₦airaland Forum

LegitGirl:
Nope. That's different. If that were the case, I'd have said 10. But I'm talking about men who are willing to be serious with her...not just screw and bounce.

koffsman:
Very simple am scared of getting married and not stayn married G boys will always tempt Dem no matter what you do for them so long social media dey

Ebuka2016:
sorry to say but if not for social conditioning, this is what a man really wants:

1. Money
2. Steady supply of sex
3. Kids (his own fresh and blood)

a woman comes with her own set of wahala and responsibilities. The responsibility woman dey carry dey come eeh, e no be here.

Men dont really need a woman to live with them for the rest of their lives, they rather need that which only a woman supplies- sex and kids

If for say men can impregnate themselves and give birth, no single man go ever marry.

BadBradley:
Really? I thought since the dawn of time, Nigerian men in diaspora always come back home to take a wife.

I never knew Nigerian women abroad, most of whom marry during their menopause or never at all, are the ones doing the selection!

abiolamitodun:
Why are men scared of getting married and why is the number of baby mama increasing
let's discuss

MissRaine69:
90% down from a blanket statement of “All Nigerian women” see how you can be objective? It was 100% before.

arent88:
let him ask Emmanuel eboue the former arsenal player for some marriage lessons.some kids just sit down and shout team foreign ladies like those women are any better Dan wat we have here.

rasputinn:
I don't know if men are scared of getting married or why they are, but I heard of a dude back in the early 90s who while driving down PTI road in Efurun, late at night ,parked his car to take a leak by the roadside and suddenly he he felt a shaking in the brush (bush) and a long big snake slithered out of the bush, crept under his car and across the road and suddenly transformed into a slender chick and she started flagging down cars.So the dude vowed never to get married?

Then we have the ones that have low tolerance level for the feminine drama

Plus those that can't see themselves making that divine lifelong commitment to any one girl

angelbulksms:
Don't you think she is right?

A side chick or baby mama isn't your lady, she is everybody's.

lefulefu:
but the guys abroad why is it they prefer coming home to search for wives? Is it that the nigerian ladies overseas don't make better partners??

revontuli:
Maybe most women where you live. Scandinavian women are the complete opposite of that. Having your own space and own life outside of relationship is very important.

BadBradley:
*Nigerian ladies overseas are deemed to be too adventurous and open. A woman who travels the world doesn't give a good impression of being cut out for a proper wife.

*And then they have this skewed western idea of what a wife should be: domestic usurpers.

*Finally, the figures don't like; most Nigerian girls abroad are nothing other than cross border prostitutes.

rainylad:
All these hungry piss-poor boys with inherent criminal tendencies always crying like chickens about women should shut the hell up....the economy is terrible and you are too wretched to marry..the few who can do so every weekend..

Its funny how junkies,drug dealers,morally bankrupt poo-eating scammers know for criminal activites in and out of Nigeria all expect to marry decent girls...

The average Nigerian male is a circus clown...cry cry toddlers.

lefulefu:
mehn dis ur analysis is harsh sha

BadBradley:
Really? I thought since the dawn of time, Nigerian men in diaspora always come back home to take a wife.

I never knew Nigerian women abroad, most of whom marry during their menopause or never at all, are the ones doing the selection!

paix:
Women these days want a ready-made husband. They don't want to start from scratch with their husbands. Most of them are already spent in trying to keep body and soul together and they don't know how to cook. The best dish you can expect from them is noodles and fried eggs.

Safiaa:
but Nigerian women are useless right? Why are you going back home to find a wife? Or you have forgotten about your oyinbo princesses. You guys are so confused.

BadBradley:
Safiaa, you changed your mind about responding with a monosyllabic "ok" and decided to be constructive. I like that .

If you could show me somewhere on this thread where I said Nigeria women are useless, it will be helpful. You're the muckraker trying to discredit Nigerian men.

Nigerian women are --wilk always-- be my first choice for sex and cohabitation.

Their bed game used to be as dry as the Serengeti during harmattan, but now they can take my cock in the mouth without grating it with their teeth.

I will stick to Nigeria.

ellapius:
Weldon u really doing well for yourself sha do and go and marry. I won't even be surprised if some married men are here claiming single. Pls don't listen to them say marry OK. Love is real and Nigerian women are doing well for themselves from ur talks unsound like a perfect gentle man

Safiaa:
Well, at the end of the day as long as you get married to a Nigerian woman, there’s no need to argue wit you. You shouldn’t even be on this thread. Good luck

AstroG:
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I have encountered So many of Them,and all of them are Jokers,
Am Living Comfortably, but still on still,I won't marry.
Rada,am into babymama tin,becus I no get una wahala

Tochyodiks:
Jesus I have never seen such a senseless illiterate like you... You still don't understand anything I wrote there and I have a job, I work, I make my money and I will keep eating my money.. Not giving girls like you a dime .. Go to school you no gree.. Olosho 10 niara

GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.

KhadyM:
Yeah its very sad. I'd feel so much pressure if I was an African man. I'd probably wanna marry from another race. I heard on the radio the other day, this man complaining of how he now has to foot the bills for his wife's younger siblings still in school in addition to taking care of his own family. That's not cool. That's why we should fight for feminism because it creates a society where both men and women are expected to equally foot the bill for everything. No man head of the family bullshit. As much as it strokes their ego to be looked up to, it hurts them in the long run.

And on that note, we wont have a society where women are so dependent on men on silly things such as airtime, and men wont be looking down upon us so that the only thing they believe we can bring to the table is *****.

Safiaa:
40 is too old sef. Just hit 29 and see the pressure. You people need to face the reality, when you log off NL you know what’s good in your hood. [s]You can marry at 60 but is that ideal? When your children are 12 you’ll be on your death bed[/s]. Commot jare.

ellapius:
mr still on still. ...lol street boys slang. Where has u travelled to sef. I can imagine a guy standing bf me to toast me and he starts with still on still .....what is dat if I walk out on him now u guys will say Nigerian girls are good for nothing.

franklingud:
As for me, money no dey to marry my love.

I love her so much. But na money.

Please I need little assistance from good nairalanders.


0008351585.

Sterling bank plc.

Thanks and God bless.

ellapius:
a guy that watch pornography is timid and a pervert. U are just one of them fools roaming the streets r wearing tie in one stupid dirt chair u call office. U have money and u are boasting it here hehehehe goat. ..guys that have money don't go about screaming it. U are just a wannabe fool. An animal.. U are so useless that no girl want to date u that is why u are bitered oloshi. See him ranting my money my money as if he is worth any thing. U ll be so frustrated and die of depression if u continue like this. Am so sorry for the girl that ll join u spending those yahoo plus ritual money. Or maybe ur baba has asked u not to date Abi Shey dating a girl will spoil ur juju bag. U better go and die cos u ll run mad if u continue. Goat!! !!!

lefulefu:
so is it ur wife that now becomes your lady? Have u not seen married women that has become the the wife to everyman?.marrying a woman does not guarantee her loyalty to you. If she wan play away match she go do am.

goodnewscliff:
u broke!!! Nd u have a gal u love so much!!!!! Guy... Grow up joor..... We guys spending da time we should with gals... Working aint stupid naa.... go get a job man... Woman comes with responsibility...financially nd otherwises.... Dont be a dolphin