donstan18:
I pity people who fall for social media preaching, Mr nice man, Mrs/miss decent woman.

Lots of these people are beast in reality, they do a lot of abominable things.

How can a Nairaland self acclaimed nurse create a thread to dish advice on sex abstinence https://www.nairaland.com/4049350/sexual-abstinence-still-remain-best

Then returned to support a lady who got pregnant out of wedlock, what manner of foolishness and stupidity can supersedes such self contradiction.

A married woman who should advice the single and young ones on how to live a moral life ecided to advocate for pregnancy out of wedlock. A married woman who should give the single ladies reason to get married decided to look stupid and less-experienced than the single ones. A married woman who should be on family section decided to go around politics section fight and screaming Afonja and Igbo, fighting and brawling on romance section even at late hours.

This is bad and a big disgrace to married women out there.


A self acclaimed nurse who said having sex without condom after STDS test is protection.

I still stand with this.


People who portray to be good and decent online are the dump and foolish ones in reality.

greiboy:
No one here is against Linda's choices on this thread so far

We are against the way you changed position to accommodate your arguments here .


So do you now support safer sex or what?

greiboy:
No one here is against Linda's choices on this thread so far

We are against the way you changed position to accommodate your arguments here .


So do you now support safer sex or what?

DrinkLimca:
You are taking it personal.
Let us judge cases with an unbiased ideology...

Nobody is saying fornication is good but what the op is saying is that looking at it from the mature women and medical point of view,, Linda ikeji should not be castigated for getting pregnant...

Now looking at it, from a mature point of view, if Linda ikeji was your blood sister, will you still attack her?

See though she preaches against formication but you are not a woman..

Old women that are childless know the pains they pass through, they might smile in public, but they are sad in private..
They really need a child, what is the purpose of all the wealth she has, if there is no child to enjoy?

At a time, even if you are not related to Linda, every loving soul will pray for her to conceive of a child...

Now looking at it from a medical point of view,, Linda is getting to the stage of menopause..

If you are a doctor, won't you had advised her to get pregnant even if she is not marred?

As long as she has a boyfriend, and money to take care of her child, she can get married because medically, age is not on her side...

You all should stop attacking the op and understand her support for Linda...
Thank you..

Amarabae:

Nice question.

In my former thread, I advocated for abstinence(celibacy) .
We are human beings with flesh and blood that will always yearn for sex.
You can't expect a lady of Linda ikeji age to be abstain from sex for long.
It's very hard.
.
So I preach abstinence, it's a wish and just an advice.
It's not the reality because people will always have sex especially outside marriage.

You get me now?
Linda ikeji made her choice andit should be respected

samyfreshsmooth:



i await her answer to this question

donstan18:


I have no business with Linda Ikeji.


My point is ; Practice what you preach

folake4u:
This thread weak me.


So because Linda is almost near menopause, she should be justified by having a baby outside marriage.


I'm not judging her though but I believe in practicing what one preaches.

And as for Op, why the double standard na?!

DrinkLimca:
Women are their greatest haters, so i am not surprise at you..

Just pray that you don't find yourself when you are almost 40 with no child..

highqueen:
moral lesson,don't believe whatever you see people claim online.

folake4u:



Look, I don't have your time so just swerve!

folake4u:
This thread weak me.


So because Linda is almost near menopause, she should be justified by having a baby outside marriage.


!

UDUJ:


I just re-edited the post. I actually wanted them to come refute or corroborate the story

Just shocked this is the lady lots of Nairalanders take as a role model

Like donstan18 said earlier, this forum reeks of hypocrisy. I take nobody serious anymore.

folake4u:
This thread weak me.


So because Linda is almost near menopause, she should be justified by having a baby outside marriage.


I'm not judging her though but I believe in practicing what one preaches.

And as for Op, why the double standard na?!

DrinkLimca:
Women are their greatest haters, so i am not surprise at you..

Just pray that you don't find yourself when you are almost 40 with no child..

DrinkLimca:
Then you are being bias..

Amarabae:
Some human beings in this country can be funny,
So happy to see them masking their painment under the guise of criticising Linda ikeji for getting pregnant.
They claimed that they are criticising her for preaching celibacy and go on to have sex and get pregnant,
But it's a lie.
The real truth is that they are pained to see breaking the misogynistic limit without a man!
How do I mean?
We are in a country where independent rich single women are stereotyped,
To them, a single lady should be bitter, poor and be a financial liability till she gets a "saviour" in a man ,
So when they see ladies like Linda ikeji, Oprah Winfrey etc soaring high in wealth class without a MAN, they get bitter ,they look for a way to pull them down.
One of their pathetic slurs is "menopause is coming "
Linda ikeji have heard that many times as if getting married and having children are the only way a woman can be fulfilled in life,
Yes menopause is around the corner for Linda, she wanted a child but not necessary in a marriage, so she had sex and got pregnant,
Why are some people loosing sleep over that?
Oh I know, Linda ikeji is going to shut them up very soon finally so that their menopause is knocking slur will end!
They can't stand to see a rich strong black woman who is a mother, achieving things without a husband.
The best advice I will give to these funny human beings is to hug a transformer!
.
Leave women to leave our lives the way we want ,
If a woman wants to be a mother but not a wife,it is her choice,
Deal with it or choke up!
If a Lady wants an active sexual relationship but don't want to be a wife, it is her choice .
BTW there are sperm banks, that means if the woman is ready, she will just walk in and pay for a sperm of her choice, you see that she can get pregnant even without a sex with a man if that is her choice.
Life is easy, why are misogynists hellbent on making it complicated for women?
.
I am happily married with a son because it is my choice to get married,
Had it been that I was not interested ,I will still be single till now .
As simple as that .
So don't think that women who are not married or are single mums are not enjoying life,
Stop living in delusion,
Many of them like Linda ikeji or oprah are living their dreams without a man,
If they want sex, they will have sex,
If they want a kid, they will have one,
They are more busy with their career because
The world celebrate women who achieved something in their career NOT women whose only achievement is getting married and having children "
You get it now,
Beyonce is celebrated and have many fans because of her impressive music career and not because she married Jay Z or gave birth to blue ivy and the rest.
Ngozi okonjo iweala is celebrated because of her economist career, not because she married and had children,
Condolleza rice is not married yet she is being celebrated for being the first black woman to be the USA secretary of state.
That's how the world runs.
Dear misogynists, Marriage is not a criteria for the world to celebrate a woman but rather her achievement in her career,
Stop getting intimidated by single rich hardworking ladies.
.
So my dear sister, Linda ikeji, Carry on,
Don't listen to them, it's your life and your choice,
Ignore the haters.
I wish you a safe delivery in advance.
.
From Oriaku Amarachi.
Reporting from *Shaking the table FM*

donstan18:


How?

DrinkLimca:
Women are their greatest haters, so i am not surprise at you..

Just pray that you don't find yourself when you are almost 40 with no child..

makydebbie:
But it's funny you also created a thread where you frowned on fornication. (If Linda is not married already though)

https://www.nairaland.com/4049350/sexual-abstinence-still-remain-best

DrinkLimca:
I don't Blane you, taking a look at your fat picture on your dp..

I won't be surprise if your fatness has covered your brain.

ubunja:
why do you think married men die early? such self-contradictions from women. you cant keep up.

donstan18:

Stop trying to ignite asunder between them.

Folake4u is right.

DrinkLimca:
You attacked the messenger instead of looking critically at the message...

folake4u:



I know you want me to insult you this hot afternoon, but Imma chill.


You're insulting my dp but I bet you're uglier than Daddy OBJ and you've got inferiority complex that's why you don't have your pic uploaded.

A thoroughly sucked-out orange has more use to the earth than you.



This should be the last time you ever mention me again in your miserable life.

Amarabae:

You will not understand until you reach her age.
So because there is no husband, a woman nearing menopause should not strive to get pregnant if she wants just because of what people will say?
She wants to be a single mom, that's her choice.
Simple.

PUSSYHOE:
Making noise in the morning but at night riding sweet dicks, hypocrisy. Nigerian ladies are confused they don't know what they want until they get it.

mhisbliss:
I am happily married with a son, She type these words like its an achievement, feminists don't see marriage as an achievement, the linda you're talking about is not married, when it comes to your happily married family, your husband will always be the figurehead not you who is bearing his name, cooking for him and having babies like a full time housewife, as long as he's around you'll always be in his shadow, so you're not a feminist, you only like making noise,

How can you preach abstinence to people while you ride dicks in the dark? If you believe in something stand for it, don't be in one team today and another tomorrow, your hypocrisy is too daunting