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Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 1:05am On Jul 05, 2018 |
You are very normal my guy , over population is one of Nigeria's biggest problem , now everybody cites China as an example when talking about how to manage over population but the same people are lazy and corrupt and as such can't stand to go through the he'll China went through, in fact you are more sane than most people posting prewedding and engagement pictures here . One time I was in a bar and one guy was boasting about how many kids he has and that one of them must be rich , he even went ahead to break a glass cup to show how he will act when one of his sons become rich, that's when we realized someone else was paying for his beer. I was just angry that his children are as much a liability to Nigeria as him. You can keep your name in history without children. Just invent a product and put your name on it, 50% of the time your name would be on peoples lips till eternity, as opposed to all this aleye collecting money at every bus stop, they should have been washed away as sperm that would have saved us all the" owoda" we hear at the bus stop everyday. Moreover think about going into dog breeding , most people are realizing that most people who roam the streets were not supposed to be born, so they buy dogs to keep them in check. 9 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 1:05am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Awesome move. I support your idea. If at any time in the future you need a child, baby mama's dont cost much. I think I love that idea. Ride on, friend. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 1:13am On Jul 05, 2018 |
business4all:Even at that, Marriage is not an assurance that your children will take care of you at old age, some people children were married to bad wives who will make their kids neglect them. And again marriage is not an assurance that your wife will see you till your old age. My advice for OP is to live his life as he wants, don't make any decision that u don't like because it will be you, you and you at the end of the day, another thing is if u are going that part, I'll advise u relocate to a sane country like USA where no one cares or sees marriage as an achievement. There you will live your solitary life in peace with no critics from the Society. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Temian1: 1:13am On Jul 05, 2018 |
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Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by iRepNaija1: 1:20am On Jul 05, 2018 |
aaronson: You should give credit where credit is due. You clearly lifted this sentence from that cartoon show Rick and Morty. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by xtervaganza(m): 1:20am On Jul 05, 2018 |
B4 I got married I had the same feeling After I got married I still have the same feeling. My own reason is that I love being left alone. Especially weekends. I don't like parties and you know you lose all these freedom once you get married. Being Human is sincerely exhausting 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 1:22am On Jul 05, 2018 |
AdaAde:You are not alone, funny how those who look forward to it fail in it. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 1:23am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Biglittlelois: many people were told that line. 'everyone has a destined partner' yet those marriage we keep hearing of divorces every day. 8 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Macon1212: 1:31am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Is good that you wanted to replace dogs with children. When dogs need children you will give them out for marriage instead of your children and when you die they would represent your kids to bury you. Good luck! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by DeepSight(m): 1:35am On Jul 05, 2018 |
mhd5757: There is nothing whatsoever wrong with you. Marriage is not for everybody. Having kids is also often thoughtless and selfish. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Mariangeles(f): 1:47am On Jul 05, 2018 |
mhd5757:Why invest in dogs when you can invest in a human being?? Dogs die and then what ?? You mourn them then get another one?? The circle continues until you're aged and emotionally worn out...you're not always going to be the way you are now There's someone out there for you, your soulmate that you can share your thoughts with, that'll understand you even before you say anything...you just only have to open up your heart to find her. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by karlboss: 2:04am On Jul 05, 2018 |
franchasng: Import babes now |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Ganjafama(m): 2:25am On Jul 05, 2018 |
caprini1:You've said all that the op needs to hear. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 2:35am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:Rev fathers' females nkọ? Where are they? |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Chrisjordan2015(m): 2:43am On Jul 05, 2018 |
tragergeorge: Exactly my thought. On days like this when i work into the midnight just to make ends meet, i think about the future once in a while. What you wrote here is what im still considering. |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 2:54am On Jul 05, 2018 |
You are very normal. Marriages are not what it used to be anymore 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 2:59am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Fitbillionairep:If he hasn't money and don't see it coming in, in droves, bringing in kids is bringing innocent children to face world hardship. What are you saying? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Baltazarcus(m): 3:08am On Jul 05, 2018 |
@op you are not alone. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 3:14am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Diso60090:Kutumar Ubanka!! |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by purpleicious(f): 3:16am On Jul 05, 2018 |
kneel down, let me pray for you! |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by DerrickEbili(m): 3:30am On Jul 05, 2018 |
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Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 3:34am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Philpham:Kai! Ka chi durun uwarka! |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Acidosis(m): 3:43am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Now I'm feeling for your dogs.. Believe it or not, you'd soon begin to sleep with your dogs. No one is born ga.y or lesbian, there are no born rapists either. Environments eventually dictate who we are, how we behave and what we perceive as normal. People embrace same sex relationship because of environmental factors. Ga.y men were not born to burst ars..es, they just refused to have enough affairs with the opposite sex. You don't desire marriage because you were probably not raised in a proper home; you don't have married folks as friends; I also feel you don't have nephews and nieces around you. Your actions and choices today are a reflection of your environment. A time will come when you'll start perceiving man-dog relationship as ideal. Same people telling you to go ahead, "no shaking", "it is your life" will end up insulting you for going against the "norm" and "society". Why do you think herdsmen love their cow more than fellow humans? They have absolutely the same brain content, the only difference is environmental factors. We all insult them and call them names for refusing to follow the norm. They've spent a larger part of their lives with their animals, they're always alone with animals, sometimes months in rainforest, yet we expect them to reason like us. Go and check the number of a.bo.kis in Lagos sleeping with ram, goats, cow, etc. These guys have the same brain contents. Environment makes the difference bro, environment eventually shapes a new normal. While it may be proper to go against that norm, the consequences aren't always pleasant especially when you're ill prepared to face them. There are no government sponsored homes for the aged in Nigeria, remember? The money you think you have can disappear in your mid-60s when your cv becomes very useless in the labour market. By the time you realize what it means to have a family, it might be too late to start one. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 3:43am On Jul 05, 2018 |
blackaxe78:Trust me, I am more fortunate than you. And I refuse to be miserable so therefore I'm doing just fine. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by kolawoleibukun2: 3:44am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Absolutely! You are completely normal and fine. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 3:59am On Jul 05, 2018 |
jaxxy:Hell no! So that she will be eating all my money ba? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Nobody: 4:05am On Jul 05, 2018 |
gr8tone:Ofcource I do but I'm not dependant on it like others, I can stay for long periods of time without having any intercourse. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Gboliwe: 4:06am On Jul 05, 2018 |
mhd5757: I While I share your nọ marriage no kids thought, i don't share your reasons. I don't want to get married myself. I love kids, I love them so much that even though I am single, my house is filled with them and the thought of the coming long vacation is kinda scary because more will come. I hope to adopt kids, say, one or two when I get to late 30s and concentrate on giving her or them the best I can afford. As for sex, I can always get that with no strings attached 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Remix10(m): 4:12am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Your main problem is plutophobia, fear of losing money, you feed your dogs? You take them to see the vet? You bath them, cmon replicate that with children that will bear your name when you die, no happiness is greater than having someone that's calls you daddy, instead of dogs that will bark your life away, mofo 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Acidosis(m): 4:20am On Jul 05, 2018 |
kennygee: Is it normal to love a cow more than a fellow human being? |
Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by Acidosis(m): 4:34am On Jul 05, 2018 |
greatman247: Yes, that's because over there, your neighbors can always take you to a home for the aged by the time you're down and inactive. Mind you, there is a 911 to call and a standby paramedics to check you in your home if anything goes wrong, e.g. a broken leg or arm. Who are you gonna call to get you drugs when you're down and unable to walk or drive? Your semen or the baby mama that's probably gyrating on another man's bed? There is something about living with someone for 20, 25 years. Unless you're a terrible person yourself, she'll always watch your back and have your interest at heart. 1 Like |
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