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Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by constantt(m): 5:12am On May 13, 2018
Nice
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by kingsleyugo41(m): 6:57am On May 13, 2018
victorian:











Your eyes never clear.

Can't u see Praiz the artist, Paddy Adenuga, Lynxx, Don Jazzy, etc some rich guys out there we don't even know sef, looking to have stable headed girlfriends and wifey but unfortunately none is showing up.
The ones desperately wooing them, they don't like cos the guys know a wife material when he sees one.

See dbanj, it's not like he didn't want to get married on-time but after search hi and low! He got fed-up until he met his co-star in one dance show like that , after series of shows with her and possibly he must have complained he wants a gf who will end up as his wife. All he wants is a cool level headed well brought up gorgeous beauty.

And luckily for him, his co-star has a fair lovely cousin, far away in the north, she rarely clubs, she rarely parties and when he met this cousin in person? He was blown away with her soft natural looks and there and then he said that's the woman I truly need in my life. He married her codedly and he's living a stress free married life.
He's smart.

So at the end. Most of these rich guys have their eyes sets on daughters of millionaires or billionaires, who rarely have good home training. They love to club but they don't want to marry club girls.
They feel cos club girls are always all. Over them, then all women should be all. Over them.. But sorry that's far from reality.

The good homely girls don't club, they don't party, they go to school or work, market, shopping. Mall, then back home. That's their life

So until u that have money come down from your high horse and take the pains to ask around for such wife materials, u won't see them.
Last last the good homely girls will be matchmaked by either their family or family friends or even church members to people they feel will make the girls have peace of mind in their husband's house.

That's why someone said, even with your money, some ladies will not date you.

Cause these ladies and their families look at the character of the suitor coming and his pedigree, not just money only.


I hope am making sense undecided
so true

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Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by fuellessgen: 7:06am On May 13, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:
lol... this should have been nice, but all these can work when you have all I have listed below;

- Financial security

- A good job

- A car

- A well-furnished apartment

- And you are average looking

You can't be looking like a refugee, and a woman would give you listening ears. Unless you deal with ghetto girls.

The bottom line is; fix your life, have dreams, chase them, keep achieving it, and the law of attraction will send someone to you when the time is due.

Chase dreams and women will come like a bonus.

I'll take my leave!

Your assumption is mighty flawed.

The danger in using money to attract ladies is that you'll always attract gold diggers and leeches. A woman who loves in you in your broke state is the one for you. A woman who falls in love with you because of other admirable qualities she sees in you is the real deal.
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by kinnlive(m): 7:34am On May 13, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:
lol... this should have been nice, but all these can work when you have all I have listed below;

- Financial security

- A good job

- A car

- A well-furnished apartment

- And you are average looking

You can't be looking like a refugee, and a woman would give you listening ears. Unless you deal with ghetto girls.

The bottom line is; fix your life, have dreams, chase them, keep achieving it, and the law of attraction will send someone to you when the time is due.

Chase dreams and women will come like a bonus.

I'll take my leave!
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by ubunja(m): 7:50am On May 13, 2018
Lazyreporta:
While your goal is driving you to meet the kind of woman you feel you deserve, this also means you want to be screening others out. You do not want someone that is a user or into only material things. If a woman asks: What kind of car do you drive? Not that it matters... It says it really does matter to her. Tell her you rode the bus, walked, came on skates, etc.

If she asks where you live, tell her something silly like: Well, actually, I was hoping to move in with you and have you support me and wait on me hand and foot. Be silly, outrageous, or be stupid. Do not give these types of obviously materialistic questions a straight answer. There are women that look for security and will marry a guy they do not love. These types of women are only looking for security and don’t care who you are or what you are all about.

If a woman tells you looks are not important, point out some unlikely man and ask: What about that guy? A lot of women will respond with: He’s not my type, even though she has never spoken to him before. It shows that looks are important to her. It’s not that she is necessarily being dishonest with you, but it does give you further evidence of what I mentioned before: What a woman says is not necessarily what she responds to. If a woman asks: Do you have a girlfriend? Be playful. You do not want her to think you haven’t had a date in 2 years. Respond with indirect or playful answers like: I’m just out dating and having fun. Or: There is always room for one more. When you come off with confidence, she may further test you with: Are you a player? You could reply playfully: Sure, I play sports. Or: I played sports in high school.
If she gives you the: That’s not what I mean. Look at her with curiosity, and ask her straight out: What do you mean? The point is, that no matter what her question, no matter how she tries to test you, you can’t let her think she can get under your skin. Keep it positive. Keep it playful.

When a woman tells you: Well, I don’t date guys who are players. You can ask her straight out: Who said I wanted to date you? Or: When I meet someone who is worthy of my time, I will be exclusive with her. I haven’t determined whether I want to go out with you or not. At that point, start asking her: Why should I go out with someone like you? Are you hitting on me? Are you fun?
The whole point to these questions is that she may or may not be interested. The lower her attraction level, the more she will test you. Pay attention to her reactions. Don’t be offensive or angry, but show that you could care less whether she likes you or not. Have her try to prove to you why she is worth your time.

Another one of the things that women will actually test guys on is to see how firm they are in their position. The guy will say something to the effect of: Oh, I like blue colored cars. She might respond with: I don’t like blue colored cars. I like red colored cars. Some guys will turn around and change their opinion to match hers, trying to please her. They think that’s what she wants. He will then say something like: Well, blue really... Now that I think about it, I actually do like red more than I like blue. I guess I have to agree with you. They will change one of their core beliefs on things they want to match that of the woman.

She is trying to see if she can get you to change your opinion to match hers. If you go along with it, you are being weak and failing her test. What it tells her is that you will go along with anything she says. The challenge for her is now taken away, and she will move on to the next guy.


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its the same test

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Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Chigorkizz(m): 7:58am On May 13, 2018
Make I experiment these tips and see for myself.
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by jaywhoco(m): 8:05am On May 13, 2018
" go wisely and slow, they stumble that run fast"...

"hasty marriage seldom proveth well"...

"love sought is good, but love given unsought is better"...

" our doubts are traitors and they make us lose the good we often might win by fearing to attempt"...


all are quotes by Williams Shakespeare and they summarise my position on this subject


Disclaimer: I am not an incurable romantic
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by ibez007(m): 8:09am On May 13, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:
lol... this should have been nice, but all these can work when you have all I have listed below;

- Financial security

- A good job

- A car

- A well-furnished apartment

- And you are average looking

You can't be looking like a refugee, and a woman would give you listening ears. Unless you deal with ghetto girls.

The bottom line is; fix your life, have dreams, chase them, keep achieving it, and the law of attraction will send someone to you when the time is due.

Chase dreams and women will come like a bonus.

I'll take my leave!

Now!, Dirriz Common-sense!.
Good Write bro.
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Bluehill1051: 8:48am On May 13, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:
lol... this should have been nice, but all these can work when you have all I have listed below;

- Financial security

- A good job

- A car

- A well-furnished apartment

- And you are average looking

You can't be looking like a refugee, and a woman would give you listening ears. Unless you deal with ghetto girls.

The bottom line is; fix your life, have dreams, chase them, keep achieving it, and the law of attraction will send someone to you when the time is due.

Chase dreams and women will come like a bonus.

I'll take my leave!
BAR MAN, give this guy a bottle of Star
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 9:01am On May 13, 2018
Cutehector:
come every time mpia GI eh, mpia GI eh. Shuo. Oya come to my house and do the mpia GI things na wahala. Take your time.
Come your house and chop clean mouth cheesy
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by engrMikemd(m): 9:04am On May 13, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:
lol... this should have been nice, but all these can work when you have all I have listed below;

- Financial security

- A good job

- A car

- A well-furnished apartment

- And you are average looking

You can't be looking like a refugee, and a woman would give you listening ears. Unless you deal with ghetto girls.

The bottom line is; fix your life, have dreams, chase them, keep achieving it, and the law of attraction will send someone to you when the time is due.

Chase dreams and women will come like a bonus.

I'll take my leave!
well said!
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Cutehector(m): 9:10am On May 13, 2018
biacan:
Come your house and chop clean mouth cheesy
lol
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 9:14am On May 13, 2018
Cutehector:
lol
I go chop you clean mouth nothing go happen cheesy cheesy
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Lazyreporta(m): 9:17am On May 13, 2018
biacan:
I go chop you clean mouth nothing go happen cheesy cheesy

On my thread una dey chop una self
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Cutehector(m): 9:17am On May 13, 2018
biacan:
I go chop you clean mouth nothing go happen cheesy cheesy
u think say I be idiot? I go leave you stranded o.
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 9:22am On May 13, 2018
Cutehector:
u think say I be idiot? I go leave you stranded o.
Stranded ko..... handed ni you nor fit do anything cool
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 9:23am On May 13, 2018
Lazyreporta:

On my thread una dey chop una self
cheesy cheesy
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Cutehector(m): 9:24am On May 13, 2018
biacan:
Stranded ko..... handed ni you nor fit do anything cool
don't dare me. I can be heartless if I want to
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 9:26am On May 13, 2018
Cutehector:
don't dare me. I can be heartless if I want to
You go cry for my hand..... chop and clean mouth loading cool
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Lazyreporta(m): 9:34am On May 13, 2018
biacan:
You go cry for my hand..... chop and clean mouth loading cool

Wait o , una be vampire? Chop here and there
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 9:38am On May 13, 2018
Lazyreporta:


Wait o , una be vampire? Chop here and there
What's your problem allow this love to flow biko cheesy
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by SAMBARRY: 9:42am On May 13, 2018
All this unnecessary mind games is totally needless. Love shouldn't be that hard. It's about do you love he4or not. Well maybe these can be useful for teenagers who are still testing with mind games
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Cutehector(m): 9:50am On May 13, 2018
biacan:
You go cry for my hand..... chop and clean mouth loading cool
oya na, try fvck up first.
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Lazyreporta(m): 10:00am On May 13, 2018
biacan:
What's your problem allow this love to flow biko cheesy


Lust you meant?
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 10:16am On May 13, 2018
Cutehector:
oya na, try fvck up first.
Show me the road my I go Bleep up cheesy
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by MrXlim5618: 10:23am On May 13, 2018
You couldn't have said it better bruv.

BiafranBushBoy:
lol... this should have been nice, but all these can work when you have all I have listed below;

- Financial security

- A good job

- A car

- A well-furnished apartment

- And you are average looking

You can't be looking like a refugee, and a woman would give you listening ears. Unless you deal with ghetto girls.

The bottom line is; fix your life, have dreams, chase them, keep achieving it, and the law of attraction will send someone to you when the time is due.

Chase dreams and women will come like a bonus.

I'll take my leave!

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Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Freeko4: 10:25am On May 13, 2018
hmmmmm
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 10:31am On May 13, 2018
Lazyreporta:



Lust you meant?
If you're lusting after someone leave me out of it..... shocked
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Lazyreporta(m): 10:43am On May 13, 2018
biacan:
If you're lusting after someone leave me out of it..... shocked

I think you're right
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by biacan(f): 10:48am On May 13, 2018
Lazyreporta:

I think you're right
K
Re: Approaching The Beautiful Woman: How To Handle The Pressure Points by Jointhemiltons2(m): 11:08am On May 13, 2018
All those questions are asked by women who are intelligent,most women are not.

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