₦airaland Forum

BedLam:
My wife changed for good after marriage. In fact, she will do anything to please me as long as I don't like it but me being reasonable, I know the limit and don't force it. . She's taken her gym serious and eating healthy. She doesn't wear those witch looking make ups. Dresses to slay because I like it.

Overall, I made the best decision when I got married at 25 and she was 27 plus.

Personality matters alot.

Make I finish my salad.

wow.... you got married at 25 how did you do it?
im currently doing my Nysc im 26, do you think i can get married next year?
i really want to get married early.

but im eager to hear your story.

BedLam:
Yes and still older

What's the age diff?

OrangeDream:
For the first time in my life, i felt violated by my own bathroom when her friend (the longest period in the world) paid her a visit.


She carries bushy hair around in the house like my grandmum and spit around too.


I don't even think my roof will survive our 5th anniversary cos that woman will snore it down very soon.



Worst, how can i forget how she took meat from our pot, suck the soup and threw the meat back inside the pot?.


I don't know whether to call this PREDICAMENT, PROBLEM OR PALAVA?

Omo dis one weak me o....[/b]how can i forget how she took meat from our pot, suck the soup and threw the meat back inside the pot?[b].

"suck d soup and threw d meat bck inside d pot"....Jesus is lord..

But u guys kiss now; especially all those early morning kisses ...which is even better sef, raw saliva or cooked and spiced one?

Nothing changed

HARDDON:
HIM
Six pack turned One big pot that can't but make him lazy n go snoring at night

Became concious about incessant icream/chocolates/shawarma/ drinks n taking her out

The Tiger in bed dead . One week One round

Rarely take note of her new hair/nails/lingerie unlike courtship days


Forgets Annivasary/birthdays. You cant be chasing chadas and still have memory space for such trivials...




HER

Figure 8 turns round balloon! You could literally kick her about like a ball. N she would roll

No work out. Eat like an eel


The wet n wavy sways dies. Is that your mum or wify?

The acrobatic swirling ends. S3x dies. Happens only in dreams. She tired.


Then she gets preggy n even d s3x in dreams dies. He gets swayed.... Woes!


Chridren comes n her affection/attention shifts

Belligerent airs. Mode swings. Silent treatment.





Hey, these are nothing but the mushings of a drunken soul! If you quote me any where else, I would deny it.

Oh my goodness !!

Simplep:
Hmmmmm...so everyone is now single .......married peeps show ya faces na..i wan learn

why are they quiet?

paparazzi1987:
We had a very cute son

Got a new job

Got promoted twice within 18 month in my job

I Was able to easily raise funds to migrate to Canada for my msc.

Got a very attractive job in canada after my Msc

Now am patiently waiting for her and my son to Joine soon InShaAllah

sir help a brother here.. fresh graduate looking for job in Abuja and its environs

Simplep:
I cant wait to experience dat 'change' i swear

Hope no b Buhari kind of change??

Vianna:
What's the age diff?

See question

Don't you understand his write up??

daewoorazer:
Men, Women naturally tend to impress their other half while in the period of courtship.

Please what do you think we (the upcoming ones) should look out for (the most) during courtship?

I have heard cases of:

Neat turned dirty
Meek turned hostile

A man must try to understand hiss woman inside out to avoid stories that touch....their emotional, psychological, physical, etc. needs
That's why every (married) man needs a copy of 52 USEFUL TIPS FOR UNDERSTANDING WOMEN....I guarantee you, if you get it, you will be glad you read my post

Quote me if you are interested
[PDF Copy for male Nairalanders is N1,500]

greenguy:
Marry your friend. Love as the world knows it today is film trick. What keeps marriage is friendship. Every other factor hinges on it.

God bless you for raising this point, the only advice i have ever given. Most people will not understand the importance of doing so and will even think its absurd

I could not do my work as I was doing b4 marriage

spiritedtete:
Stop hanging out with the boys.( not intentional)

Funny how I started seeing life from another perspective.

"It is now see you when I see you"

And everything changed ... more money... more cars... properties and travels...

Actually , even if anything happen tommorrow (God forbidd it) let the world know that "I married my own wife" 7 years and counting :

smiles... I wish for ur own type of marriage o...make e last pass olumo rock...help a brother o...fresh grad. looking for job..Abuja and its environs

CsRockefeller:
wow.... you got married at 25 how did you do it?
im currently doing my Nysc im 26, do you think i can get married next year?
i really want to get married early.

but im eager to hear your story.

Nevrr try it till you get a good job .

Simplep:
I cant wait to experience dat 'change' i swear

lol...be kaiful what u wish for...don't be in a hurry o

everything changed just like the Buharis change , i am still practicing marriageoo, not married.

Nothing really.

Mine wive his now alway wear no bra inside house go pamtless

She we no park his hair well too


She his slay is she's whant too go out, but she his alway turned granma inside house no pakage, notin notin


Even when she his wear pant, she we wear big pant insteed off g string



Am jus hate these mine last born his alway folo me drag wive boobs shai am suffer for the hand off the child

Since am born him, mine mouth his not torch mine wive boobi


Mine wive use too dance and shake his big boobty when we are still bf and gf, now, am not remembered the last time she's danced



All all, am still love mine wive






Mine wive has turned mine 6 parks too one round park

kinzation:
smiles... I wish for ur own type of marriage o...make e last pass olumo rock...help a brother o...fresh grad. looking for job..Abuja and its environs

Not in Nigeria at the moment... however for the Job aspect... hmmm not promising... send me a mail and let's keep talking cheers!

Verily Verily i say unto you, that your marriage is highly exceptional

adaksbullet:
Mine wive his now alway wear no bra inside house go pamtless

She we no park his hair well too


She his slay is she's whant too go out, but she his alway turned granma inside house no pakage, notin notin


Even when she his wear pant, she we wear big pant insteed off g string



Am jus hate these mine last born his alway folo me drag wive boobs shai am suffer for the hand off the child

Since am born him, mine mouth his not torch mine wive boobi


Mine wive use too dance and shake his big boobty when we are still bf and gf, now, am not remembered the last time she's danced



All all, am still love mine wive






Mine wive has turned mine 6 parks too one round park

OrangeDream:
For the first time in my life, i felt violated by my own bathroom when her friend (the longest period in the world) paid her a visit.


She carries bushy hair around in the house like my grandmum and spit around too.


I don't even think my roof will survive our 5th anniversary cos that woman will snore it down very soon.



Worst, how can i forget how she took meat from our pot, suck the soup and threw the meat back inside the pot?.


I don't know whether to call this PREDICAMENT, PROBLEM OR PALAVA?

Bros,
What did you marry?

She loves her figure 8, so 2 months after birth she's literately back to shape through exercise without much effort from me.

On finances, it baffles me how you both agree to cut down on recurrent expenditure in order to meet a capital project and 2 days after she reacts as if there was never an agreement insisting every expenses must be met. Am left wondering, what was the essence of the discussion/agreement? Women like money shaa!

spiritedtete:
Not in Nigeria at the moment... however for the Job aspect... hmmm not promising... send me a mail and let's keep talking cheers!

thank you sir..here's my email address akinnifesiolumide@gmail.com

CsRockefeller:

wow

The without money she will insult you part shouldnt scare if you're a real man. If anything, it should make you up your game, unique skills and strategy equates unique type of money and much more.

If you feel you're lacking in your chosen career path, go seek some good knowledge, acquire more skills and apply yourself accordingly.
You have no idea of what you're capable of attracting to yourself if you do this.

God help us all as we do what's needed of us.

BedLam:
My wife changed for good after marriage. In fact, she will do anything to please me as long as I don't like it but me being reasonable, I know the limit and don't force it. . She's taken her gym serious and eating healthy. She doesn't wear those witch looking make ups. Dresses to slay because I like it.

Overall, I made the best decision when I got married at 25 and she was 27 plus.

Personality matters alot.

Make I finish my salad.

But ur Moniker Bedlam says a diferent thing Are you sure your not living in a Bedlam?

This here is why some marriages fail... It's better not to have a BF or GF at all. because, the relationship most times mar marriages.

aaronson:
4- still keep in touch with their exes especially their first love and the one guy who dìsvirgin them. Sometimes they don't even have their contact on their phone but have it written somewhere and in most case still talk to them on Facebook. Don't get me wrong, Men are worst in this.

ME:

Got two job offers.

Am now a dad. I have a very lovely and wonderful son.

Got a nice car.

Moved into a nice apartment.

Am now more responsible.

Am more prudent and accountable.

My priorities shifted.


MY LOVELY SPOUSE:

Her surname changed.

She's now a blessed mum of a smart handsome young son.

She's on the verge of being chartered (ICAN).

She became very tolerant and calm.

Her love for God sky rocketed.

etc.


Honestly, there's abundant blessing in Marriage. especially when you get married to the right person. There are lots of unusual breakthroughs that accompanies a Godly marriage.

And again, Prayer/genuine personal relationship with God is "key".

,

ADRIAN88:
The without money she will insult you part shouldnt scare if you're a real man. If anything, it should make you up your game, unique skills and strategy equates unique type of money and much more.

If you feel you're lacking in your chosen career path, go seek some good knowledge, acquire more skills and apply yourself accordingly.
You have no idea of what you're capable of attracting to yourself if you do this.

God help us all as we do what's needed of us.

Do you really think that a woman that genuinely loves you and believes in you will insult you because you are skint/don't have money for a while? I doubt that.

Man must continue to hustle. the bills doesn't end. Responsibilities keeps coming. You must double your hustle.

ADRIAN88:
The without money she will insult you part shouldnt scare if you're a real man. If anything, it should make you up your game, unique skills and strategy equates unique type of money and much more.

If you feel you're lacking in your chosen career path, go seek some good knowledge, acquire more skills and apply yourself accordingly.
You have no idea of what you're capable of attracting to yourself if you do this.

God help us all as we do what's needed of us.

Thanks boss

Apina:
God bless you for raising this point, the only advice i have ever given. Most people will not understand the importance of doing so and will even think its absurd

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sometimes it doesn't happen like that ooo. my own marriage was an arranged marriage and to say d fact I never love him. I mean I don't know him but my father will say "I see him as d best man for you and I believed that sooner or later your love for him will grow.

Alhamdullillah its been six years now and av never regretted that decision. we've never had issue DAT lasted 24 hours and we have been the best of friends . and our love keep on growing everyday.

Alennsar:
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sometimes it doesn't happen like that ooo. my own marriage was an arranged marriage and to say d fact I never love him. I mean I don't know him but my father will say "I see him as d best man for you and I believed that sooner or later your love for him will grow.

Alhamdullillah its been six years now and av never regretted that decision. we've never had issue DAT lasted 24 hours and we have been the best of friends . and our love keep on growing everyday.

Thank God both of you became friends

adaksbullet:
Mine wive his now alway wear no bra inside house go pamtless

She we no park his hair well too


She his slay is she's whant too go out, but she his alway turned granma inside house no pakage, notin notin


Even when she his wear pant, she we wear big pant insteed off g string



Am jus hate these mine last born his alway folo me drag wive boobs shai am suffer for the hand off the child

Since am born him, mine mouth his not torch mine wive boobi


Mine wive use too dance and shake his big boobty when we are still bf and gf, now, am not remembered the last time she's danced



All all, am still love mine wive






Mine wive has turned mine 6 parks too one round park

Please grow up.