pocohantas:


Maybe he didn't know. I have gone to occasions and watched well-dressed men and women lose their home-training at the sight of free jollof rice and moin-moin.

The first date should be the responsibility of whoever initiates it.

What is wrong is the girl ordering N11,800 worth of food.
When you're on a date, watch your host.
But if at all he/she insists you order first, keep it simple.
It's a date, not the Last Supper.

The guy only beat her to her game.
Cunny man die, cunny man bury am.

Dottore:
I had invited a girl on a date. I thought we could start something serious. Her father is a Secondary School Teacher while her mum is a trader. While we were considering where to go she said she'd like to go to Sahara Restaurant that she had never been there and she heard it's a nice place. . I had gone there a couple of times. This restaurant is a classy restaurant run by Arabs in Enugu. she came with 2 other girls, all were provocatively dressed and chewing gums without the slightest care in the world.
. A conversation ensued between btw us through text:
Me: babe I thought this meeting is for the both of us.
You didn't tell me you are coming with your friends.

Babe: what's wrong with my friends coming with me.
I also accompany them to meet their bfs. Besides
they are bored in the hostel and we are hungry.
I av been depressed for so long now, but ur post accompanied with adoring grammatical flows made me laugh for over 30minutes non-stop.

(they were busy going through a big leather bound colorful menu book and placing orders)

Me: I didn't plan for this. I have a budget for our outing.

Babe: duuurrr! (carelessly chewing gum with clicking sounds)

I kept my cool as they chattered about school and gossiped about their school mates. In less than 30mins the food started coming, the only thing I could recognize was pizza which they say they'd prefer as 'take away' and a bowl of shredded Chicken Sauce. Among their orders were two glass cups of a drink I couldn't recognize and a slice of lemon hanging on the tip of each of the glass.
The waiter brought a printed bill with a shiny steel cone that they use to cover bills. I opened the cone and looked I saw N17,300
I had ordered and paid for bottled water while I was waiting for her to come.

I gently stood up, left and drove straight to another eatery.. I didn't bother switching off my phone because of 3 lousy girls. I managed to silence it though because the calls were incessant followed with countless messages that first started with insults then calmer tones of "apologies"..

Nonsense

Hanseel1:



And you'll be sued if you think Nigeria is a lawless country.

you can't hold the guy because he wasn't the one who ordered for the food... you can only hold the lady accountable

Safiaa:
The girl is not smart. Even though the guy is expected to pay, why would you order food without having a backup plan to at least pay for yourself. Seriously man, it’s just common sense. On top of that ordering food that is above your financial capability, Lool well done. Forgetting that it’s just a common date, he is not even your boyfriend yet. Omasee

Hanseel1:
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he's now childish because he conserved his hard earned money in a wise way...

ladies stop ordering what you can't pay for

solasoulmusic:
Which kind of cheap guy would invite a woman for a date and not pay she’s wrong to order lavishly but nawa o and some are even abusing broke girl she like your father met your mother in buckinham parlance lol I said it

Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...

amstamon:

Wetin b ur point sef? Everything u write jst dey scatter scatter

Hanseel1:


guy 3450....lady 11800k

are you normal?

Hanseel1:



........how much have you spent on your bf this year?

Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...

Hanseel1:


the guy didn't say he was the one who initiated the date so how did you come to this conclusion?

what if it was the lady who initiated the date


BTW... @your post if the guy orders for 3500k food I see no reason why should order for more than 4k food

smh.. that is poverty mentality

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pocohantas:



It's a date, not the Last Supper.

Originalsly:



The guy is wrong. ... .. in these times...with these babes... a guy need to make it clear.... it's a date and not last supper. If not...expect a babe to order stuff she can't even pronounce ...have no clue what it is... and anything that is expensive....and. ...expect him to pay.

solasoulmusic:
Which kind of cheap guy would invite a woman for a date and not pay she’s wrong to order lavishly but nawa o and some are even abusing broke girl she like your father met your mother in buckinham parlance lol I said it

sprints1:
its very bad why do they use guys to test run food they av not eaten before in their life

sprints1:
its very bad why do they use guys to test run food they av not eaten before in their life

adekennis:

Bleep...Can't u read or u find it difficult to comprehend? The said lady came with two of her friends while he taught it's a date between the two of them.

Safiaa:
Can’t blame everything on the girl though. They’re two sides to the story. From experience I know men like to brag a lot about what they don’t have. So I think he’s not telling a huge part of the story.

Dami12345:

Don't be an idiot naw.
Read up and see the meaning of alpha.
Even alpha males in a pack don't allow excesses of any other member.
Firstly the lady specified the restaurant SHE wanted ordered what SHE wanted then with no regard for the mans pocket EXPECTED him to pay, when he didn't bulge she went on to attack his ego hoping to MANIPULATE him into paying by telling him real men don't do this and that.
Well shocker, the man didn't have low self esteem, when SHE saw that that didn't work SHE appealed to his good side, trying to sweettalk him into pay.
Now here's a question how do you think she paying eventually in that restaurant, ...
Obviously a REAL man like you sent her the money.

Cheers to all the REAL men out there, hopefully more jobs fall on your to continue your slavery niceness.

solasoulmusic:


Lol childish men insult they don’t make points the word took a girl sounds like he did and second it’s a cultural thing not every man is a gentleman I once went to dinner with an ex it was $50 for a meal that was a lot it was the cheapest though on the table and he paid I brought out my card though but he said he’s fine lol story for another day the boy kept remembering about how he paid the money sha I was like nawa o then why did you stop me from paying this was in yankee o but imagine the same scenario why would you ask someone to go to lunch and not speak on who is buying ? They didn’t talk budget and babe went ham if you made clear that everyone buys theirs you will see that she would have adjusted but you don’t embarrass people cause they don’t have yours could run out soon and you may come to need those same people in the end that’s the circle of life look down on no one no condition is permanent

The boy petty she’s lucky she can still go on another date with a real gentleman

solasoulmusic:


Lol childish men insult they don’t make points the word took a girl sounds like he did and second it’s a cultural thing not every man is a gentleman I once went to dinner with an ex it was $50 for a meal that was a lot it was the cheapest though on the table and he paid I brought out my card though but he said he’s fine lol story for another day the boy kept remembering about how he paid the money sha I was like nawa o then why did you stop me from paying this was in yankee o but imagine the same scenario why would you ask someone to go to lunch and not speak on who is buying ? They didn’t talk budget and babe went ham if you made clear that everyone buys theirs you will see that she would have adjusted but you don’t embarrass people cause they don’t have yours could run out soon and you may come to need those same people in the end that’s the circle of life look down on no one no condition is permanent

The boy petty she’s lucky she can still go on another date with a real gentleman