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Amarabae:
Some human beings in this country can be funny,
So happy to see them masking their painment under the guise of criticising Linda ikeji for getting pregnant.
They claimed that they are criticising her for preaching celibacy and go on to have sex and get pregnant,
But it's a lie.
The real truth is that they are pained to see breaking the misogynistic limit without a man!
How do I mean?
We are in a country where independent rich single women are stereotyped,
To them, a single lady should be bitter, poor and be a financial liability till she gets a "saviour" in a man ,
So when they see ladies like Linda ikeji, Oprah Winfrey etc soaring high in wealth class without a MAN, they get bitter ,they look for a way to pull them down.
One of their pathetic slurs is "menopause is coming "
Linda ikeji have heard that many times as if getting married and having children are the only way a woman can be fulfilled in life,
Yes menopause is around the corner for Linda, she wanted a child but not necessary in a marriage, so she had sex and got pregnant,
Why are some people loosing sleep over that?
Oh I know, Linda ikeji is going to shut them up very soon finally so that their menopause is knocking slur will end!
They can't stand to see a rich strong black woman who is a mother, achieving things without a husband.
The best advice I will give to these funny human beings is to hug a transformer!
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Leave women to leave our lives the way we want ,
If a woman wants to be a mother but not a wife,it is her choice,
Deal with it or choke up!
If a Lady wants an active sexual relationship but don't want to be a wife, it is her choice .
BTW there are sperm banks, that means if the woman is ready, she will just walk in and pay for a sperm of her choice, you see that she can get pregnant even without a sex with a man if that is her choice.
Life is easy, why are misogynists hellbent on making it complicated for women?
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I am happily married with a son because it is my choice to get married,
Had it been that I was not interested ,I will still be single till now .
As simple as that .
So don't think that women who are not married or are single mums are not enjoying life,
Stop living in delusion,
Many of them like Linda ikeji or oprah are living their dreams without a man,
If they want sex, they will have sex,
If they want a kid, they will have one,
They are more busy with their career because
The world celebrate women who achieved something in their career NOT women whose only achievement is getting married and having children "
You get it now,
Beyonce is celebrated and have many fans because of her impressive music career and not because she married Jay Z or gave birth to blue ivy and the rest.
Ngozi okonjo iweala is celebrated because of her economist career, not because she married and had children,
Condolleza rice is not married yet she is being celebrated for being the first black woman to be the USA secretary of state.
That's how the world runs.
Dear misogynists, Marriage is not a criteria for the world to celebrate a woman but rather her achievement in her career,
Stop getting intimidated by single rich hardworking ladies.
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So my dear sister, Linda ikeji, Carry on,
Don't listen to them, it's your life and your choice,
Ignore the haters.
I wish you a safe delivery in advance.
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From Oriaku Amarachi.
Reporting from *Shaking the table FM*

makydebbie:
Lol, 35 pages. You fit read all?

https://www.nairaland.com/4474379/siena-gbudje-exposed..ladies-careful-members

TSOM:
When a housewife struts the 'streets' of Nairaland (with the Romance Section as her base) 'sashaying' back and forth with a raised placard inscribed with screaming words 'I am married with a son! I am happy! I am a queen!', you know it's a cloak masking the many inadequacies in her life.

When a housewife spends all her time actively participating in the shenanigans on Nairaland - even by 8.02am on a Saturday morning when she should be spending time with her son who's not in school and her husband who's not at work- then the truth becomes less vague at closer inspection.


We've seen a gazillion of her ilk on Nairaland for years- the supposedly happily married ones who throw it in people's faces without being asked.

The examples abound; from the Mr and Mrs Siena (who were later exposed as living a lie and not even legally married) to BabyOsisi (the U.S-based happily married feminist doctor who was later exposed as being caught up in a scam marriage-for-green-card scandal, divorced and not even a doctor!) to the happily married women of the Family Section who slept with Coôgar and his gang (while married) and deactivated when caught, to Cocôcandy who was exposed by Truckpusher...

Need I go on? The biggest scandals to rock Nairaland (and well-chronicled too) have always been by married folks(women especially).

These are the ones who'd upload their family pictures on Facebook (including their husbands') yet subtly make a move on single young men on social media just for the fun of it. I'd rather not give examples about this.

You, Makydebbie, sure were glued to the pages of that Siena's marriage scandal thread so you definitely read some of these revelations. Some of us had these scandals unfold before our very eyes years ago.

The attention-craving original poster on this thread isn't different. Only time would tell. They always bow out the same way - in shame.

greiboy:
You touched naked wire

mhisbliss:
My mates! Oh you think I'm as old and desperate as you're? I have a long time ahead of me to discover what i want, i do nothing for a living and you're a high class housewife, problem solved now get off my mentioned confused dimwitted weasel

mhisbliss:
So its okay if i say something today, then turn around a say something contradictory tomorrow like a jackass on weed?

highqueen:
like I stated earlier on babe,I feel so indifferent about linda's choice.

but my utmost surprise came up when amara that created a thread on how to abstain from pre-marital sex is now the one applauding the same thing she preached against.
would she have supported it if it were to be a commoner,or is it because it was committed by Linda?

highqueen:
lmao,I can't naw.

I did my PPE very well in my workshop practice.

I'm so surprised at the aim of this thread.

Amarabae:
Are you trying to run away?
Next time ,if you disagree with a thread, counter it and leave a person's family out.
If you are jobless, you can send me a pm,
I can put you out of misery.
Don't quote me again if you have nothing tangible to say

Just sent a pm, please its not housewife job o, put your family out of it when you're the one who said you're happily married with kids attention starved simpleton, you're the jobless housewife here, someone who's happily married with kid is online by 8am on a Saturday morning looking for a means to be relevant when there's a happily married with kid family that needs catering for, mumu later you'll call yourself a mother or wife

greiboy:
neezar no be talk say you be v for that thread and amara was praising you


Come see your life outside


You better go to correct olosho joint now

samyfreshsmooth:
yes!!!


linda is ama's role model and hero


she used to be the leader of feminists nigeria...............she was practically the beyonce of naija and a lot of people (feminist wanna bes to be precise) look up to her


they're always on hand to defend her albeit "blindly"

Ladyhippolyta88:
I checked the thread and was as well suprised.
I don't really understand the whole hullabaloo about Linda's pregnancy not that I am defending her but never take the words of people seriously because many are hypocrites(myself inclusive).
What annoys me in the whole story is that even other hypocrites are taking panadol for Linda's headache.

As for Oriaku Amara that was a miscaculated attempt on her part but in her defence views change people change.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I checked the thread and was as well suprised.
I don't really understand the whole hullabaloo about Linda's pregnancy not that I am defending her but never take the words of people seriously because many are hypocrites(myself inclusive).
What annoys me in the whole story is that even other hypocrites are taking panadol for Linda's headache.

As for Oriaku Amara that was a miscaculated attempt on her part but in her defence views change people change.

neezar:
that's my decision sa...not keeping my virginity to please someone

amara ain't married....she's not a certified nurse for that matter

nurses won't even doing this rubbish she's always doing

DrinkLimca:
Listen you have to understand why she is supporting Linda from a woman's point of view...

Linda is a mature rich lady getting to menopause..

If she is in a loving relationship, it's not a bad ideas if she gets pregnant before marriage is not a bad idea..

It's not like she is in support of an underage lady that have no business being pregnant.

highqueen:
chimoo!! laugh wan kee me!!! samurai,biko behave.

Amarabae:
I love controversies,right from my federal girls college days,
If you think that your noise making in this thread moves oriaku amarachi, you better think again.
This is my thread,
If you are pained, zoom out.
Another pro Linda ikeji thread is warming up, will post it soon.
Rabbish.

Dreamswayne:
see as this girl dey disgrace the real hippolyta resting in hades....

a retarded feminist coming to nairaland to claim hippolyta..... #ARU

don't bother quoting me maam..... i don't reply retards

greiboy:
You this guy and your mouth

greiboy:
I believed op made a mistake and might have actually confused herself here

she was mainly trying to defend a would be feminist and staying loyal to her catholic (hypothetical) faith at the same time.

I bet she has now realized that it is a fine line to walk.

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are the retard.Next time don't fool yourself.
Izenofua,oduma don't try yourself your opinion is definitely inconsequential.

donstan18:
I pity people who fall for social media preaching, Mr nice man, Mrs/miss decent woman.

Lots of these people are beast in reality, they do a lot of abominable things.

How can a Nairaland self acclaimed nurse create a thread to dish advice on sex abstinence https://www.nairaland.com/4049350/sexual-abstinence-still-remain-best

Then returned to support a lady who got pregnant out of wedlock, what manner of foolishness and stupidity can supersedes such self contradiction.

A married woman who should advice the single and young ones on how to live a moral life ecided to advocate for pregnancy out of wedlock. A married woman who should give the single ladies reason to get married decided to look stupid and less-experienced than the single ones. A married woman who should be on family section decided to go around politics section fight and screaming Afonja and Igbo, fighting and brawling on romance section even at late hours.

This is bad and a big disgrace to married women out there.


A self acclaimed nurse who said having sex without condom after STDS test is protection.

I still stand with this.


People who portray to be good and decent online are the dump and foolish ones in reality.

Dreamswayne:
see as this girl dey disgrace the real hippolyta resting in hades....


a retarded feminist coming to nairaland to claim hippolyta..... #ARU


don't bother quoting me maam..... i don't reply retards

neezar:
she's not actually a nurse

what she actually meant is that she nurses guys dicks for a living

mhisbliss:
Just sent a pm, please its not housewife job o, put your family out of it when you're the one who said you're happily married with kids attention starved simpleton, you're the jobless housewife here, someone who's happily married with kid is online by 8am on a Saturday morning looking for a means to be relevant when there's a happily married with kid family that needs catering for, mumu later you'll call yourself a mother or wife

ubunja:
why do you think married men die early? such self-contradictions from women. you cant keep up.

DrinkLimca:
But she hasn't said anything wrong.

neezar:
she's not actually a nurse

what she actually meant is that she nurses guys dicks for a living

greiboy:
Victor is this you bro?

Your salvage level have multiplied

Liverpool doing it tonight tho

highqueen:
yeah!!she should call a spade a spade.

the sex abstinence thread was all for what exactly?
for praises or self respect?

I have really learnt not to grade people based on online comments and posts.

thanks to this thread.