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PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Tallino25(m): 8:36am On Jul 01, 2018
She is my coursemate we knew ourselves for sometime but i started getting close to her around last semester. We got to close that we started discussing our secrets about her dating life and how guys treated her all this while also it got to an extent where i do little errands for her i really love this girl but a certain time i decided to open my heart to her i told her what i felt openly face to face she paused a while thought a little and she then said that she knows i truly love her and care for her that i have every quality to be her man but she dosent want to date and she just wants to be close friend with me someone she could confide in and talk to freely someone that if she is in need i will help and if am in need she will also help also saying she hasn't such a close friend like me she wants us as besties that she dosent really want heart break i tried talking sense into her but still insisted and advised me to change topic. pls with all this should i still continue with her i spend on her when she is in desperate need of something not all the time and not that much
pls help me with your ideas

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by dingbang(m): 8:43am On Jul 01, 2018
cheesy they have friend zoned this one...bros sorry.. You should have banged her before professing your love..

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Kastonkastroll(m): 8:56am On Jul 01, 2018
"someone that if she is in need I will help"

The girl � is smart. Op abeg sell Una family � house and give the money � to the girl . grin

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Babyforever(f): 8:59am On Jul 01, 2018
dingbang:
cheesy they have friend zoned this one...bros sorry.. You should have banged her before professing your love..
I talk am

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by austyn0(m): 9:02am On Jul 01, 2018
You shouldn't have allowed yourself fall in love with her..Na the spending be problem?? Stop spending on her...But don't see it as a reason to byforce her into loving you more than a friend.

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by dingbang(m): 9:08am On Jul 01, 2018
Babyforever:
I talk am
angry common gerrout..
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Babyforever(f): 9:09am On Jul 01, 2018
dingbang:
angry common gerrout..
Shut up

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Nobody: 9:11am On Jul 01, 2018
While I’m here looking for ladies to take as bestie. We end up banging
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by youngberry001(m): 9:14am On Jul 01, 2018
I dnt lay down for nigeria girls ooh any wey get nah fvccck no shiiit smiley


befor den disgrace me i dey go first cuz i no want any regreat!!

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Nobody: 9:29am On Jul 01, 2018
She said she can help with your needs. You can make use of your friend zone corner very well if you're smart.

Always communicate your needs to her, not by mouth but by actions and hope for the best not slap. grin
Goodluck bro.

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Sheuns(m): 9:36am On Jul 01, 2018
You'll do well as best friends. Just let her have issues bothering her, she'll come over, cry on your shoulders and you make her ride your d**k. It's a win for you bro, no emotions attached. Make good use of your friend zone.
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Akinbahm(m): 9:39am On Jul 01, 2018
Tallino25:
She is my coursemate we knew ourselves for sometime but i started getting close to her around last semester. We got to close that we started discussing our secrets about her dating life and how guys treated her all this while also it got to an extent where i do little errands for her i really love this girl but a certain time i decided to open my heart to her i told her what i felt openly face to face she paused a while thought a little and she then said that she knows i truly love her and care for her that i have every quality to be her man but she dosent want to date and she just wants to be close friend with me someone she could confide in and talk to freely someone that if she is in need i will help and if am in need she will also help also saying she hasn't such a close friend like me she wants us as besties that she dosent really want heart break i tried talking sense into her but still insisted and advised me to change topic. pls with all this should i still continue with her i spend on her when she is in desperate need of something not all the time and not that much
pls help me with your ideas
Bro, you shouldnt av profess ur love to her u ought to av allow things to flow naturally no dey ask girls for dating relationship (am not talking abt marriage proposal) that awkward moment u ask her 4 relationship u gave her the power to manipulate ur feelings/emotion. Girls love it when u sneak into relationship not when u seek for it u shud av assume the boyfriend role without professing ur love towards her....
My advice goes thus; Never disturb her again about her dating u maintain the role of bestie nd things gonna flow naturally she's trying to play d victim card cause she doesnt want u to toy with her heart nd for u to be free from heartbroken also. Hence start treating her as ur girlfriend don't go extra mile trying to please her and do give her d attitude of her missing u(try to distant urslf from her do it manly) u r to do this to make her do the chasing not u chasing her cause ladies tends to value more things they chase to what chase them thats why they av alot of friendzoned guys in their custody bcuz those guys do d chasing most...

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by virginboy90(m): 9:44am On Jul 01, 2018
Akinbahm:

Bro, you shouldnt av profess ur love to her u ought to av allow things to flow naturally no dey ask girls for dating relationship (am not talking abt marriage proposal) that awkward moment u ask her 4 relationship u gave her the power to manipulate ur feelings/emotion. Girls love it when u sneak into relationship not when u seek for it u shud av assume the boyfriend role without professing ur love towards....
My advice goes thus; Never disturb her again about her dating u maintain the role of bestie nd things gonna flow naturally she's trying to play d victim card cause she doesnt want u to toy with her heart nd for u to be free from heartbroken also. Hence start treating her as ur girlfriend don't go extra mile trying to please her and do give her d attitude of her missing u(try to distant urslf from do it manly) u r to do this to make her do the chasing not u chasing her cause ladies tends to value more things they chase to what chase them thats why they av alot of friendzoned guys in their custody bcuz those guys do d chasing most...
Very smart suggestion
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Minaak47(m): 9:51am On Jul 01, 2018
bro you shouldn't have told her you love her, now you have giving her the advantage to toy with your feelings... just let things play out ok... dont over do the spending and try caring less.. bro trust me, just try it, care less for lets say 2 weeks... limit the calls, act like your busy... but give space a little... trust me, she would feel shes loosing you and try to get closer, you opening up your feelings to her is now making her feel like deputy jesus...
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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Nobody: 9:52am On Jul 01, 2018
Welcome to friend zone.
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Tallino25(m): 10:48am On Jul 01, 2018
Minaak47:
bro you shouldn't have told her you love her, now you have giving her the advantage to toy with your feelings... just let things play out ok... dont over do the spending and try caring less.. bro trust me, just try it, care less for lets say 2 weeks... limit the calls, act like your busy... but give space a little... trust me, she would feel shes loosing you and try to get closer, you opening up your feelings to her is now making her feel like deputy jesus...
anyway before i forget, if anyone needs a realistic toon, simply call the number in the pics below or chat uo on Whatsapp... 50% discount for nairalanders only... delivery is within 24hrs
thanks bro
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Erums(m): 10:50am On Jul 01, 2018
I really do need a bestie... Female only.... Got secrets to tell you
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by ojotobiloba1: 10:55am On Jul 01, 2018
dingbang:
cheesy they have friend zoned this one...bros sorry.. You should have banged her before professing your love..
Some ladies get first class for friend zoning boss.. Na so one lover of mine told me no physical contact at all at all till wedding.. Just ordinary hug,.. Who does dat in ds mordern era
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by CAPSLOCKED: 10:57am On Jul 01, 2018
dingbang:
cheesy they have friend zoned this one...bros sorry.. You should have banged her before professing your love..


TBH IT WORKS THIS WAY ALMOST EVERYTIME.
THERE MUST BE SOMETHING MAGICAL ABOUT PE#ISES grin

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Tallino25(m): 11:03am On Jul 01, 2018
Akinbahm:

Bro, you shouldnt av profess ur love to her u ought to av allow things to flow naturally no dey ask girls for dating relationship (am not talking abt marriage proposal) that awkward moment u ask her 4 relationship u gave her the power to manipulate ur feelings/emotion. Girls love it when u sneak into relationship not when u seek for it u shud av assume the boyfriend role without professing ur love towards her....
My advice goes thus; Never disturb her again about her dating u maintain the role of bestie nd things gonna flow naturally she's trying to play d victim card cause she doesnt want u to toy with her heart nd for u to be free from heartbroken also. Hence start treating her as ur girlfriend don't go extra mile trying to please her and do give her d attitude of her missing u(try to distant urslf from her do it manly) u r to do this to make her do the chasing not u chasing her cause ladies tends to value more things they chase to what chase them thats why they av alot of friendzoned guys in their custody bcuz those guys do d chasing most...
@akinbam we are course mates like i said earlier how do you think i should react or behave when i see her in class in trying to distance myself from her
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Fesomu(m): 11:06am On Jul 01, 2018
Maybe you better as an errand boy

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by dingbang(m): 11:16am On Jul 01, 2018
ojotobiloba1:

Some ladies get first class for friend zoning boss.. Na so one lover of mine told me no physical contact at all at all till wedding.. Just ordinary hug,.. Who does dat in ds mordern era
there and then I will dump her boring ass... Nonsense..I detest SU girls

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by SeunDobo(m): 11:20am On Jul 01, 2018
That's best Idea for you dont let any girl manipulate you , distances yourself and let her chase you first secondly never disturbing her about dating again ..but you can be helping her with little you can avoid ok, You can still win her heart or Bleep her ok

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Marshalxv(m): 12:15pm On Jul 01, 2018
Akinbahm:

Bro, you shouldnt av profess ur love to her u ought to av allow things to flow naturally no dey ask girls for dating relationship (am not talking abt marriage proposal) that awkward moment u ask her 4 relationship u gave her the power to manipulate ur feelings/emotion. Girls love it when u sneak into relationship not when u seek for it u shud av assume the boyfriend role without professing ur love towards her....
My advice goes thus; Never disturb her again about her dating u maintain the role of bestie nd things gonna flow naturally she's trying to play d victim card cause she doesnt want u to toy with her heart nd for u to be free from heartbroken also. Hence start treating her as ur girlfriend don't go extra mile trying to please her and do give her d attitude of her missing u(try to distant urslf from her do it manly) u r to do this to make her do the chasing not u chasing her cause ladies tends to value more things they chase to what chase them thats why they av alot of friendzoned guys in their custody bcuz those guys do d chasing most...

You've said it all bro. This approach has worked for me many times than I can remember

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Tallino25(m): 12:22pm On Jul 01, 2018
SeunDobo:
That's best Idea for you dont let any girl manipulate you , distances yourself and let her chase you first secondly never disturbing her about dating again ..but you can be helping her with little you can avoid ok, You can still win her heart or Bleep her ok
thank you guy!!
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by iLegendd(m): 12:35pm On Jul 01, 2018
Tallino25:
She is my coursemate we knew ourselves for sometime but i started getting close to her around last semester. We got to close that we started discussing our secrets about her dating life and how guys treated her all this while also it got to an extent where i do little errands for her i really love this girl but a certain time i decided to open my heart to her i told her what i felt openly face to face she paused a while thought a little and she then said that she knows i truly love her and care for her that i have every quality to be her man but she dosent want to date and she just wants to be close friend with me someone she could confide in and talk to freely someone that if she is in need i will help and if am in need she will also help also saying she hasn't such a close friend like me she wants us as besties that she dosent really want heart break i tried talking sense into her but still insisted and advised me to change topic. pls with all this should i still continue with her i spend on her when she is in desperate need of something not all the time and not that much
pls help me with your ideas


If you want people to read your post, arrange it like this:

Tallino25:
She is my coursemate we knew ourselves for sometime but i started getting close to her around last semester.

We got to close that we started discussing our secrets about her dating life and how guys treated her all this while also it got to an extent where i do little errands for her i really love this girl.

But a certain time i decided to open my heart to her i told her what i felt openly face to face she paused a while thought a little and she then said that she knows i truly love her and care for her that i have every quality to be her man but she dosent want to date and she just wants to be close friend with me.

Someone she could confide in and talk to freely someone that if she is in need i will help and if am in need she will also help also saying she hasn't such a close friend like me she wants us as besties that she dosent really want heart break.

i tried talking sense into her but still insisted and advised me to change topic. pls with all this should i still continue with her i spend on her when she is in desperate need of something not all the time and not that much

pls help me with your ideas


Anyway, read our book called Mr. Friend Zone. In fact, I'm not begging you to read this book, I'm forcing you. Why am I forcing you? You'll regret not reading it early enough.

Have a nice day.

Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Abbey2sam(m): 12:36pm On Jul 01, 2018
Tallino25:
She is my coursemate we knew ourselves for sometime but i started getting close to her around last semester. We got to close that we started discussing our secrets about her dating life and how guys treated her all this while also it got to an extent where i do little errands for her i really love this girl but a certain time i decided to open my heart to her i told her what i felt openly face to face she paused a while thought a little and she then said that she knows i truly love her and care for her that i have every quality to be her man but she dosent want to date and she just wants to be close friend with me someone she could confide in and talk to freely someone that if she is in need i will help and if am in need she will also help also saying she hasn't such a close friend like me she wants us as besties that she dosent really want heart break i tried talking sense into her but still insisted and advised me to change topic. pls with all this should i still continue with her i spend on her when she is in desperate need of something not all the time and not that much
pls help me with your ideas


Your village people have finally succeeded

They have friendzoned you
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by kingxsamz(m): 12:41pm On Jul 01, 2018
Lol , u still have a chance. jst go with the flow and don't disturb her abt relationship again. It'll start from a kiss. wink
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by WEEDSDOM: 12:48pm On Jul 01, 2018
This is the truth, and it will set you free.

Next time always note that women test men. to know if you meet their standards, you said you do run errands for her yuck dude, someone you older than? and you still spend on her? nice wussy traits.
she will never date you, she won't even let you fvck her trust me. you are WEAK.
she's manipulative but you too nice to see. ABC ...always be closing.
Nobody will tell you this...CONFIDENCE is the best form of seduction.
start by saying no to those little things like soft errands, strong errands, wants and needs..I can't say everything here but I can tell you how to seduce her.

wisdom is free. but you have to be willing to learn

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Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by hustler86(m): 1:09pm On Jul 01, 2018
Tallino25:
She is my coursemate we knew ourselves for sometime but i started getting close to her around last semester. We got to close that we started discussing our secrets about her dating life and how guys treated her all this while also it got to an extent where i do little errands for her i really love this girl but a certain time i decided to open my heart to her i told her what i felt openly face to face she paused a while thought a little and she then said that she knows i truly love her and care for her that i have every quality to be her man but she dosent want to date and she just wants to be close friend with me someone she could confide in and talk to freely someone that if she is in need i will help and if am in need she will also help also saying she hasn't such a close friend like me she wants us as besties that she dosent really want heart break i tried talking sense into her but still insisted and advised me to change topic. pls with all this should i still continue with her i spend on her when she is in desperate need of something not all the time and not that much
pls help me with your ideas


Welcome to the fold of friend zone grin
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by Akinbahm(m): 1:14pm On Jul 01, 2018
Tallino25:
@akinbahm we are course mates like i said earlier how do you think i should react or behave when i see her in class in trying to distance myself from her
Every mistake is a lesson neva try 2 risk dating a girl 4rm ur dpt cause it gonna affect u gaming another chic except u r a GMC, try to game another chic a gurl that's hotter than her not some1 who gonna drain u emotionally financially(a average gurl she cud feel inferior 2) from another department/faculty entirely and try to divert ur attention 2 another gurl in ur dept with time the feelings u've 4 d other gurl gonna start to wane down nd dont 4gt to keep the friendzone role(u av 2 maintain this role 2 av access 2 her 4 future purpose).
Lemme chip in this b4 i forget all the work nd d spending u called small aint small to me, u gat to stop doing them and learn to say no to girls (i didnt say d gurl alone "girls"wink. You can call her one day to sign attendance for u in a sarcastic way just to make her do some work for you...
Re: PLS Help!!should I Continue With This Girl by kinibigdil: 1:50pm On Jul 01, 2018
I can imagine how op, feels right now, very disappointed, all you guys suggestion are true but difficult to do now, because he will see her everyday in class distancing self will only make matters worse, we were all in that stage in life when we really feel love and wants to be loved, op just forget she said all she said and continue with her, but be wise

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