told you she has a boyfriend... (gud) Some persons would say, this generation has to do with games, we start a game and who ever wins wins (which i obviously don't believe in and by God's grace i will not need to struggle before winning the heart of any man). So.... it's really not about the PLAYING HARD TO GET. My dear, cut off from her. If she keeps calling you, it's a choice whether to pick or not to pick. if she sends you WhatsApp msg, read but don't always reply.

POINT NUMBER 2; She told you she has a boyfriend yet she still uses every means possible to speak to you. my dear, it's either 1. She's playing with your emotions and just want you around because her "SUPPOSED" Boo is out of town. 2. It's either she was disappointed when via your actions of not contacting her anymore made it look like a slap on her face and 3. or.... there's more to it that we still don't understand.

Now let me ask you. Would you rather have someone who genuinely wants to be with you or have someone who someday might wake up and say this to you "IT'S NOT AS IF I DIDN'T MAKE IT CLEAR FROM THE ON SET THAT I AM OR I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP"
Which would you prefer??


On the other hand, she might have no one but still contemplating if she wants to try again probably due to certain circumstances and reasons best known to her. But i will still say CUT OFF FROM HER FOR NOW OR CUT OFF COMPLETELY AND MOVE ON

LieDetector:
lol. I'll try this boss

isyourboy:
Please run away from her. Girls like that are time waster, and she know how to equally play with emotion. The truth is she don't want you to go, she is keeping you around in case something happen between her and the other guy, or just incase she notice you've made it or you might made it soon

KOPT33:
What love? There is no such thing as love, dear brother.

Don't be too quick to start professing love. Never say I love you first. If you do, you will lose a good chunk of your emotional capital.

Go on your date, tell her sweet things, create analogies, create stories, lie if you have to but just ensure your mouth is sweet. However, make no mention of love because love is a sacred thing that does not manifest after three dates.

GurlFriend:
You have serious issues

GurlFriend:
You have serious issues

KOPT33:
Love is a sacred phenomenon that does not manifest after three dates, or two quotes for that matter.

LieDetector:
I asked this girl out sometime and she told me she has a boyfriend and that the boyfriend doesn't stay in town. I honorably withdrew my advances and she got annoyed because I stopped calling her. The few times I tried she refused picking out of anger.

She would call me with a different number just to hear my voice and then hang up upon me saying "hello".

To cut the long story short, we agreed to meet which we did and I noticed she's still playing hard to get. I don't know what to do at this point honestly.

Should I withdraw outrightly or should I still talk about us starting a relationship especially considering that I didn't bring up the ish in our recent meeting.

Help guys!

GurlFriend:
You are so wrong

mikeget804:
d same way one babe say she get bf, I invite her come my huz she refuse, another day I invite her again say, I want tell her something and she came. To cut long story short, if u see d Bleep wey we Bleep that day erh, u go fear girls. after we Bleep finish, na so she Begin vex come leave my hux, I beg her she no listen na so I leave her make she go. I even call her for phone she no pick. After 5days I call and invited her, omo! d baby show again . d Bleep this time, sweet pass b4. After 1month d babe say e no want him bf again. 3days ago, d boy call me dey beg say, make I leave him bebe and like this, I dey vex 4 d girl, y him go give d boy my number.

KOPT33:
On what account?

GurlFriend:
There are countless testimonies of who met and fell in love on the orc first dates, and till date are still going on strong.

KOPT33:
What makes you think that there will be a repeat of that fairy tale here?

Wake up dear.

Pearllait:
I will try not to write an Epistle but I hope you understand my point. Let me start by saying, this happens to both male and female. it's so unfortunate it is happening to you but if i were you, i would close all forms of communication lines to help myself because it is really not worth it. POINT NUMBER1; She told you she has a boyfriend... (gud) Some persons would say, this generation has to do with games, we start a game and who ever wins wins (which i obviously don't believe in and by God's grace i will not need to struggle before winning the heart of any man). So.... it's really not about the PLAYING HARD TO GET. My dear, cut off from her. If she keeps calling you, it's a choice whether to pick or not to pick. if she sends you WhatsApp msg, read but don't always reply.

POINT NUMBER 2; She told you she has a boyfriend yet she still uses every means possible to speak to you. my dear, it's either 1. She's playing with your emotions and just want you around because her "SUPPOSED" Boo is out of town. 2. It's either she was disappointed when via your actions of not contacting her anymore made it look like a slap on her face and 3. or.... there's more to it that we still don't understand.

Now let me ask you. Would you rather have someone who genuinely wants to be with you or have someone who someday might wake up and say this to you "IT'S NOT AS IF I DIDN'T MAKE IT CLEAR FROM THE ON SET THAT I AM OR I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP"
Which would you prefer??


On the other hand, she might have no one but still contemplating if she wants to try again probably due to certain circumstances and reasons best known to her. But i will still say CUT OFF FROM HER FOR NOW OR CUT OFF COMPLETELY AND MOVE ON

dammytosh:
Women are like shadow. If you run after them they will run away from you.

If you run away from them they will chase you.

5thElement:
Lol. Girls and wahala sha.

Did you ask her when you guys met if she's still in a relationship or not?

1. Never ever date anyone who had to leave a relationship just to be with you. If they can leave someone else for you, they'll leave you for someone else.

2. I've never understood the concept of playing hard to get. Everything in life has a shelf life. You like someone go for them. Life doesn't have to be so complicated mehn.

Here's what you do:

Lay your cards on the table. Tell her how much you like her and tell her you want a relationship. Stop the hide and seek.

If she says no, then it's no.

If she says yes, congrats.

If she says she doesn't know, then that's also a NO. Move on already and block her everywhere blockable, FB, Instagram, Twitter, WhatsApp, MySpace, IMO, Nairaland

You know why? People like that only want to toy with your destiny.

You can thank me now not later.

LieDetector:
so she called with a strange line and hung up again upon me picking. Just that I refused calling back this time and have hence refused picking calls from strange numbers. She now called with her main line just yesterday and I still didn't pick. Dropped me a message on fb which I'm yet to reply. Am I overreacting Sis?

Pearllait:
In my best opinion, I would say NO! You are not over reacting. On the other hand, I will stiil say if I were you I won't force it, I won't give any room for my emotions to be played with or better still, I would give what I call "ANOTHER CHANCE" for a heart to heart discussion. Go for what would give your peace of mind. May God help you

LieDetector:
I should give it some more time right. Honestly I can't figure out why I'm so much attached to this girl. Left for me I'd choose to let everything go for now. Maybe have a heart to heart when the semester is finally in full swing considering I'm a student. Same with her. I'd have regained my true self by then. Thanks so much for your advice sis. It's golden and I appreciate.

On another note, are you a relationship expert?

McBrooklyn:
Hahahaha... You my Nigga you deserve award for fûcking that girl sex life up... Badt guy!!!

Na so o my brother. If u dull for these girls erh, them go use u take play like Gov. Fayose wey dey cut pomor for Ekiti market


Lol... The boyfriend way con dey call you sha... Why him sef no dey knack the babe well?? The joke is on him... Make you dey knack dey go, nothing do you...

lascodii:
baba for the girls

McBrooklyn:
Hahahaha... You my Nigga you deserve award for fûcking that girl sex life up... Badt guy!!!


Lol... The boyfriend way con dey call you sha... Why him sef no dey knack the babe well?? The joke is on him... Make you dey knack dey go, nothing do you...

1x2x3:
I like incredible hulk............ Smash all over and dump.

One has been playing same game with me for over 2 months. She really toyed with my emotions and abused the attention I gave her. When I stopped giving her attention and calls for about a week she became worried that she's overplaying her "hard to get" game plan. She's the one calling now that I've given up on her dramas.
I've taken back my affections which I've made known to her but if she keeps insisting I will go the hulk way.

DonroxyII:
Same with me here ..... Abi u are in Ilorin ni
Maybe we are onto same girl ooo !

lenghtinny:
It's not always about fùck Bro....

Dude never fùck, he's still struggling to use his head. If he gets the coochie, his sense will fly out of the window at the speed of light.

It's obvious the girl just wants to keep him as a backup file in her heart's google drive
He should just free the babe, else he will end up with tears, sorrows and blood.

donbachi:
Don't pull out yet.for her to had called you with different lines is an indication she is truely in love with you.get her a gift,but don't send it to her by yourself.which i believe will increase her hunger to see you.and when she calls your, try and form out of town for a week,send her recharge card.pls,do not call her.then, watch out for series of love sms.you can thank me later.