There is dis girl I met in d gym and I liked her. Then I decided to talk to her and we bonded well. the next day I planned to collect her digit but they told me she is a student and she has finished her project so she traveled. long story short I stole her number and chatted her up then she insisted on me revealing my identity so I did. then I asked her if we are cool and she said yes.we chatted through out the night then next morning I messaged her good morning and she replied with five messages asking about my night and everything. I was glad she liked me then we continued chatting she told me she designs cloth and then I asked if she has an Instagram page to display her work and she said yes then I asked for the name of her page and that was it she failed to reply. I messaged her again and she didn't reply then I decided to give her a call. she told me that she's not ready for d call and I told her I will call later. I messaged her after d call but to no avail. I am just curious to know if their is any reason she acted like this. [b]i need matured response only[\b].

Perhaps you came at her too strong. You shouldn't have called her . Now , all you can do is hope she would talk to you again.

She's not into u.she's giving u all the signs that she ain't interested in u. The first mistake u made was stealing her number when she refused giving it to you. Anyway if its really in ur mind dat u must get her by all means necessary maybe u can still push on.. Who knows u might just be lucky maybe after ten years of endless wooing she might finally say yes if her main guy messes up

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Brahahaha
You're naive, you think she liked you by given you 5 messages n all through the night. You're a learner, you're still learning how to crawl in the game.
You just spoilt your game. Sincerely, girls don't like guys like you because you acted too needy and desperate. Have you ever wondered why lion is feared in the animal Kingdom? Until you learn and become that lion,not a parasite and have a sendless attitude, you will keep loosing all girls that come your way.
Leave her for now. No message, no calls. she will contact you if she wants you.
You need serious tutoring.

You were too fast on her. You shouldn't have asked for her instagram page showing her works.

Most people these days, don't like revealing fully their profession or biz, that's Incase if she's a successful designer, she may not want you to get carried away and love her for what she's doing and not who she is. Next time don't prob too far on trying to check her business page. Be satisfied with am a teacher, am a designer or am an accountant. As the months go by and she realise your feelings are genuine, she will open more about her work to you.

As men who are well off, and evasive in a explaining what they do for a living to a lady they are meeting for the first time.. Likewise ladies are also evasive about the urge in showing off everything about their career.

Be patient, she will contact u if she wants to.

you are just clingy...u don't f*ckin bug a woman like that...u goofed up by also collecting her number from an irrelevant source, say Toto don finish for Naija?

she is bored and tired of ur ass
desperation is a turn off dear .. ..

the truth is bitter swallow it with fanta

I would have slapped the muscles out of your body, if i had the chance to catch you for any corner.

Fvcking nigga. You're a bed bug

Why do guys go through stress just to ask a girl out?Are we not the one who is going to spend on her after all?Sugar daddies don't go through all the stress that guys undergo.

You stoled her number without her permission and that's the cause of it.

Message her and tell her you are sorry for stealing her number without her permission

mebad:
Perhaps you came at her too strong. You shouldn't have called her . Now , all you can do is hope she would talk to you again.

I’d agreee with you on this fact!!!! Guys jus be acting like kids with candy esp when a girl is feeling them!!!! Trick is you gotta lay low for a while before you act like a bed bug

Where you dey rush go?

LessNoise:


I’d agreee with you on this fact!!!! Guys jus be acting like kids with candy esp when a girl is feeling them!!!! Trick is you gotta lay low for a while before you act like a bed bug

Exactly my thoughts. Liking a girl doesn't mean you have to go all out acting interested without being sure if she is even interested. You have to get her invested first (Time and emotion) .... like they say, power in a relationship belongs to who cares the less.

victorian:
You were too fast on her. You shouldn't have asked for her instagram page showing her works.

Most people these days, don't like revealing fully their profession or biz, that's Incase if she's a successful designer, she may not want you to get carried away and love her for what she's doing and not who she is. Next time don't prob too far on trying to check her business page. Be satisfied with am a teacher, am a designer or am an accountant. As the months go by and she realise your feelings are genuine, she will open more about her work to you.

As men who are well off, and evasive in a explaining what they do for a living to a lady they are meeting for the first time.. Likewise ladies are also evasive about the urge in showing off everything about their career.

Be patient, she will contact u if she wants to.

mmmm thanks ma.

BiggerbossAmani:
You stoled her number without her permission and that's the cause of it.

Message her and tell her you are sorry for stealing her number without her permission

i already did and she said we are cool

LessNoise:


I’d agreee with you on this fact!!!! Guys jus be acting like kids with candy esp when a girl is feeling them!!!! Trick is you gotta lay low for a while before you act like a bed bug

honestly I timed my response to her messages so as not to look desperate

mebad:


Exactly my thoughts. Liking a girl doesn't mean you have to go all out acting interested without being sure if she is even interested. You have to get her invested first (Time and emotion) .... like they say, power in a relationship belongs to who cares the less.

honestly I told her I was interested in being her friend and I was really ready to take it slow

Lalas247:
she is bored and tired of ur ass
desperation is a turn off dear .. ..

the truth is bitter swallow it with fanta

actually I timed my response to her messages so as not to look desperate. I do reply after 10 to 15 minutes

miracle956:

actually I timed my response to her messages so as not to look desperate. I do reply after 10 to 15 minutes

The fact you are trying not to look desperate shows you are desperate already. She will sense it.
The truth is she isn't interested. Don't push it.

lefulefu:
She's not into u.she's giving u all the signs that she ain't interested in u. The first mistake u made was stealing her number when she refused giving it to you. Anyway if its really in ur mind dat u must get her by all means necessary maybe u can still push on.. Who knows u might just be lucky maybe after ten years of endless wooing she might finally say yes if her main guy messes up

ten years of endless wooing......

miracle956:

mmmm thanks ma.

You are welcome

BiggerbossAmani:
You stoled her number without her permission and that's the cause of it.

Message her and tell her you are sorry for stealing her number without her permission

he shouldn't even apologise. He should just bone everything.na im fuk up d first time. That he stole her number was bad... To come begging and apologising for stealing her number will be worse. Ladies have contempt for guys who go about stealing contacts. Some guys go carry ur phone dey check...na wetin dem dey check?...female contacts on ur phone wey dem go collect to call at night.some dudes will spend 8k of recharge card calling random girls they stole dhier number from dhier friends phone. Girl wey dem never see with their eyes b4. I tuale for some dudes oo.

freedomchild:
ten years of endless wooing......

u never see anything. Is it not on nairaland dat we see twitter stories of guys wooing women for 10 years. The babe go finally gree and d guy will come on twitter celebrating dat a girl finally said yes after ignoring him for 10 yrs.

miracle956:
There is dis girl I met in d gym and I liked her. Then I decided to talk to her and we bonded well. the next day I planned to collect her digit but they told me she is a student and she has finished her project so she traveled. long story short I stole her number and chatted her up then she insisted on me revealing my identity so I did. then I asked her if we are cool and she said yes.we chatted through out the night then next morning I messaged her good morning and she replied with five messages asking about my night and everything. I was glad she liked me then we continued chatting she told me she designs cloth and then I asked if she has an Instagram page to display her work and she said yes then I asked for the name of her page and that was it she failed to reply. I messaged her again and she didn't reply then I decided to give her a call. she told me that she's not ready for d call and I told her I will call later. I messaged her after d call but to no avail. I am just curious to know if their is any reason she acted like this. [b]i need matured response only[\b].

You are like dem guys who meet a lady and immediately ask "what do you do for a living?" kinda gold diggy

miracle956:
There is dis girl I met in d gym and I liked her. Then I decided to talk to her and we bonded well. the next day I planned to collect her digit but they told me she is a student and she has finished her project so she traveled. long story short I stole her number and chatted her up then she insisted on me revealing my identity so I did. then I asked her if we are cool and she said yes.we chatted through out the night then next morning I messaged her good morning and she replied with five messages asking about my night and everything. I was glad she liked me then we continued chatting she told me she designs cloth and then I asked if she has an Instagram page to display her work and she said yes then I asked for the name of her page and that was it she failed to reply. I messaged her again and she didn't reply then I decided to give her a call. she told me that she's not ready for d call and I told her I will call later. I messaged her after d call but to no avail. I am just curious to know if their is any reason she acted like this. [b]i need matured response only[\b].

You are like dem guys who meet a lady and immediately ask "what do you do for a living?" kinda gold diggy.... You've got poor game though

comshots:
Why do guys go through stress just to ask a girl out?Are we not the one who is going to spend on her after all?Sugar daddies don't go through all the stress that guys undergo.

that is because the sugardaddies got the SUGAR that the young ladies can't resist.

lefulefu:
She's not into u.she's giving u all the signs that she ain't interested in u. The first mistake u made was stealing her number when she refused giving it to you. Anyway if its really in ur mind dat u must get her by all means necessary maybe u can still push on.. Who knows u might just be lucky maybe after ten years of endless wooing she might finally say yes if her main guy messes up

Lefu i have a totally different view why she is not responding.She LIED to him.The babe is not into any cloth designing as claimed by her.She does not have any instagram handle displaying any work.

I am sure her page is flooded with pepper dem gang pictures. .I dont think she expected the guy to ask for her handel.If she was angry the guy stole her digits immediately she saw his chat and he introduced himself she will block him.

lefulefu:
he shouldn't even apologise. He should just bone everything.na im fuk up d first time. That he stole her number was bad... To come begging and apologising for stealing her number will be worse. Ladies have contempt for guys who go about stealing contacts. Some guys go carry ur phone dey check...na wetin dem dey check?...female contacts on ur phone wey dem go collect to call at night.some dudes will spend 8k of recharge card calling random girls they stole dhier number from dhier friends phone. Girl wey dem never see with their eyes b4. I tuale for some dudes oo.

that's what the guy did and seriously is very bad for a grown up guy to steal a girls number from someone else phone.

Twoclans:


Lefu i have a totally different view why she is not responding.She LIED to him.The babe is not into any cloth designing as claimed by her.She does not have any instagram handle displaying any work.

I am sure her page is flooded with pepper dem gang pictures. .I dont think she expected the guy to ask for her handel.If she was angry the guy stole her digits immediately she saw his chat and he introduced himself she will block him.

hmm u mean her instagram page will probably look like this?

lefulefu:

hmm u mean her instagram page will probably look like this?

GBAM

BiggerbossAmani:
that's what the guy did and seriously is very bad for a grown up guy to steal a girls number from someone else phone.

na secondary school or jambito guys dey do such.but a full grown guy stealing and snatching numbers?...hmmm .always better u ask a girl upfront...if she says no then just bone .