PreciousBro:

LoL
Because you haven't been eating it.

MissJoy, answer my question. Are you fine? Don't be prudish in answering me. I them very independent without scruples.

MissJoy29:

Did you ask me any question before?
Yes I am fine, thank you. You?

PreciousBro:

Lol

Playing with my mind okwa ya.

I'm asking if you're a beauty ?

MissJoy29:

Hmmmm...what do you think?

dingbang:
what's the meaning if ashawo? Is it not a woman who collects money for sex? Its her job so its not something she hides from and she shouldn't be offended when called such.

Truthsbitter:
But why is it so hard for an ashawo to accept that she is an ashawo?
most guys that pay for sex don't hide it, in fact they feel on top of the world if they can useless pussies because they are in possession of good cash.

not all men patronize ashawos ...
not all girls are ashawos...


if you are a female in support of the lady, you are most probably an ashawo..

if you're not okay with the name ashawo then you're certainly not proud of your job and if you are not proud of your job it means you don't like it or there's something wrong with it that is affecting you one way or the other and if your job is not good for you, look for another job and stop fighting your customers(males).

modified.
one MarieSucre is advocating for a different title ...let's use a more official or legal title "prostitute", so please do me the favour of replacing ashawo with "prostitute".
in the end, you will find that the problem isn't with the title but the job..any title given to it will end up sounding like an insult.
thanks...

JONNYSPUTE:
.. She can as well tag those men with a befitting name and stop blaming others for her irresponsible way of life

sexdoll:


to be frank with you, you sound so dumb and childish.

are you trying to say that as a man, you have no say when women come for you?

so if a woman tells you to pay 300 billion Maura building and she will sleep you, you're telling me you will pay, and even do money ritual instantly?

damn!!!

just accept give me your money, Illypull off and lay on my back, and let's get this thing over with... like a _man is supposed to, okay...?

don't come and be justifying your _fornication/adultery/philandering tendencies.

a _philandering womanizer will always be a _a philandering womanizer.

and like dr. dre said, you can never make a _philanderer ' a husband.

MrBrownJay1:


very nice point, but sadly you forgot the main point here..... and that IS: if there was NO men out there, who would these women collect money to have sex (if not their own bf)? again, you certainly cant blame just one party when talking about prostitution NOR cheating. as i could well say that if men were not gladly sleeping with around, then there would be NO cheating in this world (but we all know that there are 2 culprits here)

the reality is that, many men pay for sex because they are have low morals and men of this generation have lost it and opening their zips is (to them) a quick way to get sexual satisfaction....whether there are women willing to sleep with them (or not)



fair enough...

MarieSucre:


Fellow men enable men to adultery or fornicate etc without remorse or consequence. In fact there is a whole thread on nairaland devoted to finding ways for men to have sex with prostitute.s but just imagine if a woman opened such a thread whether it be to find male prostitutes or be a prostitute looking for customers tell me you guys will not be the first to stone her in public all the while sliding into her dm. How then can someone be happy or proud with such double standards.

MarieSucre:


She won't be offended if it is not meant not be taken as offensive. So help me ask the guys are they being offensive or complimenting when they call a girl ashewo?

youcanmakeit:

Lol..Who told you some guys are not fucking ladies for free. Bro, that shows how inexperienced you are with women
Changed your mentality and mindset.
When a woman especially an experience slay queen notice you are the kind of guy who feel he has to spend lot of money on a lady in order to sleep with her, she'll quickly play along with that and make sure you spend the cash on her...
..I don't spend money on women in order to Bleep them, never. Instead I spend my money on myself and look more attractive as a man. I invest my money. I used my money to get more money.

I sweat to make my money so I spend it wisely..
Be wise bro.

dingbang:
its not a compliment neither is it offensive. Its a fvcking noun.. A name for a job which she is doing ... I am a marketer in a bank and when people ask me what I do, I fvckijg tell them I am a marketer and it doesn't reduce my worth. As long as I get paid handsomely for what I do, why would I be ashamed why someone calls me a marketer


Go to the road parks you see touts collecting money from drivers, if you must know, tout work is now a lucrative job and you even see young fine guys doing it..they don't even send you sef... So I don't know why when it comes to females, everything about them they just need sympathy and want us to feel emotional. Its nonsense. If you be ashawo, take pride in what you do. Nobody holy pass in this life.

engrelvis:
i dnt think u were even born when I started chasing girls.

MarieSucre:


Hunku nouns do not exist in vacuum. Yoirebequating it's purpose as a part to speech to its context, blurring the kind between Syntaxs and Semantics. That's not how language works. You know it, I know it so I don't buy this ignorance you're trying to display here.

In between a marketer and a prostitute, is a wide valley calls societal perception which is derived from the contextual interpretation of their work. Why don't you go and call you Branch Manager or Head of Operations or Cash officer an "agbero", after all it's just a noun and come and gist us what happened here.

The fact that you're here arguing with me instead of others guys also in this same thread who are busy insulting the woman for being an olosho or promoting it shows that you already know the truth but want to act coy. I challenge you to go and criticize and educate one of your fellow guys on this thread to stop insulting her. I bet my money that you won't, you guys always side step criticizing each other and come for the lowest denominator.

dingbang:
https://www.nairaland.com/4571205/it-safe-marry-lady-slept#68635591

MarieSucre:


Funny thing, i realised I liked your comment without even knowing it we you. It's all good. Have a lovely day.

youcanmakeit:


Right there is what separates You and I. I don't chase girls. I'm just focus on my goals and career. The girls naturally comes to me.
You spend huge on a lady, so you can fvck her ?? More lubricant to your elbow.. Most times, I pity guys like you who feel the need to spend cash in order to Bleep a girl...

Keep chasing girls and spending your hard earned cash on them, the sky is your limit bro

engrelvis:
of all d lot I wrote is d above words u pick out .I ask u a simple question.instead of u answering it u r beating around d bush.so u don't buy yr so called girls drinks when dey come visiting . nobody is talking about huge spending here.

PreciousBro:

I think with the kind of mind you got. You'd definitely fit my description of a beautiful lady. I like your coolness, patience and serene nature.

You're quite logical too and receptive to humour. You aren't quick with insults. I must confess it melted me and endeared me to you more. I wanna know you. Those are quite contents of my brand of an intelligent woman.

So when I asked how beautiful you are,it was a ploy. A ploy I thought you'd fail,yet you tried to know what my thoughts are still. Isn't that clever ?

MissJoy29:


Thanks. You are quite observant. I like people who are attentive to details. Especially on faceless forums

I like the way you use words. You must be smart, intelligent & or brilliant.

Am I right?

PreciousBro:

I think you're observant too. Although I am not a trumpet blower but if I were to score your assertion on being right or not on a scale of 1-10,then I'd gladly hold you hands so we could dance to Naeto's classical 10/10 hit..

MissJoy29:



If that isn't trumpet blowing, I wonder what is.
Thanks for the compliment though.
But you still didn't answer my question.

PreciousBro:
I'm curious though. Hungry to know more about your physical self. Is she Dark or Light skinned. Does she reside in Aba in Abia state or it's just her state of origin. .

What attracts her in a man aside the obvious she already opined.

MissJoy29:

PreciousBro:


I'll even blow whistle. All for you.

PreciousBro:

Lol answer na. I like both dark and light skin o

MissJoy29:

Awwww....are you not the cutest?

PreciousBro:
You'll be my official first follow on nairaland. I wanna stuck you like a hawk. Watching you close by.

Let's play the guess game.

MissJoy29:

In that case, I'm caramel coloured: a mixture of both.