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CAPSLOCKED:

YOU'RE REALLY TWISTED.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THEY BOTH COME HOME EXHAUSTED?
?THEY DO THE CHORES TOGETHER.
?DON'T DO ANYTHING.
?THE WOMAN DOES CHORES ALONE WHILE OGA RELAXES AND WATCHES SONY MAX.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN BY MATURED. PREVIOUSLY YOU SAID THAT A MAN WHO GETS BACK FROM WORK TIRED SHOULDN'T BE EXPECTED TO DO ANYTHING BUT REST. SO ANSWER MY QUESTION ABOVE.

lefulefu:
i think it would be abnormal if my dad was going to the market and my mom just sat at home filing her nails.thank God i dont come from such a home.

lefulefu:
irregardless of what some guys say in here about a woman's duty being this and that...a number of married nigerian men actually do take care of their wife.so no mind if d woman sabi cook..as long as she gives them peace of mind they go out of their way to hire cooks or househelp if they are financially dispensable...if they not that financially bwoyant then some of them teach their wives(if d love strong o). My brother told me there was this family he tutored their kids as at when he was in school.said the man was working outside the state in one big brewery company.d guy get pepper for im side. His wife who happened to be a housewife has two kids and my bro says anytime he comes to teach her kids he see her watching home video.when he wants to start teaching she will go to the bedroom to continue watching her programme.everyday na so e dey be.for the house they have two servants that takes care of everythng. Even to the washing of the woman clothes na d servants dey do am so she does practically nothing in the house to even excercise her body.so a number of naija men really take care of their wives. Why do u think after some few months of married life a number of naija women dey add excess weight.na d enjoyment na.happy sunday.

Tajbol4splend:
Do you agree with me saying it's our thinking that it's easy for a man to marry a wife of no job but not sound for a woman with job to marry a man of no job

MarieSucre:
Why would it be abnormal to do so?

Do they scan people's vagin.a at the gate of the market to be sure they're really female before they let them to buy foodstuff?

Why is the filing nailing part important?

Okay would you prefer it if instead of filing nails your mum was watching SuperSport?

How would all these scenarios change the premise?

lefulefu:
from the way ppl sound i always know the type of families they come from. I take it u probably from a very rich family where servants are appointed to do everything for u. I just took a peek at ur DP and i can see u a northerner.lemme say u must be from one of these hausa-fulani rich upper classes in the north.Look lets not argue.u wont understand what i am trying to say since u probably frm those pampered oligachy in the north. Let me ask a question? U sabi slice onion? With d way u look u will faint if the smell of sliced onions reach ur eyes and nostrils. U be proper fulani ajebutter.

MarieSucre:
Hunku can you slice onions, cook beans and pound yam?

lefulefu:
i can do them with ease. I can even cook better than most girls here except maybe Lalas247 na im fit beat me for cooking. If i cook my beans with sliced yam inside, u will chop plate join.

Lalas247:
Exactly !
My younger sis husband cooks , cleans too when his off work ... most men will do it
Yes peace of mind is key ... guys don’t cope well with stress
Happy Sunday dear ...

I’m Making Akara today Oga at the top requested it

MarieSucre:
Excellent, you're 100% husband material. Your wife will not grow old quick especially if she has a career too. Carry on the good work.

lefulefu:
Amen.. But my wife must sabi cook sha.One of the important criteria i want in a woman.

lefulefu:
there are some married couples both the husband and the wife no sabi cook or do anything. They will prefer buying junk rubbish and food wey dem no prepare well for their children. U will see many of their children looking malnorished. All those couples wey u see their children go get very large heads with skinny malnorished bodies..if u check well u go notice say dat the parents of such kids dont no dey prepare fresh meals for their kids cos dem no sabi anything for kitchen and dem go dey selfish to even employ househelp.they prefer buyin all those cooked indomie from aboki.imagine feeding a growing child with indomie everyday.

lefulefu:
u think a man who loves his wife will order her into the kitchen when she comes home exhausted from work? The only men who act like that are those ones who dont like their wives.undrstand there many men these days who get coerced into marrying women they dont want.they get coerced by either their pastors or their parents. Imagine a man wey im parents refuse am marriage to a lady he loves just because she aint from their tribe. Now such a man is arranged to marry another woman he has no feelings for by his mom by reason of tribe affliation.tell me why wont such a man feel resentful.this is the resentful treatment u see some of them give such women when they treat them like slaves or beat them up I tell u that a man who has feelings for his second half wont have dat heart to push his tired wife through domestic chorus.its non negotiable.

MarieSucre:
Who is it easy for and who is it hard for? And why is it hard? Honest question.

Fazemood:
Seriously. I'm guessing you mean your gay partner?

BukkieyGold:
I laugh u


Am bixesual

Zi:
True, very true!
Problem is that some boys are raised or should I say they raised themselves thinking a woman is being raised to serve them!

Most annoyingly, regular guys with a basic livelihood. If you are rich, fine! You can employ domestic help around the house. But if you are surviving on a regular paycheck, abeg bend down and work. Learn to wash, learn to cook basic meals, learn to care etc.

I just ran away from my relationship because of this reasons.
He doesn't help out around the house no matter how much you "encourage" him.
A glutton that doesn't consider if others have eaten or not, everything must go down!
Also foul-mouthed, "Baby why do you like wasting money" because I bought two sieves and two kitchen sponges

I told him straight up, "if we give birth to one or two kids, it will be two adults to taking care of those kids, not one adult taking care of two kids and an overgrown baby". Lol

This is the 21st century, women nowadays also work 8-5pm. You must learn basic life skills - chikena.

See you in Shiloh crew oya come for my head