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When many people hear that someone is in an unhealthy or abusive relationship, their first question is, “Why don’t they leave?” If you’ve never been through an abusive relationship, this sort of response might seem logical. Just throw the deuces up and move on with your life – right?
Could it be the pleasure and comfort money brings, and the fear that women often have in the face of abuse; doubting if they would be fine on their own, if they would be able to fend for themselves and keep up the same standard of living if they do the needful by dumping the abuser. However, broke men are not abusers; an assumption that couldn’t be farther from the truth.
Recently, A friend of mine once said that it's better you stay with a violent wealthy man than with a broke guy,” What's your thought?

Most ladies esp at the level of dating or courtship stay in violent relationships cause of the pecks of cash and gifts they get

The answer is in the question. Money, lots of it.


Most women would endure an abusive relationship with a loaded partner because of their ridiculous materialistic lifestyle. Shame!

Olalan:
Most ladies esp at the level of dating or courtship stay in violent relationships cause of the pecks of cash and gifts they get

I thought as much bro.

if the man's Dick is large hmmmm some ladies don't mind enduring

Most people cherish the comfort, money bring

Most people love comfort and would endure a tumultuous relationship than give up the security that the money provides

We most times blame women who stay on in abusive relationships but I bet you it's not easy quitting.

At a point in every relationship, there is some form of "spiritual bonding" especially for couples who have been having great sex for a while.

Abusers are expert manipulators.

Have you ever given it a thought as to how terrorist kingpins convince people to blow themselves up? It may look stupid to you but some people do not see it that way. The human way of reasoning can be programmed and conditioned.

And this is the very exact tactic abusers use to control their victims.

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