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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 9:03am On Jun 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Kimbraa 1 - 0 IamD18
she deserves some accolades. cheesy

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by FemiEddy(m): 9:03am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:
especially the ones without beard....
not worth the risk grin
grin whats wif u nd beards na grin

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:08am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

she deserves some accolades. cheesy
Kimbraa is winning cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by ibietela2(m): 9:09am On Jun 14, 2018
I hope this doesn't include a lady telling a guy how she feels about him?
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 9:09am On Jun 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Kimbraa is winning cheesy cheesy
kimbra is a goal.cheesy

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Vmaqween(f): 9:09am On Jun 14, 2018
the deputy Jesus part cracked me up Am against the asking of a guy out tho. but if you are good looking and I like your look... I will compliment you there and then no strings attached..

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:10am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

kimbra is a goal.cheesy
IamD18 right now cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by martjay(m): 9:10am On Jun 14, 2018
There is nothing wrong in expressing how you feel about him. But you have to study and know the kind of person. Is he matured enough to handle it? If not, just give him a green light.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by erico2k2(m): 9:12am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:

not in Nigeria ...
the west yes its possible.. but back home na

even the man would be seen as not manly ... like a bitch
noone wants a manbîtch .
Not really, I think it depends on the crowd you are into, back in my Uni days, I was asked out, and I also know few guys who where as well, ladies would ask if the guy oozes and appeal that swing their way. If you are not in that school of thought then you have not met a guy that you will really want especially if you have a full proof way of knowing they are single entirely.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 9:12am On Jun 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
IamD18 right now cheesy cheesy
that loser!!grin

I was laughing reading kimbra's comment. lool, he must be frustrated by now.cheesy

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:18am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

that loser!!grin


I was laughing reading kimbra's comment.
lool, he must be frustrated by now.cheesy
Enyaaaaa look what he brought upon himself oberenwa, embarassed kikikikiki



IamD18 right now

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Nobody: 9:18am On Jun 14, 2018
luminouz:

Don't confuse ursef!!!
Bravery in humans is never a one-time thing!!!
It's ingrained ..it will show in her actions,her life choices,her manners, not only on guys toasting issues ...n that's how u distinguish between her lust n her love... So I know just what I cherish!!!
You're totally on point.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by idonhammer: 9:18am On Jun 14, 2018
That is your brother and not me. I can never joke with any woman that asked me out first, I can give out my inheritance for such courageous woman
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by adeowo84(m): 9:20am On Jun 14, 2018
kimbraa:
Ladies, woo a guy at your peril. The disadvantages outweighs the advantages. Don't be fooled with 'I would cherish a lady that wooed me". It's all a lie. Men love chasing, not the other way round.

u are right... like ur pic with that low cut... smiles
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 9:23am On Jun 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Enyaaaaa look what he brought upon himself oberenwa, embarassed kikikikiki



I.amD18 right now
loool.cheesy
funny you.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:24am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

loool.cheesy
funny you.
Oya let's shake our bum bum for the broke guys on this forum cheesy
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Tonimordred(m): 9:24am On Jun 14, 2018
mhisbliss:
I was hanging out with my brother and his friends today and they were talking about girls, i was so engrossed with my phone so they thought i wasn't listening to what they were saying, but i was, they were talking about girls, i concentrated on a particular girl who asked him out and he said no because he doesn't like her and all that,

I noticed that most guys find it attractive when girls ask them out, to some its bravery and it takes alot of courage, and they might end up cherishing you because of it.

Some think its desperacy and will look down on you from then onwards, asking such guys out has alot of backlash, it gives them this idea that they're a worthy prize for the troubles you had to go through to ask them out, then comes the puffed up ego and attitude, they always threaten to leave you the moment something goes wrong, afterall they're so cool you had to ask them out, then they walk around with thier shoulders high like deputy jesus, you'll never be respected in such relationship.

Then theres the question of wether he feels the same way about you, guys are polygamous in nature, they want something they go get it, its in thier nature, he might be into someone else, not you who asked him out, coercing him to start feeling the same way you feel about him is not happening,

The desperate girl who threw herself cheaply at him by asking him out won't have the same value as the one who played hard to get and he had to invest his time and effort to get her after trying For a very long time.

ladies be wise, we ain't white people, never ask a nigerian guy out, unless you're prepared to pamper, worship, adore, beg deputy jesus for the rest of your life, and he'll still be giving you childish attitude.

Show him all the green light you can, if he's too stupid not to get the clue, save whatever dignity and self esteem you have left and leave him alone.
see this idiot you want to reap from where you did not sow...i knw by nw dat ur bro wil au pound dat ur foolish n watering mouth
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by tunize(m): 9:27am On Jun 14, 2018
See all the ladies jst deh shout upanda.
Truth is na normal thing. But the main thing and question is that "any girl wen see fine boi run follow am, is there no possibility sey e go still see anoda fine boi run follow am wen the so-called boyfriend is not there?

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by CAPSLOCKED: 9:29am On Jun 14, 2018
IamD18:


M'dafvqin hoes who thinks being approached by a man shows they are valued.





YOU SEE HER CARELESS REASONING ABI?

NOT APPROACHING A MAN YOU LIKE IS NOT A SHOW OF VALUE. IMAGINE MY GIRL SHUGAVEE SAYING SHE HAS VALUES BY NOT SHOWING HER FEELINGS, WHEN EVERYONE ALREADY KNOWS SHE'S TRASH cheesy

YOU CAN PLAY HARD TO GET FOR UP TO 10 YEARS AND GET DITCHED AFTER THE FIRST FUN TIME.
YOU CAN BE EASY TO GET, AND HAVE A WONDERFUL, LENGTHY RELATIONSHIP.
EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS 50-50.

GREEN LIGHT IS MEANT FOR THE SEWAGE. undecided
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 9:30am On Jun 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Oya let's shake our bum bum for the broke guys on this forum cheesy
lmao,babez.


cheesycheesy
You really funny this morning,I swear down.
can't stop laughing jareh.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by luminouz(m): 9:31am On Jun 14, 2018
famosh:


"Your looks do not freak you!" Funny bro! Almost every Nigerian guy is actually this deluded! They think they're the 8th wonder of the world! Are you Brian Okwara or Usher ni?
In my case,I'm very far from being deluded!!!!
I'm always real and raw..no bullshiiit with me!
I know just how I look and I look good!! But I admire my intellect better....
What's my business with Brian n usher undecided
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by webizone(m): 9:33am On Jun 14, 2018
kimbraa:
Ladies, woo a guy at your peril. The disadvantages outweighs the advantages. Don't be fooled with 'I would cherish a lady that wooed me". It's all a lie. Men love chasing, not the other way round.

I don't like chasing. I might ask you out, but I will not chase you. I will be too embarrassed to do that. It's called self respect. Besides, I don't mind being asked out. If I didn't like to date you, I would say so.... and not in front of my friends.
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by luminouz(m): 9:33am On Jun 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
See them
Stop bothering me na!!! undecided
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by kense88: 9:34am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:

grin

I tell you,they will so belittle your presence and still go for the ones that actually like.
and when being reminded of their acts,they will ring it to your hearing that you actually did the chasing ,and not the other way round.cheesy
Abeg pack well, na liver dey cut you. During my first year, a lady actually wooed me. Even with all her stammering and lack of confidence, as young as i was, i knew she was just expressing her feeling as a human been. We started dating and after sometime, she got used to me and all the shyness varnished.

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:35am On Jun 14, 2018
Preshy561:
lmao,babez.

cheesycheesy You really funny this morning,I swear down. can't stop laughing jareh.
Broke guys right now cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Thegeneralqueen(f): 9:35am On Jun 14, 2018
luminouz:
Stop bothering me na!!! undecided
Who bother you angry
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by guccitype(m): 9:36am On Jun 14, 2018
Why using Nigerian men alone when you can say guys. Nonsense
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by luminouz(m): 9:36am On Jun 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Who bother you angry
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Fraiser(m): 9:39am On Jun 14, 2018
Lalas247:
especially the ones without beard.... not worth the risk grin
funny!

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Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by luminouz(m): 9:41am On Jun 14, 2018
Nike99:

You're totally on point.
smiley
Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by Preshy561(f): 9:41am On Jun 14, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
Broke guys right now cheesy cheesy
cheesycheesy

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