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Oboy na Sharia wedding sure pass .

what about Churches that insist on court marriage?

Hey you Mr. Somebori >: ....its registry or forget about matrimony.... Even the national anthem says our labour shall not be in vain

jaksmillioniar:
why cheat In d first place

That is million dollar question that has many layers to it.

Love ur wife

bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?

Where do u want her to start from?

Don't you have work? Don't you know the road to your Father's house?



Please I'm not feeling fine, don't insult me

Really. What proof of marriage can one then provide in case of travel and all?

Please, stop gossiping!
Like only women are marital-userpers?
All the yahoo-olosho-gigolos all over Naija nko?
It goes both ways.


Get your facts right.
Only LAZZZZZZZY, illiterate, village men or women look for property/wealth NOT EARNED in or out of marriage.

Who goes into a marriage with an option of divorce on their mind? Ever heard of the words “For Better or Worse”?

These NL children wee not kee me. If you don’t have the balls to go the whole 9 yards, go to Shoprite and buy a carton of Vaseline.

We’ve not gotten over our loss to Croatia and one broke nigguh is shouting “avoid court registry if you want to keep ya property”. Mtcheeew.

P.S: pls remember....

Elder001:
I guess this is why men are scared to file for divorce or reluctant to file for divorce because from the way it seems now the law assumes you've wasted the woman's life.

Like only women can file for divorce because if you do you'll lose much.. smh


I won't advice any man(not even my enemy) to do registry marriage .
If a lady insists on registry marriage please she can't be trusted, kindly cancel the wedding.

Are there no prenuptial agreements in Nigeria? I see the church wedding as a waste of time and will only do registry and traditional marriages.

L

bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?

Where do u want her to start from?

Is that one a wife or a maid?

All the more reasons to do a registry marriage.

Court Marriage any day,any time.

MhisTahrah:
L Is that one a wife or a maid?

There couldn't have been a better answer.

Let's put it this way, you hire a 'maid' (your word not mine) who take in 80% of your income (because women make 80% of consumer product decision I.e she has 80% of your income to expend with) and after she quit do you still have to pay her?

Most especially those from BENIN....guys be carefullllllllllll....

Insightful points here sir.
However i have the following questions with respect to marriages done in court registry:
1.What if landed properties acquired by the man during the marriage was bought in his father's name after he has realized that divorce might be inevitable in the long run(e.g he bought the properties in 2014 when the marriage was beginning to shake, so he decided to by it in his father's name... and filed for divorce in 2020) can this also be contested?
2. He bought landed property during the marriage in his name , and later transferred? ownership to his father 5 years before he filed for divorce

bebe2:
BUT why are u pple so evil?

Why do u always think like zombies?

So u marry a woman for twenty years, she has kids for u, looked after them while u work, cooks for u , cleans for u, wash ur clothes, U have two houses , in the case of divorce u can not give her one? Are u ok?

Where do u want her to start from?

First of all, what sort of wife are you?

Don't you have a job that you'll now look after kids, cook, clean and wash clothes?
are there no nannies and househhelps?
Which men still allow their wives to be full time housewives these days?

MhisTahrah:
L Is that one a wife or a maid?

So it's wrong for the wife to manage the home huh?

smh for this indomie generation

MotorGuru:
Insightful points here sir.
However i have the following questions with respect to marriages done in court registry:
1.What if landed properties acquired by the man during the marriage was bought in his father's name after he has realized that divorce might be inevitable in the long run(e.g he bought the properties in 2014 when the marriage was beginning to shake, so he decided to by it in his father's name... and filed for divorce in 2020) can this also be contested?
2. He bought landed property during the marriage in his name , and later transferred? ownership to his father 5 years before he filed for divorce

keep deceiving yourself.. you better don't attempt registry

HARDDON:


So it's wrong for the wife to manage the home huh?

Then be ready to share your properties with her.. it's that simple

Jethrolite:
Are there no prenuptial agreements in Nigeria? I see the church wedding as a waste of time and will only do registry and traditional marriages.

Nigerian law doesn't recognize prenupital agreements.

HARDDON:




So it's wrong for the wife to manage the home huh?

smh for this indomie generation

Indomie generation or not, the world is not how it used to be.Women should wise up.

OMEGA009:
Who goes into a marriage with an option of divorce on their mind? Ever heard of the words “For Better or Worse”?

These NL children wee not kee me. If you don’t have the balls to go the whole 9 yards, go to Shoprite and buy a carton of Vaseline.

We’ve not gotten over our loss to Croatia and one broke nigguh is shouting “avoid court registry if you want to keep ya property”. Mtcheeew.

P.S: pls remember....

It seems anytime a male post anything that isn't favourable to the female folks most ladies on this forum assume the male is broke.

Do you know me from anywhere?
I'm forced to ask how old are you?

You speak like a teenager.

Elder001:
Then be ready to share your properties with her.. it's that simple

That reply wasnt for you. I hadnt even reasoned your malodorous post yet.

Are you alright ? Elder001 reeling like a child who just had his first taste of chili pepper?

What is property? and how much do you even have? Convert it to pounds, worth anything?


Your mindset is TOTALLY flawed.

here is a little SENSE PILL:

Wealth is not tied to some mundane, soon-to-fade-off-radar properties, real wealth is a fully developed mind beaming with creative ideas.

So stop yapping dust and renew your mind

Any reasonable woman should insist on a court wedding with this mindset our young men are displaying.Only to cheat cheat cheat in whatever way possible.Eyin girls don't dull yourselves o

HARDDON:
That reply wasnt for you. I hadnt even reasoned your malodorous post yet.

Are you alright ? Elder001 reeling like a child who just had his first taste of chili pepper?

What is property? and how much do you really have?


Your mindset is TOTALLY flawed.

here is a little SENSE PILL:

Wealth is not tied to some mundane, soon-to-fade-of-radar properties, real wealth is a fully developed mind beaming with creative ideas.

So stop yapping dust and renew your mind

Lol.. and which woman will do those things for you in this century?

OK.

amethystnnty1:
There couldn't have been a better answer.

Let's put it this way, you hire a 'maid' (your word not mine) who take in 80% of your income (because women make 80% of consumer product decision I.e she has 80% of your income to expend with) and after she quit you still have to pay her off.

Pay her the normal salary before she quits.. or do you mean another thing?

NoBorders:
Any reasonable woman should insist on a court wedding with this mindset our young men are displaying.Only to cheat cheat cheat in whatever way possible.Eyin girls don't dull yourselves o

Marry a lady that has her own properties so she won't say you wasted her life.
You've your own properties ,I've mine.

we're both rich so there's no need requesting for any property.

If you can't do that I'll advice you not to attempt registry marriage.

MhisTahrah:
Indomie generation or not, the world is not how it used to be.Women should wise up.

Oh yea?

The only wisdom women would wear is that of remaining single all their lives.

You cant bring a feminist mentality and baggage, no matter how evolved you think the world has, into a man's home . So long as a HE, still with the evolution of the world, pays some huge sums as YOUR BRIDE PRICE, you cant run your show the way you deep fit.

If not, be ready to stay in your father's hut!

Elder001:
Pay her the normal salary before she quits.. or do you mean another thing?

I meant pay her with half your assets

But that's the only recognized marriage in Nigeria apart from the sharia.


So you're saying non Muslim Nigerians should not get married properly.

MhisTahrah:
L Is that one a wife or a maid?

A wife doesn't do those things he listed?