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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by agarawu23(m): 5:48am On May 23, 2018 |
Hanseel1:@ bolded, fat lie. Rants of a lazy man who thinks he can escape poverty by marrying a rich lady. U will end up regretting your life cos women will always be women and u will one day like to take control as the "head" which will not be easy and might end u up in the street as a begger. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:50am On May 23, 2018 |
agarawu23: Young man I'm a married man and by all standards I'm not a poor man. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:01am On May 23, 2018 |
In some cultures that's matriarchal, it's normal but in Nigerian culture which is highly patriarchal, it might be considered a taboo in some tribes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by delishpot: 6:02am On May 23, 2018 |
Amebos, shebi bible said a man will leave his mother and father and clive unto his wife? Did he move into her family house? Even if he did so long as they are happy and welcome there and raising worthy children I will pick them over a very distabilized family living in the husbands lavish mansion. 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:03am On May 23, 2018 |
My dad lived in my mum's house the whole time they were married and together. Mum was an excellent woman, wife and mother. I certainly don't want a husband that's anything like my dad. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by delishpot: 6:03am On May 23, 2018 |
agarawu23: And must you insult him? Can you not air your views without name calling? |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by delishpot: 6:06am On May 23, 2018 |
Emma1Oj: And what about the womans safety incase the man is a terrorist? Since you factor betrayal into it. Havent men being using the get out of my house method to punish their wives too? Why is it now a thing of fear? If it is not a subjectbof discission should a man do it why fear now? Oh it is now clear that such habit is very demoralizing tovthe victims ba? If women also start preping for the future foolishness of their husbands what type of family would the society raise? The only problem I see is if they live with exyended family be it the mans or womans and if the man can not take care of himself should problem arrise (Same wa y wives are encouraged to be economically balanced in case). But if the said house belongs to the wife independently then I see no issue with it. 10 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by NdiaraIGBO: 6:07am On May 23, 2018 |
agarawu23: Best comment, well done. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by NdiaraIGBO: 6:10am On May 23, 2018 |
PrimadonnaO: Wow! Please share with us what makes you say this... |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by selfmade22: 6:20am On May 23, 2018 |
chai , no wonder, single mum evrywia, wats wrong wit women? |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Emma1Oj(m): 6:21am On May 23, 2018 |
Hanseel1:Omini knowest? U seem to believed u kn it all? and yet u can't jealously guide ur utterances! a man shld make himself clear before he move into the house of a woman bcus it wound be easy. because some women ehh!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:22am On May 23, 2018 |
Emma1Oj: Thief! 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:23am On May 23, 2018 |
Hanseel1: na only you get sense inside both the twitter and nairaland commenters put together.. 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Ambassadors: 6:29am On May 23, 2018 |
Every Building or relationship is measured by the foundation. If the foundation is weak just give it time, it will crumble like a house of cards. The scriptures is the foundation of living a glorious life. Where was it recorded that God's child went to stay in his wife's house? This 21st Century fever seem to becloud our judgement. Scripture says a good man shall provide for his household. Why didn't it say the other way round? Because people are doing it doesn't mean it is right! If a man is not financially buoyant pls put marriage on hold. Marriage is not competition. If you don't have work or a steady form of income no go there! Even Adam was given work to do before God gave him Eve as wife. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Emma1Oj(m): 6:31am On May 23, 2018 |
delishpot:I don't really kn which of the questions u need me to answer! but they are on point. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:34am On May 23, 2018 |
If you're not secure enough in yourself and your relationship to have no problem with moving in with your wife, then you probably got married to the wrong person. Tbh the best thing for a couple is to sell individual houses and buy a mutual, new home which will be owned equally by both. Problem solved 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Fitnessman(m): 6:34am On May 23, 2018 |
I don't think it's a bad idea moving to her house at all.. I'm just saying my own o |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by mamawin(f): 6:36am On May 23, 2018 |
It's really not a good thing, but like somebody said, if that's the only option life throws at you, grab it. But men and their ego, I know of many homes where the woman pays the rent along with some other dues. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by obowunmi(m): 6:43am On May 23, 2018 |
agarawu23: So many lazy men these days. So many men looking for a sugar mama. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by theapeman4: 6:44am On May 23, 2018 |
Africa are so demented! 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by obowunmi(m): 6:46am On May 23, 2018 |
PrimadonnaO: Your mother is using your fathers destiny. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Winters22: 6:48am On May 23, 2018 |
Emma1Oj: For the man's safety. What kind of asinine reasoning Is this? Are you not ashamed of yourself? Tell me how many men have handed over their documents to their wives or even included their wives as joint owners of their property... And you... you are so insecure, that because u might be moving into a woman's house , u need to claim ownership of her assets before you can rest in that house. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by faithfull18(f): 6:52am On May 23, 2018 |
It is not African. Visit my profile.... |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by dominique(f): 6:53am On May 23, 2018 |
agarawu23: @bolded Men are also fond of doing this with their famous "I'll send you back to your father's house" line. If you see nothing wrong with it, so you shouldn't see anything wrong with a woman reminding her husband that she owns the house. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Burgerlomo: 6:54am On May 23, 2018 |
madridguy: Amen! |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Sterope(f): 6:54am On May 23, 2018 |
What about a man without the spirit of God? The men who enjoy threatening to sebd their wives out? The ones who ridicule their wives because they are not financially independent? I am sure you have seen a lot of that but I don't see yoi claiming that men cannot handle power. Jeezuzpick: 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by crafteck(m): 6:58am On May 23, 2018 |
No its not wrong for a man to do that,he can as well do the cooking and cleaning while the wife provides for the family it is wrong for a REAL man to do that though, real men are successful |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by captainamiedi1: 7:01am On May 23, 2018 |
obowunmi: i cant believe someone like these still exist. i thought are gone with the 16th century. i know your stupid is of the first order. your foolishness has been upgraded. keep up the foolish things. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by captainamiedi1: 7:03am On May 23, 2018 |
i dont see any thing bad in it. it depends on the woman. if she is a hot tempered and proud person. its a no. if its the bible type of wife its a yes. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:04am On May 23, 2018 |
Sterope: Naturally, it cuts both ways. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by Geesaintagape: 7:07am On May 23, 2018 |
I cannot even stay in my wife village not to mention of house |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Man To Move Into His Wife's House After Marriage? by midastouch040(f): 7:09am On May 23, 2018 |
Emma1Oj:Chai. Such a man should be ashamed. Can't he plan to build his own house and even build another for his woman?! Handover ko, hangover ni. Yimu.. 5 Likes |
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