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Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Martin0(m): 12:21pm On May 08, 2018
lefulefu:
Cos Baba God bless dem kenyan ladies with big ukwuscheesy. She knows as dem get big yansh so..wen dem twerk am on d guy's crotch..he will be seeing starscheesycheesy... Emm Randy91,greiboy,luminiouz and Martin0cheesy... Its like we will be entering Nairobi soon to look for some kenyan babes to marrycheesy. Biko how much is kenyan bride price?.. Anybody?cheesy.
yes oo, something most kill a man
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by veraiyke(m): 12:33pm On May 08, 2018
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Do you think that I can't do all that and even more for a man I love? There's a differennce between wife and servant Or house maid. Women do all those things she listed and even more for their husbands. But saying those things will keep a man is nonsense. A man who wants to go will go even it you serve him your freshly harvested heart. If that's the kind of woman you need, then I pitty her. And you too, cos you will feel so bored trust you might just leave her and run away.
Different strokes' for different people. There are some men that only need that woman to see him as her world. All they may just need is that woman's love n care, to express herself while putting his interest n feelings in her acts. Yes a woman may do this all and a man may still go away but some will stay and in turn worship that woman for the rest of their lives. Its all about respecting feelings. You wil feel bored with lots o attention doesn't mean the other person will feel bored too. Remember another man's food is another man's poison.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by KanwuliaExtra:
omoadeleye:
sheybe you still enjoy living your father house ni, don't worry, when you reach 50 you will be doing Ultima search for a man
Hmmmmmm. . . . . . Travel and see. You think say I nor get “MEN”?wink
Only a lazy and needy woman will be crying for a man to be in her life. I don’t have that kind of problem o. I will always have MEN in my life. wink Not just ONE MAN. BETA ONES!kiss

You missed the “DUBAI 5.0”? wink
Please, stick to your “Nairaland 4.0”! kiss
Abeg! Enjoy your life o.
A man can only be part of it, not all of it! kiss
Life is a choice. Live yours. I am living mine o. cool

Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Tracypacy(f): 12:52pm On May 08, 2018
You dig.
northvietnam:
Nigga RAW did alot for them all but look what they r now doing to others...

Even phyno cant help Storex, instead he dumped her after that bang "local Rapper" with olamide x phyno x reminisce
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:36pm On May 08, 2018
veraiyke:
Different strokes' for different people. There are some men that only need that woman to see him as her world. All they may just need is that woman's love n care, to express herself while putting his interest n feelings in her acts. Yes a woman may do this all and a man may still go away but some will stay and in turn worship that woman for the rest of their lives. Its all about respecting feelings. You wil feel bored with lots o attention doesn't mean the other person will feel bored too. Remember another man's food is another man's poison.
We are all saying the same thing. Women do all that and men still walk always from them. Some don't even do it and their men do run away. There are no rules on how to keep a man or a woman. Give him horse or doggy, fees him your soul, carry him on your back to his work place after bathing him and breasgeesing him when the time comes and he wants to go, he will go. People who know how to show love do even more. I must not necessarily do what another woman is doing.
It's my responsibility to make breakfast for my man and keep him happy. It should do it like a wife not as a servant. You can't tell me that people don't do all those things in that least. And you can't tell me that everyone that does it keeps the man
As you rightly soar, another man's meat is another man's poison.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:39pm On May 08, 2018
princfred:
Lol . That last sentence funny die. What do you think men run from more an uncaring, contentious, selfish wife or a caring one? Who dey give una this opposite convoluted orientation? I know not your mothers but fellow clueless girls.What if the man plays by this your upside down logic? Reason am the other way first. If i say i wont do certain things for my wife so she wont feel bored and run away. How will sound to you? I will not give my wife feeding money lest she eats too much, gets bored and runs away. How in the world does that begin to make sense? If you call the things op listed as housemaid or servant job, ok na i no ague but beware many have gone .......
I can do all these as my duty and responsibility and not to keep him. Don't you get. They are not even hard to do.Ddoing it to keep him is a waste of time if he wants to go. Just do it as a responsibility or a duty. Why should be done
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by veraiyke(m): 1:43pm On May 08, 2018
MISSCONGENIALITY:
We are all saying the same thing. Women do all that and men still walk always from them. Some don't even do it and their men do run away. There are no rules on how to keep a man or a woman. Give him horse or doggy, fees him your soul, carry him on your back to his work place after bathing him and breasgeesing him when the time comes and he wants to go, he will go. People who know how to show love do even more. I must not necessarily do what another woman is doing.
It's my responsibility to make breakfast for my man and keep him happy. It should do it like a wife not as a servant. You can't tell me that people don't do all those things in that least. And you can't tell me that everyone that does it keeps the man
As you rightly soar, another man's meat is another man's poison.
. I wasn't referring to the list but your comment. Maybe you should read your comment and my response to it again and digest it.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by veraiyke(m): 1:49pm On May 08, 2018
MISSCONGENIALITY:
We are all saying the same thing. Women do all that and men still walk always from them. Some don't even do it and their men do run away. There are no rules on how to keep a man or a woman. Give him horse or doggy, fees him your soul, carry him on your back to his work place after bathing him and breasgeesing him when the time comes and he wants to go, he will go. People who know how to show love do even more. I must not necessarily do what another woman is doing.
It's my responsibility to make breakfast for my man and keep him happy. It should do it like a wife not as a servant. You can't tell me that people don't do all those things in that least. And you can't tell me that everyone that does it keeps the man
As you rightly soar, another man's meat is another man's poison.
Personally I have problems with that list. Its useless.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:50pm On May 08, 2018
veraiyke:
. I wasn't referring to the list but your comment. Maybe you should read your comment and my response to it again and digest it.
Noted
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by princfred(m):
MISSCONGENIALITY:
I can do all these as my duty and responsibility and not to keep him. Don't you get. They are not even hard to do.Ddoing it to keep him is a waste of time if he wants to go. Just do it as a responsibility or a duty. Why should be done
Better. Best is to do it for both reasons.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 4:18pm On May 08, 2018
princfred:
Will you faint if you do? Dont worry there are hundreds of singles ready to do that and more. Just dont complain when e set. Such arrogance.
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Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 4:22pm On May 08, 2018
princfred:
Will you faint if you do? Dont worry there are hundreds of singles ready to do that and more. Just dont complain when e set. Such arrogance.
Yes, I'll faint.

The arrogance is believing that everyone is willing to bend over backwards just to "keep" another in a relationship. That will never be me! I'm not scared of my own shadow, thus I don't give a damn if a person leaves or stays. I'll let the contortionists do their thing, gladly so.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Nobody: 4:25pm On May 08, 2018
princfred:
Thats not always true many nice people usually marry the opposite of what they are. Dont go and keep claiming wife and get a maid to do those things listed in the first page and see who becomes the madam and queen of the house very soon. They dey tell una wetin men dey find go outside or follow maid leave madam for now una dey talk una own instead of to dey jot down. Later na una go say men no get sense leave madam dey follow maid or "what is he looking for outside that i dont have". Those white babes wey invent feminism give una una carry am for head get plan B o. When the thing backfire, their men dump them, they go catch Naija guy wey dey find visa there use am hold body. I wonder who Naija women go catch maybe one aboki or gateman or better still we dey wait una for sugar mummy level when all these dragging of right and feminism lead to its final destination where una go dey pay the bills for the man and he will be doing the things listed by OP. In any case we dey.
did you comprehend my submissions thus far? Anyways nice chatting with you smiley
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 4:28pm On May 08, 2018
Opentokwowledge:
"Helping him dress" is nothing but simple nicety. It could be as simple as doing/undoing one of the buttons on his shirt to make him look sharp or even just adjusting the collar of his shirt, doesn't necessarily mean dressing him up lol!...Even affords you the chance of feeling him up before he hits the road if you kwim wink! Go easy on the 'girl power' thingy, makes you come off as some programmed inflexible cyborgs tongue ...
Still not my style of showing affection lol.

It's not about girl power, I don't subscribe to that school of thoughts. I just find the whole thing ridiculous, perhaps because I'm not wired that way.

I refuse to change who I am to fit some ideal. No sire.

Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:49pm On May 08, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Still not my style of showing affection lol.

It's not about girl power, I don't subscribe to that school of thoughts. I just find the whole thing ridiculous, perhaps because I'm not wired that way.

I refuse to change who I am to fit some ideal. No sire.
Spoken like the true aquarian woman you are.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 4:58pm On May 08, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Spoken like the true aquarian woman you are.
Hahaha. There's some real truth to astrology after all, because fitting in or doing things so I can be liked, is not what I'm here (on Earth) for. I'll choose to have zero friends over trying to ingratiate myself any day. Take me as I am or leave me. Don't care!
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:05pm On May 08, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Hahaha. There's some real truth to astrology after all, because fitting in or doing things so I can be liked, is not what I'm here (on Earth) for. I'll choose to have zero friends over trying to ingratiate myself any day. Take me as I am or leave me. Don't care!
Hope you are great I agree with you.
While reading through on Aquarius characteristics I discovered that some aquarians do exhibit the I don't care attitude same with me I could careless about the opinions of others and I am not scared to speak my mind.
I am proud to add my zodiac sign to my signature.*laughs and shines eyes*
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 5:17pm On May 08, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Hope you are great I agree with you.
While reading through on Aquarius characteristics I discovered that some aquarians do exhibit the I don't care attitude same with me I could careless about the opinions of others.
I am proud to add my zodiac sign to my signature.*laughs and shines eyes*
Lol, not caring what others think is an Aquarius trait though. Our motto is live & let live. I know I find it very hard to take other people's opinions into consideration, especially when they're about what I should be doing etc. I get mad when I'm told what to do. Who the Bleep are you to tell me I should...? I will NOT be told how to live my life by anyone. I've been like that since I was a little girl. I've just never been good at taking orders. I do whatever the Bleep I want angry tongue

Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:20pm On May 08, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Lol, not caring what others think is an Aquarius trait though. Our motto is live & let live. I know I find it very hard to take other people's opinions into consideration, especially when they're about what I should be doing etc. I get mad when I'm told what to do. Who the Bleep are you to tell me I should...? I will NOT be told how to live my life by anyone. I've been like that since I was a little girl. I've just never been good at taking orders. I do whatever the Bleep I want angry tongue
Yeah yeah,I read one on live and let live and point to note
We are stubborn,rebellious and different it isn't our fault.
Take care sis catch ya later.:pcheesy
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by XhosaNostra(f): 5:32pm On May 08, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Yeah yeah,I read one on live and let live and point to note
We are stubborn,rebellious and different it isn't our fault.
Take care sis catch ya later.:pcheesy
True dat!

Laters kiss
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by MrMystrO(m): 5:59pm On May 08, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Yeah yeah,I read one on live and let live and point to note
We are stubborn,rebellious and different it isn't our fault.
Take care sis catch ya later.:pcheesy
I guess you just found out your star sign. I've known mine for a very long time now tho. I'm a full fledged Sagittarius man and believe me everything you find listed as traits of a Sagittarius man is just me straight to the last bit Lol. In fact if you want to know so much about me, Just look up traits of a Sagittarius male. Pretty creepy if you ask me Lol. And i just checked the compatibility of an Aquarius female and a Sagittarius male, seems we pretty compatible too wink

Have a great day miss.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by princfred(m): 7:21pm On May 08, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Yes, I'll faint.

The arrogance is believing that everyone is willing to bend over backwards just to "keep" another in a relationship. That will never be me! I'm not scared of my own shadow, thus I don't give a damn if a person leaves or stays. I'll let the contortionists do their thing, gladly so.
Better since thats bending over to you. Joyful lasting marriage is for those who dont see those things as bending over and dont feel too big to do them.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by princfred(m): 7:25pm On May 08, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Still not my style of showing affection lol.

It's not about girl power, I don't subscribe to that school of thoughts. I just find the whole thing ridiculous, perhaps because I'm not wired that way.

I refuse to change who I am to fit some ideal. No sire.
Better. This ensures there will be enough baby mama's and sugar mummies in the future to go round.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:26pm On May 08, 2018
MrMystrO:
I guess you just found out your star sign. I've known mine for a very long time now tho. I'm a full fledged Sagittarius man and believe me everything you find listed as traits of a Sagittarius man is just me straight to the last bit Lol. In fact if you want to know so much about me, Just look up traits of a Sagittarius male. Pretty creepy if you ask me Lol. And i just checked the compatibility of an Aquarius female and a Sagittarius male, seems we pretty compatible too wink

Have a great day miss.
LWKMD,I had a crush on a sagittarian guy and I googled our compatibility yesterday and he has some of those traits,it was good the compatibility was over 80%.The problem is that such men are not loyal and are capable of committing infidelity.From what I read we could clash on some issues and our elements are different but an aquarius female and a sagittarius male compatibility is better compared to a capricorn guy.
I would Google the traits of a sagittarius male,I only checked the compatibility.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by MrMystrO(m): 10:01pm On May 08, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
LWKMD,I had a crush on a sagittarian guy and I googled our compatibility yesterday and he has some of those traits,it was good the compatibility was over 80%.The problem is that such men are not loyal and are capable of committing infidelity.From what I read we could clash on some issues and our elements are different but an aquarius female and a sagittarius male compatibility is better compared to a capricorn guy.
I would Google the traits of a sagittarius male,I only checked the compatibility.
Yeah you should check it out. I already checked out Aquarius before now
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:07pm On May 08, 2018
MrMystrO:
Yeah you should check it out. I already checked out Aquarius before now
I did,You guys are unreliable,superficial,impatient,careless etc LOL.On the positive side you are intellectuals,philosophical,straight forward,generous etc it was interesting to read,Some of the men from your zodiac sign can be too authoritative and aquarian women cannot stand such type of men we cannot tolerate the chauvinistic and possessive type of men we love our freedom it is not our fault.Have a good night rest mystro.
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by mikejj(m): 10:15pm On May 08, 2018
pure slavery... 7_point of slavery
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by MrMystrO(m): 11:13pm On May 08, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
I did,You guys are unreliable,superficial,impatient,careless etc LOL.On the positive side you are intellectuals,philosophical,straight forward,generous etc it was interesting to read,Some of the men from your zodiac sign can be too authoritative and aquarian women cannot stand such type of men we cannot tolerate the chauvinistic and possessive type of men we love our freedom it is not our fault.Have a good night rest mystro.
You see! At least now we've gotten to know our differences and will probably learn to respect them better grin

Good night Miss Hippolyta..
Re: 7 Ways To Keep A Man By Kenyan Lady by Opentokwowledge: 7:16am On May 10, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Still not my style of showing affection lol.

It's not about girl power, I don't subscribe to that school of thoughts. I just find the whole thing ridiculous, perhaps because I'm not wired that way.

I refuse to change who I am to fit some ideal. No sire.
lol! Are you this complex or are you just writing badass to seem cool? This helping him dress thingy is just about the most basic of the basic gesture folks "in love" can extend to each other. It's just like you calling out on bae to help zip up your gown from the back. Come on man!! cheesy
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